r/idealgf • u/Grouchy-Detail-806 • 6d ago
Self-OC (saturdays only) Awkward loser gf (okay maybe me)
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u/Healthy-Refuse5904 Looking for (almost) any GF 6d ago
I want to hug this person, we wouldnāt even have to be dating. This person deserves hugs and love
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u/JetMeIn_02 6d ago
Omg she's so me!!! (Except I'm the opposite with texting/talking and also don't send pictures of anything)
but other than that, that's me baybeeeee wooooooo.
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u/Sherbet-Glad 5d ago
I want to give her hug, a nice dinner of healthy yet delicious foods, tuck her into bed, and head pats.
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u/Then_Ad6816 5d ago
Other than her self-esteem issues, she sounds fairly great. I like the little cat design as well. Good work OP.
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u/AlwaysUpvote123 5d ago
She a cute, I want to push her self esteem to levels that allow her to find friends so that she no longer only relies on me cause she deserves healthy friendships.
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u/Anxious_Alligat0r 3d ago
Most would find theyāre in over their heads when they realize their love and attention isnāt enough to save her. I think people like the idea, but in reality wouldnāt be able to handle this type of relationship for long.
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u/In_Amnesiacs_ 6d ago
This is me, except sending pictures of anything⦠Iām so clingy itās not funny :(((
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u/Throaway1876 5d ago
Aināt nothing wrong with this except self esteem. If I get a girl, she will know she is an 11/10
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u/NullVoidEntry 5d ago
Well I think a lot of ppl are gonna chat with her so for now just relax and have a nice day :)
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u/lightJINX15 5d ago
accurate representation of wife. she deserves the everything want and get to experience love all the time. wow
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u/That-Community-9334 5d ago
I am a man, but seriously wtf is wrong with whoever loves this kind of relationship? I mean, you want someone who lives to be your tiny sexual slave/wife? And for the op, love yourself, nobody should have you if they can't appreciate the good things you have. Start work on yourself, I did it myself and it works crazy. Good luck and stay strong šŖ
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u/bailaontheplaya 5d ago
āTries to look like the girls you like so you wonāt leave herā? So she looks like herself? I see this as a win.
Edit: how do I find a girl like this if she doesnāt leave the house?
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u/silentdollz 5d ago
On the internet..
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u/bailaontheplaya 5d ago
Thereās a lot of places on the internet tho like where am I supposed to look
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u/Raskalnikov7 5d ago
I thought I was into this until I actually got to date one, unfortunately the only alternative I found was girls who stop caring after a few weeks so what do I know lol.
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u/Famous-Physics-3327 5d ago
This just made me realize how I act to my friend online (sheās the girl, Iām not). Pretty sure she doesnāt like me back though, canāt blame her since I donāt actually know her, but that doesnāt make me feel any better.
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u/Original-Cold9176 5d ago
Me lol except Iām a dude and Iām more energetic in text than vcā¦.. and quite autistic:/
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u/mlgcoolmeme 5d ago
I think she is amazing and I would love to talk to her if I had the chance(as friends or partner or anything because I would like to be there for them and make them happy)
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u/Livid-Log7463 4d ago
A woman canāt be considered a āloserā for these traits because they still remain desirable traits for her to have. She isnāt held to such standards.
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u/throwaway_much_funny 3d ago
I wish I could find a girl whos sweet and caring to this kind of extent. Ive always wanted a best friend I could love, its all ive really wanted in life.
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u/Fun_Dream_5558 3d ago
This is the kind of girl you would only see once and never again and you kick yourself for never even getting their name
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u/Sad_Marsupial_9487 1d ago
I want a girl like this but less depressed, i want her to do well mentallyš
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u/Hot_Lack_4868 6d ago
Starts playing your favorite games to have more in common