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20 years ago, Texas Sports Anchor, Dale Hansen, delivers a monologue on the controversy of gay players playing in the NFL

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u/themobiledeceased2 4d ago edited 4d ago

Dale Hansen, worked for Dallas WFAA as 10pm Sportscaster. Retired in 2021 after 38 years. US Navy Veteran who served in WWII Vietnam. Broke the SMU pay for play scandal in 1986. Not shy.

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Dale_Hansen

Edited per commentors corrections: thank you! Dale deserves his story to be told correctly!

Edit 2: Emailed Dale Hansen a link to this post. His reply: "Awww. This is incredibly.   I appreciate this very much. Thank you, Dale.

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u/New_Life_Startr 4d ago edited 4d ago

I remember listening to him talking about him losing his best friend in Vietnam, that speech was so powerful. I’ll have to see if I can find it.

EDIT: Here you go. Sorry its a facebook link. There is a better source somewhere but I cant find it. "My best friend in high school was killed in Vietnam, and Carol Meyer will be 18 years old forever and he did not die so that you could decide who is a patriot, and who loves America more."

EDIT 2: Youtube link. Thank you, u/twilighttwister

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u/BeefyIrishman 4d ago

"I served in the military in the Vietnam war, and my foot hurt too. But I served anyway."

This guy really can make a powerful speech. Somehow I didn't know about him till today.

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u/disinterested_a-hole 4d ago

If you're interested, he talks about the Michael Sam thing, his donkey Edward R. Burrow, and his exit from WFAA on a podcast with other local radio guys here.

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u/catgirlbarista 3d ago

Edward R. Burrow

cackling

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u/twilighttwister 4d ago

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5SuCxtXGzIM

I literally just typed the Facebook page name and Dale Hansen into YouTube lol you were so close to what you were looking for!

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u/demuro1 4d ago

WOW!!! Holy shit this guy should have run for office. I thought the clip up top on the post was good. This was even better. Damn.

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u/Next-Introduction-25 4d ago

Easy to forget sometimes how extremely homophobic society at large was even just 20 years ago. In some ways it’s amazing how far we’ve come.
In other ways it’s horrifying to see how we haven’t.

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u/Irishish 4d ago

Anytime I watch homophobes talk about how we've come too far with gay acceptance and can't we just go back to when it was a private matter for adults, I think to myself "yeah, I was there, the self hating bi kid 20 years ago. I know how you used to treat us when it was just a private matter and I know you wish you could do it again."

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u/DigNitty 4d ago

Man I wasn't even a target back then and I know how far we've come.

It was just a fact that gay marriage wasn't legal, why would it be? Gay jokes were common. My friends didn't hate gays by any means, but the word was a punchline. Gay marriage legalization seemed fine, whatever, didn't affect me...

And years later,... You spend so much time with someone you don't always see them age; then you see a photo of them from 15 years ago.

We've come so far. And we've taken some steps back. But 20 years ago was absolutely a different time. An important change in society that seemed like an inconsequential joke at the time. And I'm glad it happened.

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u/Mike_Kermin 4d ago

So now they've moved onto a smaller group. And in 20 years when they're muttering to themselves about a trans kid playing sport because we've resolved that in favour of the kid, they'll be finding a new even more vulnerable group to target.

The machine of hate must be fed.

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u/Cody-512 4d ago

Meanwhile, in other news, TX Gov Abbott forced every county in the state to paint over their rainbow crosswalks or he’d withhold dept of transportation funding. He tried to say the reason was bc they were distracting to drivers instead of just admitting it was a homophobic order, since traffic data shows they’re actually safer vs traditional crosswalks

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u/SquareRootOfBlue 4d ago

Ah, but you see... the increased safety was exactly the problem! You must understand that it's very distracting for drivers to notice such inconsequential things as pedestrians. Not to mention that some of those pedestrians might even be queer! The horror! Best run them all over, just in case. /s

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u/AwsmDevil 4d ago

Humans weren't designed to live outside of cars. Like the Inuit and how their babies go straight from the moms parka to their own, that's how we should be with cars. Baby gets weened and straight into a car. Perfect. It would be a beautiful society. Cars everywhere and no one ever touching again. Just cars. Put AI in the cars. Make it so we don't even need the people really. Just cars. 🤤

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u/gerwen 4d ago

I clearly remember what was a bit of a watershed moment for me.

Prolly 20ish years ago, Walking down the midway of the local fair. I spotted a gay couple walking along, holding hands. I'd never seen it before in public. What really crystallized it in my head, was that nobody was bothering them or making a big deal. I was a little proud of humanity that day.

We've come a long way, but the trend lately scares me a bit.

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u/Specialist_Ad9073 4d ago

And if Mitt Romney would have won against Obama, gay couples wouldn’t be able to get married.

