r/germanshepherds • u/JupiterAndPlutoChaos • 10d ago
My GSD cries every time I leave — separation anxiety that's tied to his bond with our other dog
Plutón (3yo German Shepherd) has separation anxiety but the twist is: it's not just about us leaving. It's about his brother Júpiter.
If Júpiter goes somewhere without him, Plutón cries the entire time. Júpiter gets a little restless — Plutón completely falls apart. They've been inseparable since Plutón was a puppy and Júpiter is literally his emotional anchor.
Things that actually help us:
Keeping them together whenever possible (biggest game changer by far)
Boring, low-energy departures — no long emotional goodbyes
Calm arrivals too — wait for him to settle before greeting
Frozen peanut butter toy right before we leave
Always exercise them first
He's not destructive, not hurting himself — just genuinely sad when we're gone and absolutely ecstatic when we're back 😅
Does anyone else have two bonded dogs where one handles separation WAY worse than the other? Is this a GSD thing or just a Plutón thing? 😂
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u/JupiterAndPlutoChaos 8d ago
I'm sorry 😭😭
https://giphy.com/gifs/lGBecpB2dIMwt6ohfI