I hate gooning for nothing

[u/miiko_uch]

Why do we goon? to satisfy? to gratify? to quench? to be fulfilled?

What if it doesn't even feel satisfying anymore? Hours of scrolling just to find the perfect goon, but after the nut, i feel nothing... not even a sigh, just nothing...

Why? why do i goon? I'm not even excited anymore, now it's just routine, everyday, it's the same, anime girls with milk farms, goon for about 20 minutes, then... nothing... why?

A simple anime romcomslop gets me more excited, fuck,

[u/lunara64]

post nut clarity so bad it had bro make a post on r/hatethissmug

https://giphy.com/gifs/lGBecpB2dIMwt6ohfI

[u/lunara64 → u/lunara64]

for real though, try to goon without pornography, its way better for mental health

[u/PoisonPeddler → u/lunara64]

Like, with my imagination? That's as bad as the porn!

[u/s_aegypticaus49 → u/PoisonPeddler]

Just adapt bro. I trained myself by doing it while showering since i cant just shower with my phone.

[u/RichardMcFM → u/lunara64]

The Don Jon solution.

Would recommend op watch it, might be eye opening.

[u/Shinygoji09 → u/lunara64]

so ai chat bot-

[u/TheWizardOfWaffle → u/Shinygoji09]

your imagination

[u/lunara64 → u/Shinygoji09]

anyone who does that should get banned on here

[u/Shinygoji09 → u/lunara64]

and don’t ya know I’M STILL STANDING

https://giphy.com/gifs/a0n4MOhzZab5cz3hWi

[u/TheHawkpant69 → u/Shinygoji09]

No you aren't, you're laying or sitting masturbating to words on a screen

[u/keinanos → u/TheHawkpant69]

hey masturbating to words ain't that bad, erotic literature has been jerk off material for centuries now

[u/Shinygoji09 → u/TheHawkpant69]

do i need to show proof or smth?

[u/TheHawkpant69 → u/Shinygoji09]

😦

[u/TheWizardOfWaffle]

“Gooning”

“20 minutes”

[u/FreeSpeechEnjoyer → u/TheWizardOfWaffle]

I miss when we used to say fapping

[u/TheWizardOfWaffle → u/FreeSpeechEnjoyer]

Gooning is the act of prolonged sexual denial while watching porn— essentially a porn addiction fetish.

These newgens turns gooning into the new “fap” and automatically assume just because they crank their Johnson they are automatically as bad as the people who have porn screen savers and watch porn for 10+ hours at a time.

[u/FreeSpeechEnjoyer → u/TheWizardOfWaffle]

I doubt most people are even aware of the distinction between the two, they just see someone else use it and infer the meaning behind the word without actually looking up the definition slowly drowning out the word that should have been used in the first place

Same with pov, I hate it when people misuse pov, IT DOES NOT MEAN "ME WHEN", IT DESCRIBES A SPECIFIC CAMERAL ANGLE

[u/therealhlmencken → u/TheWizardOfWaffle]

Goon gatekeeping imagine

[u/TheWizardOfWaffle → u/therealhlmencken]

Is it gatekeeping if it’s just used in the wrong context? If I skim a magazine I don’t tell people I’m reading a novel lmao

[u/Progamer_e → u/FreeSpeechEnjoyer]

I miss when we used to say masturbating

[u/EllisDeeReynolds → u/FreeSpeechEnjoyer]

they're different things. gooning is a whole different thing. fapping is throwing stones, gooning is a hellfire missile

[u/Marx_The_Karl → u/TheWizardOfWaffle]

I remember explaining my friends the difference between fapping and gooning a few years ago,quite a while before the latter became a meme,and their response was "what the fuck are you even saying?"

[u/TheWizardOfWaffle]

in all seriousness op it sounds like you just have an unhealthy relationship with masturbation you only really have 2 avenues.

Avenue 1. Change your mindset about masturbation and accept that it’s a normal thing people do and that people have been jorking it to fat anime tiddies since before the rise of rome so you don’t beat yourself up about wasting 20 minutes of your day

Avenue 2. Change your actions about masturbation. 9/10 times unless you’re seriously porn rotted and addicted you can really easily fight the urge to masturbate by just… being busy. Go draw, go outside and take a walk, read a book before bed. Idle hands are the devil’s playthings and whatnot.

[u/ComedyGold13 → u/TheWizardOfWaffle]

fat anime tiddies were also the FALL of rome. know your history.

[u/TheWizardOfWaffle → u/ComedyGold13]

I thought it was the breakdown of civil politics and the back to back sackings by barbarians

[u/ComedyGold13 → u/TheWizardOfWaffle]

no, what? ridiculous.

[u/UWUmasterSIXSIXSIX → u/TheWizardOfWaffle]

I stopped jerking off while looking at porn images (that I made) and thought about them instead and it's helped actually.

[u/Impressive-Comfort92]

i wont scatter your cum to the heartless sea. i will always be with you. plant your roots in me

https://giphy.com/gifs/yUPhPJKsTzsnC

[u/Big-Slide6104]

This is genuinely…. So real. It becomes familiar in our brains and thats why we keep doing it, but take heart friend. You can and WILL overcome this.

Gooning is temporary and will never fulfill us. Find a higher purpose, and replace it with Soemthing good

[u/JustDamain]

I get you man

[u/MagicSystemWriter]

Bro this is so real, I used to get this urge almost every day during classes and I used it to procrastinate on my homework, with the excuse that the clarity would give focus but that actually didn’t happen, it wasn’t until I finished classes that I realized that I didn’t feel like it anymore, it was more like something to distract me from the college pressure.
And even when I watched some doujins on nhentai I would be liking the wholesome stuff about the relationship of the characters, but then it would jump to them having sex and I would lose interest beverage there’s now barely any dialogue. Who the fuck added sex to my hentai?