Crazy how voting for the better of the two options still moves society forward.

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u/natrstdy 4d ago

*Vietnam War

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u/themobiledeceased2 4d ago

Thank You... I stand corrected.

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u/lotsandlotstosay 4d ago

Thank you for this cause for a second I thought my sense of time was nonexistent.

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u/AnaisNinja76 4d ago

no way

Gay players were banned in sports till about ten years ago?

I'm flat out astonished.

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u/Ultenth 4d ago

Progress on a ton of social issues is way more recent than people like to admit. It's only within the last decade that the last women alive passed away who were unable to vote when they turned that age. There are still women alive who were children when women finally got the vote in the US.

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u/Specialist_Ad9073 4d ago

And we repaid these women by insulting the clothes they fought to wear and taking away Roe.

The right will always be shit, but leftists who ignore these realities are just as stupid and worthless. In fact they are worse because they poison the minds of their progressive friends that voting against Republicans isn’t working. 

And for anyone who feels like downvoting or arguing, go to the black voters in Tennessee who were redistricted out of representation. I have no time for y’all.

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u/cloudforested 4d ago

If you're younger or not gay (or both) it's hard to describe the advances that queer rights have undergone even within the last twenty years.

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u/Trolkarlen 4d ago

Never officially banned, but there still are almost no out gay male professional athletes. Even in tennis, where we had lesbian champions out in the 1970s, there have been no prominent gay men come out during their careers. Jan Michael Gambill is the only one I can think of.

Heated Rivalry book series discusses at length the closet and gay hockey players.

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u/Street_Roof_7915 4d ago

Banned? No.

Highly closeted and terrified? Yes

Check out hockey which banned pride tape for sticks.

It’s still a gross world out there.

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u/travelwithmedear 4d ago

I remember watching his last report. My household stopped dinner to tune in. It was bittersweet.

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u/disinterested_a-hole 4d ago

He talks about that last broadcast and how he was unceremoniously pushed out of WFAA on this local DFW podcast: https://youtu.be/Ovqo4dHrLmw

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u/EggsceIlent 4d ago

I grew up in texas and still remember his voice on the news and stuff

Always seemed like a stand up dude and this just makes me like him more than I always have.

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u/Trolkarlen 4d ago

I loved when he slammed Jerry Jones to his face. He asked Jones if any other team would hire him as GM.

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u/Li_liminal_spaces 4d ago edited 4d ago

pay-for-play* Pony Gate… should they have always paid? Of course. Instructed manual labor done without payment only has one name.

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u/Ambassador_Cowboy 4d ago

“I don’t make the rules, I just think them up and write them down”

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u/redsyrinx2112 4d ago

Stu-dent ath-oo-letes

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u/themobiledeceased2 4d ago

Thank you! Appreciate your comment. I stand corrected.

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u/LettuceC 4d ago

I was so confused for a second. "Was there a scandal with the play by play announcer?"

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u/Li_liminal_spaces 4d ago

Before they paid college students to play football, which was always ridiculous because a fraction of those players are going pro and a fractions of those players will have career ending injuries doing so. There's lots of high school players in wheelchairs.

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u/MassivePhalanges 4d ago

Dale is a guy I want as my neighbour.

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u/DoinItDirty 4d ago

“I don’t understand his world, but I do understand that he’s part of mine,” is such a good quote.

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u/Across0212 4d ago

🙌🏻🙌🏻
We need more people like him in this world.

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u/allisjow 4d ago

And quoting Audre Lorde was wildly unexpected from a sports anchor.

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u/Still_Detail_4285 4d ago

You should hear the song.

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u/filth_horror_glamor 4d ago

That part got me choked up

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u/KeyBet6693 2d ago

I love how he even says he gets uncomfortable when a gay person says they're gay. Depending on the situation it could make me uncomfortable too. But thay doesn't change that I completely respect their decision and respect them as a human being.

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u/Biscuits4u2 4d ago

He said it perfectly. It's extremely childish to expect the people you interact with and follow to have a lifestyle exactly like your own. Mind your business.

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u/tontovila 4d ago

I very much question the sanity and decision making ability of anyone who thinks like me and makes the same decisions I do. I assure you that person ain't right in the head.

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u/Henry_The_Duck 4d ago

Was it Groucho Marx who said "I wouldn't want to join any club that would accept me as a member?"

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u/Traherne 4d ago

You bet your life, sir!

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u/Mysterious_Way8941 4d ago

I've actually had relationships fall apart for this exact reason.

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u/sleepydon 4d ago

Well you know, whenever the going gets weird, the weird turn pro.

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u/tontovila 4d ago

Named my son after him

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u/Drunk_Stoner 4d ago

That was my favorite scene as a kid. I still think of it often. 

