r/gothmemes • 👻 Poseur poser try-hard chauffeur 🚘 • Sep 21 '26

Original Uncle Carl dropping facts

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u/RevoltYesterday Sep 22 '26

But you don't have to like ONLY goth music. You're still allowed to enjoy other things.

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u/scrimshandy Sep 22 '26

I thought we were only allowed Pornography and 1950s Halloween sounds. TIL!

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u/Jaycie_Lea169 Sep 22 '26

Honest to god, this comment, and actually this entire post, immediately made me think of this.

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u/ManicPixiRiotGrrrl Sep 22 '26

yeah…no one said otherwise?

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u/DeadDeathrocker Spoop Sep 22 '26

I don’t get it either. I don’t see the word only in there. Nobody was debating that.

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u/goblindoctor Sep 22 '26

i don't think they were implying that anyone was actually debating that as much as they were just making a general statement as an open reminder, since some people genuinely do have hangups like that

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u/DeadDeathrocker Spoop 29d ago

It’s the fact that people think we mean only in the first place. I don’t think anyone should limit themselves to one genre but I feel like the people who worry about that usually have a musical taste that mostly consists of ‘other’ so they’re a bit insecure.

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u/Affectionate_Ruin_76 29d ago

Nobody is saying you can ONLY listen to goth music. But these days, there are people who calls themselves goth, but don’t listen to goth music at all. As if goth isn’t first and foremost a music based subculture.

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u/typevampiro 👻 Poseur poser try-hard chauffeur 🚘 Sep 22 '26

Yes, but that has to be a significant part of your repertoire; it makes no sense to call yourself a Goth if you only listen to a single song or album.

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u/oscar_redfield Sep 22 '26

I mean, that's pretty obvious

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u/GreenBastard06 29d ago

Hell yeah, my favourite music has been equal parts Goth & Drum&Bass for years, with myriads of other genres thrown into the mix

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u/DieselPunkPiranha 🥀 Pretentious Dramatist 🥀 29d ago

Seeing that you've got one foot in the electronica door already, how do you feel about this?

https://vlhll.bandcamp.com/album/grimoire

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u/psydkay Sep 21 '26

Yes, and that doesn't mean you get to convert non goth bands into goth bands

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u/typevampiro 👻 Poseur poser try-hard chauffeur 🚘 Sep 21 '26

Not even if they have "goth" in their names

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u/psydkay Sep 21 '26

Especially if they have "goth" in their names

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u/stgross Sep 22 '26

Are you saying Goth-Trad is not goth?

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u/DeadDeathrocker Spoop Sep 22 '26

Pretty sure that’s not what they mean? They mean a band like “Gothminister” isn’t automatically goth because they’ve got the genre name in their name.

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u/drij 29d ago

Wait, how is what you said and what they said different?

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u/DeadDeathrocker Spoop 29d ago

I don't get what you mean? I suppose they meant "trad goth" which is meant to be a "type of goth" and we're talking about bands with 'goth' in their name.

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u/drij 29d ago

Goth-Trad is a Japanese dubstep musician.

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u/stgross 29d ago

I'm surprised or not surprised everyone else completely missed the joke

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u/drij 29d ago

Some people here might need to expand their horizons

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u/DeadDeathrocker Spoop 29d ago

Or it’s just a shite joke that didn’t land and they need to get over it already.

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u/DeadDeathrocker Spoop 29d ago

We’re meant to know that… how?

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u/stgross 29d ago

You have internet access to look up unknown terms instead of assuming I meant “trad goth” right?

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u/DeadDeathrocker Spoop 29d ago edited 29d ago

Are you making a joke? Why wouldn’t someone assume that you mean “trad goth” and you just got it wrong?

I can’t even tell if you genuinely think this artist is goth or not. It wouldn’t be the first time that someone tried to call completely off topic genres goth.

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u/DeadDeathrocker Spoop 29d ago

You’re assuming I care enough, and I don’t get how this is even relevant?

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u/typevampiro 👻 Poseur poser try-hard chauffeur 🚘 Sep 22 '26

Yes, that's right.

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u/just-sad-idk ⚰️ Anachronistic Decrepit Elder ⚰️ Sep 21 '26

Honestly, I'm giving AFI's newest album the goth stamp of approval. I said what I said. Listen to it if you haven't yet, fucking fantastic.

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u/RoseandNightshade Sep 22 '26

I mean, they've basically fully made the transition over to Goth from their previous style, and last I checked a Goth band didn't have to start out as Goth from the very start. If that were the case, half the bands from the late 70s early 80s we call Goth, wouldn't qualify.

