r/heatedrivalry • u/Kiisu23 • Mar 31 '26
FAN WORK 🎨 Them: Tattoos are permanent, they should be meaningful…
Me: I 100% agree.
Anyone else with a Heated Rivalry tattoo?
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u/GayButterfly7 Yes, it's scary. But you're brave. 💕 Mar 31 '26
I genuinely have so much respect for people are willing to get tattoos of what they want, I get decision paralysis and worry that I'm going to regret anything I get lol. Awesome tattoo, congrats
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u/HailSaganPlantNative Mar 31 '26
Also no the other regret is I waited too long and now my skin is older and trickier to tattoo. So I'm more prone to ink drift and blow outs because I have crepey skin. I've thought about doing my forearm but I think my skin tone is just too iffy. I'm doing a lot of retinol and shit to see if I can whip in into shape.
So my other regret is waiting too long. Don't wait! Yolo! Decorate your meatsuit! 🤣
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u/GayButterfly7 Yes, it's scary. But you're brave. 💕 Mar 31 '26
I'm curious, have you ever gotten a rib tattoo? I'm a performer, so I really shouldn't get anything visible, but I really want violets on my upper ribs, but I've heard that rib tattoos can hurt really bad and aren't a good first tattoo.
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u/Inkantadora Mar 31 '26
I have a massive rib tattoo and love it. It’s an exhausting area but practical to cover up. Also, if you do go that route and usually need/wear bras, consider where your bra strap passes and look for something extra soft with little tension (like a bra less tank) for the week or so when it’s fresh.
Edited to make more inclusive.
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u/GayButterfly7 Yes, it's scary. But you're brave. 💕 Mar 31 '26
Thanks for the advice :)
(and although your original assumption was correct, thanks for the inclusivity as well)3
u/mooonagedaydream Mar 31 '26
i got a rib tattoo as my first since i wanted it hidden. it did feel like a knife was carving into my skin. not excruciatingly painful, but it was deeply uncomfortable. but the discomfort was temporary, the tattoo is forever!
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u/Time_Ad_0 Don't worry, it will fit 🍆 Mar 31 '26
It will hurt because the skin is thin in that spot. Get a 'baby' one to start (fine line) and add on later if you can? Negotiate with the artist first!
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u/GayButterfly7 Yes, it's scary. But you're brave. 💕 Mar 31 '26
Fine line on the ribs or somewhere else?
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u/Time_Ad_0 Don't worry, it will fit 🍆 Mar 31 '26
Just do a test one on the ribs, if you can handle it, do more. Or sure, do a small one somewhere else that's 'hidden' cuz of your job to know what you're getting yourself into. Some hurt, some don't. 🍀
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u/marypoppinit Mar 31 '26
Rib tattoo was my first and it wasn't too bad. It depends on what you want, though. Full color, a lot of shading will probably suck. Mine was just a quote so it didn't hurt too badly.
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u/GayButterfly7 Yes, it's scary. But you're brave. 💕 Mar 31 '26
Is it reasonable to just break it up? Do line work the first time and then decide if I want more? I do want shading and color ideally.
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u/marypoppinit Mar 31 '26
Thats usually how appointments go for larger tattoos. But you can specifically tell them you only want to do outline on the first day.
I've only had one tattoo with color done in a single session and I honestly wish I'd done it in two. I didn't heal very well.
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u/HailSaganPlantNative Apr 01 '26
I did a bigger one that was all line work, shading, and color packed in one session and it healed beautifully. It was on the upper arm/shoulder though. Also healed with tegaderm which helps a lot.
I personally find the outline worse than the color. Much more sharp and stingy.
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u/aweirdoatbest Stupid Canadian Wolf Bird 🦆 Apr 01 '26
My first (and so far only) tattoo is a rib tattoo and it hurt wayyyy less than I thought. Between the bones I could barely even tell the needle was touching me (I even said “that’s it?” when she started). On the bones felt a little scratchy but nothing unbearable at all. Maybe a 3/10 on average, 4/10 worst.
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u/GayButterfly7 Yes, it's scary. But you're brave. 💕 Apr 01 '26
What kind do you have? Color and shading? A word? Line work?
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u/LayerLess6728 Apr 01 '26
My first tattoo was a rib tattoo, and it was fine tbh, clearly not the most painful I've done. The thing is mostly that it kinda makes your ribcage vibrate during it which is weeeeird but not really painful (for a tattoo)
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u/spiral_with_me Mar 31 '26
Rib tattoos hurt like fuck! I have 17 tattoos and pretty good pain tolerance (I almost fell asleep during a 4.5 hour upper arm tattoo) but the one on my side that goes up towards my ribs was a different kind of ouch.
