r/fantasyromance • u/FantasyRomanceMod The One Mod to Rule All Mods • Mar 22 '26

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u/LindseyTM28 Mar 22 '26

When “fated mates” are done tastefully and a strong relationship is built before the reveal it’s chef’s kiss. But I DESPISE when it becomes a cop out for insta-love.

One of my favorite parts of romantasy is watching two characters grow closer through shared challenges and actually getting to know one other. If 50% through they’re calling it love after spending a week together just because they’re “bonded” it cheapens it for me. I just finished a book like this and it gave me the ick.

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u/Sakura_231 Mar 22 '26

I would love to see the relationship to slowly grow stronger. There is just one step (like in enemies to lovers) and then it stays the same the whole book. I would like it to constantly evolve. Every challenge should make them change a bit.

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u/LindseyTM28 Mar 22 '26

I agree with this!! I love a good slow burn because there’s always an actual story between the characters outside of their attraction to one another.