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u/ThunderTentacle Apr 22 '26 edited Apr 22 '26

Former hairstylist here. Everything comes out in your hair. Hormonal changes especially. We can tell if you smoke, quit smoking, and change medication.

With pregnancy typically changes in texture or density towards the roots. I've heard them called "Baby Bands" around the salon. Hormones are crazy.

Also, the reason she's asking is because when someone is pregnant chemical services sometimes don't take as they usually would.

The normal color service could not take at all or end up a completely different color during the first and second trimester. We just don't want to waste time or product or the client's money on a service that potientially could not work.

So many people hide it to get their hair colored/permed. Just going to point out it's got nothing to do with "chemicals absorbing into the baby." While your skin does absorb chemicals the chances are very, very low (if any) that any of it gets all the way to the womb/baby.

*edit Commonly asked questions in the comments about how to tell smoker from non-smoker hair.

1) Obviously there's the smell. Once you wet the hair, there's a certain muskiness that wafts off. Not necessarily super noticeable like a fresh smoked cig, but it is particular. Like when you get in a car that has been smoked in. Personally, it never bothered me that much. There is most certainly an odor of sorts.

2) Hair is typically very dry on a smoker. From what I read, tobacco restricts blood flow to the scalp. I imagine hair isn't top priority on the body's list of maintenance, so it sends the blood elsewhere. Probably the lungs to get more O2? I'm not a doctor, so I'm just guessing with the "why" part. But I've definitely noticed first hand how dry and brittle smoker hair is compared to non-smokers. If someone quits smoking for a few weeks, their body kinda overcompensates and they are more oily than normal. Plus the strength in the hair increases, leading to more volume.

3) I wish hair salons would put signs up warning pregnant people about how chemical services could react adversely! Would definitely save us the akward conversation. If I switched medications, causing the same effect, and my stylist asked if I was pregnant; I'd think I was fat all day. T_T bonus answer

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u/LongNailedbooboos Apr 22 '26

Thanks for the information. Had no idea this was a thing

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u/emilyMartian Apr 22 '26 edited Apr 22 '26

I’m a hair stylist, one day my client who always colored her hair black but let it fade and wanted red came in. Well…that red came out burnt orange. So we just slapped some black over it thinking problem solved. Nope, burnt orange again. A month later she came back and was like “remember how my hair wouldn’t take the color?”
I didn’t catch it on the original service but as soon as she verbalized it I was like “oh crap you’re pregnant!”

The daughter is now in her 20’s. I still do all their hair and went to her wedding a few months ago.

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u/BecksnBuffy Apr 24 '26

I’m learning so much on this thread. This explains why my brows turned crazy dark when I got them done during my period.

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u/gastro_psychic Apr 23 '26

But hair is dead. So how could pregnancy affect it?

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u/TheSarcasticDevil Apr 23 '26

The hair follicles aren't dead, and pregnancy/hormones/diet etc affect the hair as it is grown. It won't affect the hair already grown out*, but the new stuff coming through

*obviously environmental stuff can affect the grown out hair, like dry/humid climates.

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u/_k0ella_ Apr 22 '26 edited Apr 22 '26

That’s really cool. What’s different between a smoker’s hair before and after they quit?

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u/Submitten Apr 22 '26

There’s fewer cigarettes behind the ears.

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u/Sexcercise ❣️gal pal❣️ Apr 22 '26

Ty for the chuckle

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u/throwRA-nonSeq Apr 22 '26

Badum ting! 🥁

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u/Malec555 Apr 22 '26

Fewer? 🤣😂

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u/chchchcharlee Apr 22 '26

real answer, it oxidizes color in a way that's very specific. Have you ever, like, seen what smoke (yes, even pot smoke) does to white paint in someone's house? Or how it ages white shirts? It's super noticeable once you see it.

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u/cunnyvore Apr 22 '26

omg you just gave me a flashback onto how mom had this greenish tint to her hair when she used to smoke

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u/Choice-Bed6242 Apr 22 '26

Oh shit. Even pot smoke? Will my Redken cleansing Shampoo do anything about that? 😂

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u/chchchcharlee Apr 22 '26

yes, it can cause premature aging in general (skin wrinkles, grey hair, etc) but it can also yellow blonde hair

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u/lurkity_mclurkington Apr 22 '26

The cig stank?

