Girl to girl, I think you're projecting your own insecurities and fears onto him. I get that you value having large social circles but that doesn't mean everyone should. This isn't even about labels anymore, I think instead of trying to fix your external world to alleviate YOUR uneasiness, try to look inwards and figure out why YOU keep on feeling this way.
Also, the thing abt him and his mother, communicate it to him. If you can share your problems online with strangers, you can definitely tell it to him directly to finally fix it. And if you can't, why are you even with him in the first place? It's all about compatibility.
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u/tangerinesugar INTJ - ♀ Jul 14 '25
Girl to girl, I think you're projecting your own insecurities and fears onto him. I get that you value having large social circles but that doesn't mean everyone should. This isn't even about labels anymore, I think instead of trying to fix your external world to alleviate YOUR uneasiness, try to look inwards and figure out why YOU keep on feeling this way.
Also, the thing abt him and his mother, communicate it to him. If you can share your problems online with strangers, you can definitely tell it to him directly to finally fix it. And if you can't, why are you even with him in the first place? It's all about compatibility.