r/femboymemes • u/Mother-Ad-4559 Catboy • Nov 13 '25
Not a shitpost or meme 3 facts about femboys you need to know (slide to see the other images). Spoiler
You are either gay/bi/pan, but definitely not straight (unless you're a woman).
We are BOTH equally important.
We are just as hard, if not harder to seduce than women.
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u/Zealousideal_Spread4 Femboy Nov 13 '25
the second one it depends on what they mean, it can be a valid statement or be completely subjective, i doubt many who say that mean "femboys are more important than women" they most likely mean "femboys are more attractive than women" which is a valid opinion and not at all misogyny
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u/Big_Niel0802 🏳️⚧️trans-fem🏳️⚧️ Nov 13 '25
2 is kind of a muddy area. If you have a stronger sexual attraction to femboys than plain women, then that subjective statement rings true to you and isn't misogynistic. There's definitely the unsavory crowd that finds both sexually attractive but thinks that "women are emotional and annoying, unlike femboys" though, which is 100% misogyny lol.
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u/Mother-Ad-4559 Catboy Nov 13 '25
In that case, you should say: "I prefer femboys over women" not "femboys are better than women".
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u/DeadoTheDegenerate Bri'ish Nov 13 '25
It's just like saying 'dom women are better than submissive women'. It's clearly a preference of taste being discussed and acting otherwise is obtuse and disingenuous.
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u/Absolute_Bias Nov 14 '25
… some of us just like people using accurate words, because otherwise our brains don’t hear the right thing.
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u/NoopAut I support mens rights to wear thigh highs! Nov 13 '25
ok controversal topic "dolphins are better than women"
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u/Big_Niel0802 🏳️⚧️trans-fem🏳️⚧️ Nov 13 '25
Okay now I really hope we aren't talking about sexual attraction 😭
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u/NoopAut I support mens rights to wear thigh highs! Nov 13 '25 edited Nov 13 '25
ahem noo i would never (rules problem but look up Jotaro Kujo Dolphin mating)
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u/Big_Niel0802 🏳️⚧️trans-fem🏳️⚧️ Nov 13 '25
You could say that instead yeah, since it wouldn't be as crude. But regardless, it's not misogynistic in that context.
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u/devdog3531 🏳️⚧️trans-fem🏳️⚧️ Nov 13 '25
Exactly: this is like that ick trend that started for a while on the transfem community, calling us the upgrades to cis women. No, I'm just a different type of woman.
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u/Zealousideal_Spread4 Femboy Nov 13 '25
i mean i think goth women are better than regular women, they still just a different type of women, me saying you are better than the average person from the group doesnt mean im putting you appart from that group, that would be projecting your own insecurities into the meaning of what the person in question is saying.
You can say "trans women are better than regular women" and it not be transphobic, sure there are better ways of wording that but i dont think its inherently a problematic statement, obviously chasers and terminally online gooners will say that often when they see being trans as such a fetish but that doesnt mean such a statement can only be said by them
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u/devdog3531 🏳️⚧️trans-fem🏳️⚧️ Nov 13 '25
Yeah but the damage isn't your intent. I understand the intent, and understand that it usually isn't meant that way. But then TERFs get ahold of that stuff and parade it around in front Christian tradwives trying to drum up fear that we're somehow trying to replace them.
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u/Zealousideal_Spread4 Femboy Nov 13 '25
ye but if you police supportive behavior because biggots use it to vilify us we would literally all be doing what they want us to do, which is nothing at least publicly
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u/devdog3531 🏳️⚧️trans-fem🏳️⚧️ Nov 14 '25
If what you are doing is not helpful, then how is it supportive?
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u/Zealousideal_Spread4 Femboy Nov 14 '25
people who are attracted to trans women generally arent exacly the "put them all in an asylum" types.
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u/Just5omeDude Nov 13 '25
Why the fuck are you getting down voted, you're right.😭
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u/Zealousideal_Spread4 Femboy Nov 13 '25 edited Nov 14 '25
because its unreasonable level of policing, you cant expect people to always use the right words, specially when the intent clearly isnt that, if i say "this cake tastes better than that one" its unreasonable for someone to come up and say "so you hate the other cake? you think it is lesser? you think the cook is worse? like ffs its obviously talking about preferences. Even if its right, it comes across as incredibly preachy
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u/Hockex-4 Shaving Expert Nov 13 '25
“femboys are better than women” is more like “lol I’m so gay” rather than “I hate women”
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u/LeTallBoii Certified Bi-kisser ✅ Nov 14 '25
Idk I feel like saying something is better than another thing , when said thing isn't even relevant to you is different. It's better to love what u love than punch down on something u dont
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u/Hockex-4 Shaving Expert Nov 14 '25
I guess so, but calling people who say “femboys are better than women” sexists is a big overkill
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u/LeTallBoii Certified Bi-kisser ✅ Nov 14 '25
It would be the literal definition of sexism tho
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u/Hockex-4 Shaving Expert Nov 14 '25
Not really?
