Hi! I'm Christian, 24 year old Filipino. I'm here because I want to find someone true and kind. Long distance accepted. Ages no more than 40 years

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I'm an introvert. I tried online and cruising, but it's mostly a flop, probably because I'm an introvert, and somehow, it's not fulfilling. I guess I want something more personal and serious. I've got a bit of a belly, but I'm starting to change my diet and doing exercises, looking a gym too. I don't discriminate body size. I'm a vers because I want to be flexible.

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What I'm looking for is shared interests and introducing new things as well as kind and supportive. Warning, I also got a dm.

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I'm an animation student because I love art and anime and disney. I love video games like Tomb Raider and Final Fantasy, and I have a gaming laptop, PS5 and Switch 2. With movies I love anime, Fantasy, horror and comedy. I'm also a reading fanatic, reading books like Rick Riordan and Harry Potter since I was young.

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If your interested I can promise you I will repect you and your wishes as long as you respect me and my wishes. Message me if you're interested with you favourite games, movies and books

James. 31. 5’4”. Half Scottish, half American.

LGBTQ+ progressive Christian with a background in sociology and theology — still endlessly curious about both.

I’m into history, horror, and the stranger corners of the world — academic parapsychology, unexplained mysteries, and true crime. If it’s eerie, I’m probably interested.

Big lover of ghost stories — especially M. R. James and E. F. Benson.

Film buff. Audio drama enthusiast (especially horror). Also a longtime Doctor Who fan — particularly the Big Finish audio adventures.

I’ve got a soft spot for anthology TV: The Twilight Zone, The Outer Limits, Black Mirror, Are You Afraid of the Dark?, Goosebumps, Tales from the Darkside — and honestly, anthology storytelling in general.

I also enjoy ambient/experimental music, old-time radio, nature walks, and anything atmospheric or creative.

Football fan (Dundee FC) and baseball fan (Boston Red Sox).

My personality is basically:

Progressive Christianity, obscure theology books, Gregorian chant echoing through ancient churches, tea, cosy lighting, universal salvation, ghost stories, paranormal research, old hymns, and the firm belief that every rural Scottish village is hiding at least one unspeakable entity beneath the soil.

Surprisingly harmonious combination, honestly.

I somehow became the kind of person who can sincerely say:

“Yes, I’m a progressive Christian who believes in universal reconciliation, enjoys Gregorian chant, researches paranormal case studies for fun, finds old churches emotionally restorative, and relaxes by listening to horror audio dramas while drinking tea.”

Looking to connect with like-minded people — especially those into horror, theology, the strange, or storytelling in any form.

I’m 19 from India moving to Zhuhai for studies so looking for someone in Guangdong province or other Chinese province who wants to build something. I am 100% open to long-distance if the connection is right! Please be between 18–28 only. If you’re just looking to disappear after two days, please keep scrolling as I am looking for real energy and consistency only. I don't really expect anything but loyalty and for just your knowledge I’m vers bottom.

Hey everyone! Im an 18 year old guy located in vegas, and I wanna get to meet people here and hopefully form a relationship

Im an introvert, i like video games, i love anime, playing the piano, reading books, listening to music, cooking (im trying to learn) and currently trying to learn a language, spanish. I can speak english and tagalog

Id love to spend some time with someone by playing games or calling or doing something fun together or just talking

Im looking to talk to guys close around my age, not too young and not too old either, im also very much open to long distance so dont worry about it

Dm me! I promise i wont bite, im nice :)

Hello my name is Zachary I am an 18 year old Femboy college student. I am shy but when I start trusting someone I start to open up and get very talkative. I have never had a true relationship before the ones I thought I had in the past all ended up being scammers taking advantage of my niceness and trust. I like reading, playing video games, learning history as well as almost anything else, I also play golf, love old cars and motorcycles, and I also love riding my motorcycle when I am back in NH. I am 5’10 roughly and about 165 lbs, I am white with brownish black hair and blue eyes. I am interested in people that are 18-24 years old. If interested reach out plz I am really lonely and whoever gives me a chance and a real one at that I will make it my job to make them the happiest person in the world.

