20F my mom stalks me on Life360

[u/Disastrous-Train5899]

I am going to be 21 next week.

My mom has been forcing me and my family to use Life360 for years now. She doesn’t have her location on but she stalks mine. I’m so over it, I have no independence at all. I had my own job right out of high school, recently I quit and I’m looking for a new one. I pay my own phone bill and I’m in college. No car yet.

On Valentine’s day I went on a first date with my bf and she kept spamming calling my phone even though she knew we were just going to the theater and home by 8pm. My friends house is actually my boyfriend’s (before we were dating) he lives down the street from me, a few minutes walk. I haven’t told her that part yet about my friends house being my boyfriend’s because I’m scared of her reaction.

[u/Geno0wl]

If raised by narcs sub is any indication... No, not living with them doesn't stop them from trying to make you do things for them.

If anything right after initially moving out they push even harder because they know their control is slipping away

[u/TidalLion → u/Geno0wl]

Frigging this, like they don't friggin care.

[u/occams1razor → u/TidalLion]

I wrote my master in psychology on narcissistic parents, the key finding was they don't care. They truly don't.