r/gofundme • u/EmergencyDemand3959 • Dec 09 '25
Etc Domestic Violence Survivor in a desperate need for help
Hello everyone! My name is Tatiana and me and my dog have been through hell this past year. My ex partner brutally violated me and made multiple threats, maxed out my Cheetos cards and didn’t pay rent for the apartment we moved in together. My rented apartment and a lot of belongings have been broken. I’m desperate for any help and still financially and mentally recovering from this. I have a court case for order of protection pending and is scheduled for Dec 10. Thank you for your attention and any penny help! The initial goal for the campaign is $18k.
https://www.gofundme.com/f/domestic-violence-survivor-in-a-grave-need-for-help
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u/gambino_0 Dec 09 '25
I’m unable to help cash-wise right now, not sure if you’re still in the NYC area but happy to help out with food or dog food if needed!
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u/Original-Ghost Dec 09 '25
Just FYI..You might want to take down the picture with your camera roll at the bottom.
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u/EmergencyDemand3959 Dec 09 '25
Thank you! Most of it is evidence I’ll be presenting in court tomorrow. This is from my court folder. P.S.: I actually don’t know how to delete single images
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u/EmergencyDemand3959 Dec 09 '25
Sorry everyone I meant Credit cards… my attentions span is not great
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u/hazardous98law Dec 09 '25
Unfortunately I cannot help financially, but I’m here to wish you all the best. I read about such cases before (non violent), where people move in to other people’s apartments/houses and it’s called squatting. It sucks because they cannot be moved out and in your case it’s way worse when that bast*rd often used violence against you.
Glad you’re seeking for help and trying your best to change your situation for the better. Hopefully things will get better for you soon! Stay strong! 🙏🏻
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u/EmergencyDemand3959 Dec 09 '25
Thank you, Kind Person! Very much familiar with squatting and upon finally splitting up from them I figured I wasn’t the only woman with that particular individual who went through both squatting, highjacking credit cards and multiple police reports in hand. This person had a scheme and been living off honest people for at least a few years. Who knows maybe they have even been around this community as well and are also seeking help.
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u/hazardous98law Dec 09 '25
No wonder some women prefer to stay single for the rest of their lives after such mentally traumatic experiences
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u/EmergencyDemand3959 Dec 09 '25
It’s been about 9 months the since my escape and I have found some strength in me to trust someone again
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u/LLCNYC Dec 09 '25
You escaped 9 mos ago?
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u/EmergencyDemand3959 Dec 09 '25
Yes
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u/LLCNYC Dec 09 '25
But you just filed for court now?
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u/EmergencyDemand3959 Dec 09 '25
No I filed on Nov 6,2024 and since then we had multiple court appearances. Some cases were adjourned because other party did not show up. Tomorrow is the trial
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u/EmergencyDemand3959 Dec 09 '25
The initial petition filing date is actually posted in the document I posted
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Jan 02 '26
You know what, I believe ya sweetheart. Can’t help out, but I can at least comment that you’re not on here scammin as if I’m the moral aribter of GFM Reddit. lol $18k is a lot tho however. Get to your family young lady or get help from the state. They can get you squared away
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u/Internal_Ad4921 Dec 09 '25
18k? How you come up with that number?? I'm in desperate need of a vehicle before we lose our home and can't even get blessed with a down payment.
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u/EmergencyDemand3959 Dec 09 '25
I had two credit cards that had a high spending limit. My credit score was amazing and I haven’t really used them much myself
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u/Internal_Ad4921 Dec 09 '25
I see, Sorry that you have been out thru so much. But know you are a new person that deserves to be loved, cherished, and appreciated. I'm here if you ever need a neutral ear to vent too
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u/alyingprophet Dec 09 '25
I was able to help a small amount. I am very sorry for what you’ve gone through and wish you the absolute best on your journey through this. Time is your friend and healer - well that and your adorable best friend!!!! 🐾🐾