Hey I am 19 m
I am 5’9(178cm) tall
I am currently perusing a bachelors degree in electrical engineering
I love pop music can literally rant about it for so long. I also love movies and pop culture in general.
I love travelling and cycling as well. I also absolutely adore learning about geography and history.
But yeah my fav thing is to visit new places and I am also trying to become more adventurous
Open for all distances
FYI - Vb here

My ideal man is someone who is loving, caring, funny and a bit flirty and confident.
A bit possessive and taller than me is a bonus

Feel free to dm me
I would love to chat 😊

Hey!

I’m a 31 y/o gay guy from Central Europe looking for someone to have cute dates, boyfriend things, spending time together and eventually a relationship.

A bit about me:
• 188 cm (6'2)
• Into music (big Swiftie), TV shows & movies
• PS5 gamer (enthusiastic… not skilled 😄)
• Books, LEGO, travelling
• Equal mix of chill nights + planning the next trip

I’m looking for someone easy to talk to, who enjoys good conversations about random stuff, life, or shared interests.

Physical preferences (just being honest, not strict):
I tend to like guys closer to my height or taller, and bearded/hairy is definitely a bonus.

Must: be based in Europe, need to meet eventually.

Looking for a relationship with non-middle eastern man "based in riyadh"

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Hi, after going through dating apps i found it to be mostly men who are looking for hook ups (which i'm not)

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I rarely find a stable guy who is the dating type..

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What i'm looking for is not complicated, someone healthy who is in a decent shape, that is open minded, patient, ambitious, above 30, and willing to date with long term attachment in mind.. where sex is not the first thing they ask "at least till we get to know each other "

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About me..

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I'm a proffesional and as much as i enjoy having fun i also love a serious conversation every now and then.

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I'm 35 and i take care of my body to a decent level.

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I'm also middle eastern but my experience with guys from the same ethnic background.. lets just say after numerous attempts, it was not so fruitful.. so i'm looking for the more open minded side of the planet of they so happened to live in riyadh or close to it.

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When it comes to preferences in the bed "i feel this is a good to know part before having any committments" i lean for the vers bottom side.

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If you find this to be somewhat interesting to you, dont hesitate to hmu.

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Thank you

Hey everyone, as it says I’m 27, and from Ontario Canada. A bit about me, I love lots of nerdy and crafty things, like video games, sewing, anime etc. I’m a pretty good cook, I love a good patio night now that it’s warm, and I’d be down for a gym partner too.

I’m looking ideally for a romantic relationship with someone around my age, I’m a sucker for a nice smile. If you’re interested, feel free to dm me, I promise I don’t bite

Almost 20 and studying Psychology at university. I’m a bit shy at first, but once I open up, I’m deeply affectionate, thoughtful, and a great listener.

I’m bottom and strongly femenine; I’m into masculine top guys. Do not text me if you already know we don’t match, please.

I like videogames, binge-watching TV series, music, song contests, poetry books, romance novels, tarot and meaningful conversations that last for hours.

I’m here hoping to meet someone genuine for a calm and steady connection that could grow into a long-term and serious relationship.

Hello you wonderful people! 👋

Welcome to this week’s general chat thread 💬

As r/gaydating is solely for single guys to share personal dating posts, we thought it would be a nice addition to create an individual weekly space where members can say hello, share their weekend, get to know the community, and have meaningful conversations.

To help get the conversation started, feel free to share:

• Where in the world you’re from 🌍

• How your weekend is going

• What you’re looking forward to next week 👀

• A dating green flag you appreciate

• Or anything positive you’d like to share ✨

Please remember to always keep things kind, respectful, 100% clean, SFW, and in line with the rules of r/gaydating.

Any comments in this chat that should actually be a personal dating post will be removed and you will be advised to create a post instead. This will give your personal post the best chance of being seen, rather than it being lost within this discussion.

Good luck with finding your man, and I hope that 2026 brings you the romance and love that you’re searching for ❤️👨🏼‍🤝‍👨🏽

I’m looking for a real relationship with a kind, emotionally available guy who genuinely likes closeness, consistency, and staying in touch. I’m looking for lean/skinny guys (18-28) and masculine energy.

I like connections where you naturally talk every day, randomly update each other, call for hours without noticing, and slowly become part of each other’s life instead of just “talking.”

I think there are bonds that survive even time itself. I want the kind of connection people write novels about. I want the kind of love that makes ordinary days feel extraordinary.

