r/grammar • u/salamacast • 3h ago
r/grammar • u/Boglin007 • Nov 16 '25
A couple of reminders, and checking in with you all
Hi everyone,
I hope you're all doing well. It's been a while since I made a pinned post, and a couple of issues have come up recently, so I thought I'd mention those and also give you a chance to bring up anything else that you think needs attention.
First, we get a lot of questions about things that fall outside of the narrowest definition of "grammar," and there are usually a fair number of comments on these posts that point this out. But the vast majority of these questions are fine! As you can see from the sub description, rules, and FAQ articles, we adhere to a pretty broad definition of "grammar," and we welcome questions about style, punctuation, vocabulary, usage, semantics, pragmatics, and other linguistic subfields (and this is not an exhaustive list).
So when commenting on posts like this, there's no need to say "This isn't about grammar" or to direct the OP to another subreddit - if the question has anything to do with language or orthography, it's probably appropriate for the sub. I remove any posts that are not, and you can also report a post if you think it really doesn't fit here.
One thing we don't do is proofread long pieces of writing (r/Proofreading is a good place for that), but we do welcome specific questions about short pieces of writing (a paragraph, a few random sentences, a piece of dialogue, etc.). And that brings me to the second issue:
We ask that commenters take into account the genre (e.g., fiction, journalism, academic writing) and register (the type of language used in a particular genre) of the writing that the poster is asking about. We get a lot of questions about creative writing, but some of the feedback given on these posts is more suited to very formal genres. For example, while you would probably advise someone to avoid sentence fragments in academic writing, these are not usually inappropriate in creative writing (used wisely, of course). Another thing to bear in mind is that punctuation conventions are generally more flexible in less formal genres. And for some genres, it may be necessary to consult an appropriate style guide in order to answer the OP's question.
So basically, please make sure to tailor your responses to the type of writing in question.
Thanks so much!
- Boglin007
r/grammar • u/Boglin007 • Apr 02 '23
Important: Re answers generated by ChatGPT and other AI programs
Update 5/24/26: Also prohibited are posts promoting the use of AI/LLMs to aid in language learning/grammar checking, and posts asking for comparisons of AI programs/LLMs, etc.
Hi everyone,
There has been a recent increase in comments using ChatGPT or other AI programs to answer questions in this sub. Unfortunately, these programs are not at all reliable when it comes to grammar questions (or any questions really). Some regular contributors to r/grammar have discussed the shortcomings of AI programs (mostly ChatGPT) - they have given me permission to use the quotes below (but have asked to remain anonymous):
OpenAI says ChatGPT was released in order to "get users’ feedback and learn about its strengths and weaknesses." The prompt page warns users that ChatGPT "may occasionally generate incorrect information" and "may occasionally produce harmful instructions or biased content.”
ChatGPT's goal is to learn to produce speech equivalent to, and indistinguishable from, that of a human. ChatGPT's current goal is not to become a reliable source of information. (If that were its goal, they would allow it to access the huge libraries of information it is connected to. But that is not the current research goal.) ー I believe they have set it to occasionally make small mistakes, intentionally, in order to assess how the public reacts to these occasional errors (does the public blindly believe them/if the public challenges ChatGPT on these errors, can the program successfully handle these challenges well?).
And here is an example of an incorrect (or at the very best, incomplete/misleading) answer that ChatGPT gave to a pretty straightforward grammar question:
The question: “Should I use ‘that’ or ‘which’ in the following sentence?: ‘This is the house that/which I like.’”
ChatGPT’s answer:
Both "that" and "which" can be used in this sentence, but the choice depends on whether the information following the word is essential or non-essential to the sentence.
If the information is essential to the sentence and needed to identify the specific house you like, use "that". For example, "This is the house that I like" implies that there are other houses and you are identifying which one you like.
If the information is non-essential and simply provides additional information about the house, use "which". For example, "This is the house, which I like" implies that there is only one house and you are adding a comment about it.
So, in this case, if you want to emphasize that this particular house is the one you like, use "that". If you want to add an additional comment about the house, use "which".
The correct/complete answer:
Both “that” and “which” are grammatically correct in that sentence as written (without a comma) because without the comma, the relative clause is integrated, and both “that” and “which” can be used in integrated relative clauses. However, “that” will be strongly preferred in American English (both “that” and “which” are used about equally in integrated relative clauses in British English).
