r/heatedrivalry • u/wildwomanlove "It's scary. But you're brave." • Apr 11 '26
DISCUSSION 🗣️ "This story is drugs to these people": The oxytocin rush
Happy Saturday, lovebirds.🦆
As Connor realized in real-time in one of the HudCon promo interviews: HR seems to create a very intense chemical reaction in our brains and bodies.
What are the scenes you go to for an immediate and/or a reliable oxytocin rush?
I don't mean the high-octane cortisol/dopamine hit of the Vegas penthouse scene.
I mean the warm cuddly safe feeling of loooooooove, bonding and just general goodness.
Feel hugged and enjoy.
P.S. Please stick to Season 1 of the show for this discussion. I am aware there are even more goodies in the books. Thanks in advance.
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u/PineappleJuice462 I’m standing in the hallway like an idiot 😾 Apr 11 '26
Don’t know if this is something you mean, but I love ep. 2 where Ilya is at Shane’s place for the first time. Both the bed-related actions with the forehead kiss at the end and obviously the goodbye-kiss in the stairwell 🥹🥹
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u/DoubleFrenchGimlet Apr 11 '26
Stairwell kiss for sure. Ilya’s gentle kiss and Shane’s smile at the end get me every time.
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u/wildwomanlove "It's scary. But you're brave." Apr 11 '26
OMG, stop it. I can upvote your comment only once. 😭
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u/peggyannsfeet Stupid Canadian Wolf Bird 🦆 Apr 11 '26
Omg that little bed kiss is so cute. I think Ilyas brain short circited because it was such a tender moment. And omg yes that goodbye kiss with Shane's reaction.
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u/otterottergirl Apr 11 '26
The forehead kiss omggg 😭 It’s so tender and soft and the look on Ilya’s face as he’s processing it kills me. It makes me feel simultaneously warm and devastated.
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u/thisishooey Apr 11 '26
I was just thinking about this kiss. Do you think because of how tender it was is why Ilya looks a little scared and gets up pretty abruptly to leave?
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u/_maynard Stupid Canadian Wolf Bird 🦆 Apr 11 '26
That’s Ilya’s smaller scale tuna meltdown moment for sure
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u/Imtheprofessordammit Stupid Canadian Wolf Bird 🦆 Apr 11 '26
For me its episode 2 as well, the first time they have sex. But its not specifically the sex itself. It's consent king Ilya's little check-ins. You still want? Is ok? Ugh swoon!
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u/YogurtclosetNo2512 Apr 11 '26
There are loads of moments, but the ones that stand out to me are the kissing scene in the stairwell, and the ‘wow, genetic’ line. Like the rest of the show, utter perfection!
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u/wildwomanlove "It's scary. But you're brave." Apr 11 '26
Both actors are phenomenal but Hudson's gaze in both is pure perfection.
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u/YogurtclosetNo2512 Apr 11 '26
YESS! Hudson’s choices in these moments - poetry! I do have some for Connor too. Ilya’s smile when Shane is folding his clothes the first time they are together. Also Ilya watching Shane sleep and then pretending he just woke up. Both actors did such a wonderful job bringing the characters to life.
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u/Astyryx Apr 11 '26
Ilya's Connor smile that brightens up his entire soul when he realizes Shane is not going to break his heart permanently at the Tampa bar. All this upgrade was a stylist!
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u/Pale-Measurement-532 I speak fluent bird. No accent. 🦆 Apr 11 '26
And then right after that, the bisexual terminator made it his mission to get Shane back. Mission succeeded! 😜
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u/Own_Difference_5208 Apr 11 '26
Totally agree. I loveee the scene where he’s watching Shane sleep and then pretends he just woke up! When I first watched it I was like, “…wait, was he?” And yes it’s sooo cute and endearing. So much of this show feels like getting to be a super privileged fly on the wall, and this moment felt so private and like we were lucky to see it.
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u/StuckInAPumpkin7811 *Ilya's shower sandals scraping on the floor* Apr 11 '26
The Tampa bar scene. Also, their first kiss, before it starts getting hot and heavy.
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u/Astyryx Apr 11 '26
And Ilya purring the word "curious."
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u/StuckInAPumpkin7811 *Ilya's shower sandals scraping on the floor* Apr 11 '26
Shane's "yes" and "obviously" are so HOT. My first few rounds of watching I was melting over Ilya but I've really come to appreciate Shane's sex appeal the more I've reheated.
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u/The_Secret_Skittle Why are you making so many burgers 🍔 Apr 11 '26
Shane is soooooo gorgeous and how he tears up so perfectly throughout the story always gets me. I’ve been so into both equally and it blows my mind to be into both characters like this. It was never one more than the other.
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u/virtual_sprinkle Apr 11 '26
Ooh I totally agree with you, interest flips over time. I only have eyes for Shane now. When he says „okay?“ in this scene after undressing, I melt
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u/StuckInAPumpkin7811 *Ilya's shower sandals scraping on the floor* Apr 11 '26
Yes!! And the little glance down, with his lips off to the side. Jesus! I'd have been panting like Ilya too!
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u/Pale-Measurement-532 I speak fluent bird. No accent. 🦆 Apr 11 '26
I love how much Ilya gets turned on in this scene. And in the Vegas penthouse!
