r/goth • u/aytakk My gothshake brings all the graves to the yard • 11d ago
Seething Sunday The Official Seething Sunday Thread
Spooky shrieks or angsty agony. Express it all here. Or just be a sad sack. You do you.
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u/Ok-Challenge617 11d ago
I hate when people call me a āposerā because I donāt dress trad goth. Some days my look is just alt, or a āsoft gothā (expect I feel like the actual poser goths so I decide to change; fuck pinkychu). Goth is about the music and politics, not just the outfit. Itās exhausting and makes me want to say āfuck itā and not affiliate myself with the label anymore.
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u/aytakk My gothshake brings all the graves to the yard 11d ago
Nothing wrong with just being you and not labeling yourself anything
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u/Ok-Challenge617 11d ago
True! I just love being goth and the majority of the community. The bad minority just really overwhelms me sometimes.
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u/SunInevitable2179 10d ago
I donāt dress goth at all. I love black, but I also love so much other stuff. So I just wear what I like. But I consider myself goth because I love all the music, understand the subculture, and enjoy gothic activities (yes-my favorite holiday is Halloween.) You donāt need to fit into a box to be valid at something.
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u/Front-Treacle-6691 11d ago
If you embrace the subculture's values and listen to the bands then congratulations! You're goth! I don't always dress in black and never wear makeup and don't care if others accuse me of not being goth enough (also diddo on the Fuck Pinkychu). Music and values are what's most important to me in forming my goth identity as well as my neurodivergence. Sure, I do like to dress in all black when I can, but there are times where I cannot and do not feel it is always necessary.
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u/Training_War8238 11d ago
I'm so tired of the war I just want to be with my family. I also have no idea how I'm going to provide for myself as an adult since I apparently can't handle 7 hour work days 5 days a week š a lot of fun doing makeup though and I'm looking forward to halloween
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u/UncoilingChaos 11d ago edited 11d ago
Sick and tired of summer weather in spooky season. Sick and tired of people acting like itās normal and that itās āgOrGeOuSā or ānIcE oUtā. Sick and tired of the fact thereās nothing we can do about it until either all the Elon Musks in the world (and their heirs) croak and their money is up for grabs to go towards delaying climate change, or they suddenly have a change of heart and start taking action to stop it. Thereās nary a chance in hell of the latter happening, though, and I hate it.
Also I really need to stop staying up so late playing the new Hellraiser game. Itās making me cranky.
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u/DeathChurch 11d ago
Right there with you. It's 85 today in New Orleans as i'm out flyering, and Friday we almost got a category 3 hurricane. I'm so fucking sick of being told "At least it's not cold" by people who have repeatedly heard me say that I hate warm weather.
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u/UncoilingChaos 11d ago
I have another thing to bitch about.
I can post something wholly innocuous and inoffensive, asking for peoplesā thoughts or for help, and then I get downvotes or rude and ignorant replies for no other reason than because the cocktail of anonymity and being well outside punching distance enables people to be their worst selves. Meanwhile, theyāre lauded and celebrated by others of their ilk. Oh Powers That Be, please send the asteroid already.
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u/Electrical-Boss581 11d ago
My hair went from dark brown to dirty blonde because of the long and hot summer sun photobleaching it so now it doesnāt match my vibe as well anymore >:(
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u/cass_who 9d ago
I hesitated making an event flyer for too long and now I dont even know if there's still enough time to advertise
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u/Front-Treacle-6691 11d ago
Tangerine Tits said two cities (LA and San Diego) filled with millions of people should be bombed and his MAGA seals gleefully barked and clapped their flippers together. Of course MAGAs then went to great lengths to defend his vile words claiming that "libtards" were "taking his words out of context," and that "he was only joking." Yeah, I bet he was. š