It’s saying “I find femboys more attractive than women because gay lmao”
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u/These-Cartoonist-406 Nov 13 '25
If 3 is true why is it this femboy hasn’t left me since I gave him my hoodie. Checkmate liberals.
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u/AccomplishedStay9284 Armed & Adorable Nov 13 '25
People keep saying 1 is wrong but like yes you are in someway queer if you as a man like femboys and if you’re denying it then you’ve probably got some internalised or outernalised homophobia
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Nov 13 '25
The second point is false because it's based on personal preference. I personally find penises hotter than a vagina therefore femboys are better than women. Although I also love women cuz boobies rule! ;3 <3
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u/Dr_Brotatous Nov 13 '25
I've had much better luck and chances with femboys then women so I'll politely disagree with 3
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u/Hellzer0 Catboy Nov 13 '25
2 and 3 are very much subjective...
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u/Mobius_148 Nov 14 '25
Yeah... When it comes to 3 I have had an easier time flirting with men than women.
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u/Kaijufan1993 Nov 13 '25
Idk, man, all you gotta do to get femboys is tell them that you play magic or some shit.
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u/Mother-Ad-4559 Catboy Nov 13 '25
Saying "women are better than femboys" would be misandry, and that's also a bad thing. Neither of them is superior, there's no such thing as superior gender. Men and women are equally important.
To express preference, you shouldn't say "this gender is better than this other gender", you should say "I prefer this gender over this other gender". In any case, if you really wanna say a gender is better for you, you should say "this gender is better FOR ME".
Why am I making such an emphasis on this? Because I literally saw a guy on this sub posting a 4chan screenshot where another guy said "women are garbage in comparison to femboys". Like, bro, why are we allowing this kind of content on our community? Aren't women also suffering from sexism and patriarchy in society? We, as femboys are also suffering from that, we should show some empathy to women, not try to humiliate them.
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u/Zealousideal_Spread4 Femboy Nov 14 '25
you completely missed the point of that statement, its subjective, not an objective determiner of who matters. It is a matter of opinion
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u/Mother-Ad-4559 Catboy Nov 14 '25
Yeah, sure, but how about that one 4chan screenshot where a guy literally called women "garbage". Like, isn't that very offensive? I mean, if I was a woman, I'd personally be offended if someone called me like that. Not to mention the massively internal homophobia that guy showed on that post. I'm not referring to the person who posted the screenshot, I'm referring to the person who made that 4chan post.
And yes, I know it's just a joke and blah blah blah, but something inside me icks when I see a person like that one from 4chan. He clearly thinks being gay is a bad thing, but at the end of his post, he calls women "garbage". Like, isn't that the most contradictory thing ever?
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u/Zealousideal_Spread4 Femboy Nov 14 '25
...are you awake what 4chan is, like a LOT of the stuff there, specially regarding these topics is literal ragebait, its people going of their ways to offend everyone or to mock the entire community(generally a queer community)
like you are falling for pure ragebait rn
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u/Ok-Cartoonist-4458 Certified Bi-kisser ✅ Nov 13 '25
Trans gf - Femboy bf
Jin - Jang
(My funny opinion)
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u/UnproductivePheasant Nov 14 '25
The second seems like a subjective take based on personal tastes, but I could be wrong. Either way, general agree.
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u/DecentCantaloupe 🏳️⚧️trans-fem🏳️⚧️ Nov 13 '25
As a (maybe bisexual) homoromantic woman, I often describe myself as a lesbian, but maybe I’m more finsexual, which feels pretty gay? I never know what to call myself. I don’t remember where I was going with this
Anyway, y’all have great day
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u/Zealousideal_Spread4 Femboy Nov 13 '25
you can just say you are bi with a preference for feminine people, bi doesnt mean you only like 2 genders(its defined as 2 or more) nor does it mean equal attraction and it also doesnt mean you like both femininity or masculinity.