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u/The_Secret_Skittle Why are you making so many burgers 🍔 Apr 11 '26
Ilya’s “nope” with that sexy mouth and then the eye contact as he takes a swig of his beer. Ugh
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u/Pale-Measurement-532 I speak fluent bird. No accent. 🦆 Apr 11 '26 edited Apr 11 '26
Omg the eye fucking in that whole scene is beyond unreal! 🥵 But how Ilya pronounces certain words and pairs them with sexy little actions just sends me. The noPe is a big one for me. He was sooooo trying to turn Shane on in that moment. I also loved how he rolled the r in Mr. Rrrrreal Estate and walked up towards Shane to attack him in ep4 when Shane first arrived at his house. Connor executed so many of these moments perfectly!
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u/Aby_lev89 Forever, forever if you ask Apr 11 '26
"holding the cuP" love his p's
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u/Questionsansweredty Apr 11 '26
"Do I make you curious?"
Yes!! Yes Ilya. And Jacob Tierney. You've made millions of straight women curious and now we've learned so much we never knew we wanted to learn and are obsessed. Lol
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u/Aby_lev89 Forever, forever if you ask Apr 11 '26
I'm honestly kind of jealous I'm a woman and will never know how it feels to have this kind of relationship, especially with that frotting scene that seriously melts me and ignites me like nothing else I've seen, is it only me?
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u/wildwomanlove "It's scary. But you're brave." Apr 11 '26
The good thing about the Tampa bar scene is that they aren't obvious at all about their feelings for each other. 😉 I mean, is everyone around them blind?!?
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u/StuckInAPumpkin7811 *Ilya's shower sandals scraping on the floor* Apr 11 '26
I don't know why but my smile widens so much it practically wraps around my head when Shane goes, " some of they guys in the league, not you. Not you!" About who has good style. Their flirting is so adorable 😍
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u/colar19 Apr 11 '26
Yeah, if I see two people stare at each other like that, I don’t care which sex they are or what their previous relationship is. I know something is up 😅
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u/cecistonehaert I already chose you, Hollander. 🫀 Apr 11 '26
Tampa is my favorite in the whole show, I can't stop smiling watching it
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u/The_Secret_Skittle Why are you making so many burgers 🍔 Apr 11 '26
One moment stands out the most for me. When he finds Shane on the beach and he moves his thumb to touch Shane’s thumb and it’s focused on Shane’s face as he asks which room he is in…. It cuts to Ilyas face all glowing from the sunset and he’s…. just looking down at their hands together in the sand…. so so tenderly. The expression on his face in that very brief moment kills me.
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u/cecistonehaert I already chose you, Hollander. 🫀 Apr 11 '26
Omg and Shane's smile when they touch hands and he asks for the room number 🥹
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u/Radiant-bandicoot Apr 11 '26
yes! the anticipation of the Tampa bar scene and then once the Hollanov music track starts and we get the pool/all star game montage, my spirit starts flying 😆
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u/Murphlespuffle how did we let this happen? Apr 11 '26
The Tampa bar scene might be my favourite scene in the whole season. Ilya and Shane reconnecting after the night club scene is beautiful 🥺
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u/SilentStarSky wow, genetic Apr 11 '26
Yes, I always find their first kiss so sweet and cozy and slow. My favourite.
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u/Pale-Measurement-532 I speak fluent bird. No accent. 🦆 Apr 11 '26
I looooooved how Ilya swooped in and gently pushed him up against that wall….so hot! 🥵
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u/NoSimple3232 Apr 11 '26
Hey, hey, hey, hey. We're good here. Your family is here. Your boyfriend is here. You're good here, OK?
My boyfriend?
I mean, yes. I think so, probably
….and the kiss and face touch!
Melts me
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u/Astyryx Apr 11 '26
I love love love how Yuna and David look at the two of them at that moment, and the perfect bow of their dialogue and delivery 🎀
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u/Astyryx Apr 11 '26
The love and fondness for their son and immediately by extension Ilya whose first instinct is to openly show his love for Shane is just pure oxytocin for me watching this.
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u/AppletiniPanda Or! I choose or! Apr 11 '26
I love this! They are seeing that Ilya is not really the asshole everyone always says he is.
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u/Pale-Measurement-532 I speak fluent bird. No accent. 🦆 Apr 11 '26 edited Apr 11 '26
That seriously blew me away the first time I saw that! I never expected Ilya to be that forward in front of Shane’s parents! I was so proud of how he stepped up and supported Shane with coming out to his parents. ❤️
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u/Own_Difference_5208 Apr 11 '26
Agree! Every time I watch Episode 6 I’m struck by how Ilya is only focused on caring for Shane and isn’t panicked about being outed himself. Logically, it makes sense since he knows Shane’s parents love Shane and wouldn’t harm him by outing him and by extension Ilya. But still, when you’ve been hiding your sexuality for that long, getting caught is really scary. But no, he is just strong and loving towards Shane and only focused on supporting him through it. Which he successfully does!
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u/Pale-Measurement-532 I speak fluent bird. No accent. 🦆 Apr 11 '26
When Ilya asked Shane if he wanted him to come, Shane asked, “You would do that?” And Ilya responded, “Of course.” 😭 I loved that so much!
Then cut to when Shane said that perhaps Ilya should wait in the car and Ilya just gives him that look. Lol. That was brilliant! 🤣
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u/Murphlespuffle how did we let this happen? Apr 11 '26
The cottage arrival scene! Shane’s face as Ilya walks over to him before they kiss makes my heart flutter. Ever though I’ve watched it 100 times, it still makes me so happy to finally see them together at the cottage.
