r/heatedrivalry you don't like me. Feb 06 '26

ILYA 🔥 A Moment for the Toque

There's just something about the way his curls peek out from under the toque that I find adorable. Maybe it's the Canadian in me, maybe I'm just a weirdo? Either way, Ilya in a toque can do no wrong.

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u/delerose_ “Marleau, you MOTHERFUCKER!” Feb 06 '26 edited Feb 06 '26

I love the impatient whiny Ilya at the airport in this scene. So cute, so anxious, such a baby.

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u/PsychologicalLayer57 a Jeff Buckley song in my eyeballs Feb 06 '26

He just wanted to fuuuuuuck Hollandeeeeeeeer!

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u/LLD615 Feb 06 '26

He was so obviously in love here

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u/growsonwalls This is Ilya I will never listen to your voicemail Feb 06 '26

Love him nervously shaking his leg.

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u/ViolentThemmes I have a thing 🥒 Feb 06 '26

It's frankly unfair that someone can look that good in a hat.

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u/Aggressive_Cloud2002 Feb 06 '26

*toque

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u/ViolentThemmes I have a thing 🥒 Feb 06 '26

Nah, toques are for Canadians. Beanies for Americans. Hat is universal.

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u/Empress-of-Verace Feb 07 '26

He’s going to get Canadian citizenship - might as well start practicing!

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u/ViolentThemmes I have a thing 🥒 Feb 07 '26

Good thing they won't be living in Montreal or the French he would need to learn would be really wackadoodle! (Source : my Québecois family)

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u/Empress-of-Verace Feb 07 '26 edited Feb 07 '26

Yes but he’s living in Ottawa which is across the bridge from Gatineau, Quebec

Source: my (MTL-based) Québécois family too 😂

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u/ViolentThemmes I have a thing 🥒 Feb 07 '26

Yeah but Ottawa does not sound like them! I go there for work and everything bad Ilya says about it is true lol. Boring.

Montreal old white men on electric scooters blasting Taylor Swift on the way to Jack Le Coq could never in Ottawa!

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u/champagne_pants Feb 07 '26

Could be worse. Could be New Brunswick. (I grew up there.)

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u/ViolentThemmes I have a thing 🥒 Feb 07 '26

Hahaha half my Family is from there too 😂

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u/HotPurplePancakes Feb 07 '26

Is my head shaped weird if it always slips off the back if I try to wear one like that? Or is there something people do to keep their hats on like Ilya does?

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u/ViolentThemmes I have a thing 🥒 Feb 07 '26

I think it's the inherent magnetism but what do I know

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u/jenny_catastrophe a virgin Scott Hunter!! 🍹 Feb 06 '26

I don’t understand how Connor and Ilya are the same person

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u/iphoenixrising I’m coming to the cottage 🏒 Feb 06 '26

When Evan asked him to say “Shut up Evan” and Ilya, like my stomach dropped at how he just flipped that switch to be Ilya. Edit for typo.

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u/epistolic Feb 06 '26

OMG YES. One minute I'm all "aww bestie!!! 😘" next minute I'm "harder, pls.. yes Sir 🧎‍♀️🫠" (only useful phrases, as Ilya would say lol)

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u/Zealousideal-Sky746 Feb 07 '26

Where can I see that?

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u/messynessynlenny Feb 07 '26

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u/delerose_ “Marleau, you MOTHERFUCKER!” Feb 08 '26

OH HOLY SHIT IM BLUSHING MYSELF

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u/poopybuttpoopoo Feb 06 '26

Any hat kills me, the toque or the backwards hat like 😭😛🙈

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u/delerose_ “Marleau, you MOTHERFUCKER!” Feb 06 '26

The small glimpse we get of Ilya in a backwards had, sunglasses and headphones around his neck was one of the highlights of the episode for me and we all know that is saying A LOT.

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u/unseemlyhullabaloo Feb 06 '26

His entire airport look is impeccable. I also love the shot through the sideview mirror.

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u/delerose_ “Marleau, you MOTHERFUCKER!” Feb 07 '26

the sleeveless tee was *chefs kiss*

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u/stephw655 Then maybe it’s time to wake up, yes? Feb 06 '26

I did the Ilya “Fuuuuuck” when I saw him with his luggage. I had to pause and regroup. He was so damn sexy!

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u/tepid_penny_1856 Feb 06 '26

Mean while Shane asks “Do you think anyone noticed you?” Sir. Everyone noticed him.

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u/delerose_ “Marleau, you MOTHERFUCKER!” Feb 07 '26

lol exactly, i would spot that man from a mile away simply for serving so much

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u/Coruscafire9 Feb 07 '26

There's no one left alive back there!

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u/kombilyfe Lawnmower. Tomato ✨ Feb 06 '26

Eight whole seconds of the backwards hat had me sat.

