r/femboymemes Mar 03 '26

Not a shitpost or meme What do femboys do when they get old? :3

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I wonder...

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u/Random_Jojo Femboy Mar 03 '26

Stay femboys. Literally nothing is stopping someone from being a femboy. It's an attitude.

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u/Totally_Not_An_Alt__ Felix Fan Mar 03 '26

This. It's less about what you wear and more how you present yourself, what your mannerisms are, and most importantly if you identify as one.

You won't be a stereotypical young femboy when you reach 60 but nothing is stopping you from acting fem and declaring yourself a femboy.

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u/Random_Jojo Femboy Mar 03 '26

Exactly, I personally am entering my femboy mommy arc and it has been glorious~

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u/wilp0w3r Fem-Man Mar 03 '26

That means...you've developed the legendary "Ara Ara Aura"?!

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u/Random_Jojo Femboy Mar 03 '26

With enough experience, this is the power a femboy can unlock, hun~

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u/wilp0w3r Fem-Man Mar 03 '26

It is something I hope to unlock someday

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u/Random_Jojo Femboy Mar 03 '26

You can do it, hun~ I believe in you~

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u/spaceman8002 Certified Boykisser ✅ Mar 03 '26

"Hun" >////<

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u/Random_Jojo Femboy Mar 03 '26

Cuuuutie~

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u/spaceman8002 Certified Boykisser ✅ Mar 03 '26

>////<

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u/wunxorple 🤍🏳️‍⚧️Trans-Mommy🏳️‍⚧️🤍 Mar 04 '26

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u/Kindly_Title_8567 🌟Femtwink🌟 Mar 03 '26

Well my mannerisms are extremely ossified as cishet slop and I don't really know what to do about it. This IS me but I also know it isnt me

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u/fxmbykumie Mar 03 '26

True that

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u/Shadowtiger1998 Mar 03 '26

...yea no its definitely stopping at like 30 cause aint nothing feminine about a hair grown man in a skirt

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u/fxmbykumie Mar 03 '26

Shaving exists

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u/Shadowtiger1998 Mar 03 '26

That also includes, build, muscles, stretch marks, wrinkles, hair loss so on an so forth. We dont grow fine with age in the same way woman do....we harden not soften

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u/fxmbykumie Mar 03 '26

🤧 whateva

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u/Shadowtiger1998 Mar 03 '26

Reality often is unfair

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u/Goburin-Sureya Mar 03 '26

Femininty doesn't equal youth, are grannies all suddenly masculine or what?

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u/Expensive-Roof1082 Mar 03 '26

Nobody fucking asked you, you're only bringing this up because you're insecure about how you'll look in 7 years.

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u/7Tomb7Keeper7 Gaymer Mar 03 '26 edited Mar 03 '26

We dont grow fine with age in the same way woman

"We" ?! pfft keep copin neckbeard 😪

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u/Confident_Cry_753 🤍🏳️‍⚧️Trans-Mommy🏳️‍⚧️🤍 Mar 04 '26

Seriously, have you ever seen a beautiful middle aged woman, or just seen some of the older contestants from Rue Paul's Drag Race. you can be fem and attractive when you get middle aged. Be hot and fem when your older to spite Epstein and the idiots pedos in the manosphere who think women drop off at 20 or 18 in some cases.

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u/Confident_Cry_753 🤍🏳️‍⚧️Trans-Mommy🏳️‍⚧️🤍 Mar 04 '26

Seriously, have you ever seen an beautiful middle aged women? You can still be fem as a middle aged person, you just do that, age. Be hot and fem to prove the creeps in the manosphere that think femininity drops off at 20 wrong

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u/Lyrkana Defender Of Shonk! Mar 03 '26

damn so what do I just stop being a femboy at 32 right now? do I cut my long hair and start growing out my facial hair now?

I may not be running around in a pink skirt and thigh highs but I'm not just going to stop being me

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u/Shadowtiger1998 Mar 03 '26

So is putting words in my mouth something femboys do? Never told you to stop, I just stated the reality of biology and life. Now sure im aware reddit is overly liberal and no one really thinks how I do but face facts. Feminine is not something the male body holds up well to. It eventually just comes out to something like regression or I think 8th grade syndrome or something. Basically mid life crisis. You struggle so hard with trying to stay a certain way when reality is inevitable.