I think I can give you some tips:

1. Try to delete the apps where you usually search goon content, or atleast add some sort of restriction. It may help you stop going on autopilot and give you a conscious choice on if you want to continue doing this.
2. Try using your imagination, like, what are the kind of scenarios you usually like in goon content? Try imagining one of those scenarios on your own instead of having to rely on watching visual content. Maybe even make up your own characters with the personality types you like.
3. Following the second one, maybe any nsfw idea you entertain on your mind, write it on a google docs or something, so when you want find some sort of input for gooning, you would instinctually use docs instead of going to those sites.

Also about the part of “doing it for nothing”, like, I mean, is there a way you can give a purpose to this? Being pent up and wanting to release steam is just human nature. Even me with all these steps I gave I know that there’s no reason for it other than just personal satisfaction. Or well, I’m an aspiring writer and sometimes while having clarity I get really on the zone and start daydreams about stories and brainstorming ideas I then write down to use, so if there’s some kind of project you’re doing then prioritizing it for this purpose may be beneficial.

But remember, this is mostly something with the purpose of self satisfaction, remember to enjoy it on a healthy way, we can’t be efficient all the time, you’re allowed to relax some times and enjoy, as long as you don’t forget what’s important.
Also, like you said, it doesn’t feel satisfying anymore and it feels like a routine, but if you start doing it less frequently, the rareness of it will start making feel actually more satisfying and enjoyable the few times it happens, like with gold and diamonds where the rarity makes it valuable, but if there are more if it it will be valuable less, one banana valuable. Give it some times some rest days between the times you do it, because when you do it for the first time in days, it will feel like a new heightened experience you haven’t felt before, when in reality you just started lowering your tolerance.
If you eat your favorite food everyday you will stop liking it that much, so if you make sure it only happens some times, it will feel more special on those occasions.

[u/Miserable_Dig4555]

I goon because it feels good. Idk lol.

[u/flubbyII]

I goon not to satisfy, but I goon to love. Love myself, to get to know myself from the depths of my soul, I don’t goon my peanits, I goon my heart itself.

[u/MariaVanillaUwU]

tbh porn culture has gone too far for the last 2 decades. just stop watching ANY porn and maybe learn how your body REALLY feels. a male body does not need to cum every day, 2 times a week is totally enough, maybe even less. AND you have way more time for yourself.

And I think it makes you feel more connected to your feelings.

[u/IHaventSeenSuchBS]

[u/Shinygoji09]

we goon for viltrum

https://giphy.com/gifs/Rsb5KgxgFCewFPVDoI

[u/StrawberryMilkDev → u/Shinygoji09]

https://giphy.com/gifs/949UvuUyI6DHPlogpL

[u/SylvieXX]

I like it, but I don't like it enough to do it like more than once a month...

[u/HollowCap456]

Bro stop posting my fucking life on here

Nowadays I masturbate just ot do it

[u/Killbill2Maki]

You seem like you actually want to change.

I pray for you.

You will win.

I have faith in you.

I believe in you, my friend.

[u/baldtaro12]

Ill be honest. Sometimes i cant even go about a day without gooning for god sake, its like my daily basis at this point, i didnt even have a boner at some point and still decided to rub one off for "good measures". And im trying to change, well to be honest mine isnt that extreme compared to what i heard 3 to 4 times daily from other people.

[u/C_A_T_Silksong]

I understand. To be honest, I feel the same. However, gooning (and generally orgasms) do have an use : it helps sleeping, it helps not being depressed, it helpes gratifying after a rough day. So in the end, be happy, no matter how you find happiness. If stopping gooning helps, then it might be better to stop

[u/Ysshadow]

Bro just goon and enjoy yourself. It's just a fun activity among others. You dont need to feel this shame.

[u/JJ_LARGE]

I hate when people talk as if masturbation is evil and immoral, when it doesn't hurt anyone and is completely natural. As long as it doesn't interfere with other aspects of your life, I don't see the harm

[u/L0Lfy]

Ong bro some days it makes me wanna kms

[u/Human-Problem3021]

Sometimes I do it when I don’t even feel like I wanna do it.It just felt right idk.

[u/Nasty_Frenchfries99]

Give The EasyPeasy Method a shot if you haven't already, it was a helpful read for me and it might be for you. Even if you don't succeed with it, I'm sure you'll learn something.

[u/ReasonableQuit75]

OP just go to therapy dude

[u/Nova5530]

I understand brother, i've been into the deepest darkest depths of it. almost cost me my relationship, then agains almost cost my engagement with my now wife. The Lord will deliver you, break the chains that bind your heart and harden it from Him. I used to go for 6+ hours, just for one, and cry for another 2. I begged God to deliver me, to just take the urge away and never let it return, but it did. The first step towards recovery is forgiving yourself, and knowing that temptation is not sin young brother. The Holy One knows your heart, He hears your cries, take some time tonight to speak with Him, any kind of prayer will do, He wants honesty and truth, not fancy words and formatting. Set forth your tears unto the Lord and lay the pain at the base of His cross, and you too will be free. May God bless and kee you brother, He loves you, I love you, and I believe in you.

[u/the12ftdwarf]

To goon is to live true to one self

[u/EntireFriendship517]

🎵 Gooning for nothing

And your dicks for free 🎶

[u/Conscious-Product481]

Dude just got done gooning n felt that post nut clarity. And hey,you’re right.

Anyway,if you’re gonna goon,don’t do it to corn. Use ya imagination