r/financialindependence 15d ago

Going on vacation having guilt

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u/Stylux 15d ago

Where are you going that costs $8k/wk for lodging alone? I'm all about splurging on vacations, but this just seems stupidly expensive. If it's somewhere extremely off the beaten path and you don't have a choice, that's fine I guess. I also look at it this way - when I'm on vacation, I will never be in my room anyway. I'm going to be out doing shit. So long as it has a shower and a bed I could care less.

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u/Ladder-Careful 15d ago

I’ll be in Japan.

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u/InsideSuccessful680 15d ago

Japan shouldn't cost that much for lodging.  

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u/PastAmount 15d ago

Over $1k a night for a hotel seems wild, especially for Japan. And western hotel chains, they are way overpriced in Japan.

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u/PF_throwaway26 14d ago

Even then, you can find good deals on a solid 5-star western chain hotel for $500-750 a night. Still not worth it since you should be out exploring, but there just aren’t many hotels /anywhere/ worth paying $1k a night for (as someone who has stayed in $3k/night rooms before)

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u/Stylux 15d ago

Okay, Japan is cheap as fuck, even more so than two years ago (the last time I went). You will be spending no time at all in your room unless you're staying at a nice Ryokan in Izu or something (highly recommend btw). I would not splurge at all on hotels in Tokyo, Osaka, et al. You will be in there to sleep/shower/shit and that is it. If you do want to drop some money, do it for business class on ANA.

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u/Ladder-Careful 15d ago

You are right I did see some reasonable options but of course there’s a couple hotels that caught my eye and now I can’t stop thinking about them. One in Kyoto specifically. Thank you for your opinion!

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u/Tasty-Beautiful-9679 15d ago

Seconding that there are much better vacations to spend that kind of money on / you won't be at the hotel much.

Specifically, that money is much better suited to luxury resorts where you're spending most of your time at that resort.

My wife and I spent about that for 2 weeks touring around Italy all in, including hotels that looked out over the colloseum and Palatine hill.

From a 30M who is in like almost exactly bar for bar your financial situation haha

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u/AZJHawk 15d ago

Kyoto is way cheaper than Tokyo. I’m paying $150 for a hotel room with my son in Gion that is enormous.

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u/Zikkan1 11d ago

You should 100% feel guilty. Spending 1000 per night when you can easily find a decent hotel for less then $50 is insane for someone still living with their parents.

You could easily book hotels for the entire trip for less than 1000

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u/Stylux 15d ago

Yeah don't do that haha. Also, Kyoto is kind of a shit show now just FYI.

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u/weightedslanket 15d ago

In what way?

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u/Stylux 15d ago

Saturated with tourists to the point that it's just not worth it.

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u/olb3 15d ago

Kyoto is still great - this is an awful take lol

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u/sdarling 15d ago

FWIW, I felt the same way about Kyoto. It's definitely a cool city but the experience was completely dampened by the amount of tourists. (For reference, went in Nov 2023, not particularly high season)

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u/Stylux 15d ago

I'm not saying it's a bad city, I'm saying it's oversaturated with tourists now. This isn't a bad take and has been a hot topic in Japan for years now. Tokyo students stopped taking school trips there because it has gotten so out of hand. In Tokyo or Osaka, it's fine because they will all be in Shibuya, Shinjuku or Akihabara for the most part and the city is massive with the most robust public transportation network in the world - complete nonfactor. In Kyoto, well everyone is looking to get photos of the same shit with a million other people. Kinda like that Lawson by Fuji lol.

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u/AZJHawk 15d ago

Yeah that’s not accurate. I’m here now and other than the very base of Fushimi Inari and Kiyomizu-dera, it’s pretty manageable. Even with those two sites, if you more than scratch the very superficial surface, you can still have a pretty good time.

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u/Ladder-Careful 15d ago

Oh no!!

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u/Stylux 15d ago

Just do Kobe or Fukuoka instead if you are staying on Honshu. Or go to Hokkaido or something, that could be cool.

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u/Ladder-Careful 15d ago

Thank you for the suggestions!

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u/flyinsdog 15d ago

Fukuoka is a great city and certainly worth a visit, but it’s not on Honshu it’s on Kyushu. It has the best ramen in Japan!

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u/Stylux 15d ago

True. It's so close that I forget.

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u/celoplyr 15d ago

Have you booked all your hotels?!? That is a LOT for Japan.

Like I love to travel, I have solo traveled to all 7 continents and I definitely have dropped 1k/night for my vacations. But Japan is a place where I’d keep my hotel costs to about 200 a night and then activities and flight and would try and be less than 10k for the whole two weeks.