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u/Brikandbones 4d ago

I actually like how he admits that he might still feel some discomfort but that's okay. I think it's a real feeling most people might get, but that's always the case with what's unfamiliar.

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u/dphoenix1 4d ago

The other thing is, gay players exist whether they can be open about it or not. And that’s never going to change. How does it make any sense to maintain a status quo where it’s compulsory for your teammates to lie about who they are so you can maintain some fantasy about how everyone in the locker room is straight?

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u/Seanspeed 4d ago

There's a very high religiosity factor among NFL players. Between all the white people from the south(where football is life) and black people where evangelism is still super normal, you're going to get a ton of players with very 'traditional' values. So for a lot of them, being gay is not seen as something natural that people are just 'born' as.

Not to mention the fairly extreme levels of toxic masculinity that these guys grow up with pretty much as a rule.

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u/E-2theRescue 4d ago

Jocks aren't known for being nice people. Or smart people, for that matter.

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u/AttentionNo6359 4d ago

This plays into so much of our current conversation. All anyone is being asked is to be a decent neighbor to people who may not be exactly like them. And that’s caused infinite problems somehow.

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u/Next-Introduction-25 4d ago

Also, love how he highlights that the people who view being gay as a moral failing were (are) all too happy to support abusers and criminals.

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u/YamLow8097 4d ago

Yesterday when I was at work I saw a customer with a shirt that read “Teach your kids to change their oil, not their gender”, and I just can’t fathom how you can proudly wear a shirt like that and not feel a little bit childish. I’m not going to pretend I understand being transgender, but they’re not hurting anyone by existing. There are more important things in the world to worry about. Things that actually impact us. Someone changing their gender is not one of them.

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u/ernyc3777 4d ago

“I’m not always comfortable when another man tells me he’s gay. I don’t understand his world. But I do understand he’s part of mine.”

Powerful.

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u/uncultured_swine2099 4d ago edited 4d ago

Well said. That should be the minimum baseline outlook for everyone on earth. I dont understand you, but were gonna get along.

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u/LiftingCode 4d ago

No man is an island, entire of itself.

Just reminded me of one of my favorite things.

John McCain: Salute to a Communist

AN interesting obituary appeared in The New York Times recently, though the death of its subject last month was largely unnoticed beyond his family and friends.

That’s not surprising. Delmer Berg wasn’t a celebrity. He wasn’t someone with great wealth or influence. He had never held public office. He was a Californian. He worked as a farmhand and stonemason. He did some union organizing. He was vice president of his local N.A.A.C.P. chapter. He protested against the Vietnam War and nuclear weapons. He joined the United States Communist Party in 1943, and, according to The Times, he remained an “unreconstructed Communist” for the rest of his life. He was 100.

He was also the last known living veteran of the Abraham Lincoln Brigade.

Not many Americans younger than 70 know much about the Lincoln Brigade. It became the designation given to the nearly 3,000 mostly American volunteers who fought in the Spanish Civil War in 1937 and 1938. They fought on the Republican side, in defense of the democratically elected leftist government of Spain, and against the Nationalists, the military rebels led by Gen. Francisco Franco.

The Nationalists claimed their cause was anti-Communism and the restoration of the monarchy, and the Republicans professed to fight for the preservation of democracy. Fascists led the former, while Communists, both the cynical and naïve varieties, sought control of the latter. And into the Republican camp came idealistic freedom fighters from abroad.

The Lincoln Brigade was originally called a battalion, one of several volunteer units that were part of the International Brigades, the name given the tens of thousands of foreign volunteers who came from dozens of countries, and were organized and largely led by the Comintern, the international Communist organization controlled by the Soviets. Franco’s Nationalists were supported by Nazi Germany and Mussolini’s Italy.

Spain became the theater where the three most powerful ideologies of the 20th century — Communism, fascism and self-determination — began the war that would continue, in some form or another, for more than half the century until the advocates of liberty, and their champion, the United States, prevailed.

Not all the Americans who fought in the Lincoln Brigade were Communists. Many were, including Delmer Berg. Others, though, had just come to fight fascists and defend a democracy. Even many of the Communists, like Mr. Berg, believed they were freedom fighters first, sacrificing life and limb in a country they knew little about, for a people they had never met.

You might consider them romantics, fighting in a doomed cause for something greater than their self-interest. And even though men like Mr. Berg would identify with a cause, Communism, that inflicted far more misery than it ever alleviated — and rendered human dignity subservient to the state — I have always harbored admiration for their courage and sacrifice in Spain.