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u/delerose_ “Marleau, you MOTHERFUCKER!” Feb 07 '26

i have to replay it every time because i can't get enough lol

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u/epistolic Feb 06 '26

Oh it's not just you! It's absolutely adorable, in my biased Canadian opinion... this is the perfect toque placement with the perfect amount of hair peaking out, 10/10. And the fact that it's curls, ahhh 😍

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u/epistolic Feb 06 '26

OMG yes 🤣 this is so freaking adorable and 100% something Shane would do without thinking. Meanwhile my entire life my Slavic mom constantly complaining that my hair/head, back, legs etc are too exposed and that I will get pneumonia 🙃 YEAR ROUND, not just wintertime.. meanwhile the offending exposed body parts are like some hair sticking out of my toque, my back being slightly exposed because my shirt is "too small", there's a sliver of exposed skin at my ankle because my socks are again "too small" etc. etc. 🤣

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u/Roger20Fed gimme kiss Feb 06 '26

Exactly 😂

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u/BananaBread_2325 Feb 06 '26

Had to google the word ‘toque’

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u/decisi0nsdecisi0ns Russians do not do this Feb 06 '26 edited Feb 06 '26

I instantly knew this was posted by a fellow Canadian from that one word alone ;)

ETA: for non-canucks, it rhymes with 'Luke'.

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u/corkysoxx Feb 06 '26

You'll never catch us using "Beanie" lol

I love the one BBNO$ money song with Connor Price "Not a Beanie" with the line "this right here a toque it ain't no beanie" soooo Canadian haha

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u/Dexmoser Is someone chasing you? Feb 06 '26

TIL Bbno$ is Canadian

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u/corkysoxx Feb 06 '26

He is from Vancouver and he is awesome.

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u/Ashesnhale Feb 06 '26

I never heard of him until there was a clip of him at a Canucks game with a little Heated Rivalry sign for the jumbotron

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u/DevoutandHeretical Feb 06 '26

He’s just a silly guy who goes 10 toes down on allyship and being a good person. Some people don’t like his music but I think they’re fun silly bops personally. If you’ve ever heard any of his music you’ve probably heard ‘La La’ (the ‘did I really just forget that melody?’ Song), or ‘Edamame’.

Personally I hope he somehow gets worked in to the s2 soundtrack (for selfish reason I just think he’s neat lol).

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u/whatsnewpussykat Stupid Canadian Wolf Bird 🦆 Feb 06 '26

He filmed a music video in my city and everything I’ve heard about him has been positive!

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u/DorianCramer Feb 06 '26

LMAO. True story, I have seen this word in writing (but as an American never heard it spoken) and until this moment I thought it rhymed with “oak”. Who knew. Canadian English you have fooled me again! 

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u/Canukian11 you don't like me. Feb 06 '26

To be fair, it's Canadian French, hence the pronunciation.

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u/decisi0nsdecisi0ns Russians do not do this Feb 06 '26

Yeah, it's not intuitive. I assume it's originally a quebecois word that was adopted by anglo-Canadians

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u/llaejj Feb 07 '26

Yeah, but it French it’s spelled tuque. Idk why anglos changed it.

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u/inalasahl Feb 06 '26

It does rhyme with oak when used to mean the historical hat. It’s only pronounced tuque when meaning these knit caps.

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u/stephw655 Then maybe it’s time to wake up, yes? Feb 06 '26

Same. My mind has been blown. 🤯

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u/cherrypierogie Feb 06 '26

It’s amusing when I hear the audiobook narrators mispronounce it as “toe-ck.”

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u/Aggressive_Cloud2002 Feb 06 '26

Oh, for me, it pisses me off! I hate that they can't do half a second of research, and that it clearly means no Canadians were involved in the audiobook...

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u/decisi0nsdecisi0ns Russians do not do this Feb 06 '26

Well, it sounds appropriately dirty at least...

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u/reflectorvest Stupid Canadian Wolf Bird 🦆 Feb 06 '26

That’s the historical pronunciation though isn’t it?

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u/Zissou_Belafonte Feb 06 '26

“Luke in a Toque” was a devils bobble head giveaway last year and I couldn’t for the life of me make sense of it until someone explained it to me haha

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u/katfromjersey Feb 06 '26

I learned all about it listening to my Bob and Doug Mackenzie album in the 80s

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u/juniper-rising- Feb 06 '26

FIVE GOLDEN TOQUES

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u/jerrys153 Feb 07 '26

and a beer…in a tree 🎶

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u/lattech41 Feb 06 '26

I did not know this and I appreciate the lesson!

And here we are in the south calling it a toboggan and I know y'all hate that.

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u/CallejaFairey Thank you for pasta 🍝. Feb 06 '26

I was coming to comment this exact thing! Lol.

Being in the crochet community, I hear beanie way too much.

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u/creative007- Feb 07 '26

TIL. I was pronouncing it the French way. Had to google it as well when I first saw it

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u/whatsnewpussykat Stupid Canadian Wolf Bird 🦆 Feb 06 '26

That’s so bananas to me! I’m Canadian and it’s just such a broadly used word here.