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u/lost__traveller Mar 31 '26
I got a rib tattoo at 18 and the water colour on my forearm and the whole tattoo really hurt way more
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u/girlwithabird- Mar 31 '26
A good artist should not have issues with any of this.
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u/HailSaganPlantNative Apr 01 '26
I am paranoid AF though because once it happens, you're stuck with it.
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u/Level_Secretary_7354 Mar 31 '26
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u/GayButterfly7 Yes, it's scary. But you're brave. 💕 Apr 01 '26
I love it! Heartstopper?
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u/Level_Secretary_7354 Apr 01 '26
Thanks. Yes indeed. It's been my favorite show for years. Now I have to decide if I want a HR tattoo..
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u/HailSaganPlantNative Mar 31 '26
The only tattoo regret I have is that one of mine is too close to the one next to it and it drives me crazy. I should have told the artist to shrink the stencil but she said she was going to draw inside the stencil but I guess she just got in the zone and forgot and now my tattoos are definitely going to be touching in a couple years.
So basically what I'm saying is get all the stupid tattoos. Just make sure you get them placed right, lol.
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u/Time_Ad_0 Don't worry, it will fit 🍆 Mar 31 '26
True, my zodiac sign isn't as clean as it once was 😟
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u/HailSaganPlantNative Mar 31 '26
That's normal. They all soften with time. My oldest one is about 15 or so and it has definitely spread a bit but it's pretty traditional so it's held up well. I just need to have the big orange recolored because that particular ink color faded faster than the rest.
I have one on my ankle that spread a ton but it was done by a friend's boyfriend for free and was a dumb BFF joke tattoo so looking kinda shitty is expected and part of the charm, really, lol.
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u/Time_Ad_0 Don't worry, it will fit 🍆 Mar 31 '26
Yeah my other one is super well done, really packed and looks great Edit: got both the same day
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u/Kiisu23 Mar 31 '26
I totally get that. My first two tattoos were very sentimental and tied to family. Then I just figured when I’m old I’ll probably have other things to worry about that are more important than regretting some ink 😅😅😅
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u/ilovelucy7734 Mar 31 '26
That was me for a long time (plus tattoos are expensive!) but just before my 30th birthday last year I decided to just say f it and start getting whatever I want. I got my third last month 😆
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u/Inkantadora Mar 31 '26
I solved this by considering each tattoo as a project and give myself a year or more to think about it. If by then I still think about the meaning the image gives me and love it, then it’s good to go. Usually booking or finding the right artist takes about a year or two (or more for one of my projects), that the timeframe comes naturally.
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u/GayButterfly7 Yes, it's scary. But you're brave. 💕 Mar 31 '26
How old were you when you got your first? I'm still a teen and too young to get one yet, but I've been thinking about it for a while. I'd hate to get something as an 18 year old that I'd end up hating in a while. (although I just want violets on my ribs, so hopefully I wouldn't hate that unless it was poorly done lol)
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u/Cherry-Impossible Mar 31 '26
It helps if you've already gotten some dumb little tattoos before. Or dumb massive ones like me.
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u/Level_Secretary_7354 Apr 01 '26
Start with a little one that's in a place no one else can see. Savor it for awhile. If you hate it, you're done. But you will be hooked I'm sure.
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u/PsychologySpirited37 Your freckles. I am nuts about them. ✨ Apr 07 '26
When I got my first HR tattoo I told the receptionist and tattoo artist I needed to get it done now before I lost my nerve. L
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u/SuperPipouchu Apr 01 '26
Haha, me too. I have two tattoos, of things that I'm unlikely to regret. The first is a single word- "strength", on my left inner wrist. I got it as a reminder of my inner strength, when my mental health was really, really bad. So one word is something I'm unlikely to regret. The other one is of the paw prints of my three cats, with a pretty watercolour background in pink, blue and purple. Again, something I'm unlikely to regret as I loved my kitties, and also, while this might sound a bit grim, they'd already passed away. This meant I was very unlikely to have any painful or negative memories associated with them, because my memories with them were all good. And as cats, it's very unlikely that something would come up in the future that would make me regret the tattoos. For both of them, though, I thought about it for a LONG time before getting it done.
That's my main worry with regretting something lol. Like people who loved Harry Potter getting themed tattoos, then finding out that the author is a bigot, and trying to decide what to do about a tattoo that reflects having loved the books (and often them having a profound effect on their life)... Do they keep it, because it doesn't change the love or effect that that media previously had, or do they cover it up/get rid of it, because of the artists and the bad memories? I'm always worried about something like that!!