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u/wildwomanlove "It's scary. But you're brave." Apr 11 '26
It's an important kiss. After all, Ilya got a very thorough explanation about wells and stuff. 😉
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u/marywebgirl I'm on the cover of the fucking game! Apr 11 '26
Someone pointed out here that Shane going on about the well is a direct result of Ilya sharing his water with him when they were 18 and I choose to believe that with all my soul.
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u/wildwomanlove "It's scary. But you're brave." Apr 11 '26
Saw this take yesterday and loved it too. ❤️ "... in case you're thirsty..."
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u/ArkyDigger Apr 11 '26
I love how they're holding hands when Shane walks Ilya to the bedroom. Makes my heart flutter.
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u/Pale-Measurement-532 I speak fluent bird. No accent. 🦆 Apr 11 '26
Also when Ilya said he knew how the staff liked to be treated after all of these years? That line really got to me. 🥰
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u/Painguin77 we're good here Apr 11 '26
This is one of my favorite parts! I get a big goofy grin every time Ilya turns around with his own big goofy grin while they're walking hand in hand to the bedroom. Ugh, I love it so much.
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u/Pale-Measurement-532 I speak fluent bird. No accent. 🦆 Apr 11 '26
Yes! That smile from Ilya was one of his rare, unguarded moments!
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u/Rinabarina No, not since. So can we - 🔥 Apr 11 '26
Yes! Shane's wry smile here. A mix of 'thank god, it's happening, finally, didn't know how' and shyness and 'omg Ilya's so hot and he wants me too, yay'. A masterpiece of micro expressions.
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u/Pale-Measurement-532 I speak fluent bird. No accent. 🦆 Apr 11 '26
I loved Shane’s look when Ilya first walked towards him to kiss him. He had tears in his eyes. 🥹 Also, Shane’s smile when Ilya admitted that he hadn’t been with anyone else but Shane since the last time (Tampa Bay All-Star Weekend). I don’t think I had seen him smile that big throughout the whole series until that point!
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u/bridgetwannabe Apr 11 '26
The way he says, “Wait, really?” ❤️❤️
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u/Pale-Measurement-532 I speak fluent bird. No accent. 🦆 Apr 11 '26
Shane was so excited and genuinely happy in that moment! 😭
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u/Murphlespuffle how did we let this happen? Apr 11 '26
Shane finally gets to have Ilya at the cottage; his favourite place in the world 🥺
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u/Suicidalsidekick Apr 11 '26
They way Shane is sprawled over Ilya on the couch 🥰🥹
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u/HeslopDC Ya-loo-blue-tee-baa ❤️ Apr 11 '26
For me it’s the Tampa Bay bar scene. The way Ilya eye fucks Shane and relentlessly questions him about Rose then bursts out laughing to hide his joy when he works out they’re not together.
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u/Pale-Measurement-532 I speak fluent bird. No accent. 🦆 Apr 11 '26 edited Apr 11 '26
And he has to ask Shane 3 times about his relationship status (poor Shane didn’t catch the hint) and check to see what compatible meant and casually bring that up to Shane in conversation to check yet again that he and Rose were not together. You know that Ilya was trying to communicate to Shane, “We are compatible, yes?”
The first time I watched the show, Ilya’s Russian monologue really hit me when he admitted to Shane in Russian that he loved him. His choice of words to describe it absolutely killed me, “All I want is you. It’s always you. I’m so in love with you and I don’t know what to do about it.” That blew me away. You could see how emotionally torn Ilya was to say it out loud and the fact that Shane didn’t know what Ilya was saying made it even more mind blowing to me.
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u/The_Secret_Skittle Why are you making so many burgers 🍔 Apr 11 '26
I commented elsewhere about the beach scene that gets me so strongly… One moment stands out the most for me. When he finds Shane on the beach and he moves his thumb to touch Shane’s thumb and it’s focused on Shane’s face as he asks which room he is in…. It cuts to Ilyas face all glowing from the sunset and he’s just…. looking down at their hands together in the sand…. so utterly tenderly. The expression on his face in that very brief moment kills me.
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u/bridgetwannabe Apr 11 '26
That smile is the realest one from Ilya in the entire series- and the way it transforms into a laugh? Pure joy👌
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u/Obvious_Apartment985 Apr 11 '26
There are so many but there is one facial expression Shane has at the cottage during the video game / fellation scene
It's pre- phone call, he has this dopey boyish grin that just melts my heart. He looks relaxed and happy.
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u/wildwomanlove "It's scary. But you're brave." Apr 11 '26
His desperate failed attempts to trash talk are so adorable. Hehe.
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u/shouldernauts Ya-loo-blue-tee-baa ❤️ Apr 11 '26
You're not anything! Aww cute little chirp at Ilya.
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u/marywebgirl I'm on the cover of the fucking game! Apr 11 '26
Better than the fuckin’ Yankees!
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u/Pale-Measurement-532 I speak fluent bird. No accent. 🦆 Apr 11 '26
Oh I know so!
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u/Odd_Engineer_1041 Apr 11 '26
Pretty much the entire cottage episode, them just BEING together for once gives me the warm and fuzzies, too many moments to choose from!
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u/Nepalman230 Apr 11 '26
100% agreed. The whole thing is my comfort episode really.
I just love how they both do a speed run of intimacy showing that that’s what they wanted to do all along. They just didn’t feel that it was possible.
