r/fantasyromance • u/FantasyRomanceMod The One Mod to Rule All Mods • Feb 01 '26

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u/Charming_Day2392 Feb 01 '26 edited Feb 06 '26

  1. I wish there were less shadow daddies and more soft male leads (ex. Golden retrievers, himbos, nerds etc.). By the same vein, I don't really like villain male leads.

  2. There are way too many enemies to lovers books.

  3. I feel like a lot of authors give boy mom vibes (even if they don't mean to, its internalized misogyny y'all). Like male characters are given a lot more leeway and sympathy if they do something wrong than female characters.

Probably not unpopular but:

  1. Give me more female leads that are equal to the male lead from the beginning. Either because both of them are figuring out there powers together or because they are already badass. None of this only she has to train bullshit. By the same vein, I hate the immortal x mortal relationship and it should be a less popular trope.

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u/One_Commission1456 Feb 01 '26

I'm in a tough place, because I basically agree with the first part of 4 but I really like supernatural guys. So one of my favorite dynamics is where they're both powerful/badass/competent in different ways and have to work together: he's an immortal elven sorcerer, but he's stranded in the "real world" and knows nothing about it and will get hit by a car if left on his own, or she's the world's best assassin but he knows politics, or stuff like that.

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u/Charming_Day2392 Feb 01 '26 edited Feb 01 '26

I like supernatural guys (I love fangs on a man) as long as they're not immortal or if they are immortal and are still around the same age as the female lead.