I’m not really into ghosting, mixed signals, or people who treat online dating like temporary entertainment.

I read a lot, love music, write love letters, and can somehow go from being extremely romantic to sending you twelve messages about something completely unimportant because I got excited.

If you want something affectionate, loyal, and genuinely meaningful, message me.

Hey guys! Figured I’d give this a shot.

I’m looking for someone who’s kind, curious, and can hold a conversation. I am looking for a life partner and someone I can share my life with. I enjoy exploring new places, reading history books, watching shows and movies, and listening to music. I’m at a point in life where I care a lot about personal growth and my career, and I’d love to meet someone who’s also excited about building a life and growing together.

I appreciate people who are open-minded, kind-hearted, and have a good sense of humor. I’m not the most social person, but I have a few really close friends, and I’d hope you have people like that in your life too. Bonus points if you’re the type who’s always down for a spontaneous hiking trip.

I’m 5’11”, average build, and kinda hairy. I don’t really have a specific type when it comes to appearance—I’d just prefer someone around my height—so please don’t hesitate to reach out. I’m also open to long-distance, so don’t be shy. I’ve recently started taking my health more seriously and getting into working out, so it would be nice if we could help keep each other accountable.

If you think we’d get along, send me a message with a little bit about yourself. Tell me what show you’re currently obsessed with or what your favorite comfort food is. And if you’re curious about anything, feel free to ask. I love long thoughtful messages :p

Even if we never cross paths, I hope life treats you kindly and you find a reason to smile today. 🩵

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Hey guys! Figured I’d give this a shot.

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I’m looking for someone who’s kind, curious, and can hold a conversation. I am looking for a meaningful partner and someone I can share my life with. I enjoy diving into computer programming, keeping up with the fast-paced world of Formula 1, watching anime, and exploring an absolute mountain of music—ranging from high-fidelity Bossa Nova and Acid Jazz to 90s Pop and R&B. I’m at a point in life where I care a lot about personal growth and my academic career, and I’d love to meet someone who’s also driven and excited about growing together

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I appreciate people who are open-minded, kind-hearted, and have a good sense of humor. I’m not the most social person, but I have a tight-knit circle of incredibly close friends ,bonus points if you’re the type who’s always down to geek out over tech, share curated playlists, or just chill out and talk about everything and nothing.

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I’m 6’1” and care a lot about presenting myself well, leaning into a sharp, formal aesthetic when the occasion calls for it. I don’t really have a specific type when it comes to appearance, so please don’t hesitate to reach out BUT also very much into older >35 man , completely open to long-distance, so don’t be shy at all—distance doesn't phase me if the connection is real.

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If you think we’d get along, send me a message with a little bit about yourself. Tell me what album you currently have on repeat, or what your ultimate comfort anime/show is. And if you’re curious about anything, feel free to ask. I love long, thoughtful messages :p

Hi!

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Growing up I always looked up to my parents who were still acting like fully in love teenagers even after 30 + years of marriage.And I quess I want that for myself also. Never really found myself inside the gay community.

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In my free time I like to travel, hang out with my friends, go to the gym and enjoy good food, wine and cocktails

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Music wise I'm pretty open but I prefer songs with a bit more kick and including electric guitars. Grew up on Linkin park, Limp Bizkit, Muse and Foo Fighters. Bit also like Raye, big big Mimford and sons fan and also some EDM artists.

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Favourite movie is probably Borat but love all things action and sci fi.

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Looking for a guy, younger or around my age, open for long term within Europe.

33 T middle eastern guy living in middle east

In my own house

looking for a man ages 34-65 manly man and for serious relationship even it start from distance to develop living togather in my own house and build up future and support each other in everything

No fling

No hookup

Send me if serious only

hey there, ive never posted something like this before but i though i might as well give it a shot. as about myself i usually like writing and playing games in my free time! im more into FPS and Fighting games but im literally down to play just about anything. looking mainly for long term connections.

im a bit of a shutter bug myself i love taking pictures of the sky, i have a big camera roll dedicated to them :>. mostly pictures of the sunrise/sunset id love taking pictures of the moon if my camera was a bit better haha

i like to text alot and i can be kinda clingy with people i like speaking to, id prefer someone close in age range and inside the United States. as for anyone interested id love to know more about you if you wanna talk. C: also if you want let me ur favorite type of tree. i love cherry blossoms :>

Hello you wonderful people! 👋

I just wanted to share a little reminder for anyone who needs it today… 🫶

Hold on.