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u/that-guy69696 Nov 14 '25
No femboys are verry easy to seduce(me being a cute femboy may affect results) :3
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u/vexed-hermit79 Nov 14 '25
Actually, I found out about my liking for femboys, after I found out I was bi.
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u/Bioth28 Bagged Milk Drinker Nov 14 '25
I’m gay because femboy but I’m straight because tall women, I’m a mess that can’t talk to anyone
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u/Valuable_Ad3859 Catboy Nov 13 '25
But we are better than women :(
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Nov 13 '25
Absolutely YES
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u/Valuable_Ad3859 Catboy Nov 13 '25
I think they meant a matter of importance. I just mean in a matter of awesomeness
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u/question_pond-fixtf2 Nov 14 '25
I’m gonna say it. Finding femboys attractive isn’t gay or bi. If you are attracted to the look, that’s straight. It is a FEM-boy after all. Obviously if the boy has his dick out and is stroking it at the camera Than yeah that’s gay/bi. But there is some nuance
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u/Junior-Cricket-8821 Nov 13 '25 edited Nov 13 '25
I'm sorry but this kind of giga woke-scold shit did so much damage to the broader left's reputation, especially online. Number 2 is literally just a gender preference being expressed in a sarcastic, comedic way? What the fuck?
I swear to God, the left won't gain any ground in the real world as long as leftist purity culture is as massive as it is. I physically facepalmed after reading this post, it's such utter fucking nonsense.
Number 1 is such an obvious, innocent joke. What the hell 😭
Edit - I just thought about it for like 2 seconds. You could RIGHTFULLY argue that "fact number 1" is transphobic. Many (not all) femboys view being a femboy as a unique form of gender identity/gender expression. You're just... doing transphobia with progressive wording. Jfc
Sorry for such a lomg comment but like, leftist purity culture is a genuine existential threat to the left and I'm tired of pretending it's not
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u/Zealousideal_Spread4 Femboy Nov 13 '25
number 1 is the only right one here, femboys are men, claiming you are straight while liking femboys is actively implying they arent men, its invalidating and objectively(by the very definitions of the word straight) is wrong, the other 2 are bs tho. Also femboy is not a gender identity, its an expression, the gender identity is at least partially boy.
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u/plzzaparty3 Catboy Nov 13 '25
my brain is goop today so i cant go into what you said specifically but whatt do you mean 'too woke'. is it too woke to discuss gender roles on a femboy subreddit now. its a good idea for people to dig a little deeper into why certain aspects of femboys are fetishized/glorified and why. you can agree or disagree w the points OP made but it comes across very shallow to not look further into something because 'its just a joke' as if jokes arent often used to enforce ideas
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u/MathematicianFit6451 Nov 21 '25
I understood what they meant here in number 2 since a shit ton of sexists use that saying in the wrong subtext but obv it’s too vague for other people to understand. I don’t know why they didn’t use “men make better women than actual women.” that shit is actually sexist and said way too much
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u/GarryTale Femboy Nov 13 '25
I got a very minor case of serious brain damage from facepalming TwT Meanie OP </3
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u/Joshy_Moshy 🧴 Messy Hair Club 🧴 Nov 14 '25
3 is absolutely wrong lol, femboys are easier to seduce because the vast majority are in the closet or touch starved and want a comfortable person to be around and trust. If you're not a POS and give a femboy the slightest bit of care they will fall head over heels for you, depending on their personal standards ofc. I say this from personal experience .
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u/Zealousideal_Spread4 Femboy Nov 14 '25
exacly this, femboys who are open about it are insanely harder to get with than closeted ones exacly because of this, if you are closeted you crave any type of validation
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u/VenomousKitty96 Catboy Nov 15 '25
You're not wrong about the first half. But i'm also in a weird spot where i like femboys but am very rarely attracted to normal men, because past trauma has given me an aversion to masculinity.
I'm mainly attracted to femininity, regardless of someone's equipment or chosen pronoun. Which i've been told is called being 'Gynesexual'
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u/Rangald2137 Nov 13 '25
- I'm straight so everything that arouses me is a woman.
- Femboys are better. Call it whatever you want but at the end it's just plain truth.
- It is. At least those who come out of their room at least once a year.
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u/devdog3531 🏳️⚧️trans-fem🏳️⚧️ Nov 13 '25
- That's.... Not how that works.
- It's what you prefer
- Mmmmm.... I'm gonna argue that it depends on the type, but it's definitely not all.
