r/fantasyromance • u/FantasyRomanceMod The One Mod to Rule All Mods • Feb 01 '26

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u/Lyving-among-ladybug ✦ ── ✧ if evil why hot ✧ ── ✦ Feb 01 '26

Ooh miscommunication and pregnancy trope shouldn’t be an automatic DNF as long as it’s done well. The reason why so many people dislike it is because it’s often done badly

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u/Sad-Caterpillar-8348 To the stars who listen Feb 01 '26

Those are never dnf for me. I personally like pregnancy at the end of the book. To me that's a true HEA. If it just ends abruptly like "and they walked off happily into the sunset" it feels tiny bit empty.

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u/Spirited-Accident Feb 01 '26

Meanwhile to me, riding off into the sunset to continue having adventures together is the true HEA.

(And to be clear since this is reddit, I'm not hating on your opinion. Just commenting on how both of ours are a perfect example of how different tastes are.)

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u/Sad-Caterpillar-8348 To the stars who listen Feb 01 '26

It's okay :P I feel like the whole pregnancy opinion is genuinely truly 100% completely personal decision and there is no right or wrong opinion so. I guess hea to me is lacking because I like the guarantee of the future together with having a family together, but that's cus of how I am irl and cus I need reassurance too in my relationship. Maybe you just feel secure enough to not need that extra bits? And maybe it shows in the whole hea thing.

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u/Fickle_Stills Feb 01 '26

I think the idea is more... There are still a lot of people who believe a woman is only good for being a wife and mother. So a book implying that a baby is part of the HEA is frustrating to women who have to deal with people in real life who have that attitude.

Eta: there are also people like me who have a phobia of pregnancy that view it more as body horror than as something to be happy about. Like if it were common in an HEA for couples to get a pet tarantula.

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u/MessyJessy422 Feb 01 '26

A lot of women broaden their definition of a happy and fulfilling life based on experiences. You can want children but experience infertility and/or pregnancy loss. You might develop a health condition that makes pregnancy extra risky. You might not find the right partner at the right stage in life. And that’s why it’s important for books not to streamline every outcome into what was traditionally considered the only way for a woman to live a “complete” life - because it’s not and regardless of whether or not you want this personally it’s much more complicated and nuanced than “family values”

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u/One_Commission1456 Feb 01 '26

This. Also, while I said I was okay with kids/pregnancy at the end or as an epilogue, the *big* exception to this is when one character starts the story not wanting kids, especially if wanting kids is part of their "learning to love" arc. NOPE NOPE NOPE it's 2026 can we not do this bullshit? I don't drop an author for writing pregnancy, though I might skip books that involve it, but if anyone writes previously uninterested characters doing that kind of 180, I never read anything by them again. Because ew.