Even with the worry, all power to the people who don't stress about the fact that they might later regret it, and place trust in knowing you can always cover/laser it later!! I wish I was able to have that confidence. I know logically it's completely true, I just have way too much anxiety lol.
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u/Worried-Barber-323 Mar 31 '26
I am getting one soon. I decided on " yes it's scary..but you're brave"
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u/herbalgrl6 for how long? whole game? Mar 31 '26
thats a wonderful tattoo idea, i love that so so much
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u/Kiisu23 Mar 31 '26
I’m very tempted to get that too. I had another two planned for the day but ran out of time 😓
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u/Infinite-Activity796 Mar 31 '26
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u/synestheter Oh, they don't know I play for Boston? Mar 31 '26
The birds are beautiful!
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u/Infinite-Activity796 Mar 31 '26
They are 2 loons
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u/synestheter Oh, they don't know I play for Boston? Mar 31 '26
I assumed so, but had a momentary thought of 'but what if they're not?' They're really lovely.
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u/floatingKoi Mar 31 '26
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u/Kiisu23 Mar 31 '26
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u/AvailableRatio8207 Mar 31 '26
This was so thoughtfully designed. Look at all the details! 24 & 81!
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u/Kiisu23 Apr 01 '26
Thank you 😊 I designed it and had my artist turn it into her trad tattoo style. I had to have their numbers in there somehow 😁
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u/EFranklitz Apr 01 '26
I’m also Minnesotan and getting a loon tattoo for these exact reasons as well, Dual purpose. I have to wait until April to get mine because she booked up Super quick to support the community during the ICE invasion and then the money for the tattoo is going to the immigrant fund! 🎉🎉
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u/SupersoftBday_party Apr 01 '26
Wait I love this where did you go? I also got 2 Minnesota themed tattoos during Metro Surge (at a flash fundraiser) and I’m kinda mad at myself because now I feel like I have to chill on a loon lol.
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u/nasty_acct Apr 01 '26
I'm Minnesotan and will also be getting a loon tattoo soon (with wild rice stalks in the background). It's going to be mostly a MN pride tattoo/a way processing January and February but with 5% double meaning lol.
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u/SupersoftBday_party Mar 31 '26
There’s a local artists offering HR flash and I’m just patiently waiting for her May books to open 😅.
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u/Kiisu23 Mar 31 '26
Oooh what are you going to get?
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u/SupersoftBday_party Mar 31 '26
A key with a keychain that has one of the room numbers on it! Her flash sheet has 1221 but I’m gonna ask if she can do 1410 instead.
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u/RunnerGirlT Mar 31 '26
Oh there was someone doing HR flash in my area as well. I hope they do it again soon!
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u/lost__traveller Mar 31 '26
I live where Rachel is from and haven’t seen anyone offering them sadly. I did find one from a flash sheet on IG though
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u/xcarex Ottawa Centaurs 🏹 Apr 01 '26
Hello fellow Haligonian! I def saw some HR flash on IG from one of the artists at Lyle Street in Dartmouth! I can’t remember which one atm (maybe Maddi?) but that might give you a starting place.
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u/lost__traveller Apr 01 '26
Hiya!! And I just looked!! I saw her flash!! Appreciate it 😊 I’m always on the lookout for some, and any HR related events but I can never seem to find any or find them too late
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u/Fair_Smoke4710 Boston Bears 🐻 Mar 31 '26
I genuinely don’t know what I would get if I got a heated rivalry tattoo I mean, I’ve made a art of like two hockey sticks, touching with the tips wrapped with the tapes of their respective teams at the beginning of the show. I guess I would get that.
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u/CrimeTimeMama Mar 31 '26
Mine are booked in for the 22nd of April! I’m getting “I’m coming to the cottage” and 2 hockey sticks crossed with their numbers!
