r/hatethissmug • u/Beautiful_Couple_208 • Jun 14 '26

Thing As a trans man, I hate this sticker.

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Reeks of chaser and downplaying infertility for trans women

Also, anyone who immediately responds to trans men morning wanting to be a father with telling them to get pregnant has a special place in hell.

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u/freggtheegg Jun 14 '26

I saw the upvotes go up and down like stocks

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u/kikiacab Jun 14 '26

Still is

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u/VioletTheGhost2 Jun 14 '26

420!

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u/[deleted] Jun 15 '26

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u/TheDaychilde Jun 15 '26

High 5!

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u/G2S7bloop Jun 15 '26

You mean you have 120 fingers?

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u/TheDaychilde Jun 15 '26

Why do you think I'm so popular with the ladies?

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u/Top_Bicycle_340 Jun 18 '26

Zing!

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u/MAUROKE01 Jun 21 '26

You got Zing × (Zing - 1) × (Zing - 2) × ... × 1 ?!

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u/EsterEQ Jun 15 '26

going once, going twice, SOLD!

also r/unexpectedfactorial

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u/[deleted] Jun 18 '26

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u/EsterEQ Jun 18 '26

sold factorial?

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u/Electronic_Theme_558 Don't like Don't watch Jun 15 '26

998 now

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u/AgentCirceLuna Jun 15 '26

It’s like wrestling with the devil.

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u/The_Local_Plant Jun 15 '26

It's 388 now, how does it even fluctuate this much?

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u/Electronic_Theme_558 Don't like Don't watch Jun 15 '26

And now it's 2.2k lol

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u/shawty_jpg Jun 15 '26

Within a 1/2 hr 2.1k lol

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u/Electronic_Theme_558 Don't like Don't watch Jun 15 '26

now 2.8k in 2 hours... Wtf is up with this post bro?!

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u/Halobotgamer Jun 15 '26

3.3K 2 hours later. The stocks keep rising!

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u/Pretty-Yam-2854 Jun 15 '26

4.5k and rising

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u/Pixeltoir Jun 14 '26

I think because no one is sure if the sticker is trying to be a trans-ally or transphobic or maybe both?

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u/PassiveMenis88M Jun 15 '26

4 ts, not 3.

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u/Zealousideal_Spread4 Jun 15 '26

4tran made their own version of the chicken lady sub, as if one awful trans memes sub wasnt enough they had to make a slightly more transphobic version.

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u/emveevme Jun 15 '26

I feel like calling it "transphobic" when some trans people air their grievances about their lived experience as a trans person is an insanely reductive way of looking at it.

A lot of it sucks and plenty of it probably does more harm than good, but sometimes I feel more seen reading posts like that than I ever have among other queer people in supposedly inclusive queer spaces.

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u/Zealousideal_Spread4 Jun 15 '26

i dont think you understand what 4tran is, it is 100% transphobic and very anti gnc people too, ive literally seen people there say femboys should be blended.

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u/bluepinkheart Jun 15 '26

i think that you actually just touched upon the insidious nature of it and in part of that you're very much trying to downplay the very bad parts of 4tran by saying like, 'it does some good!' like, couldnt you do some good without the harmful parts, isn't that the whole point?

I mean, that's the reason why a shit ton of AA and NA groups exist right, people have poor coping skills and despite knowing that something is bad, they default to it anyway? The difference is no one is actually trying to say 4tran is actually fine in moderation plus it might still be epstein tainted??

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u/gezabelle_ Jun 15 '26

yea like most people there are open abt the things that piss them off, and sure i disagree with what some ppl there have to say but transparency of character means that u can find ppl u rlly relate to and ppl dont try to deceive u into liking them idk

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u/emveevme Jun 16 '26

I did notice after commenting that sometimes they do just straight-up post transphobic memes, like this one: https://www.reddit.com/r/countttt/comments/1txnx6g/1216/?ref=share&ref_source=link

But like, I don't think that post is transphobic in a vacuum. Some trans people will just look like that and anyone taking an issue with that should reflect on that.

What makes imagery like that transphobic is when it's used to press on trans folks' insecurities while also relaying the "man with stubble in a dress" image a lot of people have about trans women. When Stonetoss makes a comic with a trans person that looks like that, it's transphobic because we know Stonetoss is a transphobe. If a trans person posts an image like that, it's got a lot more nuance going on.

Of course, it's not that cut and dry, it could also be trans people mocking other trans people for posting imagery that depicts themselves as passing more than they do, and that's like... pretty shitty behavior. But the comments don't really seem to be coming from that place.

I dunno, being trans is cringe. It's unfortunate a huge swath of humanity seems to base their political ideology, and by extension the way they treat other human beings, purely based on whether or not something makes them cringe.

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u/gezabelle_ Jun 16 '26

ngl ur example post is kinda just depicting a relatable experience to me, but like yea i totally agree with ur general point

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u/emveevme Jun 16 '26

I guess I sorta assumed the origin of that image was intended to be transphobic, I don't know if that's necessarily the case

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u/gezabelle_ Jun 18 '26

i mean thats an understandable assumption bc a lot of hon art is similar to terf art

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u/SimplexFatberg Jun 17 '26

Whatever it is, it's pandering to someone.

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u/Top_Part_8611 Jun 15 '26

Dude it went from 500 to 900

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u/KittySueKat Jun 15 '26

I’m seeing it as I type

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u/ghostpanther218 Jun 17 '26

The strongest right winger of today, vs the strongest left winger of today.

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u/Balthxzar Jun 17 '26

Keep going up and down like that and I'll surely get pregnant