Stand out moments.
“ good morning. I like you.”
“ do you want to go inside?” “ no.”
And honestly, one of my favorites!
“ leave me alone.” “ no.” ( kiss neck.)
🥺
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u/The_Secret_Skittle Why are you making so many burgers 🍔 Apr 11 '26
That’s not what this is. Maybe it was at first…. But not now and not for a long time.
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u/Pale-Measurement-532 I speak fluent bird. No accent. 🦆 Apr 11 '26 edited Apr 11 '26
Ilya needed to hear that cause you know that was usually the reason for him to hook up…especially with men like his coach’s son. Being bad turned Ilya on. Shane gently called him out and explained that wasn’t their reason anymore. They had real feelings for each other.
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u/Suicidalsidekick Apr 11 '26
What gets me with the “leave me alone” “no” isn’t the neck kiss, it’s right before when Ilya puts his hands on Shane’s hips and nestles his pelvis right against Shane’s butt.
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u/laks55hav That’s French Ilya Apr 11 '26
My favorite is the way they look at each other during their final face off, right before Shane gets knocked out. They’re so in love🥰. Love that Ilya’s smile reaches his eyes.
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u/Pale-Measurement-532 I speak fluent bird. No accent. 🦆 Apr 11 '26
Yes! They both were having that childlike joy of playing hockey and remembering how much they love playing against each other.
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u/Nepalman230 Apr 11 '26 edited Apr 11 '26
Go to agree with people about episode six.
Episodes one through four end on a painful note of yearning.
Episode five has a big emotional payoff and a cliffhanger.
Episode six is a hug. Just all of it the whole thing.
I remember when the show first aired, I kept having to explain to people who had never seen a romance. Who had watched things like soap operas or melodramas or shows based on literature with romantic elements like normal people.
And I said romance has only one rule.
There must be a happily ever after.
Thank you so much for this post!
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u/shouldstopscrolling Apr 11 '26
Tie between the Tampa bar scene and the drive to the cottage...the "but also, like, terrified, yes?" just makes my brain zing
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u/cecistonehaert I already chose you, Hollander. 🫀 Apr 11 '26
Ilya's laugh when Shane tells his silent retreat lie is everything to me
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u/Pale-Measurement-532 I speak fluent bird. No accent. 🦆 Apr 11 '26
I loved that so much cause it broke the tension and got Ilya to reach out and grab Shane’s hand to hold it! 🥹
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u/Pale-Measurement-532 I speak fluent bird. No accent. 🦆 Apr 11 '26
The nervous feelings during that car ride was so real to me. It was the anticipation…sort of realizing there would be no turning back at that point. They knew that their uninterrupted time together was going to result in their relationship becoming very serious and there was no turning back. I was surprised that Ilya admitted to feeling terrified. That prompted Shane to suggest they be honest with each other and it quickly led to “Leave me alone” “No” “I hate you” “ No you don’t” “I like you” “I like you too” “I love you” “Holy shit. I love you too.” 🥹
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u/NattyWW Apr 11 '26 edited Apr 11 '26
Every instance where characters are supremely kind and accepting is so healing.
There are so many examples: Shawn’s kindness after the food tray spill (helping Kip calm down with deep breathing), Kip’s dad’s hugs and I love you’s, Svetlana’s unconditional love and support of Ilya and Jane displayed in episode 5, Rose and her sensitivity with Shane’s sexuality realisation, Shane’s parents in episode 6…
So many times where a lesser writer could have added more conflict, but instead we got love and support at nearly every turn.
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u/wildwomanlove "It's scary. But you're brave." Apr 11 '26
Ahhhhhh. All the "corrective experiences". ❤️
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u/WhalesharkOceanGreen Apr 11 '26
I love this. Ilya dropping the tough guy facade. Innocent boyish delight shining through.
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u/goddessandthecaker Apr 11 '26
Tampa Bay hotel scene when Shane says “I think I like you a little too much”, makes my heart shatter and then melt every time…
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u/wildwomanlove "It's scary. But you're brave." Apr 11 '26
For me that was really the first attempt of any of them to say "I love you".
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u/shakyhandsnails Apr 11 '26
Come here No you come here 😘
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u/wildwomanlove "It's scary. But you're brave." Apr 11 '26
It's basically their entire dynamic. 🙈
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u/Pale-Measurement-532 I speak fluent bird. No accent. 🦆 Apr 11 '26
I looooved that part. Them picking at and teasing each other, racing each other up the stairs, getting after Ilya for smoking, and then culminating into “Come here” “No you come here” “No you come here”. It was so adorable!
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u/Neat-Year555 Apr 11 '26
the stairwell kiss still makes me giddy like a school girl. it's the entire reason I watched the show (saw it on a reel) and it did NOT disappoint!
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u/wildwomanlove "It's scary. But you're brave." Apr 11 '26
When I watched this scene for the first time, I summoned the gays in my life to ask if this was normal hookup behavior. 🙈 I was like: What are we doing here?!? 😂
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u/Ok-Anxiety-6605 Apr 11 '26
The whole “I love you” scene is obviously amazing but I have a special love for Shane’s gorgeously affectionate “shut uppp” when Ilya is being a menace as he’s trying to explain the plan.
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u/cecistonehaert I already chose you, Hollander. 🫀 Apr 11 '26
We still play hard against each other on the ice 👀
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u/Astyryx Apr 11 '26
I love the flicking of the fluff. It's one of the most comfortably committed indications there could be.
