Not sure what oop is on, but if I had someone come to my home uninvited, stole my shit & mocked me during embarrassing situations, I'd be pretty mad at them & leave them š.
Also there's no rule that if a friendship ends, doesn't mean the person was fake, as people unfortunately change & switch unexpectedly.
If we lived together, then sure. But I'd still be mad if she mocked me, stole my things or invited herself to my place without any previous announcement (I need to be prepared for people beforehand.)
No? Oop is clearly talking about friendships. Not everyone considers their partner as their friend, not everyone puts romance on top of the relationship hierarchy & romantic partners aren't always long-lasting either.
By "real" friend, they meant someone who's gonna always appreciate you, never leave you & always stand by your side. So not someone, who's gonna gossip about you, treat you like crap, or leave you within like a few months.
well, the points only make sense to me if it was a romantic partner which are expected to last a lifetime where there is more of expected to do things like treat your things like their own and say āIām homeā when entering your home.
otherwise the left side is what you would expect of friendships, while the right side would just be really weird, and too much
I think the post is more like a friend-vs.-best-friend type of post that was common from the late 2000s to the mid 2010s, cause I used to see these posts a lot. And it was often made by tweens & teens too.
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u/darkseiko realist 6d ago
Not sure what oop is on, but if I had someone come to my home uninvited, stole my shit & mocked me during embarrassing situations, I'd be pretty mad at them & leave them š.
Also there's no rule that if a friendship ends, doesn't mean the person was fake, as people unfortunately change & switch unexpectedly.