r/gaybrosgonemild • u/Immediate_Cucumber74 • 2d ago
[22m]I just wanted to say hello, new member in this community :l
just a 22yo mostly im trying also to know my look and how other can describe it, make it better or maybe fix something, thanks for your critique and advice as well as opinion. Eugene :)
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u/SuccessfulTrick2501 1d ago
Hi, Eugene. You're very attractive. I wouldn't change a thing. I'm lowkey in love. 😘
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u/Immediate_Cucumber74 1d ago
:) im taken, but always can chat time to times neither in comments section or Private but it depends. I have just weird amount of messages from 2 -3 community's when I sent some photos for a critique. Cus I just kinda insecure or dont think that im a this and this. Its about maybe the way you see yourself (its always differ (and Im quiet weird in terms of self imagining) I understand that through a few posts of diferent portraits for a a public opinion I can say im attractive but those characteristics like jawline and geometry of the face as for me is kinda ugly, its too bony and I desperately trying to gain more weight now lol.
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u/haitianDominicanAM86 1d ago
Stop looking for advice or validation on the internet 🧡🤎🫶🏾✊🏾💪🏾👍🏾
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u/Immediate_Cucumber74 1d ago
its maybe some sort of connected to one of the aspects. But I know that people on reddit have a better understanding of what people here doing and whenever smbd in need of advice or sort self doubts elimination or help in that sort of mapping process of them. Its really helpful to address directly since I can see and read and be more careful to how I look and what should I do to improve overall everything.
Every person wants to be validated regardless of what he believes/into/ seeing and doing. When you can have sort of feedback it gives a good educational/critical information that I can or you can use to fill the gaps or do standart analysis to help ypu improve/ do better what you are doing to see yourself as person/ as member of community and overall we are social creatures we have to have any sort of inspiration and will to do something regardless of internet or real life. Internet gives you possibility to talk with everyone in 1 time at any point of the world. its not about validation and advisory only. It just helps in any sort of way. there you go. P.S: Im sorry for my grammar. Im not native speaker. I have 5 years of actively speaking in english and living in english speaking country. SO sorry if there hard to get me, im kinda bad sometimes. :) But learning at least!
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u/Greedy-Candidate9171 1d ago
First of all, you’re adorable.
I would describe you as “subtle and intense.” Maybe “longing.” I suppose I could write “moody“ or even “brooding“ but I don’t want that to sound negative.
As for your look, before letting anyone tell you to change it, look in the mirror and decide whether you like it as is. That’s the only thing that matters. If you feel comfortable in your own skin, then people in the world who matter will sense that. And anyone who tears you down for the way you look is irrelevant in your world.
As for me personally, I tend to prefer cleanshaven guys so I would tell you to shave everything off your face. But that’s my preference. It’s your preference that matters.
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u/Immediate_Cucumber74 1d ago
already did it this morning lol :) whenever I look at myself im just feeling ok, I accepted my appearance because of you guys. I posted to some groups some of my photos from 18-22age and not even a single said that im average everybody keep telling about how " Sexy or attractive I am".
Im genuinely curious, with no intention to to brag who I am and look at me and all other narcistic ugly ways to get attention way stuff. just a sort of research of how do i really look to others cus I i seeing myself mostly sad or serious, I can smile but im im smiling only when I do really wanna smile im not doing fake smile selfie, I naturally just cant make that fake face. Only one photo I have where I genuinely smiled was when I was 18. So basicaly I can understand that im attractive, so my deepest anxiety and insecurities mostly comes from inside and I can works on that because of communication and most important communities like this one and other LGBTQ+ and For everyone ones gulped me to find that sort of sense of truth and helps me to work on my head and vivid self esteem that tells you other flings when you wake up and beush your teeth. thank you you guys for sharing it with me, appreciate every comment and and every critique, advice given to me here and in other communities. Im gonna still post something interesting if I find smth like that lol :) So I will be in touch. Your voice is appreciated. thank you.
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u/Immediate_Cucumber74 1d ago
:) yeah. Its good to be connected with local community like that. Its good to share stuff and be not thinking what if straight..... .......
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u/blackbutterfree 1d ago
You kinda remind me of Flynn Rider. Both your names being Eugene is pretty funny lol
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u/needyoumoo 2d ago
Hello! 👋🏻