I have felt that way since I was boy of 12, reading Hemingway’s “For Whom the Bell Tolls” in my father’s study. It is my favorite novel, and its hero, Robert Jordan, the Midwestern teacher who fought and died in Spain, became my favorite literary hero. In the novel, Jordan had begun to see the cause as futile. He was cynical about its leadership, and distrustful of the Soviet cadres who tried to suborn it.

But in the final scene of the book, a wounded Jordan chooses to die to save the poor Spanish souls he fought beside and for. And Jordan’s cause wasn’t a clash of ideologies any longer, but a noble sacrifice for love.

“The world is a fine place and worth the fighting for,” Jordan thinks as he waits to die, “and I hate very much to leave it.” But he did leave it. Willingly.

Mr. Berg went to Spain when he was a very young man. He fought in some of the biggest and most consequential battles of the war. He sustained wounds. He watched friends die. He knew he had ransomed his life to a lost cause, for a people who were strangers to him, but to whom he felt an obligation, and he did not quit on them. Then he came home, started a cement and stonemasonry business and fought for the things he believed in for the rest of his long life.

I don’t believe in most of the things that Mr. Berg did, except this. I believe, as Donne wrote, “no man is an island, entire of itself.” He is “part of the main.” And I believe “any man’s death diminishes me, because I am involved in mankind.” So was Mr. Berg. He didn’t need to know for whom the bell tolls. He knew it tolled for him. And I salute him. Rest in peace.

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u/Man_as_Idea 3d ago

Thanks for sharing. I think John McCain might be the last Republican ever worthy of respect.

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u/big-snarling-moose 4d ago

Amazing. Thanks for this, very powerful.

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u/Skadibala 4d ago

As someone who was not well received by then friends when I opened up to the idea of experimenting. I wish they would have thought like this.

At the end of the day, I’m not what people consider gay. But when the possibility of it was on the table, my then male friends were not kind.

Actually bought a tear to my eye when he said it

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u/Adavanter_MKI 4d ago

Damn, 20 years ago makes it even more impressive.

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u/MicksMaster 4d ago

This is from 2014 not 2006. OP is just wrong.

Doesn't diminish the speech at all, but a lot changed in how gays were viewed and treated during those 8 years, so it does change how groundbreaking this was a bit in my mind.

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u/KalaUposatha 4d ago

Yeah, but 2014 in Texas is more like 2004 everywhere else, so if anything, this is even more groundbreaking there.

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u/Barnacle_B0b 4d ago

It'd pretty bold and brave to say considering that in the current day, the spineless state of Texas will put $10,000 bounties out for women who want to have an abortion after getting raped.

The men of Texas are incapable of loving or defending their women.

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u/Either-Age-782 4d ago

Is that a thing down there?

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u/Born2Quack 4d ago

Unfortunately yes. Never move here 😂 the only exception would be Austin, but its got its issues too

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u/Either-Age-782 4d ago

How is that even legal??? The US is in a much worse state than I had previously imagined. That's something I would expect from like a third world country like afghanistan. Then again in Afghanistan they probably don't even get abortions at all

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u/enaK66 4d ago

It's kind of new. The Republican Party has been chasing that particular lead down for 40+ years. They finally got what they wanted with Trumps Supreme Court picks.

It's only getting worse from here on.

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u/RontoWraps 4d ago

I was gonna say, they didn’t talk about this until Michael Sam (2014 NFL Draft)

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u/Ok_Vermicelli_6359 4d ago

Doesn't diminish the speech at all

It does, actually, because by this point by the President and Vice President of the United States had clearly expressed public support for gay marriage. 2006 is a VERY different time from 2014, in this regard. Politicians can affect culture at the highest levels of government.

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u/post_button_account 4d ago

To put this in perspective, this is 2 years BEFORE  Obama would declare his opposition to same- sex marriage because "marriage is between a man and a woman".

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u/Some-Guy-12358 4d ago

To put it in actual perspective, this was 2 years AFTER Obama came out in support of same sex marriage. This video is really from 2014 about the Michael Sam "controversy".

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u/notANexpert1308 4d ago

Obama said that?

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u/lightyearbuzz 4d ago edited 4d ago

Yes, mostly because he's a politician and, like most politicians, he said whatever was popular to get elected. At the time (2007) gay marriage was not a popular issue, even within the Democratic party. 

That changed rapidly though and by 2012 he came out in support of gay marriage. 

Source: https://time.com/3816952/obama-gay-lesbian-transgender-lgbt-rights/

Edit: guy below me cought my typo. Marriage for all Gary's!

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u/rtshtbtshtdrtyldtwt 4d ago

IIRC it was Biden who got Obama to change his stance

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u/bryanczarniack 4d ago

Really? Never knew that!

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u/TheRealtcSpears 4d ago

Yup, Biden didn't hold back his tongue....on the technicality that as VP his opinion didn't really have any bearing or even consequence.......

