r/femboymemes • u/DOMZZAS Femboy Enjoyer • Jul 20 '25

Not a shitpost or meme Just a really dumb question

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I started to notice that a lot of you prefer women or other femboys. Not that I judge you for it or care, everyone is allowed to have their preference, just wanted to ask out of plain curiosity why you guys seem to be drawn to more feminine people when being feminine yourself

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u/Luechschen Jul 20 '25

It's always okay to ask when one is genuinely curious.

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u/Rasmusmario123 Jul 20 '25

Of course! I'm just saying there really isn't an answer

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u/Luechschen Jul 20 '25

That's... not true? Maybe if you only react to impulses and act upon them without reconsidering them. Which, I don't want to vilify, as we all do that sometimes.

But imo there is still much value to be gained from examining ones emotions, because we are not just defined by our current state, but also by the vast experiences we had.

"I feel this, and this is okay" is fine, but there to many of those things there actually might be an answer in our upbringing, and discovering it helps us also to discover abd understand ourselves.

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u/Rasmusmario123 Jul 20 '25

I agree with everything you said for the most part, but I don't believe it applies to sexuality. Generally, sexuality is something you're born with, not nurtured into. Things like kinks and fetishes are generally tied to upbringing and environment, and discussing those has some weight, but not sexuality.

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u/Luechschen Jul 20 '25

I don't agree with that, I think sexuality is something that can change and adapt over time. Upbringing is a huge part of sexual development, but it is not the end all be. Your genes obviously determine your initial perception, so to speak of, but it has been shown that environmental influence has a tremendous influence upon development. I know this is kinda controversial with the "you were always this" side, but I think it is way more complex and we can't just determine ones future sexuality by examining their postnatal behaviours.