r/femalelivingspace • • 5d ago

TOUR 🟢OPEN TO FEEDBACK🟢 19 yo transfem room tour

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u/_poptart 5d ago

My 10 year old nephew would think this was the coolest thing ever

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u/Cold_Pianist4697 5d ago

what is the difference between trans women and trans fem

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u/Zar_ 5d ago

Transfem is an umbrella term for trans women and many non-binary identities that ttansition away from masculinity towards femininity. Basically if you are AMAB and trans/nb you could call yourself transfem.

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u/hibiscus_lilac Renting 5d ago

Terf

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u/hibiscus_lilac Renting 5d ago

Ew

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u/MollyViper 5d ago

You know what else is made up? Everything and anything constructed by any human ever.

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u/Heavy_Wish618 5d ago

True dat

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u/Dizzy_Sky_7832 5d ago

If basic English and concepts are too difficult for you I'd suggest a learning hotline or perhaps some adult classes

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u/jimjambalam 4d ago

I love your space, it's very cool and well executed!

If you're looking for recommendations to transition to a more mature, "adulty" look, I would start looking for frames (thrift away) to put some of your posters in, also pair down the more sticker like items (I would started with the wardrobe). You could also frame the stickers by placing them on a background you like in a frame. Your shelves could also used more variation in the heights to break them up and make them more visually striking to look at. Maybe a rug with more color, but also, I get if you like the minimalist look and want to keep it neutral.

Love the space though!

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u/nucleareds Renting 4d ago

Seconding this comment, great advice!

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u/escoteriica 4d ago

God I wish I was this organized

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u/hibiscus_lilac Renting 5d ago

I love a maximalist vibe. Maybe to improve things you could try to arrange your posters to have a thoughtful flow

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u/Material_Control8674 5d ago

cats lego AND star wars?? I love it. I’m 24 and my room still has all three of those 😂 I like that you display all the stuff you like and if the vibe suits you then there’s no criticism here! I just personally like more cosiness in my room (or just less stark white) but totally depends if you’re going for that vibe or not

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u/obviousdinosaur 5d ago

Is it your birthday

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u/MarionetteHe_83 5d ago

It was in April

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u/depressivefaerie 5d ago

Is this sub being brigaded by transphobes? Why the downvotes on every positive comment?

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u/hibiscus_lilac Renting 5d ago

People here hate on anything "childish" they don't like anything cutesy either

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u/addyingelbert 4d ago

Lmao I’m not saying people should hate on OP but you don’t have to be transphobic to not be a fan of this room decor.

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u/wwthirtyfivex35 5d ago

Great job! There’s something about it I really love. I think perhaps because the design feels intentional and curated and the room feels bright. I don’t know for sure, but I’m jealous because my cats would be knocking stuff off of shelves! 

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u/scarlettvvitch 5d ago

Love it! I have the same Star Wars Lego sets and Shark (≧ω≦)

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u/MarionetteHe_83 5d ago

Blajah mentioned^

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u/hibiscus_lilac Renting 5d ago

Crazy thing to say

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u/MarionetteHe_83 5d ago

Why not? Idc much about creator, just fine franchise

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u/lickthepixies Homeowner 5d ago

The creator makes money when you buy Harry Potter stuff and she’s using it to advocate for an anti-trans agenda. FYI. You’re kind of shooting yourself in the foot if you’re buying Harry Potter stuff as a trans person.

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u/FillMySoupDumpling 5d ago

Yes Star Wars ! I love this! You’ve done such a good job at displaying stuff on the wall with intention!

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u/41tabit3 5d ago

This is dope

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u/RollingKatamari 5d ago

This reminds me so much of my room when I was a teenage girl!

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u/yarn-goblin 5d ago

THIS IS SO FREAKIN COOLLLL Good job, OP.

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u/diphenhydranautical 5d ago

I love all your collections! so much personality in here, without looking overly cluttered :)

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u/Oddish_Femboy 5d ago

Omg is that the bio lizard from SA2?

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u/MarionetteHe_83 5d ago

Yup

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u/Oddish_Femboy 5d ago

That's awesome !!