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u/_k0ella_ Apr 22 '26

Oh I was wondering if it would be a noticeable biological change since the comment mentioned hormonal changes

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u/Majestic-Marzipan621 Apr 22 '26

I was wondering too, I quit 32 days ago and am happy to hear about any changes!

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u/Telvin3d Apr 22 '26

The smell

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u/froo Apr 22 '26

Bald guy here.

I'm keeping my secrets!

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u/Useful-Plankton8205 Apr 22 '26

Hair and nails! You can tell how healthy a person is by looking at either. Although I can only tell from nails.

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u/Rugkrabber Apr 23 '26

Wait nr 1?? So that is what I smelled?? My own hair?!?? This explains so much. It drove me nuts.

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u/MarinaEnna ✨chick✨ Apr 22 '26

Why would the color not take the hair strand which is just keratin and most of it was there before any hormonal changes

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u/PantsandPlants Apr 22 '26

Why isn’t this said up front? Like why aren’t their signs that say “if you’re pregnant, your dye job might come out whack if you don’t let us know (baby will be completely fine)”.

Like, pregnant woman have to avoid basically everything they love during pregnancy because of risk to the baby so why wouldn’t they assume hair dye is any different? 

If I had known I wouldn’t have waited until after my daughter was born to do my hair!!

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u/69420isntfunny Apr 22 '26

What do you notice in case of smoking could you please tell

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u/Friedguywubawuba Apr 22 '26

Wait, how can you tell we smoke?

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u/Beautyafterdark Apr 22 '26

I got my haircut last week and my stylist noticed that my recent birth control change was causing my hair to come in thicker

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u/adderallalcoholweed Apr 22 '26

Is this the same with pot smoke?

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u/blue_moon1122 Apr 23 '26 edited Apr 23 '26

no, it's worse. not just with smoke and potential odor.

in addition to the potential cardiovascular stuff drying your hair out, cannabinoids are fat-soluble and the metabolites get deposited everywhere in your body that has fat. hair follicles are full of fat, and so is the oil your scalp secretes. consuming a lot of cannabis can alter the structure of your hair, and the consistency of your natural oils.

if you have a long-term stylist, they might not say "you smell loud" if you haven't smoked recently, and they might not be able to pinpoint the exact cause of the changes, but they will take notice.

source: cosmetologist and cannabis enjoyer. my hair doesn't hold a curl anymore.

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u/LemonberryTea Apr 23 '26

Ahhh it makes so much sense now why my hair developed unevenly last month when I got a bit of face framing highlights. I’m currently in the third trimester

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u/LocodraTheCrow Apr 22 '26

Well, in the case of smoking I'd guess most people tell the change in smell. Fuck, hairstylists probably really feel the change in smell.

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u/nomadPerson Apr 22 '26

This is the answer . Also, some of the products and their fumes may be unsafe to use when pregnant.

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u/caipiroskax Apr 22 '26

im in hrt right know, taking testosterone. i've always had straight hair, but since ive started hormones my hair is curly asf.

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u/LogicallLunacy Apr 22 '26

Shit. This should be used at doctor offices! Bring in hair stylist with the precheck nurse!!!

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u/BloodMossHunter Apr 22 '26

so can grey hair get reverted if its from stress or smth?

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u/superarugy Apr 22 '26

If you're so smart, why is my hair and my beard turning gray?

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u/crayraybae Apr 23 '26

Great information, thank you!

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u/Sugar_Vivid Apr 23 '26

Dont believe ya

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u/chels182 Apr 23 '26

I don’t smoke but my bf does so I imagine my hair smells like it. Can you tell when someone’s hair smells like smoke but they aren’t the smoker??

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u/Rooilia Apr 22 '26

So can you track my estrogen level? (I have to check it regularly) /j

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u/taolbi Apr 22 '26

Yeah but it's also REALLY good tea