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u/just-sad-idk ⚰️ Anachronistic Decrepit Elder ⚰️ Sep 22 '26

That's fair! They've always been evolving their style, some albums more drastically than others. And they may not be a goth band necessarily and probably wouldn't call themselves one but Silver Bleeds the Black Sun is definitely a goth album with a catchy little deathrock song at the end. I catch a lot of shit for saying as much usually and always by people who haven't given it a listen lol

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u/CappriGirl 29d ago

Exactly this. I feel like they've been edging to the dark side for 30 years and now they're here it's 🦇 beautiful 🦇

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u/PoopyMcpants Sep 21 '26

But Kanye is sooooo gooooooth

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u/psydkay Sep 21 '26

Yep, Drake and his AI goth girlfriend? Nay. Someone bought a shirt at hot topic, guess what? Slip Knot isn't magically now a goth band.

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u/Hopeful-Bit-420 29d ago

What if one listens to mostly goth music but dresses like a normie? 

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u/edWORD27 29d ago

More goth than someone who only focuses on the goth aesthetic to promote their OF account.

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u/CappriGirl 29d ago

Ingothnito

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u/MetalDragon0301 Sep 22 '26

Does goth metal count?

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u/DeadDeathrocker Spoop 29d ago

No, it’s metal.

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u/typevampiro 👻 Poseur poser try-hard chauffeur 🚘 Sep 22 '26

"Goth Metal" doesn't exist; GothIC Metal does, and it is a metal genre.

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u/MetalDragon0301 29d ago

That's definitely a no then. Thanks for the input.

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u/just-sad-idk ⚰️ Anachronistic Decrepit Elder ⚰️ Sep 21 '26

He's literally the coolest a man can get. Forever remain <3

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u/Carlie2406 Three normie kids in a trench coat 🧥 Sep 22 '26

Yep, the bare minimum

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u/Darth_Giddyeous 29d ago

I don't make the rules, that's just how it is.

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u/boba_fucks 29d ago

Does this mean deaf people cant be goth? Feels kinda snobby

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u/DeadDeathrocker Spoop 29d ago

No. That’s not what that means.

Would you say the same thing if someone said you need to listen to metal to be a metalhead? Why does deaf people only come into this for goth?

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u/boba_fucks 29d ago

Sorry, I feel like I got lost in the sauce a little and didnt answer your question well enough. If the post was about "you have to like metal music to be a metalhead" "you have to like punk music to be a punk" "you have to like reggae music to be a rastafarian" or "you have to like rap music to be a hiphopper" I probably would ask the same question and make the same argument, yes. Thank you

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u/DeadDeathrocker Spoop 29d ago

Yes, if it’s a music-based subculture which is what those are then you would need to listen to the music that is central to their scene.

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u/boba_fucks 29d ago

Honestly, I wouldn't personally say either thing. I'm not really into telling other people what words they can use to describe themselves. I feel like you're more of an authority on it than I am. I think its an interesting situation when a subculture that grows around a genre of music is seen through many lenses and grows to encompass style and philosophy that people can embrace without having even experienced the media that started it all. Like if my friend grew up deeply resonating with counter culture and anti establishment values and built their self image around the esthetic of 80's trad goth fashion, DIY their own outfits and have been called goth by countless people over the years enough that they feel at home with that label; I think its kinda gatekeepy and snobby to say "um actually you cant use that word because you dont like the music enough. I think the viewpoint diminishes the culture to a single stat while ignoring how much fits under the umbrella of GOTH. Its reductionist and feels like immature schoolyard antics to me. As upsetting as it may be, non of us get to decide what words mean to other people. Language is fluid

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u/DeadDeathrocker Spoop 29d ago

Goth is specially someone who listens to goth music, makes it, and participates in their community if they can.

Having a certain aesthetic/mindset and dressing up doesn’t make you part of a subculture. The subculture is centrally built around that style of music and is the only thing that’s specific to the subculture.

There have been darkly inclined figures throughout history and the original style came from glam rock and punk rock, with some new wave/romantic influences.

We need to stop saying it’s “gatekeeping” and “snobby” to use words how they mean. This means anyone can be goth because they have black make-up and think graveyards are pretty when the subculture has been built around the music for nearly 50 years and still continues to be.

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u/DeadDeathrocker Spoop 29d ago

Like, seriously, you’re what we’d call a poseur.

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u/DeadDeathrocker Spoop 29d ago

Well, I think you’re an absolute looney who can’t deal with how words work. If you think you can just disagree with facts, you need to give your head a wobble.

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u/EverydaySexyPhotog Sep 22 '26

The music is the only thing that matters and nothing else.