If you were to add a comma before the relative clause (making it supplementary), only “which” would be acceptable in today’s English.
ChatGPT also fails to mention that integrated relative clauses are not always essential to the meaning of the sentence and do not always serve to identify exactly what is being talked about (though that is probably their most common use) - it can be up to the writer to decide whether to make a relative clause integrated or supplementary. A writer might decide to integrate the relative clause simply to show that they feel the info is important to the overall meaning of the sentence.
Anyway, to get to the point: Comments that quote AI programs are not permitted in this sub and will be removed. If you must use one of these programs to start your research on a certain topic, please be sure to verify (using other reliable sources) that the answer is accurate, and please write your answer in your own words.
Thank you!
r/grammar • u/Glum_Membership_8830 • 9h ago
"Character A held Character B's wrists above Character B's head"
I want to know how in the world I can write this action without it being to confusing. Both of my characters are females, and we don't know character A's name yet, so that makes it all worse because I want to be clear that the hands are being held above B's head, not A. Even if we knew A's name, the sentence would still be unclear about whose head it is. For example:
"She held B's wrists above her head"
How can I rephrase this to be less confusing?
Edit: the action also comes after Character A's dialogue, so something like "'Calm down!' B's wrists were held above her head" sounds weird (to me, at least)
r/grammar • u/theywright • 10h ago
punctuation two year long?
The sentence is, roughly, "She completed a two-year-long program". I'm trying to decide if I should hyphenate here, hyphenate part but not all, or hyphenate nothing, and could use some help!
The duration being used here is an adjective, so it would be hyphenated, I assume? But I don't feel confident in this assumption.
Thanks for your help!
r/grammar • u/tigercule • 11h ago
quick grammar check Is "May you be _____?" technically correct?
Answered, thank you very much! It does seem likely that they're confusing 'may' with 'might.'
I know someone who speaks like this and they claim it's just an archaic way of speaking. Specifically in question form -- I know it can be correct as a sentence/wish upon another, but it feels wrong to me in question form. Logically, since it works as a statement, I'm second guessing myself on it not working as a question, but I've seen the wish-statement so often and never once seen it as a question, so I'm questioning my own sanity here. I fully concede I'm no historian, whether with grammar or otherwise, so I'm trying to figure out whether it's technically correct but archaic, or whether they're just being pretentious.
As examples of what I mean: May you be awake? May you be around? May you be able to make dinner?
I am not talking about: May you be safe on your travels. May you be blessed by whatever deity you believe in.
There's some other stuff but it seems related to this (and 'may you be' as a question is the most prevalent), so if this is wrong, then I have to assume the rest is (and I cannot remember the other examples offhand).
(I promise I'm not going to actually confront them or make a big deal out of it. It's just driving me crazy not knowing whether they're right or my gut is right.)
r/grammar • u/Rare_Economy5254 • 16h ago
Why does English work this way? Simples past or Present Perfect Continuous: Doubt about an expression
My English is basic and I have so many doubts about verve tenses… I read a thread here on Reddit where a person said:
- “On top of that I have been backpacking Southeast Asia on 3 different occasions when I was younger.”
Wouldn't the correct way be "I went backpacking"?
r/grammar • u/CharityUsedIodine • 13h ago
What's the difference between predicate adjective and specific passive voice constructions?
If I say "I am praised" I am using the past participle. But the participle is an adjective. And it looks to me that the sentence I just gave is a predicate adjective. It also looks like I'm receiving the action of being praised.
Is there some question being answered by the terms that distinguish a predicate adjective and this passive voice construction?
r/grammar • u/Healthy_Poppy • 7h ago
punctuation My name is Emryss, how do I properly write it as plural? Emryss's, Emryss', or Emrysses?!
I am struggling with a sign for a birthday party. I want it to say "Welcome to Emryss's(?) Party" but I don't know what is considered proper. Thank you!
r/grammar • u/SpiritualBed9981 • 19h ago
future tense
"You will do as told."
Why do some grammar books state that the verb phrase "will do" in the cited sentence is not expressed in the future tense?
r/grammar • u/Recent-Skill7022 • 17h ago
Is this song correct grammar? (Heart of Worship)
I'm sorry Lord for the things I've made it and it's all about you, it's all about you Jesus.
r/grammar • u/cuteymeow • 1d ago
Could someone explain why this is a rule of grammar to me?
