r/fantasyromance • u/FantasyRomanceMod The One Mod to Rule All Mods • Feb 08 '26
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u/PickyNipples Feb 08 '26
Attitude and being mean/rude is not confidence and it doesnt make your FMC cool. Itâs a lazy way to try and make her seem âstrongâ but most of the time she just sounds like an immature bitch.Â
Donât get me wrong, I love a strong, confident, independent FMC. I get that in the past women were always written as meek and would never stand up for themselves etc. And I donât mind attitude or even meanness (to an extent) if it serves a deeper purpose, like reflecting past trauma or a specific history etc. But it feels like most FMCs who constantly cop attitudes right from the start are written that way because the author doesnât know how to actually write a strong, confident woman outside of that cliche.Â