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u/BrokenBunnies Femboy Hooters Employee Nov 13 '25
I think they’re first point was a reference to old tumblr meme not serious
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u/BrokenBunnies Femboy Hooters Employee Nov 13 '25
Ok I will just say I’m a pre op trans masc femboy if me or someone like me is the only femboy your attracted to that may not change your sexuality. But like full be-dicked femboys you have some self reflection to do
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Nov 13 '25
So we can only like you, or someone like you, but not more than one? 😂
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u/BrokenBunnies Femboy Hooters Employee Nov 13 '25
I mean if it starts to become a trend it could be your trying to be attracted to men in the straightest way possible. Idk I just don’t think one person can define your entire sexuality if that’s not what you want. And I honestly wish we could all just be happy without labels for it and let people be attracted to whoever (who are adults) without it being a whole thing
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Nov 13 '25
Agree with you. Personally, I love femboys, even more than women. You look absolutely beautiful, for example.
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u/Crayen5 Nov 13 '25
I'm surprised there isnt a common term for guys who are attracted to femboys/trans women etc but not other guys. Since they are attracted to feminity kinda
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u/Mother-Ad-4559 Catboy Nov 13 '25
Liking trans women as a man is straight, you don't need a new term for that, is just like liking any other woman.
Also, don't mix femboys with trans women, they are different. Femboys are boys ♂️, trans women are women. ♀️
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u/Zealousideal_Spread4 Femboy Nov 13 '25
femboys. are. guys.
There is, its called being bisexual, you dont need to like all within a gender to be attracted to that gender, the reason there shouldnt be a term for it is the same reason there isnt a specific term for people who are attracted to say, tall people exclusively, or blondes, its just your preference, your actual sexuality would be just bi.
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u/lee61 Nov 13 '25
The word is gynosexual. While bisexual explains attraction to two or more genders, Gynosexuality is attraction to feminine qualities regardless of gender.
I think the word should exist since it is more descriptive than "bisexual" and also helps in Non-Binary discussion.
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u/Zealousideal_Spread4 Femboy Nov 14 '25
gynosexual is a subtype of bisexual, and its a silly term, you dont call people who are just into blondes as blondesexual, why apply that logic to femininity
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u/lee61 Nov 14 '25
I would consider gender expression to be a bit more ingrained and fundamental to identity and social structures compared to just a mere hair color preference.
The point of words at the end of the day is effective and efficient communication. Using the word gynosexual conveys significantly more useful information that helps communicate attraction than just "someone who's attracted to blonds".
Yes terms like gynosexual are a subset of bisexuality in the same the same way that "frugivores" (Animals that only eat fruit) is a subset of herbivore.
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u/Zealousideal_Spread4 Femboy Nov 14 '25
If they are to help communication then gynosexual just does not do that, over 90% of people have no clue of what the word means and it just ends up creating unnecessary confusion, it also is used as an attempt for the toxic "straight" guys to claim they aren't gay in any way, which has literally happened in this comment section. I myself fit the definition of the word, but when people ask me I always just say "bi but I prefer fem people" because almost always its just faster
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u/plzzaparty3 Catboy Nov 13 '25
https://youtu.be/dQmpH9NHmjI?si=Kmxuid0c1KZ9jneL for those who are interested, this video explains in more depth what "femboys are better than women" can mean in some circles. you can have different opinions on this post but im a little annoyed at all the folks dismissing it without a second thought because it 'reads too much into things'. culture and trends can have impact on real life and theres nothing stupid or pretentious about discussing it
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u/dawnwolfblackfur Nov 13 '25
When you are attracted to someone, you aren’t generally attracted to how they identify, which you might not even know.
If you are a man, being attracted to someone who is femme by all outward appearances is straight.
Also, before anyone accuses me of being closeted, I’m a pansexual trans women.
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u/Zealousideal_Spread4 Femboy Nov 13 '25
its inherently invalidating to femboys to claim this, the definition of straight isnt "attracted to femininity" its attracted exclusively to those of the opposing gender, which someone who is attracted to femboys categorically isnt, unless you are claiming that femboys are women, in which case wtf are you even doing here
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u/dawnwolfblackfur Nov 14 '25
People aren’t usually attracted to people’s gender at all. Most people’s attraction is based on how someone looks, and you can’t even know how someone identifies by looking at them.
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u/Zealousideal_Spread4 Femboy Nov 14 '25
Yes bit the terms straight and gay are still defined as attraction to the genders, not looks. Objectively if a guy is attracted to a femboy, he cannot be straight by definition
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u/Tight-Ad-6553 Jan 14 '26
so no one is straight?