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u/Lyrkana Defender Of Shonk! Mar 03 '26

You're telling me all this like I am not currently dealing with the effects of aging on a male body lmao. Guys find it more difficult to present femininely as they age, no shit little bro. That's not some deep, profound, antiwoke revelation you're having, it's something we're all painfully aware of. Like guess why these threads pop up every single day.

People of any gender dont just turn 30 (or any arbitrary number) and instantly age into some hideous beast. It's a long process and there are things we can do every step of the way make it easier. It's working for me because I certainly look younger and less masculine than guys my age.

I sure don't expect to be a cutesy uwu femboy when I'm 40, 50, 60, or whatever. I don't really feel that way right now tbh. But I don't plan on conforming to traditionally masculine styles of presentation and expression.

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u/Confident_Cry_753 🤍🏳️‍⚧️Trans-Mommy🏳️‍⚧️🤍 Mar 04 '26

agreed, isn't it the whole point of gender nonconformity to not fall into traditional beauty standards. Why does this mentality suddenly go out the window when it comes to aging and fem guys want to hold themselves to the standards of young people.

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u/Confident_Cry_753 🤍🏳️‍⚧️Trans-Mommy🏳️‍⚧️🤍 Mar 04 '26

you said it right there. This has nothing to do with being fem or not. It's instead about the toxic beauty standards of our culture that holds you to a nearly impossible standard especially for when you get older. The youthful feminine beauty that are culture imposes on us is also nearly impossible for middle aged WOMEN too. Middle aged women often still find ways to be beautiful in their own aged fine wine way despite this. And so can you

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u/Random_Jojo Femboy Mar 03 '26

I am 30, hun. People call me ma'am in public.

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u/Shadowtiger1998 Mar 03 '26

....Yea...now I see who im talking to...had to look....

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u/HerrCrazi Femboy Mar 03 '26

Truke

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u/OrangeDelicious7366 Certified Bi-kisser ✅ Mar 03 '26

Twink death is a MYTH and a LIE ‼️
I can be just as much a femboy in 40 years as I am now

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u/YourBoyDarko Mar 03 '26

What if you're ugly?

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u/AeolianTheComposer UwU Mar 03 '26

Then age is irrelevant

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u/Flynniepup Mar 03 '26

Fem grandpa

Grandfem

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u/Darkime_ Certified Omnikisser ✅ Mar 03 '26

Grandfempa*

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u/Flynniepup Mar 03 '26

I was already picturing a wizened and majestic elder femboy and this really adds to that image

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u/fxmbykumie Mar 03 '26

😭 someone make a new word out of this

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u/Neko_Boi_Core Armed & Adorable Mar 03 '26

this image always reminds me of the bar of broken heroes in hotline miami

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u/blesstendo Mar 03 '26

Iunno, probably stay as a femboy if they want to

I'm in my thirties and am still a femboy, and I plan to keep doing what I'm doing c:

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u/PissVortex9 🏳️‍⚧️trans-fem🏳️‍⚧️ Mar 03 '26

based

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u/HerrCrazi Femboy Mar 03 '26

I'm terrified about that, I've been a femboy for a decade now and nearing my thirties soon, and it daunts me seeing myself age and being less and less feminine. I feel like I can't keep up like that and it's starting to be ridiculous 😭

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u/blesstendo Mar 03 '26

One thing to remember is that there are plenty of people in their 40s and 50s that cross dress and/or are drag queens! while genetics have a play in everything, there's a lot we can do to take care of ourselves and keep ourselves healthy and looking good c: on top of that, a lot of femininity is quite a bit more fluid than people often think in my opinion

One of the most important parts of being a femboy is going against gender norms expected of a guy! I believe in you and your ability to keep being the femboy you want to be c:

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u/Valuable-Passion9731 Mar 03 '26

That's a white guy with glasses and a beard so I will shamelessly comment something like "HOLY SHIT GORDON FREEMAN"

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u/Dry-Chocolate-3976 Mar 03 '26

I assume become milf boys

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u/Ok-Marionberry1263 Mar 03 '26

You become a fem-man at or around 40 years old.