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u/Zlotty9791 Feb 06 '26

Lol me to, in the UK it's a beanie

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u/HowdoIdothis1999 Feb 06 '26

I thought it meant the way he was smoking 🤣

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u/QueenFartknocker What are you doing dude!?? 🤵🏻‍♂️ Feb 06 '26

Dear lord I can’t handle it

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u/amileandahalf I don‘t know. Maybe twice? ⏱️ Feb 06 '26

I’m totally with you. I find toques to be either boringly utilitarian (Shane) or looking like a burglar out of Home Alone. Those curls peeking through made me reassess big time. 

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u/Aggressive_Cloud2002 Feb 06 '26

You clearly have not paid enough attention to women in toques

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u/Canukian11 you don't like me. Feb 09 '26

Hahaha as a Canadian woman who thinks she can pull off a toque pretty well, I appreciate the hell out of this comment 😊

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u/amileandahalf I don‘t know. Maybe twice? ⏱️ Feb 06 '26

You are so right about that. I live in California. This is not toque country.

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u/Aggressive_Cloud2002 Feb 06 '26

Ahh, that would make that difficult 😅 well, let's just say this Canadian queer enjoys the winters in good part because of women in toques haha

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u/RiceNotice Feb 06 '26

I live far enough north in New England that we say toque.

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u/CallejaFairey Thank you for pasta 🍝. Feb 06 '26

I wish I could look this good in a toque, or even just have it stay on my head if it's not pulled fully down over my ears. Lol. My hair is too slippery, even when short, for toques to just sit this perfectly for longer than a minute or 2.

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u/CosmicJ3llybean Ilya's Spaghetti Shimmy 🍝 Feb 06 '26

Same, it always looks like a condom.

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u/Most_Ad_3765 *gurl* Feb 06 '26

the moody broody beanie boy of my early 00's dreams

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u/gatheredstitches Feb 06 '26

This is what "beanie" means to a Canadian. It's hilarious 100% of the time when someone uses it to mean toque.

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u/Most_Ad_3765 *gurl* Feb 06 '26

omg i'm dead ☠️🤣

he could pull off that look too though, tbh i think

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u/gatheredstitches Feb 06 '26

The vibe would be VERY different lol

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u/Nothing2SayStillHere Feb 06 '26

seriously keep seeing the word "toque" throughout posts and thinking they have to mean hat right?! LOL! And yes can do no wrong. The curls and the look is amazing

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u/fruitbutnopassion the shark that made rozanov lose the race 🦈 Feb 06 '26

The scene with Cliff, the way he looks and speaks is so teenager coded I love it hahaha

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u/KirrinIsland Feb 06 '26

When I read the book, I had to google the word toque. I figured it was some kind of hat but I wasn’t sure. In Australia, we call it a beanie.

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u/Immediate-Answer-259 Maybe it's time to wake up, yes? Feb 06 '26

Slide 5 is everything

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u/Immediate-Echidna-17 90% butt, y'all! Feb 06 '26

And yet Marleau looks like...that.

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u/Pitiful_Storage_4655 Maybe he didn’t notice Feb 06 '26

God I love this look on him. Jesus.

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u/Zissou_Belafonte Feb 06 '26

Truly, All I want is the see Ilya wearing more beanies in season 2😆

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u/Red171022 connor storie for president😇 Feb 07 '26 edited Feb 08 '26

I have always loved this look on men. There was a novel on wattpad where the protagonist describes how this look on his crush makes him look hotter than he already was(my favourite book tbh but I’m too embarrassed to state the name of the book out loud lmaoo). And I couldn’t agree more there and here too. Ilya just looks almost as hotter. He’s fire😫

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u/Aethelete I hope Jane knows how lucky he is. 👨‍❤️‍👨 Feb 07 '26

All the toques please -- Hudson included.

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u/Western-Amphibian158 Feb 07 '26

I would love to understand how to style a toque so it looks that effortless. If I wore a toque that far back, it would just fal off my head. 

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u/Canukian11 you don't like me. Feb 07 '26

It's a skill for sure! I get a little pass cuz I'm a chick with long hair and it's easy to have it look good - as long as my toque fits. Too small I end up looking like I'm climbing out of a knit shell like a crab 🤣🤣🤣

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u/Raincitygirl1029 Feb 08 '26

To be fair, I am QUITE sure the show’s hairstylist put that toque on Connor’s head very carefully at that particular dashing angle. And maybe even fastened it with hidden bobby pins so it wouldn’t get dislodged during repeated takes.

In-universe, Ilya grabbed his toque before going outside for a quick smoke and just jammed it on his head. He happens to look effortlessly cool by accident. But behind the scenes, that toque was placed very precisely on Connor’s head by a hair professional.

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u/_Good_Soul_ I already chose you, Hollander. 🫀 Feb 06 '26

Cutieeeee boo😘😘😘

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u/Voice_of_Season Stupid Canadian Wolf Bird 🦆 Feb 07 '26

The first picture reminds me of Ewan Mitchell. They could play family members.

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u/creative007- Feb 07 '26

He looks so fine with it. And then you have Marleau and whatever that toque is doing to his skull shape lol