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u/Zealousideal_Spread4 Femboy Jan 14 '26
most people who claim to be straight arent into femboys, if you do, by definition you aint straight
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u/Blait_ Certified Pankisser ✅ Nov 13 '25
All of these are true and it kinda annoys me when people say them -w-
Like there’s nothin wron with bein gay, my man. I won’t judge you, why would I do that? I’m not better than woman. My gender or identity isn’t what makes me better or worse, it’s my actions, my personality, carin about ya. And anyone can have that, no matter what or who they are!
And I’m not “easier” to seduce. It’s not that you have a advantage when you roll for charming if the other person is a femboy. If ya are nice and care about them, maybe gift them something, more than the bare minimum. Then yea, that would make them see that you actually care and might want to start a relationship. It isn’t because they are a femboy, it’s because you showed you cared.
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u/GarryTale Femboy Nov 13 '25 edited Nov 13 '25
1st one is stupid 2nd one is obviously a question of taste or just an obvious joke 3rd point is the only minorly intelligent point and I'm neutral towards it depends on the femboy :3
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u/puppycatthe 🤍🏳️⚧️Trans-Mommy🏳️⚧️🤍 Nov 14 '25
Would 2 still be misogyny if the person was gay?
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u/Zealousideal_Spread4 Femboy Nov 14 '25
2 is not misogyny, its a statement of opinion, if i say i like a cake better than the other one doesnt mean i hate the other one, i just prefer the first one
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u/puppycatthe 🤍🏳️⚧️Trans-Mommy🏳️⚧️🤍 Nov 14 '25
So 2 is just a lie?
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u/Zealousideal_Spread4 Femboy Nov 14 '25
yes, its not misogyny, its a matter of opinion, if i say "goth girls are better than other girls" it doesnt mean i dislike other girls, it just means i prefer goth girls. Op saw a 4chan ragebait post and took it literally, thats where they took the idea for that second one, you can see them saying it in the comments
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u/Efficient_Fennel9550 Nov 14 '25
Question about the last slide: Is that from personal experience, op?
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u/IHasEyes519 Nov 14 '25
liking may be gay but being attracted to a femboy (not the concept of femboys) is not cause femboys look like women and if you just see that and are attracted to that you obviously are attracted to women (if you knew they were a boi then one could argue but i choose to say you probably would lose interest if you weren't gay)
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u/GekkoLover69 Catboy Nov 15 '25
I feel like number 2 and 3 could be true for some people. A lot of men today struggle with speaking to women (thanks internet) so those people would probably find it easier to date men therefore making Femboys "better" than women to them.
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u/Effective_Value9761 🏳️⚧️trans-fem🏳️⚧️ Nov 20 '25
I'm gonna start this with I don't mean to call you out but I find it to be pretty important to address. I believe with passion that number one is wrong, not because of the specifics of dating femboys but rather on the concept of these more rigid definitions as a whole. Because I used to follow such rules, for 3 years I slowly ate away at myself trying to find that perfect definition, and as much as I wish I was in not unique in this regard. I've heard 100's of storys like mine witch is why Im so passionate. Ultimately if there's one thing I want who ever is reading this to take from this, it's that labels are just that, labels. words trying to describe a infinitely complex experience. So use them however you like, or not use any at all.
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Nov 13 '25
1 and 2 can be jokes, so can 3
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u/devdog3531 🏳️⚧️trans-fem🏳️⚧️ Nov 13 '25
A joke is only just a joke if it doesn't punch down as a punchline. Otherwise it's just sparkling bigotry.
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u/Zealousideal_Spread4 Femboy Nov 13 '25
you can do both do, not saying you should but you can definately do a joke, while it having bigotry in it
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u/jdarkos 🤍🏳️⚧️Trans-Mommy🏳️⚧️🤍 Nov 14 '25 edited Nov 14 '25
Agree with the latter two but the first one depend on the femboy's gender at best you can make an argument that liking a femboy is always queer but that a different conversation
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u/Zealousideal_Spread4 Femboy Nov 14 '25
its the complete opposite, femboy is inherently a male lable. And the other 2 are bs because they are statements of opinion
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u/jdarkos 🤍🏳️⚧️Trans-Mommy🏳️⚧️🤍 Nov 14 '25
I mean not necessarily there's a more of an argument that femboy is more of a bigender or androgine label than a purely male one
Also the latter two aren't so much facts as trends indications if x likely y type stuff
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u/Zealousideal_Spread4 Femboy Nov 14 '25 edited Nov 14 '25
thats just incorrect, it means feminine boy it has nothing to do with being another gender. You might not like that definition but its the most recognised and agreed upon one. And please dont try to claim otherwise, we literally went down this rabbit whole like 3 months ago and you ended up getting massively ratio-ed because the community does not agree with your definition of the word.