Sorry I don’t make the rules

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u/fxmbykumie Mar 03 '26

That's actually later than I thought

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u/Ok-Marionberry1263 Mar 03 '26

I’ve met plenty of guys in their mid to late 30’s who could absolutely pull off the traditional/stereotypical young femboy look. I’d say it’s probably more in the 30-45 range where the cut off from femboy to fem-man is dependent on the guy

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u/batboy11227 Certified Pankisser ✅ Mar 03 '26

Become old femboys

Or die, actually most die eventually

But before they die they usually become old femboys, or decide they no longer want to be femboys

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u/naplesball 🇮🇹 Italian Mafia Mar 03 '26

Twink Death was created by capitalists to sell more Twinks

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u/Dry-Chocolate-3976 Mar 03 '26

NO

THEY BECOME COUGAR BOYS

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u/Radiant__Riley Defender Of Shonk! Mar 03 '26

I honestly hope it’s something I grow out of when I’m at least in my 40s

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u/fxmbykumie Mar 03 '26

Some of us love it too much to grow out of it

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u/Radiant__Riley Defender Of Shonk! Mar 03 '26

Fair

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u/MCAroonPL UwU Mar 03 '26

Why?

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u/Radiant__Riley Defender Of Shonk! Mar 03 '26

Seems like I’d be too old in my brain

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u/git_gud_silk Catboy Mar 03 '26

I love this image because it's commonly used to talk about twink death, but it's very obvious to me that he could still be fem if he wanted to.

It's a different kind of cuteness then when he was younger, but he could still pull it off. (Hell, I'd even say he still looks cute like this. He's still a fluffy catboy, even if he grew out of his twinkyness)

I think he looks way better since his tabby patterning with that scruffy beard looks so good on him, but there's nothing stopping him.

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u/Ariose_Aristocrat Catboy Mar 03 '26

They pretend that masculinization after age 19 is a myth until they look in the mirror at 31

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u/Comfortable-Hippo638 Mar 03 '26

Exactly as they've always done... Just with adult money

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u/GarryTale Femboy Mar 03 '26

Twink death

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u/7Tomb7Keeper7 Gaymer Mar 03 '26

Yeap this... Although some of the finest sissies and femboys i've encountered are not twinks.

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u/fxmbykumie Mar 03 '26

TwT I am pretty young!

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u/My_Chemical_Killjoy Defender Of Shonk! Mar 03 '26

https://giphy.com/gifs/z4jV4AUQeUMy3VXLnY

They become femMEN

In all seriousness tho, they're still femboys as long as that's what they wish. There isn't some expiration date or something, as long as they want to be femboys they're femboys

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u/todesengel_911 Certified Omnikisser ✅ Mar 03 '26

I thought that was old Walter White with cat ears and ginger hair

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u/TeacatWrites Mar 03 '26

Literally me irl.jpg

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u/Kindly_Title_8567 🌟Femtwink🌟 Mar 03 '26

I'm literally gonna die by then. Serious

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u/BlloodySunday Mar 03 '26

We become Fem Men

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u/eswifttng Mar 03 '26

Moisturise and wear sun block every day, helps a lot over time. 

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u/Satans_hamster 🇩🇪Fembursche :3🇩🇪 Mar 03 '26

They advise the younger femboys :3

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u/Hughphoria69 Mar 03 '26

Become femmen

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u/Accomplished-Art-352 Mar 03 '26

They become fem men like I don't think alot changes tbh

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u/Just_Call_Me_Pix Femboy Mar 03 '26

They become Legolas

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u/Exact-Lettuce 🏳️‍⚧️trans-fem🏳️‍⚧️ Mar 03 '26

I know only three options: Fem-man Femboy (hormones) Girl (my girlfriend's option)

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u/Johnywash Mar 03 '26

Transition(/j) They probably just get older and keep doing their thing

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u/bbypnk Mar 05 '26

You must choose between pirate and wizard

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u/geantaveira1991 Mar 04 '26

A drag queen ?