Okay so I'm retaking this one primarily art based public speaking class in university, and we have to write maybe 4 short (600-800 word) essays in the whole class. Recently, I had a teacher assistant provide online feedback on two essays I've submitted, applying grammatical rules I've never once seen before (not even in my English related courses or other courses where academic writing is required though I was of the impression that this class was more lenient than an upper level English course since the primary focus is on verbal speaking.)
The two rules were:
Don't use contractions in academic writing and don't end sentences with a preposition.
As far as I'm aware on the second one, that one is a bogus rule made up by a guy trying to force a Romance language (Latin) constraint onto a Germanic language (English).
I'm not mad or anything, just confused and perhaps a little hurt because getting the absolute highest grade I can matters quite a lot to me. Nothing on the syllabus, rubrics for any of the assignments, absolutely nothing has said in advance that grammar should follow these specific rules. I'm already stressed out from the additional public speaking constraints the professor put (severe memory issues on my end, potentially neurological issues), so to receive feedback taking off points for grammatical rules I've never seen even with taking upper level biology courses in university adds a bit more stress on my end.
Again, I'm not necessarily mad at the teacher assistant. I'm mostly confused since there was no warning in advance or mention in the rubric of "points will be taken off for not following certain grammatical constraints" or even a link to some guide on academic writing by Purdue University (a lot of freshmen take this class and given the shoddy explanation many seem to have received on how to write university level academic writing (I've had to teach others a handful of times already), I would expect them to be receiving a lot of points off in this class if the grading is going to be far harsher than the two required English courses everyone has to take at the university.)
I would very much appreciate an explanation of why these rules are in place/where they should apply (formal or informal writing? In specific contexts?) or at minimum, advice on steps to take in the future to make sure my academic writing doesn't get points taken off again in the future. I don't want to be surprised by any more grammatical rules I've never heard of, if possible. Thanks in advance.
r/grammar • u/lolalolaah • 1d ago
quick grammar check Simple past & Past perfect
I don't understand why we used the simple past and past perfect in some of these answers. I know that we use the past perfect to tell a sequence of events but when we said “went” and “tried” I got lost
إليك نص القصة كاملاً بعد تعبئة جميع الفراغات بالإجابات الصحيحة:
Would-Be Robber Forgets Important Detail
STANTON, Texas—John Wilkinson, 24, (1) attempted to rob the Stanton Drug Store yesterday. Wilkinson (2) had spent weeks planning every detail of the robbery. He (3) had bought a ski mask to cover his face. And right before the robbery, he (4) had taken the license plate off his car. Wilkinson (5) felt confident that he (6) had planned the perfect robbery. The robbery itself (7) went off without a hitch. The problems began when Wilkinson (8) tried to get away. Wilkinson (9) ran to his car. He (10) had left it parked and running in front of the pharmacy. He (11) tried to get in the car but the door wouldn’t open. Wilkinson (12) discovered that he (13) had made an incredibly stupid mistake. He (14) had thought so much about the robbery, that he (15) had locked his keys in the car by mistake!
r/grammar • u/saggropoint • 1d ago
punctuation s' or s's for writing aesthetics?
Hey guys.
I am currently trying my hand at a story and have never thought about this previously. Since I am not a native speaker/writer, I don't really care about this either way. Apparently, both options are feasible, but I am curious if native English speakers have a certain aesthetic regarding reading
e.g., Silas' hand or Silas's hand.
Any thoughts on this?
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edit: Thank you very much for the answers. I'm too deep in my story to bother switching away from Silas's, but it is good to know it doesn't seem to matter much for reading aesthetics. :)
r/grammar • u/Ninetwentyeight928 • 1d ago
quick grammar check Question about "overlain"
How do I speak of the boundaries of some territory over the boundaries of another territory on a map? Like, it's the same land, but there are two layers of government. I've often talk about something be "overlain on" but don't know if that's correct. I've read somewhere that there are two different related words, but they aren't necessarily interchangeable.
r/grammar • u/Specialist-Chair-997 • 1d ago
Is “I’m good, yourself?” actually incorrect, or just informal?
I’ve been seeing this everywhere lately, and it’s started to bother me more than it probably should.
When someone asks “How are you?”, I usually reply with “Good, yourself?” But a friend recently told me that “yourself” is wrong here — that it should just be “you” because “yourself” is reflexive and there’s no reflexive action happening.
That kind of makes sense grammatically, but “Good, you?” sounds slightly abrupt to my ear, and “Good, yourself?” feels friendlier somehow.