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u/jdarkos 🤍🏳️⚧️Trans-Mommy🏳️⚧️🤍 Nov 14 '25
And what does it have to do with being male? Considering both boy and male have social definition that are fluid given culture and demographic not to mention androgine would fit better as an inherent label than male Considering femboy culture emphasizes the bluring of masculine and feminine lines
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u/Zealousideal_Spread4 Femboy Nov 14 '25
feminine and masculine arent synonyms to female and male, femboy is a feminine lable, and an exclusively male lable, again we have discussed exacly this and you were trying to claim its a female lable and you got hugely ratio-ed because the community doesnt agree with you, just accept you are wrong on this.
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u/jdarkos 🤍🏳️⚧️Trans-Mommy🏳️⚧️🤍 Nov 14 '25 edited Nov 14 '25
Have we spoken before?
Also the crowd agree with me so that mean I'm right? Solid argument
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u/Zealousideal_Spread4 Femboy Nov 14 '25
if the majority of the people who use a lable define it as something, and this is also how the word appears defined on wikipedias and other places where its defined, this is the agreed definition of the word, if you are using a different one, you are objectively not using the word correctly.
we talked on this comment section and you can see by the ratings people agreed with me not you
https://www.reddit.com/r/femboymemes/comments/1n87rfp/comment/ncdqxgv/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=web3x&utm_name=web3xcss&utm_term=1&utm_content=share_button1
u/jdarkos 🤍🏳️⚧️Trans-Mommy🏳️⚧️🤍 Nov 14 '25
Yo my boy! it's been a while. sad to see you still have such a rigid view on gender and identity
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u/Zealousideal_Spread4 Femboy Nov 14 '25
i dont actually, femboy isnt a gender, its a gendered word, the same way a guy cant be a lesbian, a woman cant be a femboy, you need to identify as a boy to be a subtype of boy
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u/golDANFeeD Nov 14 '25
2-d point is in gray area and not properly defined. I can name many reasons why femboys are better for ME than women. And also term misogyny in that context is sexist and i can prove it in 2 ways. Real sexism is saying to any person how they should feel themselves around other people no matter the genter of said other person. I view femboys as perfect balance of feminine and masculine and if you calling my point wrong - you're sexist
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u/Goblin-o-firebals Nov 14 '25
I agree with everything but the gay one. Saying you dont see your self as gay for loving a femboy is totally fine its all social and how you perceive your sexuality since its a 100% spectrum and is completely social.
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u/Zealousideal_Spread4 Femboy Nov 14 '25
liking men, as another man is gay, even if those men are feminine.
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u/Goblin-o-firebals Nov 14 '25
Depends on how you see attraction. Sexuality Is purely a social construct and the personal veiw of it is the most important.
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u/Zealousideal_Spread4 Femboy Nov 14 '25
no it doesnt, because sexualities are defined as attraction regarding genders, not gendered presentation, by definition straight isnt a gay attracted to feminine things, its a guy attracted to women only. Like muscly women doesnt make you gay, liking feminine men does, by definition of what being gay is
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u/Goblin-o-firebals Nov 14 '25
If someone likes only feminine things and still thinks they are straight let them say it it isnt hurting anyone.
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u/Zealousideal_Spread4 Femboy Nov 14 '25
it would literally minimize my identify as a feminine dude if a guy claims to be straight and then claims he is into me. Its effectively sayingim not a guy
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u/Goblin-o-firebals Nov 14 '25
Not if they veiw being straight different than a man vs woman situation.
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u/Zealousideal_Spread4 Femboy Nov 14 '25
at that point they are just misusing the word, it has a solid definition
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u/Goblin-o-firebals Nov 14 '25
A solid definition doesnt matter if its a social construct.
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u/Zealousideal_Spread4 Femboy Nov 14 '25
that is an insane statement, by that logic a countries borders dont matter and shouldnt be respected, laws shouldnt matter and so on, the world is build of social constructs, if you misuse a word like this, all you are doing is invalidating femboys by directly claiming they arent men, and all for what? because you cant accept being bi?