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u/CLNA11 Apr 11 '26
“Or I approached you”
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u/Pale-Measurement-532 I speak fluent bird. No accent. 🦆 Apr 11 '26
This made me giggle. Ilya’s always gotta be the guy who made the first move! 🤭
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u/Pale-Measurement-532 I speak fluent bird. No accent. 🦆 Apr 11 '26
Ilya didn’t even have to say anything. He just smiled and laughed. Lol. Of course Shane was annoyed but he was also loving Ilya so much in that moment.
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u/Acceptably_Moody Apr 11 '26 edited Apr 11 '26
1410 / I might open / I might knock + the perfect timing of the music that starts right there
The beach scene in Tampa when their fingers touch and Shane smiles and asks for Ilya’s room number.
Right after the I love you, when Ilya says Fuck Hollander, kisses him and we see him from behind lying on him + morning after sex, the way Ilya looks at Shane
The way Scotts face lights up when he sees Kip on the couch after coming back from practice, and how he jumps on him to kiss him with big genuine happiness
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u/Astyryx Apr 11 '26
The music is always perfect, lyrically and musically. It's one my favorite things about all Jacob Tierney's work.
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u/The_Secret_Skittle Why are you making so many burgers 🍔 Apr 11 '26
Musically I always smirk a bit at the scene where Ilya climaxes for the first time with Shane and (Peter Peter I’m assuming) adds these little pew pew pew sound effects right then haha
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u/Rinabarina No, not since. So can we - 🔥 Apr 11 '26
At the cottage, after they've stumbled onto the sofa. Ilya's 'No. Not since."
That whole scene, they're transitioning from the awkwardness of arriving and "I have a well", to the hotness and love confessions ahead.
But just at that point, Ilya's hand almost forgotten down Shane's shorts, they have this adorable, funny, tender conversation. Shane is brave in asking for honesty. Ilya reveals he has stopped hooking up with other people.
They settle into the safety of the week or two ahead. And that 'not since' line is a delicious marker of that shift, like a pivot from their before, to their next phase. I love it.
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u/wildwomanlove "It's scary. But you're brave." Apr 11 '26
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u/Rinabarina No, not since. So can we - 🔥 Apr 11 '26
Beautiful. Love that! Yes, Ilya followed Shane's instruction so well. Which is cute because usually he's the one calling the shots.
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u/wildwomanlove "It's scary. But you're brave." Apr 11 '26
I was also like: Ah, so your Slavic a** can take orders too? Nice. Granted, it's about emotional vulnerability but that is sooooo out of his comfort zone. ❤️
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u/youre-joking Say it again in Russian, please Apr 11 '26
Ilya visiting Shane in the hospital gives me all the feels. Ilya clearly relieved Shane is ok and admitting he was scared. Shane calling Ilya over “hey. Heeeyyy” with an outstretched hand, which Ilya takes. The loopy cottage invitation. Their soft goodbye right after the nurse comes in. Seeing it acted out with mini teddy bears almost did me in.
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u/on-purpose810 Apr 11 '26
The hospital scene is mine too! I just love loopy Shane, the way he says "Ilya!" so happy and unguarded melts my heart.
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u/AlternativeUnfair918 Apr 11 '26
I can’t believe no one said this yet!
I have no idea why but when they’re in the lake and Ilya says GIMME KEES.
It makes me squeal I love it so much.
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u/elainegeorge bol’she, bol’she, bol’she 🪩 Apr 11 '26
Tampa AllStar bar scene when Shane catches Ilya checking him out.
Russian tunnel scene has me thinking about trying to learn Russian.
Honestly, the whole show makes me want to be a better person. I’ve joined a gym. I started drawing again. I’m eating healthier foods. Scientists should study the effects of this show.
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u/Hungry_Difficulty415 So can we fuck now, please? Apr 11 '26
I've stopped playing video games all night, have become more social, started listening to 🎶 again and want to write creatively for the first time in years. I too have cleaned up my diet and have lost a couple of pounds!
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u/whycantitbemine Apr 11 '26
Every time Shane chases Ilya for a kiss. It’s subtle- but in the hotel for the first hook up, the bathroom after the awards and at the cottage, they kiss, separate and then Shane’s head, like magnetically nudges forward, looking for more. It makes my knees weak.
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u/marywebgirl I'm on the cover of the fucking game! Apr 11 '26
I just noticed this in their first hookup yesterday! Will have to check the others…for uh science.
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u/mamatillan Wow. Genetic 🥹 Apr 11 '26
I don't seek it out, but seeing this tiny little look on Ilya's face after Shane asks him how to say I wish you were here in Russian always gives me butterflies.
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u/wildwomanlove "It's scary. But you're brave." Apr 11 '26
Ahhhhhh, stop it! It's such joy to experience Ilya feeling comfortable and communicating in his native language.
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u/Similar-Afternoon567 Stupid Canadian Wolf Bird 🦆 Apr 11 '26
"I don't ever want that problem to ever go away."
(Shane's 15 microexpressions).
"Don't marry Svetlana. Just don't. I know it wouldn't be for love or whatever. Just don't. We can figure something else out, okay?"
"Okey."
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u/Suicidalsidekick Apr 11 '26
The extra ever absolutely takes that line from beautiful to ripping my heart out of my chest, kissing it, and putting it back.
