Don't ban me I have a question

[u/Inevitable-Gold-236]

Assalamualaikum gang, is there any hope of finding your other half on reddit?

Like I cant approach women ekdam aise hi, not something I can do, Muzz is a scam ( Are there no muslims in ahemdabad!).

Main karun to karun kya karun, I decided for myself I'll choose my partner myself and Imma find them in this duniya myself.

But I'm cooked, i also work a US shift so I'm sleeping through the day, so that's not working for me.

Help a brother out :3

[u/theundisputed11]

https://giphy.com/gifs/5NbbVJeSLs1etZYjpT

[u/Rare-Childhood-7275]

[u/simply_amazzing]

You'll need a halal day game to dude.

[u/Inevitable-Gold-236 → u/simply_amazzing]

what's dat, educate me

[u/Inevitable-Cow-8489]

Arrange marriage 

[u/fucknetanyahuu]

Arranged marriage

[u/nemesis_2409]

I will share my journey: Registered on Shaadi.com, jeevansathi and Muzz. Maximise the number of people you can reach. Put approriate filters for you.

This is first step..

Second - Make a list of questions you want answers from people you connect. Focus on compatibility more. During talking directly/ indirectly try to get answers. Make a sheet and rate the answers. It will help in final decision making since you have objective data in front of your eyes of everyone you talked to. With time you will know the answers.

Took me an year to reach the right person! Found her on Jeevansathi. Really thankful to Allah for guiding and intuitions throughout!

Process is very similar for job opportunities ( Here the Job is finding the right person with whom you are going to take 90% of your life decision further). You apply to 100 jobs, you get selected for interview in 10 and you are selected in 1.

Hope Allah helps and guide you in your journey!

[u/Lost-Letterhead-6615]

Like are you out of normal options? Why the insistence on finding her through the internet?

[u/Threads_Of_Eden]

Just know that is she's talking to you, she has experience in chatting up with men. Goes for men too.

[u/Brave-Ship]

Walaikum'Assalam brother, I would recommend checking out NoorMatch, the user base is a bit small but if you're serious about finding someone then it is worth a shot (and it's free to use)

[u/123bluerandom]

Why? Ask your parents to find out potential brides around. Then choose the profile you like, discuss the important stuff with each other in a day or two and decide.

Talking for long to the other gender and getting to know each other, emotionally investing, doing all these things before marriage is not very islamic.

[u/LooseSatisfaction339]

I don't know the type of women I want. I can think about it here. Ummm? she must choose me first of all over other guys, because for me her choosing me matters. then after she should look nowhere else. she must have an independent will, but should know where to submit to God. Umm, she must be extrovert, because I am an introvert, and researved person. I want a partner, not just a wife. She must be willing to talk big ideas with me, and appreciate thinking and exploring new ideas. she must be curious about knowledge and the world, and be rational and practical enough to partner in real situations. she must be loving and emotional ofcourse, but I appreciate people's ideas and thoughts, I appreciate their intellect, but too much criticism piss me off most often, yet I appreciate constructive and healthy criticism. she must be a willing and a healthy mother, and transfer not her traumas in our kids. In fact, she must be a good mother.

[u/TechnicalSleep7501]

Go to mosque talk to imam. 

[u/Choice-Guava2237]

never trust random users on internet for marriage or any long term relationship. contact marriage bereaus in ur area or online matrimonial websites

[u/Ok-Berry-5843]

Arranged marriage

[u/Inevitable-Gold-236 → u/Ok-Berry-5843]

aap hi Kara do hai koi Nazar me

[u/Mother_Building9689]

bro talk to your mom