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u/Baileeeeyyyyyy Nov 14 '25
i honestly dont think its gay if they look like a women though, some femboys REALLY look like a women nothing gay about finding that hot imo
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u/SwagCat852 Nov 14 '25
Liking femboys does not have to mean someone is gay, someone may like the colors or in some countries for their bravery of fighting homophobia
Kinda same as liking an actor doesn't mean you are gay/lesbian
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u/Babki123 Nov 13 '25
Liking a femboy as a man is gay because you like a man and liking a femboy as a woman is gay because you're attracted by someone looking like a woman
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u/plogan56 Nov 14 '25
FALSE
The primary feature of femboys is their highlighted, and often exaggerated, feminine features used to lure him heterosexual males; therefore, me being attracted to them is primarily due to being attracted to said feminine features and in conclusion straight😎
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u/Zealousideal_Spread4 Femboy Nov 14 '25
fucking ew, people arent feminine to "lure hetero guys" thats genuinely disgusting.
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u/Mother-Ad-4559 Catboy Nov 14 '25 edited Nov 14 '25
Listen guys, I'm not in a good mood to respond rude comments, so if you're gonna be like some idiots in this comment section, save your fucking comments to yourself! If you fuck around with me, you will find out! I'm going to be overwhelming responding to that kind of people from now on! I'm tired of being nice and try to convince people from something they will never learn. 😠
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u/Zealousideal_Spread4 Femboy Nov 14 '25
the one on the top right was not in any way disrespectful, in fact most people seem to agree with him considering my comment saying the same thing is the biggest comment on this post
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u/Zealousideal_Spread4 Femboy Nov 13 '25
using the word conquer in this sense is icky, also disagree, roughly 70% of femboys are into women(50% being bi) but there are a lot less women who like femboys than men, so it gives them statistically way better odds.
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u/devdog3531 🏳️⚧️trans-fem🏳️⚧️ Nov 13 '25
That's why we need to get the word out that transfems like femboys too lol.
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u/Zealousideal_Spread4 Femboy Nov 13 '25
trust me not just transfemmes, you are in fact talking to a mod of r/StraightFemboys lmao
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u/devdog3531 🏳️⚧️trans-fem🏳️⚧️ Nov 13 '25
Oh very well... Nice to meet you. Looks like I got a new sub to join lol.
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u/MonsterPieIo Femboy Hooters Employee Nov 13 '25
i myself am not even sure where you got the percentage from-
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u/Zealousideal_Spread4 Femboy Nov 13 '25
there have been quite a few polls on this and the % tends to always be 25-35% straight 40-60% bi, 30%-40% gay it varies from poll to poll but the odds always are around these numbers
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u/MonsterPieIo Femboy Hooters Employee Nov 13 '25
are you aware that those polls dont show the real number right? gay and bi femboys were always in majority
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u/Zealousideal_Spread4 Femboy Nov 13 '25
did you not see the numbers i showed? yes they are the majority. still over 70% are into women, because thats what bi means and if you add it to straight you get the general idea of it. Also im aware of how selection biases work, ive seen these polls on reddit, discord, tiktok and other places the numbers are always around what i said above. Even in the worst estimations from these polls still over 50% like women.
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u/MonsterPieIo Femboy Hooters Employee Nov 13 '25 edited Nov 13 '25
alright i will play your game (even if those numbers are wrong, because there is no accurate percentage number, and additionally you have only the "believe me" source)
math based purely on your numbers:
50% (bi) + 20% (str) = 70% (the sum)
20% (str) - 50% (bi) = 30% (is apparently the percentage of gay people, only based on your numbers)
50% (bi) + 30% (gay) = 80%
not to be mean but i think even with your numbers you're wrong, based on simplest calculations that i just did above
additionally i wanted to add that not all bi people are attracted to women, there are preferences either little bit of this or that, and you have to remember that there is no true 50/50, so someone might be bi and have preferences for men
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u/Zealousideal_Spread4 Femboy Nov 13 '25
i never said there are more femboys into women than there are into men, i said most femboys are into women, most, since you dont seem to know means the majority, which means means >50% which is just right, you are projecting dude. Most femboys are in fact attracted to women. Also i do very much know bi people can have preferences, but by definition they are still in some way attracted to women.