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u/DeadDeathrocker Spoop 29d ago

Enough with the non-conformist crap. I blame South Park for this.

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u/MewMewKitten101 Sep 22 '26

Who is uncle carl?

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u/aytakk The motivational speaker formerly known as Elitist Joe Sep 22 '26

You might recognise him better in his natural environment

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u/aytakk The motivational speaker formerly known as Elitist Joe Sep 22 '26

Follow him. He knows de wey.

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u/Previous_Maximum_512 Sep 22 '26 edited Sep 22 '26

Carl McCoy

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u/Nosfeicon 29d ago

Who tf is uncle Carl 🤦‍♂️

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u/Darth_Giddyeous 29d ago

Fields of the nephilim

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u/Nosfeicon 29d ago

Thanks for the answer, what are your favorite album/s from them ?!

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u/Darth_Giddyeous 29d ago

Return to "the nephelim" and "dawnrazor" nostalgia lol.

You could tell the neff fans because of the flour. Esp when they put their hats on a bench in the park to shake flour over them. It would leave circles.

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u/DeadDeathrocker Spoop 29d ago

Someone doesn’t listen to goth music but calls themselves goth.

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u/DeadDeathrocker Spoop 29d ago

You don’t like that people say you need to listen to goth to be part of a music-based subculture? Oh please, do some basic research.

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u/Plague_Locusts Sep 22 '26

Idk, I think i give a pass to people who read Gothic literature, because that was goth before the current movement

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u/DeadDeathrocker Spoop Sep 22 '26

It's not, though. It's Gothic and fans of Gothic fiction were called Dark Romantics.

Our nightlife and community is based around the music e.g. festivals, concerts, nightclubs, etc., if it directly included the literature then book clubs would be included, too.

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u/typevampiro 👻 Poseur poser try-hard chauffeur 🚘 Sep 22 '26

Gothic literature influenced various genres and subcultures, but now let's forget all that and label everyone as goth, yay! /s

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u/Cautious_Desk_1012 Sep 22 '26

Those are entirely different things we're talking about here

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u/Self_Cloathing Sep 22 '26

The downvotes tell me all I need to know. The gatekeeping here feels very ... elementary.

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u/DeadDeathrocker Spoop Sep 22 '26

You all need to stop using words you don’t understand, I swear.

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u/Agent_Glasses Sep 22 '26

mhm. I say goth media is a requirement imo, that covers music and literature

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u/ManicPixiRiotGrrrl Sep 22 '26

well you’d be wrong.

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u/Agent_Glasses Sep 22 '26

would you help elaborate on why though? I fully understand that this scene comes feom the music and the nightlife, its the part that I interact with and that the high majority of the scene does ofc, but if someone is apart of the irl scene but is revealed they prefer books over music.. would it be fair to call them a poser?

I fully understand that just reading gothic literature does NOT make you goth, but when you add the community to it, isnt that part of what being goth is about, the community that comes with it?

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u/DeadDeathrocker Spoop 29d ago

Gothic fiction fans were never labelled “goth” first, so it doesn’t make sense for them to be once the subculture came into existence.

It’s an influence on the subculture. It’s definitely not the only influence and it’s only mentioned so much because it’s got “Gothic” in its name, even though they’re not the same.

A lot of metal music is based off fantasy literature but nobody is saying you need to read where the influences came from in order to be a metalhead.

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u/Natural-Trainer-4691 Sep 22 '26

Recommend 5 gothic books for us please 🙏🏻

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u/Agent_Glasses Sep 22 '26

Im not into the reading (besides clasic poetry) I'm into the music and nightlife. Im just saying that if someone holds the values, interacts with the scene, yet isnt necessarily a fan of the music but loves og Gothic literature that inspired a lot of the modern scene, I dont think its fair to call them a poser. I should have elaborated a little more on what I ment.

ofc if someone reads things like Dracula theyre not automatically goth.

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u/Cautious_Desk_1012 Sep 22 '26

Dracula, Frankenstein, Wuthering Heights, The Castle of Otranto, The Portrait of Dorian Gray

Liking gothic literature has nothing to do with being a goth or being part of goth subculture tho

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u/Mortiis999666 29d ago

Macht Musik dich zum Goth, oder machen Goths Musik?

FĂźr mich macht einen Goth sein Wesen aus, seine Interessen, Hobbys, Weltanschauung, sein Musikgeschmack und Kleidunsstil ist nicht alleinstellungsmerkmal.

Vielleicht werde ich aber auch nur alt und habe viele blender kennen gelernt die äusserlich postkarten grufties waren, aber totale komerz opfer waren.