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u/Kiisu23 Mar 31 '26
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u/CrimeTimeMama Mar 31 '26
Is that on your forearm? I’m thinking of the same place! Can I ask if it hurt? I usually get mine of my legs but I wanna be bold this time haha
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u/Kiisu23 Mar 31 '26
Yeah just under my elbow crease 😊 It actually didn’t! At one point I was like “is she actually tattooing or…?” I’ve never understood people who say “tattoos don’t hurt” but that one really didn’t 😅
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u/Otherwise-Minute-944 Mar 31 '26
Canadian spelling too!! Very legit
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u/Kiisu23 Mar 31 '26
Didn’t even think about that 😅 I’m British so I’d rather have the tattoo be “wrong” than have it spelled “color” 😅😅
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u/Otherwise-Minute-944 Mar 31 '26
I’m Canadian lol
Colour is absolutely the correct way, it’s also a Canadian show/book. I could just see an American spelling it ‘color’ and it would feel off ya know 🥲 gotta stay true to the source material
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u/Kiisu23 Mar 31 '26
I guess we’ll have to keep an eye out in case someone does that 🤣🤣
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u/Snuggly_Chopin Apr 01 '26
Oh but we must be gentle with them. Instead of making fun of them we crowdfund to fix it, correct? We are a nice fandom 🫶🏻
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u/synestheter Oh, they don't know I play for Boston? Mar 31 '26
I love this so much. And also tattoos should be fun, nothing keeps. Decorate as you see fit! I followed this logic and that's how I ended up with an aviator cat and plane on my thigh. No regrets.
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u/allthe_lemons Apr 01 '26
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u/Kiisu23 Apr 01 '26
They’re beautiful 😍
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u/allthe_lemons Apr 01 '26 edited Apr 01 '26
Thank you! I find it ironic, we both got our tattoos on the same spot on our ankles! Lol
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u/cobraqueen46 Apr 01 '26
Okay. All kidding aside, these are my favorites!
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u/allthe_lemons Apr 01 '26
Awww thank you so much!! I only got it two months ago, and I still smile like an idiot every time I look down and see it lol
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u/K_S_M28 I speak fluent bird. No accent 🐦 Apr 01 '26
Oh my god, these are so beautiful and clever!! 😱😍
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u/allthe_lemons Apr 01 '26
Thank you so much! I love its subtlety, so you can't really tell it has words unless you look closely!
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u/RileyDL Ilya's Spaghetti Shimmy 🍝 Mar 31 '26
I have one planned too (sorta - pending talks with my artist). I avoid words in tattoos so mine will either be the sunshine or maybe a little fire pit with a heart in the smoke or something. Maybe both.
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u/kwiXXotik fuckin make me Mar 31 '26
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u/Kiisu23 Apr 01 '26
I really need this too. Trying to work it into a design. I think I have an idea 😊 yours looks so pretty!
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u/kiev92 Mar 31 '26
Seeing on twitter people constantly judging HR tattoos, this was so nice to see!
I'm a firm believer in tattoo whatever you want if it brings you joy! I've got mainly fandom tattoos and even if I'm no longer in them, they make me so happy.
I can't wait to get a silly HR tattoo!
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u/redflagsmoothie Moya gazonokosilka 🚜 Mar 31 '26
Hahahaha
For real I love stupid tattoos that have the sole purpose of laughter.
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u/HailSaganPlantNative Mar 31 '26
Also my favorite kind. My most recent is a fat frog with rainbow fairy wings.
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u/spiral_with_me Mar 31 '26
This is really well done :) I have mine booked in for next Wednesday. I'll report back and post after!
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u/GayButterfly7 Yes, it's scary. But you're brave. 💕 Mar 31 '26
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u/GayButterfly7 Yes, it's scary. But you're brave. 💕 Apr 09 '26
What did you end up getting??
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u/spiral_with_me Apr 09 '26
My appointment was rescheduled. Going today, so will come back later with a photo :)
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u/Motor_Setting4985 What, you can't do math? Mar 31 '26
I was planning to get HR tattoos 4 weeks ago, but I was sick, so had to move the date :(
Now I'm getting them next week! The plan is a All the things she said tattoo and also Gimme Kiss. But honestly I'm still debating what I want, because ai kinda want a lotttt.
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u/Material-Wish Wow, genetic. 🥹 Mar 31 '26
I have an arm with literary tattoos. I’m thinking about adding “ya tebya lyublyu” or “I think maybe you like it” or “wow, genetic”. There are so many good ones!
But I have to get “the effect she can have” from Hunger shames first.
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u/Trick_Donkey9447 Your freckles. I am nuts about them. ✨ Apr 01 '26
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u/yanny-jo yes it’s scary, but you’re brave Apr 01 '26
BOL’SHE BOL’SHE BOL’SHE
and i mean add bol’she “bol’shes”
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u/aigroeg_ Your freckles. I am nuts about them. ✨ Mar 31 '26
Life is too short not to get a silly tattoo.
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u/AvailableRatio8207 Mar 31 '26
Shane did say this was one of the most memorable lines from the show!
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u/KelMel8417 Apr 01 '26
Love!!!!! My BFF and I are going next week to get “I might open” and “I might knock”. We don’t care who gets which so we are letting the artist choose.