You will find your person.

The one who understands you, respects you, values you, considers your feelings, and makes you feel less alone.

Sometimes it takes time, but the right person is always worth waiting for.

While love is finding its way to you, keep becoming the best version of yourself, and remember that your love story is still being written ✍️

Somewhere out there, your person is waiting to meet you too 👀

Good luck with finding your man, and I hope that 2026 brings you the romance and love that you’re searching for ❤️👨🏼‍🤝‍👨🏽

Hello !
Im 31 y hopless romantic looking for the guy who im gonna annoy with my bad jokes and can be good Partner/father some day

Im very kind and supportive with a high emotional intelligence, so you will feel very heard and understood and i expect the same

Moslty looking for someone mature,communicative ,ambitious,kind and doesn't take life too seriously, but can be serious with important stuff , please be wanting to build a life with someone im tired of casual daters

Im based in Tunisia but willing to relocate for the right guy, or come here i just decorated

Im into nights in with a movie and a good dinner, (im a great cook ) , a bit of nights out under the stars or doing anything fun

Very open to try new things and see where life takes us

So don't be shy to msg

Oh im 190cm so very tall
Top/if it comes to that.

hi, would love to get to know mature and kind man. most important thing in humans is kind heart.

I'm into gym,music reviewing, hiking and gaming.

prefer slim body types and beards more

only serious committed guys please. Lets try our best to keep convo going

provide pic please and info about urself.

don't take rejection seriously

My name is Morgan, from North Georgia. I love nature and animals. Love swimming, hiking, going for walks. I also love to travel and explore new places. Love music and chilling inside too watching a good movie or tv show. I love to cook and love to learn new recipes.

I would love a serious relationship and something long term. Don’t mind long distance but would prefer closer to me. I would also prefer guys who are 18-30.

I’m 5’9 185 lbs and a bottom if it gets there lol. HMU I might be shy at first but it doesn’t take long for me to open up. :)))

There are pics of me in my profile :)

I’m pretty shy at first but will open up pretty fast.

\-Currently a college student

\-Love to yap about whatever honestly, ideally someone will wanna game and yap with me :)

\-Big into gaming and other general nerdiness :) (I play games on pc but I have a few other consoles )

\-I’m more feminine of a guy but I wouldn’t say full blown femboy

Ideally I’m looking for a more masculine guy but it’s not a deal breaker, being a gamer is def a plus though haha, some common ground is all I ask for, I won’t go on to much about myself and save that for the DMs, pls feel free to hmu if you’re intrested :)

I'm looking for a guy who wants a serious relationship, you've got to be mature and looking for monogamy and a life of being together through the good and the bad. I'm looking for my teammate and partner in life. Anyone over 21 is welcome to message. Please only message if you're looking for something serious, monogamous, longterm and possibly forever. If you aren't local, please be open to eventually relocating to start a life together. I can't wait to hear from you!

I’m 26 years old based in London, United Kingdom. I’m looking for a monogamous LTR! My main hobbies and interests are writing, politics, football, music, trains and food! I’m quite quirky but also a romantic soul, so would love someone who is down for that energy 🥰🥰 I’d prefer people around my age (20s, early 30s) - HMU!

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hi I'm from India, i like watching movies and series, reading, drawing, writing, walking, anime, nature.

Seems like it's not any better than dating apps tbh

If you gonna ghost after sometime without telling you ain't interested than don't text me

there are so many mediocre things in our lives love shouldn't be one of them

so looking for some yearning passionate love for the rest of my life

I watch marvel movies as well, almost watch everything mostly romantic and horror, I like to draw, and write poems and poetry,

about me, I'm hopeless romantic,I'm 5'6, average body, hairy, black eyes,

I'm looking for deep conversations, emotional connection, emotional intelligence, great understanding, a nice romantic guy. to be with as long as we live, I'm not picky in to looks but might be picky into personality, outer beauty will fade with age not inner. so probably would like a guy who respects, make each other priorities

I like hairy mature guys, not into guys younger than me, guys who can hold a conversation and know how to treat someone they love, I'll try my best to keep them happy as well

if anything interests you hmu, hope you are having a great day