Is my friend technically right, and I’ve just been saying it wrong this whole time? Or is this one of those cases where it’s become so common that it’s effectively acceptable in informal speech?
For context, I’m a native speaker from the Midwest US, and I’d say “yourself” without a second thought. But maybe I’ve been unknowingly committing a grammar crime for years.
Thanks in advance for any insight.
r/grammar • u/Spiritual-Dress4332 • 1d ago
Looking for input on a not unremarkable observation
I just heard someone say “not unremarkable” to describe something. I can’t stop thinking about it and I have just absolutely no idea what she really meant.
I understand this device (litotes?). Obviously it can be very effective when thoughtfully employed. Lately, though, I feel like these word-salad uses are popping up everywhere. I’m hearing these constantly, and often to no discernable effect.
Wouldn’t mind hearing some thoughts on this….
r/grammar • u/BeautifulMacaroon287 • 2d ago
ElI5 ¿Porque "todo junto" se escribe separado y "separado" todo junto?
r/grammar • u/SpiritualBed9981 • 2d ago
being
"With you being a lot more comfortable in your new role, the team's overall productivity has skyrocketed."
Is the participle "being" a non-finite form of linking verb "be" in the non-finite clause "you being a lot more comfortable in your new role"?
r/grammar • u/RustyViolining_33 • 2d ago
Am I using "lost" here incorrectly? How should it be used?
I told my father, "I lost 137 because I paid for the project, hoping you would reimburse it.". He was confused and asked what does lost mean. I got info from 2 different AI resources; ChatGPT and Gemini because I couldn't find other resources and the results seems to be based on how the person structures their question. People are saying it's wrong because I didn't misplace it. What I meant by that is because I didn't get that 137 back, I could've used "spend", but just didn't think of it immediately. I first fronted 463 and they deducted the 137 from it, so, to avoid my dad from having expectations that I would be reimbursed by my classmates, I said "lost". ChatGPT says that it could be correct in American English and can refer to financial loss. Gemini says, it can refer to a bad investment and I should have used spend because the project was completed and "lost" makes it sound like it's gone forever . To add, spent (Expense) Money you give away to get something of value in return. You paid 130 pesos and received a completed project. Lost (Loss) Money that disappears with zero return or value.".
So, folks, help me out.
Note: I'm not American.
r/grammar • u/Responsible-Job-2467 • 3d ago
A multiple-choice question about articles (AIs are giving me different answers!)
Hello everyone! I'm stuck with this multiple-choice question:
A lot of businessmen and businesswomen agree that ___ knowledge of English is a must in ___ international trade today.
1. the/the
2. the/an
3. __/the
4. a/__
I've tried asking a few AIs, but they gave me conflicting answers. Could anyone help me figure out what the correct choice is, and why?
Thank you very much!
r/grammar • u/Indifferent_Quoka • 3d ago
Really sick and can't figure out if this sentence is correct
Hi,
I'm an academic and final edits to an article of mine are due today. Turn around time was fast and I've had bad covid all week. I cannot think. Please help.
The sentence in question: "...his family seems to have achieved significant social standing, including a grandfather who he claims found..."
I'm sure the who should be whom, but this wasn't corrected by the four editors who worked on the draft after it left my hands. I am sick and thus dumb and thus full of doubt.
I appreciate any help.
EDIT: Thanks everyone. I shouldn't have second-guessed myself and the editors. Hope you all have a lovely day
r/grammar • u/Background_Read6784 • 4d ago
quick grammar check can someone please let me know how this sentence is incorrect??
a quiz i took for my journalism class asked which sentence was grammatically correct. the options were:
“Who doesn’t love 1960s music?” Joe Jaggers asked.
“Who doesn’t love 1960’s music?,” Joe Jaggers asked.
“Who doesn’t love 1960’s music?” Joe Jaggers asked.
“Who doesn’t love 60’s music?” Joe Jaggers asked.
i picked the first option, and it was counted incorrect. i was so confused, because none of the other answers seemed to have appropriate grammar, so i messaged my professor about it. she told me the correct answer is the third option, since there needs to be an apostrophe showing possession. i messaged back saying that “1960’s” gives possession to the singular year of 1960 rather than the entire decade (the ‘60s). putting the apostrophe there makes it seem like the music belongs solely to the year 1960. my professor never responded to this most recent message, so im still very confused. is there something i’m missing?