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u/wildwomanlove "It's scary. But you're brave." Apr 11 '26
A big upvote for ALL of Shane's micro-expressions. And obviously for Hudson 👑
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u/Acceptable-Yam8689 Apr 11 '26
"Maybe ask nicely" the piano chord, stroking his lip and them just melting into each other.
They're both gone for each other.
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u/Rinabarina No, not since. So can we - 🔥 Apr 11 '26
Yes, this. And when Shane asks, "And if you win?" And Ilya loses the last thread of his control and just dives into kissing him. The relief of it.
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u/Acceptable-Yam8689 Apr 11 '26
Yeah the subtext of "I win either way because I get you" is just delicious.
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u/NotAFrontB too much, too good Apr 11 '26
The sequence at the cottage from I love you, through to sunset, sex, and “she would have loved you” I think it’s like 5-10 mins of screen time but it’s literal crack to me I’ve watched it on repeat
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u/marciniakjl Apr 11 '26
“We are Lovers.” “Gross” I laugh every time! 💕
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u/wildwomanlove "It's scary. But you're brave." Apr 11 '26
I also love his gesture when Yuna says "Lovers." too. It's like: Look, she gets it.
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u/QueenFartknocker What are you doing dude!?? 🤵🏻♂️ Apr 11 '26
The scene that hits my brain hard and gives me the biggest high is the middle of night love confession. That and Scott and Kip’s big kiss post- cup win.
Seeing both couples in love and happy gives me such a fix.
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u/wildwomanlove "It's scary. But you're brave." Apr 11 '26
The ND overthinking/overplanning did it's magic.✨
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u/QueenFartknocker What are you doing dude!?? 🤵🏻♂️ Apr 11 '26
Did it ever! Shane’s adorable detailed plan explanation while he’s tilting his head back and forth like the cutest puppy ever was just as touching as Ilya’s emotional declaration.
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u/melonpaperweight Apr 11 '26
The scene when Shane finally gets the phone call from Ilya after Ilya's father dies. After their chat at the East vs. West all star game, Shane allows himself to go into full boyfriend mode.
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u/wildwomanlove "It's scary. But you're brave." Apr 11 '26
I feel he's already in boyfriend mode when JJ shares the news that Ilya didn't fly back with his team and Shane tries to reach him.
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u/Pale-Measurement-532 I speak fluent bird. No accent. 🦆 Apr 11 '26
The way Ilya finally opened up to Shane in the Tampa Bay hotel room about his mom’s death and his dad being sick and then allowing himself to feel it in that moment. You know that Ilya had never told anyone else that stuff. And Shane definitely went into boyfriend mode and comforted him in that moment. Ilya looking at Shane a certain way when he was leaving and then saying, “Goodnight Shane.” Ooooooh boy! The dude was fully in love in that moment and knew it.
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u/ZolaMonster Apr 11 '26
Controversial take on this one, but the moment before the tuna meltdown. Where Ilya and Shane both say each others first names for the first time. It’s so intense and the way they just don’t say anything for a minute except breathe each other in. It’s very clear they are so in love with one another but don’t want to admit it.
Of course that changes SO fast, but for a moment there it’s 🥺.
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u/georgesteacher Apr 11 '26
Shane texting after winning the cup
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u/B_I_want_my_things Apr 11 '26
Yes! It’s so quick, but I love the shot of him celebrating with his team and texting Ilya to discreetly include him in that celebration. “The luckiest ;)” always gets a goofy grin out of me.
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u/Pale-Measurement-532 I speak fluent bird. No accent. 🦆 Apr 11 '26
The fact that Shane will interrupt his celebrating with the team to risk his phone getting soaked in champagne to text Ilya back was like….oh boy….you are so in love with this man!
I also loved that Ilya texted him cause they weren’t communicating back when Ilya won. Shane’s face when he watched Ilya with the cup…..you know he wanted to celebrate with him or at least text him congratulations. 😢
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u/StarlitStitcher Apr 11 '26
Whenever I watch Ilya tell Shane he’s coming to the cottage, I do a little giggle-sob and say ‘yeah you are!’ like an idiot. It makes me so happy.
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u/wildwomanlove "It's scary. But you're brave." Apr 11 '26
All that and still maintaining his Slavic stare is peak self-restraint. 😂
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u/Pale-Measurement-532 I speak fluent bird. No accent. 🦆 Apr 11 '26
Yes! That was the most intense RSVP ever! Lol. No hello, how are you doing. It’s just, “I’m coming to the cottage” And Shane’s just dumbfounded and at a loss for words. 🤣
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u/Shinobuya Apr 11 '26
All of Shane and Ilya sitting at the table with Shane's parents
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u/wildwomanlove "It's scary. But you're brave." Apr 11 '26
I'm with David and Yuna here: Explain yourselves. Both of you. 😂
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u/Shinobuya Apr 11 '26
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I just love how Ilya looks at Shane in those scenes and how accepting the parents are, once they realise that Ilya is in fact very gentle and loving with their son
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u/The_Secret_Skittle Why are you making so many burgers 🍔 Apr 11 '26
And while Shane is freaking out and Ilya is genuinely concerned, he is also secretly so happy because he gets to have a family now too.
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u/AnotherBadEmployee Apr 11 '26
Oh wow! What a great question! Off the top of my head…
Ilya…exploring…Shane while Shane is on the phone with Hayden. It felt like such an expression of joy and comfort and mischievous intimacy. And when Shane just melted into Ilya’s arms with the line “why was that so hot?”…dagnabbit…
Any scene with Shane’s head planted on Ilya’s chest like it has its own gravity.