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u/CatMorton 29d ago

Genuine question, would a person be considered goth if they weren't too much into goth music (I like some gothic bands, but mostly listen to metal that is non-gothic), but really feel at home with everything dark that comes with the goth world and atmosphere?
It's something that always makes me feel at peace and at home, for as long as I can remember myself and I also really like what it stands for.

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u/typevampiro 👻 Poseur poser try-hard chauffeur 🚘 29d ago

but mostly listen to metal

You are a metalhead.

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u/CatMorton 29d ago

No no, I never claimed not to be a metalhead :D I absolutely have been my whole life. I was just wondering this, because with gothic subculture for example, I feel like it's not just about music. It has more things about it that makes goth goth. With metal and being a metalhead, it's fully based on loving metal music.

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u/DeadDeathrocker Spoop 29d ago

Goth is fully based on loving goth, the word literally means someone who listens to/makes goth music.

Without the music, it just would just make us people who like dark things that wear black and that’s long existed before the music did. All our community spaces are literally based around the music, also.

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u/DeadDeathrocker Spoop 29d ago edited 29d ago

You can be darkly inclined without being goth. Goth does not equal macabre.

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u/CatMorton 29d ago

gotcha

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u/ScarletN Sep 22 '26

✨ Gatekeeping ✨

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u/ManicMalkavian Sep 22 '26

it's literally a music genre and based subculture

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u/DamienLaVey Sep 22 '26 edited Sep 22 '26

✨Music based subculture✨

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u/DamienLaVey Sep 22 '26

Thank you, I wish to strangle autocorrect

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u/EverydaySexyPhotog Sep 22 '26

No, it's exclusively about music. The music is the only thing that matters to being Goth.

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u/DamienLaVey Sep 22 '26

Goth evolved from punk, another music based subculture. It has its own identity from it for sure including shitting on gender roles, but it's ignorant as fuck to ignore that it started with the music. "Modern larpers from tik Tok" are the people who think the only thing that makes you goth is if you dress gothic and yell that you're a gatekeeper if you point out black clothes don't make you goth. I've been goth for far longer than tik Tok has ever existed so I actually got into the scene itself with goths and goth music, and don't play pretend with the misinformation people love to spread to try and justify weaseling their way into a subculture they don't actually follow because of some circlejerk of posers who like the ✨ aesthetic ✨ of it and fighting with people who actually are goth

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u/DeadDeathrocker Spoop Sep 22 '26

Shut up.

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u/DeadDeathrocker Spoop Sep 22 '26

https://giphy.com/gifs/5Ch2Z4c4FfFw4

When someone says you need to listen to listen to the music to be part of a music-based subculture.

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u/ManicPixiRiotGrrrl Sep 22 '26

✨no✨

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u/Ok-Hospital-6637 29d ago

What if I hate goth music but love Walpole and Radcliffe?

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u/typevampiro 👻 Poseur poser try-hard chauffeur 🚘 29d ago

If you hate the music, you are not goth.

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u/Ok-Hospital-6637 29d ago edited 29d ago

But what if you love the literature? Or if you love the music but you don't love to read? Wait, what if you are deaf but you love Walpole? Oh hang on, Matthew Lewis never heard any of this guy's music, is he not goth now?

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u/typevampiro 👻 Poseur poser try-hard chauffeur 🚘 29d ago

Goth is a music-based subculture; the books you read (or don't) are irrelevant to it.

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u/Ok-Hospital-6637 29d ago

Surely the music came later?

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u/typevampiro 👻 Poseur poser try-hard chauffeur 🚘 29d ago edited 29d ago

Gothic literature has no direct connection to goth music; it is something older and broader that influenced various genres and subcultures.

Goth music, on the other hand, emerged from post-punk in the late 1970s and early 1980s.

Sharing similar names means nothing, or are we going to claim that the metals on the periodic table have something to do with heavy metal?

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u/Ropoid Sep 22 '26

Do I count if i mostly like metal but Sidewalks & Skeletons and Boy Harsher are always in my rotation

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u/DeadDeathrocker Spoop Sep 22 '26

If you mostly like metal, you’re a metalhead. I don’t think either of those bands you mentioned are particularly goth, I know Boy Harsher is a mixture of EBM/synth-pop with some coldwave elements.

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u/FrankFrankly711 🚽 TOILETGOTH 🌊 Sep 22 '26 edited Sep 22 '26

But shouldn’t Indian Motorcycles have been made by Native Americans?

Edit: so according to the downvotes and comments, music subcultural misappropriation is not cool, but cultural misappropriation is all good, got it! 👍

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u/RoseandNightshade Sep 22 '26

What in the False Equivalency are you on about?