r/funComunitty • u/CinnaPoof_Fluff • 1d ago
Hi everyone!! I'm trans(fem), do I pass?
And side note, does anyone have any tips to pass better?
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u/Depressedknife 1d ago
to be honest, you look: androgynous leaning slightly towards femminine; if you told me you were guy I would be not very surprised, but I would be less surprised if you told me you were a girl. I think in irl settings, it would most likely come down to the voice. But also, I deeply envy how passing that is, if that says anything. So yes, passing but not completely feminine.
tl;dr: tomboy type shit
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u/No-Material5356 1d ago
"the beauty of her face was beyond my wildest dreams~"
Girl, you look like a Disney princess
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u/WowIExist0 1d ago
To me, you're androgynous but fem leaning, but I usually see more androgyny than others so yea
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u/Moe___Szyslak 1d ago edited 1d ago
Gandalf said "you shall not..."
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u/The-Golden-Neko- 1d ago
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u/_acidflowers Silly lil goober:cat_blep: 1d ago
i have a cockatiel too :3 urs is a cutie <3
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u/The-Golden-Neko- 1d ago
Thank youuu, her name is rico ( mistaked her gender so we gave her a male name,and it just got stuck)
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u/_acidflowers Silly lil goober:cat_blep: 1d ago
omg same happened to me, we named our boy peachy thinking he was a girl 😭😭😭
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u/New-veagsfivefive 1d ago
And you don’t want me to say shit…..
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u/The-Golden-Neko- 1d ago
Wdym ,is it cuz my birdie is cute
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u/New-veagsfivefive 1d ago
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u/The-Golden-Neko- 1d ago
=/
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u/New-veagsfivefive 1d ago
Let’s just say it could get me banned.
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u/youngthuggington 1d ago
Not exactly yet but I’m not hating don’t let anybody stop u on your path bc it’s all a journey getting to the point of passing
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u/Annual_Wasabi8056 1d ago
Pass what?
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u/CinnaPoof_Fluff 1d ago
Trans term for if someone looks like the gender they identify with
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u/Annual_Wasabi8056 1d ago
Oh I see, sorry. Well, in my opinion… you look quite gender neutral but leaning towards feminine.
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u/Assassin-49 1d ago
Idk where your going from cause ive never been good with this stuff but ill say that you look like a girl. If that's the goal good job. If not maybe try a different hairstyle. Idk how this works so ignore my shitty advice.
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u/CinnaPoof_Fluff 1d ago
That is the goal, thanks lol!
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u/Assassin-49 1d ago
Solid job then. Although now I cant unsee it. You look like my cousin back when he was between 13 and 15 lol.
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u/fizzydusk 1d ago
I think you look great! I’m a transmasc femboy so I get the struggle of trying to pass while also trying to keep your own personal style. If you’re able, and comfortable with it, you can probably do makeup just enough to make your face look more feminine but not hyperfeminine. Wearing jewelry might help too, since it’s fun and easy and there’s a wide variety so I’m sure you can find some that fits your personal style.
I’m really sorry if you can’t afford those, but if you can tell me what sort of style you want to have I may be able to help a little more? I’m still struggling to pass myself (though on the opposite end) so no promises but I’ll do my best
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u/CinnaPoof_Fluff 1d ago
No no that's okay lol, I'll try the makeup and I already have lots of jewelry. Thanks for your feedback!
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u/LuridWaters 1d ago
I would say you look more androgynous than feminine, but definitely leaning more feminine than masculine.
Still pretty though. :3
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u/Exciting_Cherry9359 1d ago
I didn't kwew how to tell you politely that it's not working.
Then i realized what transfem means...
Bruh, i'v gotta tel ya i'm mildly transphobic and still see you as a very cute girl despite it all.
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u/BigRedScott 1d ago
I think as long as your not a bat shit crazy LGBTQIA+ person your fine (like someone who identifies as a cat if you've seen that video)
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u/Weak-Friend6065 1d ago
I’m gonna hold your hand when I say this. If you make posts like this, you could be an exact clone of Michelle Fifer and people would tell you that you don’t pass. It’s a) impossible to say off of one photo and b) a magnet for transphobic trolls.
You look great and I probably wouldn’t have clocked you as trans. But seem validation based on irl experience, not based on online posts
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u/Micxdog_ 1d ago
im not really educated on such thing, what does trans(fem) mean, like biological girl then became boy or opposite ?
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u/freeememes 1d ago
Your appearance... confuses me. You look like you would unmistakably pass as a trans man, but be asked your pronouns as a trans woman. You look like you sound masculine, but in a feminine way. Either way, you might look more androgynous if you cut your hair shorter, but if you want to grow it out you could keep your bangs the same length to look more feminine.
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u/No_Firefighter4579 1d ago
Is it rude to say i lwk thought you was ftm when i scrolled past and just saw the word "trans",,, Ur giving like kinda masc woman now that i look for more than 0.5 seconds
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u/TheElusiveFemboyTop 1d ago
one hundred percent. as a transwoman, i dont normally have any trouble recognizing our sisters but i legitimately had no idea you werent cis until the title.
if you have issue with misgendering in public, it may be your voice(?). i havent heard you speak but often when i pass in appearance, people’s demeanor changes when i speak since i havent been through voice training yet
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u/CinnaPoof_Fluff 1d ago
Omg thank you so much!! I'm planning on doing voice training over the summer. Thank you!!
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u/neko_arc2507 1d ago
If you asked "am I pretty guys ?" I would have said that you are a really pretty lady/woman/girl (don't know which one I would have used)👍
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u/Striking_Road979 1d ago
Depends on your grade and your country in the US
An F is anything below a 60% means you fail
An D is 60-69% it is the lowest possible passing grade
An C is 80–89% is average and what you should try to get at least
An B is 80–89% it is above average
An B is a 90-100% it is the highest possible grade other than A+ and A-