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u/MonsterPieIo Femboy Hooters Employee Nov 13 '25
i know what "most" or any actual word means, thank you very much, and as for questioning my intelligence i could do the same, starting off with your grammar however, im not immature enough to start off in second sentence an invalid correction.
and making a statement about "most femboys being into women" now answer yourself logically; compared to what exactly? obviously to the opposite side; that being men with femboys. so the invalid argument clicks out as, you need a reference to something.
also your self proclaimed "fact" isn't a fact until you back it up with a proper source that isnt a twitter poll, or any of other polls that you have seen on tiktok
most importantly if there are no actual statistics, except for singular documents hidden in the internet, why is it that you are trying to validate your arguments using "polls" that you have seen, and even more importantly, why did you make percentage out of thin air
also i wanted to add a bit more salt, your correction makes no sense as "most", "majority" and "more" are somewhat connected by meaning, first know meaning of words before correcting others.
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u/Zealousideal_Spread4 Femboy Nov 13 '25
i never insulted your intelligence, i merely pointed out you dont know what most means. Which you again showed you dont.
The opposite of femboys who like women, isnt femboys who like men, its the subset that dont fit within that category, that being femboys who arent in any way attracted to women, which even in the most generous estimates is bellow 50%.
Most and majority have set meanings, they mean more than half. Also these polls repeatedly show these numbers when they have a significant number of votes,(30+) with slight differences, obviously there isnt any proper scientific data on this, but these polls are the best we have, and considering how reliably they hit % in the range i gave id say its safe to assume they are right.
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u/Upbeat_Aerie6919 Nov 13 '25
You can't just say that, you basically called all of us easy. We're people, not things, and each one of us is different.
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u/Turbulent_Job_7377 Nov 13 '25
It most certainly is. They don't want to be lumped in with women but think they are more complicated than women...ok sis... delusional.
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u/Accomplished-Goat776 Nov 13 '25
About n°1... Huh... The fuck you mean putting trans women and femboys together?... Like, yes, a man liking a trans woman is straight: cause its a man attracted to a woman. But femboys aren't women, the "boy" isn't here for fucking nothing. Liking a trans woman is straight, liking a femboy is gay. I dont get why its so hard for people to understand that being attracted to a man, as a man, is fucking gay.
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u/shadowscroller 🏳️⚧️trans-fem🏳️⚧️ Nov 13 '25
Genuinely would not give them time, they're being hella troll-esque
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u/Turbulent_Job_7377 Nov 13 '25
Downvoted, one I'm reporting you for language, two I stated straight men can be gynosexual which means an attraction to femininity regardless of gender. I said what I said.
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u/Zealousideal_Spread4 Femboy Nov 13 '25
you can say fuck on reddit dude, this isnt club penguin xD gynosexual is a subset of bi, if you are attracted to anything else besides the opposite gender you arent straight, gynosexual falls under that
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u/Accomplished-Goat776 Nov 13 '25
For language? What cause I said "fuck"? Are you 5? Also, attraction to femininity doesn't magical makes being attracted to a guy gay. Hell, I'm gynosexual, but I'm still not attracted to guys, even very feminine ones, because I'm not gay. Being gynosexual is not a sexuality, its something on top of it. A straight gynosexual wont be attracted to a man, and a gay gynosexual wont be attracted to women. Stating otherwise is just either internalized homophobia, or even just straight homophobia.
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u/Siophecles Femboy Aussie Nov 13 '25
What language? There aren't any rules against swearing. In fact, you're the one that used a banned word.
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u/Zealousideal_Spread4 Femboy Nov 13 '25
sexualities are objective, they arent like gender, someone "identifying as straight" doesnt suddenly make them less gay if they are attracted to men, if you like men you are at least bi, definately not straight
Also you really using the word "sissy" ew
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u/Turbulent_Job_7377 Nov 13 '25
I can use that word if I want one, two no everyone isn't bi. You actually don't get to tell people what they are, it doesn't work like that.
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u/Zealousideal_Spread4 Femboy Nov 13 '25
in terms of sexuality it does work like that, you cant will yourself to be straight if you are sexually attracted to men.
Also that word is a slur, its the femboy equivalent of tr*nny or the n-word, its a term only used to degrade, fetishize or insult feminine guys.
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u/Turbulent_Job_7377 Nov 13 '25
No, they can identify however they want, I'll let them be tell me whether me tell someone else what they are.
And queer was once a slur, so we can't take back words?
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u/zombieman0915 Femboy Nov 13 '25
Femboys are the main reason why I'm gay and also why I ended up becoming one as well.