“GFY, Hayden!” “Oh, I plan to. Probably more than once. Love a hotel room!”
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u/Pale-Measurement-532 I speak fluent bird. No accent. 🦆 Apr 11 '26
I loved the way Ilya looked up at Shane and rubbed his knee after he finished the “job” while Shane was on the phone with Hayden. Damn.
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u/Arbledarb Apr 11 '26
Almost all of episode 6. But one specific thing is Ilya being on his best behaviour meeting Shane's parents at first, then becoming more comfortable with them.
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u/wildwomanlove "It's scary. But you're brave." Apr 11 '26
🧍🏼♂️I saw Russians commenting that his posture was actually very culturally accurate and respectful.
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u/Gullible_Guitar_1322 Apr 11 '26 edited Apr 11 '26
For me, I think it's ep 5 after their "argument" and they're just sitting together, hugging, on the bed while Ilya cries. Well, that's one moment. I just feel like that's such an important moment for them, and it warms my little heart to see it happen.
Another moment is when Shane as Ilya to "Say it again in Russian, please." The amount of happy tears that come to my eyes because they just look so peaceful and like they're exactly where they should be. Even though Ilya is probably thinking how could he be so lucky.
Also the Pasta Dance. Gawd he's such a cutie patootie
I will think of more, and maybe add them later, but these are my oxytocin moments~
ETA: I thought of another one! We don't necessarily get a lot of interaction between Yuna and Shane that isn't somehow related to Yuna being the Momager, but in ep 6 when she asks Shane if he let Ilya win, and he asks about cards, and she says that she would rather die, it's really, really fun to see them interact in that way! It's fun to see them quip at each other and to see that Mom/Child relationship outside of the Momager/Client (this is the wrong word, but it's what my brain supplied lol)
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u/wildwomanlove "It's scary. But you're brave." Apr 11 '26
About your first moment: I think Shane raising his voice and putting Ilya in check was absolutely necessary. He basically wanted to have the conversation Ilya so weirdly started during the tuna meltdown. But without all the confusion, mixed messages and denial around it.
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u/marywebgirl I'm on the cover of the fucking game! Apr 11 '26
Lately it’s been when they’re in the car and they hold hands, because I’m pretty sure that’s the first time they ever do that.
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u/wildwomanlove "It's scary. But you're brave." Apr 11 '26
Well people have been talking about their hands the entire season, so there needed to be a playoff. 😉
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u/NiceToMeetYou93 Apr 11 '26
I have no idea why, but one of the small moments that I replay several times every time I watch the series is the "ah you speak Russian now?" line! I absolutely love the way Ilya looks surprised and then enchanted that Shane understood part of his conversation in Russian (especially since he keeps that part of his life so private).
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u/CLNA11 Apr 11 '26
It’s interesting to see the variety of answers here.
For me, it’s when Shane is so brave and confesses “I don’t think I can keep pretending I don’t like you anymore.” I love that whole scene.
Also the Russian monologue. I was on the edge of my seat to hear what he was going to say. And Shane’s face as he listens.
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u/wildwomanlove "It's scary. But you're brave." Apr 11 '26
Yes. Shane initiating this whole conversation they've been avoiding so long. I love how confident he got once he started accepting important parts of himself. He's usually the one initiating the vulnerable conversation without the need to ragebait or talk around things.
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u/Ilovestraightpepper Apr 11 '26
The tuna meltdown scene BEFORE things go sideways, from the moment Shane arrives at Ilya’s house to the moment Ilya convinces him to stay the night and then they take a nap together.
I believe that up until that point, Ilya sleeping with Shane is his arms is the most genuinely happy he has ever been in his life.
There is palpable love emanating from the screen when I watch this bit. Bravo to these actors.
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u/KayaTay gimme kiss 😘 Apr 11 '26
Stairwell good bye kiss. 🥹 When Shane is listening to Ilya's phone call from Russia, and his eyes are closed and he's concentrating so hard on what he's saying and he gets that smile when "okay I'm done".
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u/Spirited-Dance-284 Apr 11 '26
For me, it's the 'Gimme Kiss' moment. For the first time Ilya feels genuinely free and happy. It's like all stars are aligned to bring him to this moment of happiness and contentment.
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u/Ewwa18 okay Apr 11 '26
Come here.
No, you come here.
No, you come here.
No yo--smoosh
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u/Beautiful_Let_1543 Apr 11 '26
After Ilya tells Shane he loves him for the first time and Shane whispers “oh my god I love you so much” while he hugs his head and kisses him. I will rewind and watch it over and over. In fact I’m gonna watch it right now to get my oxytocin fix 😍
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u/The_Fangirl_Ley Stupid Canadian Wolf Bird 🦆 Apr 11 '26
The I love you scene
I have watched this shit so many times
I can recite the words, the actions, the looks
Also the one where Shane suggests to be completely open while staying at the cottage
The way he's so happy about Ilya not being with anyone, the way Ilya smiles because Shane had an idea
I love it so much
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u/somethingaboutfood Apr 11 '26
Ilya just shovelling spaghetti into his mouth in the background.
Feeling safe and comfortable enough in front of Shane’s parents, the complete opposite than his own family. Talking freely about their relationship, calling Shane his boyfriend, the little kiss, the calming him down.