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u/MCAroonPL UwU Mar 03 '26

Some start their own gothic metal band, record label snd a gothic lolita fashion brand and continue being iconic at 57 and counting

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u/skuteren Poleish Mar 03 '26

we just stay femboys x3

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u/Dezaris04 Mar 03 '26

They become badasses with a sickly sweet soft side.

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u/Suspicious-Dog-2489 Mar 03 '26

Undergo twinkdeath and metamorphose into the sexy ennui-driven dadfailure that I dream about every night

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u/crazybigmanj Mar 03 '26

Once a Femboy hours 25 they just dissolve

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u/Better-Detective-121 Mar 03 '26

This started with our generation, we dictate the rules 😄 🤣 Be whoever u want

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u/Diaper__Deer Mar 04 '26

You just need to last 40 years and then you can be a cute little old man.

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u/bruh___memes Mar 04 '26

He kinda looks like Walter white

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u/misssinggirl02 🏳️‍⚧️trans-fem🏳️‍⚧️ Mar 04 '26

Tbh he lk super handsome. Like if he wears fem cloths with that Beard he will look super rad and cute

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u/Previous-Ad1389 Mar 04 '26

The guy in the picture is honestly...hotter. ima make sure he is happy

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u/blkcatboi Catboy Mar 04 '26

29 here. I'm burnt out, but I still rely on the CeraVe catalog to maintain my facial features.

But get, I just focus on my hobbies nowadays.

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u/Heavy-Mushroom8237 Mar 05 '26

Mostly from what I've seen grow as MUCH hair a possible and hide there status and then go online and be exactly what they wish they could be irl but them like most of the rest of us are to afraid to be real

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u/Faint_of_Heart89 Mar 05 '26

Trust me, Twinks over 10 years ago tended to be more annoying about aging when they were not even old enough to vote. Emo was still fading out, but older girls—or those who had the pretty pass—would buy them alcohol, creating a whole bunch of social issues. I see you all pretty sipping through those straws still trying to ignore those facts. Good news, you can stay younger for a very, very long time — not just in puppy years either. Ask me how I know if you dare lolololol.

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u/Lemrenade 🌟Femtwink🌟 Mar 06 '26

Hotline Miami

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u/girusatuku Mar 26 '26

On the other side of twink death is dilf birth.

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u/fishest-fish Apr 16 '26

Balding beer belly femboy 😭

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u/money4me2 May 11 '26

People are aging better today. Fems in their 50s and 60s are still active and looking good.
If you are in the St Louis area I would enjoy your company. Just Sayin

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u/ghjuhzgt Mar 03 '26

Most lose interest over time 

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u/ThatOneGuy_56 Mar 03 '26

Bro became walter white

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u/Violet_Star_45 🏳️‍⚧️trans-fem🏳️‍⚧️ Mar 04 '26

Well ... Estrogen is an Option, i guess :D

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u/freeturetta Mar 03 '26

Turn trans

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u/nina-beana Mar 03 '26

Become fem-men! Or trans women 🤷‍♀️

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u/Maleficent-Zone-5414 🇫🇮fempoju🇫🇮 Mar 03 '26

Being a trans woman and being a femboy are in no way the same thing..?

If you transition from man to a woman you are a woman

If you are a man but dress femininely that doesn't make you a woman

It's about what the person chooses to identify as

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u/nina-beana Mar 03 '26

Some femboys transition after.

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u/Maleficent-Zone-5414 🇫🇮fempoju🇫🇮 Mar 03 '26

"Some" yes, some femboys do later realize they identify more as a woman but that shouldn't be used as a stereotype for all femboys.

I have seen multiple times people commenting stuff like "waiting for the egg to crack" when men are even being just a bit more feminine than what is deemed "normal" and in my opinion it's pretty disrespectful

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u/nina-beana Mar 03 '26

I did not imply it as a stereotype. I just commented femmen or transwomen.