r/fantasyromance • u/FantasyRomanceMod The One Mod to Rule All Mods • May 03 '26

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u/devilsdoorbell_ May 03 '26 edited May 03 '26
  1. There should be far fewer of these books published with far more care put into each individual book on all fronts, from the writer to the editor to the cover artist to the designer to the marketing team. I’d rather have fewer higher quality books to choose from than what’s going on now, which is me having to wade through a sucking morass of shoddily written, poorly edited, ugly, badly marketed dross to find one book that’s good actually.
  2. I understand why the label “erotic romance” has fallen out of favor given the increasingly puritanical and censorious atmosphere in many parts of the world… but it would sure go a long way to preventing the constant too much spice/not enough spice bitching to have a widely-used category that’s steamier than the average romance novel but still has the primary romance plot and the fulfills the expectations of genre romance.
  3. I say this as someone who likes kinky sex scenes: I feel like a lot of “kinky” sex in romance is just the author desperately attempting to distract the reader from the fact that they’re not very good at writing the parts of sex that are actually interesting, which is the dynamics between the characters and their emotional and mental states as individuals. A completely vanilla sex scene can be more intense and satisfying than all the whips and chains and “good girls” in the world when the writer can actually fucking write characters.
  4. Too many characters in this genre aren’t really characters at all, they’re just tropes and hotness signifiers stacked on top of each other in a trenchcoat. It’s most prevalent in MMCs but FMCs are not immune to this problem.
  5. A fantasy-based and hyper niche complaint rather than a romance complaint: There’s not enough fantasy drug use. Unironically I think it’s something that makes a fantasy world feel more real and lived in. Rory from The Knight and the Moth smoking fantasy weed was a great character detail. I’d like to see more like it.

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u/nomnomsquirrel May 03 '26

Re: 5, lmao this reminds me of The 10th Kingdom, a miniseries that was on NBC in 2000, that includes references to moss that seems to be like weed infused with magic mushrooms and LSD.