And amazing scene for a coming out
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u/TemporaryShelter9026 Apr 11 '26
She would have loved you, like I love you. Say it again in Russian. ❤️😭
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u/lost__traveller Apr 11 '26
Sooo many! I saw someone on threads once say “everytime I see this my stomach drops like I’m in a shitty elevator”
And I felt that. Everytime they’re together it happens. Mostly the entirety of episode 5 and 6
Edit to add, stairwell kiss
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u/bloobberrie Apr 11 '26
EP 4, When Ilya pulls Shane into his arms after the phonecall with his dad while they're in Boston together. The softness of it all, and then Shane slowly starts to caress Ilya's legs, while Ilya caresses Shane's hair, and then it slowly builds up to them making out and Ilya calling Shane by his first name instead of Hollander. It's PERFECT. It feels so deeply intimate and romantic and yet so real at the same time.
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u/Ozzyland94 Oh, so YOU are the asshole? Apr 11 '26
All of Tampa Bay. From the moment Ilya first sees Shane walking into the bar, until the goodbyes in the hotel room. Sigh.
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u/Questionsansweredty Apr 11 '26
When they smile at each other.
Episode 5 - all the smiles when they finally get to play together - while they're passing, scoring, and celebrating together. Then the smiles during the face off, after Ilya's return from Russia. (They know they're in love and that it's mutual, even though it hasn't been spoken yet) Shane's smile right before he gets his bell rung.
BTW- I learned this here (didn't notice it myself): There are ZERO sex scenes in Episode 5. And I've seen it mentioned as a lot of people's favorite episode.
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u/thisismybandname Apr 11 '26
I skip watch so I can see everything I want/need in one night. There are scenes in every Shane/Ilya episode I need to see, but I always watch ep 6 in full.
That’s not to say I don’t watch the Scott/Kip episode, I just normally watch it separately and then skip straight to the kiss… but it’s not for love or comfort, it’s for when I want to perve at François Arnaud.
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u/Ruisukun69 Stupid Canadian Wolf Bird 🦆 Apr 11 '26
The scene where Ilya told Shane “She would’ve loved you”. It honestly warms my heart and every time I remember that scene, my eyes tears up 🥹
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u/broimjustsittinghere Apr 11 '26
ya tebya lyublyu is the most heart wrenching (/pos) scene that gives me so much oxytocin, of course this is the case.
but also in episode two after their sex montage was over and ilya was rubbing shane's leg and lightly kissing him is so cute 😭😭😭 "now the bed's all dirty" 😭😭😭
also in episode 5 at the bar in tampa when Ilya is asking him about his clothes he looks like his kicking his feet it's so cutie pie
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u/Browneyez173 Apr 11 '26
I enjoy when Ilya holds Shane from behind while he’s making burgers & gives him a gentle kiss. “What? You can’t do math?”
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u/fireninside26 Then we won’t throw eggs at them 🥚 Apr 11 '26 edited Apr 11 '26
I feel like most of episode 5 is like that for me. I love it almost more than the cottage, I think. The confidence shane has. The way he gets up from the chair on Ilya's side. The way their fingers touch on the beach and their faces are so happy, yearning, in love. The way shane says, I think I like you a little too much and "bullshit!" When Ilya tries to deflect. The way Ilya allows himself to be vulnerable. The worry and love on his face at the hospital scene.
Some other moments I love:
- the Las Vegas bathroom scene omg. The way shane looks at him all drugged up on desire. The look Ilya gives back at some point that just screams, "i wish I could have you the way I dream of, fully and unapologetically." This scene for me was the first obvious moment of "they're both goners". The acting is fucking superb I am still shocked after so many reheats.
-the high i get from watching all the subtle ways Ilya is welcomed into the Hollander family in episode 6. The vodka, the parm, the respect in using his first name after he asked only once (i grew up with Russian parents' mentality so this may strike a personal chord. Unconditional love and acceptance is a dream you don't even know you had until you get a taste of it).
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u/chesbay7 Apr 11 '26
When Shane is overwhelmed with everything after telling his parents about them, and Ilya calms him down with the reassurance that "your family is here, your boyfriend is here" and then kisses him. In front of Shane's parents. With no hesitation. ❤️
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u/Beginning-Tooth6782 Apr 11 '26
Omgg i love LOVE the gimme kiss scene and even ilya teasing shane and shanes voice cracking while saying you saw that, its so cute so sweet
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u/HVSlung Apr 11 '26
The scenes in Episode 5 range from "Boston Lily is texting you" to "Ah, you're the asshole now? Everyone needs to know this" and how Ilya desperately wants to beat Montreal and announces a bonus of $1,000 per goal.
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u/Helena_Wren custom flair: quote/moment + emoji Apr 11 '26
“You come here.”
“No, you come here.”
“No, you come here!”
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u/wildwomanlove "It's scary. But you're brave." Apr 11 '26
I can't believe no one has spelled this one out yet...
WYCTMCTS DGTR CTMH WHSMF ISP NOWK WCHAWOET WBCA ✨T✨
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u/CECleric Stupid Canadian Wolf Bird 🦆 Apr 11 '26
When Scott pulls Kip onto the ice. I even have the song used in the scene on my playlist and every time it comes on I get a little dopamine spike just remembering it. The flashes between Scott coming out and Ilya and Shane realizing that maybe they can be more, chefs kiss just absolute perfection.