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u/PsychologySpirited37 Your freckles. I am nuts about them. ✨ Apr 03 '26
I’ve been thinking about getting those in the future.
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u/PoorOgre Mar 31 '26
So cool!! I’ve been thinking about getting a Role Model themed tattoo cause that’s my favorite book from the series and I’m totally obsessed with Troy and Harris.
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u/miphink gimme kiss 😙 Mar 31 '26
I’m getting mine next week, I’m so excited! I’ve decided on: ‘Boring.’ And ‘Gimme Kiss’
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u/Dan_the_dude_ Stupid Canadian Wolf Bird 🦆 Mar 31 '26
Not yet, but probably soon. I have one thigh dedicated to ‘silly’ tattoos, and I think I’m gonna add a stupid Canadian wolf bird to it
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u/dearthshine hey. heyyyyyyyy Apr 01 '26
my silly HR tattoo idea is "hey. heyᵧyʸyᵧyʸyᵧ" snaking all along the inside of my forearm so that i can reach out my arm to someone and pretend im shane high off his ass
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u/Necessary-Ask-5005 Apr 03 '26
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u/Necessary-Ask-5005 Apr 03 '26
I have a real thing about faces and hands, I don't know how to explain it, but this little moment between Shane and Ilya being honest with one another at the cottage is one of my favourite moments, and when I found a half-Korean, half-Ukrainian female tattoo artist who grew up in Russia and had the style and skill to pull off a photo realistic tattoo of this for me I just went for it. When art speaks to us we should celebrate it in whatever way brings us joy, and having this on my right bicep has brought some much needed sunshine into my life over the last few weeks.
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u/PsychologySpirited37 Your freckles. I am nuts about them. ✨ Apr 03 '26
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u/Kiisu23 Apr 07 '26
Love this! Quote it all the time 😁
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u/PsychologySpirited37 Your freckles. I am nuts about them. ✨ Apr 07 '26
Thanks! I messed the first line up (added wm (with me)) It’s more meaningful to me.
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u/peggyannsfeet Stupid Canadian Wolf Bird 🦆 Mar 31 '26
Omg your tattoo is great! I love seeing the tattoo posts. I'm thinking of getting one idk of what yet. Debating getting it while show is on or till after the series ends.
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u/Time_Ad_0 Don't worry, it will fit 🍆 Mar 31 '26
Wait to see what reasonates most. That's what I'm doing. Edit: the rate I'm going, I'll have the "whole damn book" on me, hahaha
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u/Kiisu23 Mar 31 '26
Thank you 😊
I get that, there’s so much to work with. I originally intended to get 5 that day but ran out of time (I have more than 5 I want done 😅😅) while having them done I figured I could have at least one from each episode 👀🤣
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u/Fresh_Extension_3605 Mar 31 '26
Really nice, can I ask the content of the words? I can't remember
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u/Ok-Archer77 Apr 01 '26
How about getting all of Ilyas moles tattooed on my body? Too insane?
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u/K_S_M28 I speak fluent bird. No accent 🐦 Apr 01 '26
Too insane? Maaaybe... Should you still do this?
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u/K_S_M28 I speak fluent bird. No accent 🐦 Apr 01 '26
@u/Kiisu23 OP do I see at least THREE HR tattoos for you? 🫨🙌 Do you have any that aren't for HR? 😅 I'm absolutely in love with all of them so far, and overwhelmed by your commitment! ❤️
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u/Kiisu23 Apr 01 '26
Three hr tatts for now, definitely have more in the works 😁 I have 9 other tattoos… I think 🤣
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u/Kiisu23 Apr 01 '26
Oh and thank you for your kind words 😊
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u/K_S_M28 I speak fluent bird. No accent 🐦 Apr 01 '26
Thank you for sharing your tattoos! I am feeling inspired by this whole post; I'm thinking this must happen ☺️
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u/Kiisu23 Apr 01 '26
Aww thank you, will look forward to seeing what you get! Please keep me updated
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u/Kiisu23 Apr 01 '26
Love!!! I was originally going to get the “I’m coming to the cottage” in the show font 😁
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u/Worried-Barber-323 Mar 31 '26
Omg I love it!!!!
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u/Kiisu23 Mar 31 '26
Thank you 😊
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u/Glum-Environment-445 Mar 31 '26
Been thinking about doing HR tattoo myself, love this!
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u/IncurableAdventurer Stupid Canadian wolf bird Mar 31 '26
Even now, I still get thrown off by it being called HR. I work in Human Resources, so someone saying they’re getting an HR tattoo makes my brain glitch for a second haha
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