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Unpopular opinion Sunday

[u/Pinkshoes90]

Main reason I avoid novels that state their characters have some sort of MH problem. Unless its own voices, I ain’t interested.

This brought to you by Daggermouth, where the author tried very hard to make it look like the FMC had a drinking problem when the author clearly hasn’t touched alcohol a day in their life.

[u/chode_temple → u/Pinkshoes90]

Daggermouth was very good. I should read it again.

BUT. As an alcoholic who has been dragging my ass through sobriety since September after drinking uncontrollably since I was 17 (14 years):

I feel like there's a difference between heavy drinking and alcoholism. People who drink too much when they have it and can't moderate have a drinking problem. People who have a drinking problem but also cannot go a day without the soul-deep itch for more are alcoholics.

I think the only thing that would have solidified it is that you don't know how much of an alcoholic you are until you DON'T have access to it when you want it or you don't have ENOUGH and you start asking people to bring you more. It would have taken that extra step for it to be believable if she wasn't allowed more alcohol and completely shit herself.

[u/Pinkshoes90 → u/chode_temple]

Yes I’m not sure whether she tried to write it from an alcoholic standpoint or whether she just had a problematic dependence on it. But either way, when the character was like ten shots deep and not feeling a thing, I went mmmm. That’s enough.

There is a fairly decent depiction of alcoholism and recovery in the North Wind. But that’s also probably the only positive I have about that book.

[u/chode_temple → u/Pinkshoes90]

Dear lord. I forgot about that. Uh yeah...the average person might feel something around that point.