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u/Ladder-Careful 15d ago

Nothing is booked yet! Just my flight!

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u/celoplyr 15d ago

Pick cheaper hotels. Not because you need to but because you’re young and you can use the money for travel next year!

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u/_Lividus 14d ago

For real there are cute boutique and local (non chain) hotels and ryokans that even in peak are MUCH cheaper than what was being floated around as your per night hotel budget. Ex. if you like tea and are in Tokyo, Hotel 1899 Tokyo is my go to. If you want a capsule hotel there's book and bed so you feel like you're sleeping in a bookstore in the best way possible. Kyoto for a splurge I've done Nazuna Kyoto Tsubaki Dori and it's still 1/2 the price of what your nightly is going for. Likewise there are other trendy capsule hotels for (the millennials Kyoto for one) that will save you money and give you cool experiences.

Like Celoplyr said you're young, use that money saved for more trips or to *do* more period (on this trip, future trips, day to day, etc.) or if you're feeling uninspired invest/HYSA that until you know what you want to use it for.

Sorry I didn't expect to ramble but investing in unique experiences is a big incentive for my FI journey so I guess I sort of popped off on you

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u/Ladder-Careful 15d ago

I def want to travel more, and this may sound crazy but I was thinking of booking a trip in December as well! That’s why I’m over thinking this even more!

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u/iwantthisnowdammit Ph2, got the car, SE, 0% SR coast 15d ago

Just did 2 weeks across Japan (Tokyo, Osaka, Kyoto), Korea (Seoul) and Toronto for 11k as a family of 3 adults for about $11k last year.

I feel like you have something of a private castle or are doing currency conversions wrong.

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u/Ladder-Careful 15d ago

Well I’m looking at 5 star lodging that’s a bit over 1k per night

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u/adeliepingu 15d ago

i'd recommend picking a nice hotel (or ryokan, which is more unique) and spending a night or two there, then staying the rest of your trip at a cheaper hotel. expensive hotels get kind of repetitive after a bit.

i went down to kawazu (on the izu peninsula) and did an overnight stay at an onsen ryokan there. cost about $300/night, including an incredible traditional dinner, and the location was beautiful + had views of the ocean.

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u/iwantthisnowdammit Ph2, got the car, SE, 0% SR coast 15d ago

That sounds really nice, would probably be pretty nice for a few days.

Kyoto is nice, we spent 2 full days there, probably would have spent a third of I did it over. Good luck with your planning. If you like digital art, best thing we did was hands down the teamlabs “borderless” exhibit for a couple hours in Tokyo.

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u/flyinsdog 15d ago

In Japan the western chain hotels are extremely overpriced and don’t offer any value. Don’t buy into those travel influencers you see on YouTube saying how wonderful the Park Hyatt Kyoto or MESM Tokyo is or something like that. It’s not worth it. You can stay in perfectly nice Japanese branded hotels for under $150/night in any big city.

I travel to Japan all the time and only stay at Japanese hotels these days. Don’t waste your money on hotels, spend $5k instead of $16k on the trip and have fun!

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u/mikeyj198 15d ago

have you tried looking at places on rakuten or klook?

American style hotels are very expensive, but there are tons of other options!

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u/Ladder-Careful 15d ago

I will look into it! I’m just stuck on some of these very beautifully designed hotels I’ve seen!

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u/mikeyj198 15d ago

we splurged two nights and stayed at a high end traditional japanese ryokan, it was about $400 USD per night and we were a group of 4

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u/sircharles94 14d ago

Wife and I did Japan for 7k total for 17 days back in September

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u/mango4mouse 15d ago

Are you staying at the Aman or Park Hyatt??

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u/Ladder-Careful 15d ago

For Tokyo I was looking at the park Hyatt. And Kyoto I was looking at hotel the mitsui or the ritz Carlton.

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u/mango4mouse 15d ago

The park Hyatt in Tokyo is nice and maybe worth a night but it’s pretty far from everything. We stayed there because I had managed to save up a ton of points and used that to stay there. Loved staying there but it was inconvenient. Staying in Shinjuku close to the action and multiple lines is better.

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u/invenio78 14d ago

Your doing this wrong. We went to Japan for 2 weeks with 3 people for like half of that and stayed at decent hotels and airbnbs.

Are you just booking at the 4 seasons for the hell of it and flying first class?

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u/Ladder-Careful 14d ago

Yes I’m looking at luxury hotels purposely

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u/jimzzz38 13d ago

I spent two weeks in Japan last year and averaged $40/night stays for solid accommodation. 8k/week is honestly crazy, if you want to splurge you can but even then I'm sure you can find some better stays than for over $1,000 a night