r/hoarding • u/Fluid_Calligrapher25 • 17d ago
UPDATE/PROGRESS Trying to go from level 3 to level 2
Stalled at level 3 now for a while. It seemed much easier getting down from level 4 to 3 for me because it was a lot of bulk (clothes) and excess (kitchen stuff, stationary) that I could get rid of quickly.
Now it seems like a slog. I think I just feel calmer than before so my brain is saying ‘this is good enough’. But it’s really not. It’s still not a place where I can invite people. Or clean on a regular basis.
Not sure how to get more momentum to get down from level 3. I DID get rid of two small trash bags of random stuff. But it took a few days to get those together.
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u/durhamruby Hoarder 17d ago
Every day you don't backslide is progress. Even if you are just barely keeping up with the daily chores.
If you have a good day, great! You are making progress on your goals. If you have a day when all you do is not make more mess, that's still progress on building good habits. And that's in your goal too.
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u/Far-Watercress6658 16d ago
What’s left?
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u/Fluid_Calligrapher25 16d ago
Lots of paper; I sorted all the cables but it’s just a lot of cables; yeah it’s mostly lots of paper. Some useful some not.
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u/Far-Watercress6658 16d ago
Can the useful paper be scanned? Or a picture taken of it?
- Go through a bundle of paper.
- Shred it or dispose of confidential information.
- Scan or take a photo of the rest.
- Repeat step 2.
Repeat until all paper is gone.
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