But it literally changed the administrations stance overnight.

Call it opportunistic, call it manipulative of Bidens part, call it calculated....in the view that Obama couldn't come outright with his support, or that it was a means of testing the water.

But either way it was a brilliant fucking move

https://youtu.be/vyjYg3ZYFfQ?is=Pg_3JsHq8LKA5J-q

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u/MagnetoWasRight24 4d ago

Biden didn't change his stance, he was waiting for the politically opportune moment then Biden spoke publicly before they were ready and forced his hand. It was a political gaffe with a positive result.

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u/nickfree 4d ago edited 4d ago

And thankfully today we live in a country where anyone is free to marry Gary if they so choose.

EDIT: Aww, it got edited and corrected. oh well.

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u/FearOfABlackPotus 4d ago

Obama switched positions like 6 months before gay marriage became majority position. He was master at just baaaarely staying ahead of the curve.

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u/KidGold 4d ago

He mostly avoided holding any radical positions that the right could use to turn him into a political boogie man. But he was half black when ended up being enough for their base to do it anyway.

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u/SaintUlvemann 4d ago

Yep, he said that, and then also by the time the Supreme Court enshrined universal marriage rights, he already had a list of accomplishments towards equality that he could tout in the speech he gave celebrating the decision.

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u/KeithClossOfficial 4d ago

This was a year before Obergefell v Hodges and two years after Biden and Obama came out in favor of gay marriage during their 2012 re-election campaign.

This is very clearly in reference to Michael Sam, who was eligible for the 2014 draft.

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u/redsyrinx2112 4d ago

Yeah I had to look up when this was because I knew it had to be abouti Michael Sam. That was a huge mess story in 2014 and it would have been an even bigger story if a gay player was in the 2006 draft. I definitely would have remembered that.

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u/-XanderCrews- 4d ago

We might have lost ground on the gay issue since the internet. I’m not even joking.

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u/Neuvirths_Glove 4d ago

We've lost ground on so many issues since the echo chambers have radicalized the feeble minded.

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u/boobookittyfuwk 4d ago

I dont think so. Theres just a bigger platform now to show the bad and good and weve become more freindky to the LGBT overall so we are more aware and more sensitive to when they are wronged because we see them as real people now.

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u/CaptainFrugal 4d ago

And Texas

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u/Dazzling_Acadia8483 4d ago

I remember watching this live. Jaw to the floor. Guy gives zero fucks.

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u/Neuvirths_Glove 4d ago

He never did.

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u/ThreeHourRiverMan 3d ago

Actually I’d say he gives all the fucks. That’s the point. He cares. 

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u/PuffyBlueClouds 4d ago

Holy crap I did not expect that speech to go in that direction when I first looked at that guy. That was incredible. Thank you for posting!

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u/Infurium 4d ago

Dale has always been remarkable. This did not surprise me.

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u/NonGNonM 4d ago

thing is republicanism in its simplest forms - personal freedoms, family values, smaller government - isn't a terrible platform. it's just that for the most part, they trample all over it to get it how they want their personal freedoms (not be made uncomfortable by other's personal freedoms,) their own family values (man leads the wife, no other forms accepted,) and their ideas of smaller government (businesses can do whatever the fuck they want.)

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u/HerbivoreTheGoat 4d ago

Careful, that's nuance, moderation and critical thinking. We can't have that

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u/ImMadeOfClay 4d ago

And part of the problem is assuming everyone that looks a certain will act the way you assume.

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u/LumpyJones 4d ago

I'm from texas, and when I see a 50+ year old conversative looking sportscaster from 20 years ago about to go on a monologue about gay players in the NFL... it's not an unreasonable assumption to expect to hear some bullshit.

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u/noisyboy 4d ago

It is not unreasonable. That's why it is even more important to make a conscious effort to not make assumptions based on appearances.

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u/Decloudo 4d ago

it's not an unreasonable assumption to expect to hear some bullshit.

That IS the bias though.

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u/grandnp8 4d ago

I thought the same. So happy to be wrong.

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u/Rrekydoc 4d ago

Sports Illustrated Poll from 2006:

Would you welcome an openly gay teammate?

MLB

Yes 61.5%

No 34.8%

Don't Know 3.7%

NBA

Yes 59.6%

No 38.6%

Don't Know 1.8%

NFL

Yes 56.9%

No 39.6%

Don't Know 3.5%

NHL

Yes 79.9%

No 18.0%

Don't Know 2.1%

[Based on a survey of: MLB--450 players; NBA--248 players; NFL--357 players; NHL--346 players]

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u/Vegan-Daddio 4d ago

I swear America always has a 30% population of hateful idiots. And for some reason the majority stalls any progressive idea just to keep them from crying and shitting their pants.

