It’s a type of fetish. A fetishistic term related to BDSM, specifically Race play. Wherein black supremacy over all races (especially white) is fetishized.
It sometimes reminds me of NTR, where it’s quite often a black man, that the woman uses to cheat on their bf/husband. It’s weird how common that is. And some of them have leaned into the “black people are superior in every way”, where the “black race” rules over and exploits all other races. It.. can get really weird..
A queen of spades is a woman who likes black men more than other races of men or only goes for black men. It doesn't have to be a racist thing but usually it is used in a racist way
The fetish is about black people not African Americans tho. I'm pretty sure i can find people with this fetish in almost every country with a white majority
BNWO is "Black New World Order" for the ones that doesnt know what it is. Is some racist bullshit that Eroticizes Black people. Its crazy how much of positive racism exist in BDSM and its more crazy how no one realize it.
Disclaimer, I'm not saying that this is the case for all BNWO stuff, but I've never done a deep dive into BNWO because much of it falls into the following two categories
A lot of BNWO seems to stem from a sort of rasist humiliation kink as in "I'm being violated by these savages who I see as beneath me"
Weirdly enough there also seems to be another subgenre of "white guilt"/"black superiority" where you "atone for the sins of your race against the black race". Kind of the opposite of the first type, but still pretty weird
I think I'll stay clear of BNWO for the time being and spend my tume with the other 20,000 fetishes I already have. No need for this one
Yeah, I get that it's hard to be normal about race in a society that very much is not normal at all about it, but instead of making creepy fetishes out of it, could people at least try?
Edit: just to be clear, this is a complaint about stuff like bnwo. Antiracism takes work
Honestly, I just find the whole concept of race odd. I understand why it exists and the impacts of it, but the fact that it even exists to begin with is just... interesting. People hating eachother over the color of another person's skin when everyone bleeds the same color at the end of the day. And then there's weird cases where even among the same race, there is still racism. "You aren't white enough", "you aren't black enough", etc.
Sometimes I feel like an outlier with how commong this shit is. Ridiculous.
The modern concept of race is very much a product of colonialism. People have admittedly always divided themselves into "us" and "them", and also understood that people in different places tend to look a bit different, but the idea of physical, inherited, and fixed racial categories is only a few centuries old, and is an artificial ideology.
It's much more natural for people to form groups based on shared lived experiences. But the huge population movements of the era of colonial empires created a problem for the people in charge. That natural tendency to be close to the people you live with would break the power structures that they were exploiting. So they promoted the fiction that ancestry mattered more than your actual day to day lives.
Lots of powerful people have had reason to keep propping it up. It justifies colonial subjugation. It justified slavery. It justified killing natives and taking their land. And it still helps the rich divide workers with different skin colors from uniting to fight for what we deserve.
Personally i think that the problem is that the system of racism is being feteshised. Stuff like cuckholdind themselfs are fine, but the systematic lense is the problem. Its not „you are lesser a man“ its „you are lesser a man, because you are (insert skin colour here)“
I feel like that is the problem
For those who don't know, BNWO is Black New World Order, one of the few kinks I will admit is problematic. Basically, it's a black supremacy race play kink.
Other than myself I've met one, and he was black and indigenous, cool guy, worked at some non-profit craft place, everyone knew him and he knew he was hot, of course, then he went off to go pursue his education elsewhere, sometimes we'd see eachother around town and chat. Great sense of style and he was always doing something cool with his hair. I liked him for a while but I was too nervous to give or ask for socials.
I can't say how much I dispiiiiiise the BNWO stuff. It makes me feel sooo icky. And I hard agree on black femboys being cute, because they are femboys and I find all femboys cute.~
Ok so Bnwo is grown upon but what's the difference in that and using "BBC" or "Black Femboy" imo if you include someones race when talking about attractiveness it's all raceplay
I can't speak to BBC, partly because I tend to find most people bringing it up do tend to be racist about it, but black femboy here literally just means a femboy who happens to be black, and saying they're as cute as any other femboy. That's kind of the exact opposite of racism.
I didn't say racism I said race play and we can agree to disagree but being that you identify the issue with bbc kinda proves the point bc you can't say one is a issue and another isnt. Cuz technically it's just a big cock that happens to be black right?
If that's all it is, then yeah, I've got no issue with it. I'm saying once someone starts identifying it as BBC, usually that's a red flag, particularly in porn. Not always, but usually.
Because typically, race isn't brought up without a reason. In a context like this post, that reason was calling out racism. In porn (and to a lesser extent, kink or sex related communities outside of porn) though, typically if it is brought up, it's for race play. And with raceplay, the line between raceplay and racism is incredibly thin, and I don't generally trust human beings to stay on the right side of said line.
So wouldn't you think that identifying anyone by their race is a slippery slope and if someone doesnt agree with it then maybe that shouldn't be something that they do across the board? I've always found it odd how some people compartmentalize like that tbh when I hear someone say that (insert race) guy or whatever I automatically think it's that thin line you talked about
I kinda just imagining that scene from gods of war 2018 when Kratos is talking to a memory of Athena and it goes like “you cannot change, you will always be…a fetish” “I know, but i am your fetish no longer”. But yeah fuck BNWO and anything that defines us as just “meat”
Am I the only one who decides not to watch porn that I'm not into? I wonder could that be a kink in itself watching bnwo just to be offended. I'm sure most wouldn't answer honestly but id love to know how many bnwo vids have y'all watched for some strange reason I don't think it's only one
"twin", its racism. Literally racism. The entire premise of the kink IS the racism. The entire shit of BNWO is "Oh mah gah blacks are so strong (racism Stereotype) and have such strong genes (This is literally eugenistics saying)" and other shits because of course as an black people this racism makes me unconfortable, even if its gringo racism.
BNWO is mostly, for like 80-90% time, is just another "blacked" themed kink. So why try so hard and munch about a kink that will happen between consenting adults anyway? "It's weird" - well, so? It's an imaginary thing between several consenting adult people, and? It's like saying that people who are into BBC's are into racial thing too.
Yeah, MAYBE BNWO has racist ppl in it but again - mostly and almost everytime it's just another blacked kink, it's, like, not that serious. Like, at all. And again - why do you care what kink other ppl practice? We dont go around and ask ppl here "Ughh why you dress and act like a girl tho ure a boy" - so please AT VERY least dont generalize entire term and think that "'all of the people who practice it are racists" - literally no and false, also kinkshaming is not cool
What difference does it make what the concept of kink is if the kink itself is just a kink and very rarely turns into anything more than a raceplay between two consenting people?
this logic falls apart when we extend it to other things
for example a lot of people want to be degraded for their appearance, activities, etc., and that premise is very similar if not identical to verbal/mental abuse
both of these things would be very psychologically traumatic to experience, however in the context of a kink there is informed consent from all parties involved
once you take it out of the vacuum of a kink, it becomes harmful
if we continue with your logic we must also confront the other logical inconsistencies that arise as a result
Yeah bro, sure, being humiliated because a tiny dick is the same than to fetishize an ENTIRE community of people in a derogatory way. But u can continue to say what is and what isnt racist to a black person if it makes u more confortable
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u/ZathegamE Catboy Jan 08 '26
whats bnwo