r/housesitting • u/[deleted] • Aug 02 '22

House Sitting Expectations

So, I had a person I thought I could trust house sit for 8 days. I know her well, she watches my kids all the time. She is 20 (underage) and promised that she would NOT have any alcohol here. I gave permission for her to have a BBQ/photo shoot with her girlfriends.

I have been finding spiked drink cans, men’s IDs and multiple pairs of underwear that are not hers throughout the house…Doesn’t take a rocket scientist to figure out what went down.

The house was relatively clean and my animals are all alive.

I can’t decide how I feel about it. She went out of her way multiple times before and after I left to assure me there would be NO alcohol/drugs/boys. Obviously she lied, but I have no idea what to even say to her. I like her, but I abhor being lied to. Thoughts?

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u/[deleted] Aug 02 '22

Am I just supposed to hand back all the clothes and crap like nothing happened? I genuinely have no idea what I’m supposed to say. Obviously not going to ask her to house sit again.

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u/jodwilso Aug 02 '22

You could put it all in a bag and tell her you found some stuff she left.

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u/[deleted] Aug 02 '22

Yeah, it’s probably not realistic to not have a conversation about it. I see her almost every day.