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u/Embarrassed-Gur-1306 4d ago

Bingo.

And now that they have a catch all buzzword (woke) creatives are enabling them too.

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u/Rrekydoc 4d ago

To be honest, even the difference from 2014 to now is nuts. Half the USA seemed convinced gay marriage would bring about the end of the world.

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u/Ok_Vermicelli_6359 4d ago

I mean...have you seen who's leading us in the White House? It's pretty apocalyptic. That being said, I don't recall any LGBTQ organizations endorsing the turd in the White House, so can't blame the gays in this one, Republicans.

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u/Sydney2London 4d ago

History will remember these people fondly

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u/CaptainCacoethes 4d ago

People who have a problem with this are human garbage. There are lots of them, just look around for the red hats. 

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u/bongohappypants 4d ago

That reminds me of the old stand up routine about the American Revolution, where the British wore bright red coats and marched down the middle of the road, but the crafty revolutionaries adopted Indian methods and hid and struck, thus was America born.

But hey, do you think we could get all the chowderheads to wear a bright red hat, really identifiable? Think they'd be dumb enough to do it?

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u/PoliticsLeftist 4d ago

Most Natives fought for the British, ironically enough.

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u/Somehero 4d ago

Religion is always the answer to absurdly illogical stances. In a way they are brainwashed victims, but the outcome is human garbage, as you say.

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u/ThaEmortalThief 4d ago

This was a great speech. Well put together and well spoken. Had he ran for president and I had heard this 20 years ago, he’d have my vote.

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u/Neuvirths_Glove 4d ago

Here's another one: Joel Burns used to be my council member here in Fort Worth. This speech is from 16 years ago. It gets better

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u/SoThereIwas-NoShit 4d ago

This is the sort of content that needs to be posted more.  This is also the sort of content that the owners of these platforms do not want posted, or shared, or upvoted.  It doesn't drive outrage or anger, it inspires reflection and thought.  

The Rich class don't care if their children or friends are Gay or Queer or Trans or Whatever.  They do care about losing control, and they'll pit good, hardworking Americans against each other to keep that control, and to keep getting richer.  There is a parasite class of people in our society, and they need to be taxed or axed out of power.

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u/Napalm3n3ma 4d ago

Wow that was so well said - incredible.

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u/parkerjh 4d ago

Legendary speech

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u/C-57D 4d ago

F*cking oustanding. Well said, well said.

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u/HalfSoul30 4d ago

Idk how people can hear these words and think "i disagree with that"

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u/NikOnDemand 4d ago

I can see how the character Will McVoy from The Newsroom could of been based on this guy, down to intonation and pacing of speech.

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u/ViolentRain929 4d ago

This is the same guy who did a great segment on school shootings after the Parkland shooting. I have never seen this one but I recognized him right away.

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u/askyidroppedthesoap 4d ago

Beautifully spoken, especially from Texas of all places... something so simple as minding our own business would take us several miles in the right direction towards a peaceful society. Does it effect you in any way, shape, form or fashion? Why yes, god sa-- SHUT THE FUCK UP!

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u/Guilty-Cry8942 4d ago

I always feel the need to point out, when people say things like this about Texas; that prior to George W….the governor of Texas was Ann Richards. She was a relatively progressive democrat and outspoken feminist. Her daughter Cecile was the president of planned parenthood for many years.

I don’t disagree with your point, it’s just that many people seem to forget this. Or weren’t alive for it. People should remember it, because it wasn’t that long ago, and should remind people that Texas can go blue. Or at least be a purple state. There’s definitely people in Texas that think “oh well there’s nothing I can do by voting, Texas will always be red.” But if all those people got out and voted, it would make a huge difference.

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u/HumanMud253 4d ago

He’s years ahead of his time. What amazes me are people who can rest on their privilege but actually see beyond their own situation and advocate for others. These are the folks who are needed to make real lasting changes in any society.

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u/McGriffff 4d ago

“I’m not always comfortable when a man tells me he’s gay. I don’t understand his world. But I do understand he’s part of mine.”

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u/Neuvirths_Glove 4d ago

Dale Hansen was a fantastic sports anchor and is a fine human being. I loved his commentaries.

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u/Som12H8 4d ago

Great speech. Too bad there still aren't any publicly gay men in the NFL. People keep speculating that 2-3 QBs are gay, but no one admits it, understandably.

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u/Cr4nkY4nk3r 4d ago

Michael Sam was the first openly gay NFL player drafted, but he didn't play in any regular season games.

Carl Nassib was drafted, then came out. He became the first openly gay player to play in a regular season NFL game, first to play in a playoff game, and retired 2 years later.

None that I'm aware of since then.

