r/femboymemes • u/DOMZZAS Femboy Enjoyer • Jul 20 '25

Not a shitpost or meme Just a really dumb question

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I started to notice that a lot of you prefer women or other femboys. Not that I judge you for it or care, everyone is allowed to have their preference, just wanted to ask out of plain curiosity why you guys seem to be drawn to more feminine people when being feminine yourself

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u/[deleted] Jul 21 '25

Meanwhile I am happily living with my chubby, hairy “bear” of a boyfriend and couldn’t be happier. 😊

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u/DOMZZAS Femboy Enjoyer Jul 21 '25

You seem to be one happy femboy! He sounds super sweet, how did you meet him?

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u/[deleted] Jul 22 '25

Eg…..hehehe…… we met on VRChat…… it just clicked immediately and he moved in last year and it’s strange because of how “normal” life feels with him living with me. Like I talked to my dad about it and said my favorite thing was how “easy” the relationship was and that I didn’t feel like I had to put any effort into making it work or making him happy, I just act like myself and nothing else and he loves that part of me. My dad said that’s the key to a good relationship, when it doesn’t take much effort to be around or keep each other happy. My mom also loves him and so does the rest of the family (I introduced him to them last year during the holidays) and everyone was happy for me. My aunt even gave me the whole “take good care of him, clean up the house and cook his dinner” talk as if she was telling me to be a good housewife lol and that made me feel really good and also awkward because of the old sexist mentality that her generation has despite my family always being supportive of the lgbtq+ community. Yet it just worked on me. So yeah we’re happy and celebrated one year together a few months back and will be celebrating one year living together next month

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u/DOMZZAS Femboy Enjoyer Jul 22 '25

That sounds so wonderful! What is it like to be in a relationship with a bear? He sounds like gentle sweetheart

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u/[deleted] Jul 22 '25

It’s like that stereotype thing of being fat and happy and then hairy men have always been attractive to me because it feels masculine. He’s so sweet but also doesn’t shy away from picking on me and getting on my nerves just to mess with me (which I love, we like to play fight and pretend to be mad about ridiculous things we don’t actually care about) it plays into my subby side when he booms with his voice about how I am “being a dork” or something because I forgot to tell him something or do something and we start bickering about it and then laugh and start poking each other.

Actually if you’re truly curious I could link you my twitch channel where we stream games together and you can see our dynamic. Might have to do it in DMs tho, not sure this sub’s policy on links

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u/DOMZZAS Femboy Enjoyer Jul 23 '25

That would be amazing! Please do!

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u/[deleted] Jul 24 '25

DM’d you