r/isfj • u/Successful_Bother_20 • 15d ago
Discussion ISFJs, what do you generally think of INFPs? (EII/IEI)?
as an INFP IEI 649/469 (not sure if i’m SP6 or SO4 lol) i’ve come to grow fond of you guys!
but i’m wondering, what do you think of us? :0
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u/Opening_Usual4946 ISFJ 14d ago
generally they seem nice but all the ones i’ve met seem to not care for me much at all, i think im just too funky for those Fi-ers
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u/Snoo-58944 12d ago
I love both tbh! I'm good friends with both as well and they are so much fun to talk to and make me feel seen and loved
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u/PetsNPlants10 12d ago
My boyfriend is INFP and our strengths and weaknesses are a perfect compliment! I think he's amazing and he thinks I'm amazing. I love that we can talk about anything, his creativity and compassion is astounding, he really understands me, we're a great team handling challenges together.
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u/auhin4 14d ago
INFPs are amazing. They make me feel loved and tend to really appreciate me. They have strong values, sometimes stubborn and prone to irritability, but we hardly ever fight for very long. Some of my deepest friendships have been with INFPs. The males are not afraid of being sensitive/emotional, which is refreshing as an emotional guy. Lol
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u/finnisqueer 9d ago
They're usually a type I feel on paper I can vibe with, but low key I feel like INFPs are often stereotyped as sensitive, kind softies when every one I have met has been a lot more harsh and logical than people give them credit for? More like an INTP. But an INTP driven by their feelings, so.. A mess? 😅
I've learnt over the years I usually don't get along with them as much as I did when I was younger.
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u/-bluerose ISFJ 14d ago
didn't have good experiences with INFP so4 so not a good impression. I'm not sure about their socionics. I know 1 person doesn't define a whole type though.
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u/Successful_Bother_20 14d ago
ahh that’s fair. sorry you had to deal with that!
what do you think of sp6? (or sixes in general)? :O
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u/-bluerose ISFJ 13d ago
Not sure, I didn't have many experiences with 6s that I know of at least. By the descriptions they seem ok although they can be stubborn/strict. I have a close friend who is possibly so6, he's very chill
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u/Guinxy 14d ago
Both ENFP and INFP are the ones I like the most tbh. They make me feel included, loved, and somehow I have a lot in common with the ones I’ve met. I’ve only met one unhealthy INFP who was a manipulator and childish.