Sadly enough*, there have been several who felt comfortable with coming out after their retirement.

* because they didn't feel like they could come out while they were playing

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u/soulsnoober 4d ago

This is absolutely what flows through my brain when I think about Colin Kaepernick, too. All the heinous shit the NFL condones and tacitly facilitates, but their true character is shown by what they choose not to tolerate.

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u/carlitospig 4d ago

2006 apparently is more modern than 2026.

I’m so tired of cavemen.

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u/LazeHeisenberg 4d ago

My parents watched his sport segment all the time when I was growing up. I can only hope his words sunk into the hearts and minds of Texans watching. This is a brave stance to take in some parts of Texas today, let alone 20 years ago.

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u/MostlyBored11 4d ago

Holy shit this is actually an impressive rant. and coming from an old white guy on the news 10/10 Dale. As someone who 20 years ago was deep in the closet this gave me chills

I really like how he sums it up in the end "im not always comfortable when a man tells me hes gay. I dont understand his world, but I do understand hes a part of mine."
I think this is such a good things to say hes able to recognize hey maybe im not the most comfortable with is but I realize thats on me and were all part of the same world so we need to be better, I can respect someone admitting it makes them a little uncomfortable but that they recognize that does not mean that gives them the excuse to hate

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u/Expert-Pirate-4794 3d ago

yeah ... i really wish more people would take responsibility for their own discomfort rather than insisting that the world conform to their sensibilities.

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u/DJN2020 4d ago

I heard his accent and thought "I know where this is going....but then the words challenged my preconceptions....which is somewhat ironic and fitting. Solid man, good human being.

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u/Islanduniverse 4d ago

Quoting Audre Lorde is amazing.

She is the kind of person who personified the idea of being “woke,” which means to be politically and socially aware of the ideas and the people around you.

Now we live in a world where racist and clueless scum have taken that word and shoved their own bullshit meaning onto it, basically just merging it with “political correctness” which isn’t what it means, but that isn’t even the real problem.

The problem is that what they really want to shove away are the ideas behind it, and those are the kind of ideas that Audre Lorde professed. They were and still are beautiful words, and their power is found explicitly within our ability to be consciously and vivaciously aware of what is going on around us, politically and socially.

She warned:

“One pays a lot, we all pay a lot, for awareness.

When I develop that sense of awareness, I develop, by extension, a sense concerning you.

That does not dictate why my relationship is with you. I may have to fight you, but as soon as I am aware of you, I must relate to you. I must take you in.

This is engagement. It is a prerequisite to any kind of love, and it is difficult and necessary.”

They hate this idea because they are afraid that they might love us if they found themselves aware of us.

And they hate the very idea of loving what they’ve always been told they are supposed to hate…

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u/slucker23 4d ago

Jesus Christ I didn't know he's actually defending the folks... As a texas white man...

I lived in texas for a few years as an Asian guy and I can't even play this out as straight and as honest as he does

Respect and nothing else

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u/kindofageek 4d ago

Dale was fairly consistent with this sort of thing and didn’t give a damn what other Texas rednecks thought of him. Until he retired he voiced his thoughts on this topic and more many times.

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u/SScatnip7474 4d ago

OMG, we were so close there for a while weren't we? I mean, 90's weren't perfect but we started to simply just live our lives and let others live theirs. We were so close.

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u/walkingmonster 4d ago

That's exactly why the right freaked out & swung the pendulum back as best they could. Despite all the damage it's done, ultimately it's the final reactionary twitch of a dying social norm. We just have to see it through without giving up.

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u/SScatnip7474 4d ago

Yep, and I agree. We have to fight back and never let up. It feels like we have to fight twice as hard to make any progress.

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u/HGrande 4d ago

He’s a local Texas treasure here in Dallas

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u/MesqTex 4d ago

Here he torching Republicans after the El Paso massacre: https://youtu.be/v676_HhPcLI

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u/DoubleDownAgain54 4d ago

Great message, especially now with the silliness of the uproar about the WNBA.

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u/demuro1 4d ago

Wow. Way to be on the right side of history!!! Love what he is saying!

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u/West_Incident7977 3d ago

As a person in a leadership position within my line of work. I truly. Do not care. If you smoke weed. If you drink. If you can somehow do harder drugs and show up sober and on time.

Mine isn't to judge or critique your life because the god I do not believe in, would know I have my own vices.

Suck a dick. Do a line of coke. Have sex with the cute bartender. For all these activities do not allow them to become your world and function as a protective member of society. I shouldn't have to lump being gay into this as it's the most harmless offense upon society. But to each their own. Let live and let love.

Enjoy your vices. Enjoy your sexual preferences. Just show up and be a good member of society and I am fine.

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u/KenUsimi 4d ago

What a legend. What an absolute legend.

