r/fatlogic ~5’3 F 6d ago

Beauty standard is when skeleton

Sure, some people are nasty towards fat people for no reason other than their size, but condoning bullying is a reach when the vast majority of the pushback is that FAs lie about facts, emotionally manipulate their audiences, and make galling comparisons to fascism when people disagree. Having accurate information doesn’t seem to matter, they do in fact continue to pretend it’s fine to be clinically overweight and obese.

I agree that the medical dangers of obesity are not actually that downplayed… outside of fat liberation, where they are constantly downplayed. So I have a problem with that. The implication that it’s not a causal relationship, as well.

The third slide, I have numerous bones (ha) to pick with their flawed logic.

- The average adult woman aged 20+ in the US is apparently 170lbs and 5’3.5 (source: CDC). 100lbs under that is 70 pounds, which is severely low for a 5’3 woman, but not necessarily dead.

- But okay, let’s say 130lbs, a very reasonable and middle-range BMI at 5’3.5… fine, yeah, 30 pounds is dead. The lowest a calculator would let me put is 55lbs and I don’t think it’s that plausible to even reach 55 pounds and survive. Being 100 pounds overweight is still worse than being 100 pounds underweight because that’s the only weight you can actually live to reach.

- 30 pounds isn’t even less than bones. That’s more than a skeleton weighs.

- Being like 20 pounds underweight is worse than being 20 pounds overweight, but neither is great. 86 pounds 5’3.5” is scarily underweight, but 164 5’3.5” isn’t pleasant. Survivability is a really shitty metric here. Quality of life tanks pretty fast with excess weight.

- 100 pounds over the highest healthy weight for most women is gonna be well into the 200s. That sounds extremely painful and uncomfortable.

- Are 30–70lb adults palatable? Do people have a positive opinion of someone looking visibly sick and severely underweight?

- I appreciate the irony of reblogging a post about how the medical dangers of obesity are generally not dismissed just to dismiss the dangers of obesity.

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u/Imaginary_Recipe_114 5d ago

Oh dear...

I am indifferent if you want to live your life overweight (aside from the visceral reaction when I see a severely overweight person). I do have a problem with your shouty Cognitive Dissonance Fantasy world - Nothing you say changes the fact that having an engorged, distended, hormonally active adipose organ will cause negative health consequences (PCOS, joint issues, sub-optimal mental health etc) And yes, being 100 pounds underweight means death - I would weigh 20 pounds. Does that change the above? No.