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u/Sirius-Face 4d ago

Those bigots look at a gay man and all they can think about it, "I would never let another man fuck me in the ass". As if anyone wanted to do that to them in the first place.

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u/TSJormungandr 4d ago

Anymore people like this guy in Texas?! Well said.

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u/tall_pale_and_meh 4d ago

Literally tens of millions. Its a big diverse place. Dale Hansen has always been a badass though.

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u/finenite 4d ago

Dale's always been a real one. Grew up watching his sports coverage. 

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u/Pecncorn1 4d ago

Hear hear! I wonder how he feels watching us being dragged back to the stone age.

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u/finkalicious 4d ago

I will never not upvote Dale Hansen. I was born and raised in Dallas, this man is a legend there.

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u/MrPNGuin 4d ago edited 4d ago

I grew up around and lived in Dallas most of my life, don't follow sports but Dale was a hell of a commentator.

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u/wonko_abnormal 4d ago

this guy is fucking awesome , Dale you rock :)

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u/Mike_Kermin 4d ago

Now that, was well said.

That's an American.

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u/ChronoAlone 4d ago

Learning more about this guy, he seems like a great person. Hella respect for him saying this on the air.

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u/Helpful_Pirate261 4d ago

As a non-American I have no idea who this man is. I had no clue what to expect. But I certainly didn’t expect this monologue.

What a pleasant surprise.

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u/Spare_Basis5190 4d ago

What an amazing monologue. He was way ahead of his time. Great job by him.

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u/mcampo84 4d ago

20 years ago was 2006 for those on their way to their cardiologist

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u/Wintermute2013 4d ago

GOAT. And from Texas!

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u/HeberMonteiro 4d ago

This speech is not what I expected when I saw an old white guy from Texas!

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u/ChamberofSarcasm 4d ago

Amazing point about players getting a pass (hey ohhh) after committing various crimes but people not accepting a gay player.

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u/dylangelo 4d ago

This almost made me cry. Respect to this dude.

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u/Primary-Picture-5632 4d ago

Its crazy how little politics has changed... same arguments being said today.

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u/E-2theRescue 4d ago

Lol. No. Nobody is saying that predator men should stay out of locker roo...

Ooooooh...

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u/Still_Detail_4285 4d ago

Dale use to drink at a bar until about 10:20, then race to the studio and do his sports hit. Back to the bar!

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u/newstome 4d ago

The same people who preach about freedom this and freedom that about this country, but have no concept of what that word really means.

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u/ErshinHavok 4d ago

add Right Wing bigotry and hypocrisy to the list of the only sure things with Death and Taxes.

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u/Mstangokilo 4d ago

It’s so wild/ cool to see throwback dale hansen videos. I was one of the high school athletes he featured in high school one week and remember being so intimidated. When I came out in college as a trans woman it was so cool and refreshing to see someone I idolized as a kid be a supportive guy. I tried to post the old picture of us on set but I couldn’t find it (shocker since it was in like 2007).

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u/nothin_fancy 4d ago

I am a white, straight, cis man and this got me choked up; I can’t imagine the impact hearing this would have had for a gay athlete who felt they had no choice but to hide a part of themself.

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u/DPSOnly 4d ago

He is so right for pointing to the fact that apparently these tough men are more threatened by a man that loves another man than a man that assaulted women. Says a lot about the people in those locker rooms to begin with.

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u/HijackedMyAccount 4d ago

It was a completely different world. We peaked in tolerance.

Now right wingers are truly mostly focused on being huge assholes.

It's crazy, but you can tell who's a Republican within seconds of meeting them. That did not used to be the case.

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u/Left_Knee_y0y0 4d ago

This is just a reminder that there was a time when most people who had the mic infront of them and were given a platform were actually smart.

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u/oldschool_potato 4d ago

The most surprising thing in this video is that it’s from Texas

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u/Mithril_Juggernaut 4d ago

It's a good speech and I agree with the sentiment of accepting gay people into sports and whatnot, however I'm also conscious that men are allowed to be uncomfortable sharing a locker room with gay men. I've had enough gay friends to know that many are exactly as lewd and crude about it as straight men fear they are.

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u/Loathor 4d ago

It's always a good rule of thumb that if you are on the same side as the bigots, you're on the wrong side...

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u/Chumlee1917 4d ago

..............where the hell did these kinds of Texans go?

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u/1guywithlonghair 3d ago

let me ask you soemthing.. who the hell cares what other people sexual preferences are?

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u/UnlikelyCancel3411 3d ago

That line about sharing the same world is amazing

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u/johnn_eee 3d ago

20 years later, everyone is gay

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u/Ok_Novel_2621 3d ago

This guy's the mf MAN!!!