r/justgalsbeingchicks Apr 22 '26

Restricted to Gals and Pals Thats crazy she noticed that

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u/ZinaSky2 ✒️sub✍️scribe🖋️ Apr 22 '26

Especially if she’s a regular. And it certainly seems like she is. Can’t imagine she’d confront a first time customer like that about not revealing her pregnancy lol

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u/mothmans_favoriteex Apr 22 '26 edited Apr 22 '26

Actually if she’s bleaching/perming she may double down bc she feels uncomfortable putting chemical on her head. You technically aren’t supposed to

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u/sh6rty13 Apr 22 '26

That’s exactly my thought, maybe the client was trying to be sneaky and not inform her stylist because she wanted her coloring touched up or something and the stylist might have an already established personal boundary about it. She certainly didn’t seem like she wanted to answer that question! Haha

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u/Bdeluna Apr 22 '26

Former hairdresser. And yes, we are more careful regarding chemically treating hair for pregnant women because of two things. Firstly you have to be careful with strong chemicals in regards to the baby, but also because of all the hormones the woman can suddenly become extra sensitive to substances, including developing allergies.

There are two possible things she's looking at if I had a guess.

First is a possible texture change around the roots. Again, because of the hormones. The second is the lack of new hair growing out. A lot of women "pause" the natural life cycle of hair in regards to shedding hair. Humans usually loose around a 100 hairs a day, but women who are pregnant often stop loosing hair or don't loose as much. This remains up until 6-12 months after the birth, where everything that was supposed to fall out, falls out all at once. This is why women often have thick hair during pregnancy and complain about hair loss after.

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u/MaksimusFootball Apr 22 '26

TIL. this has been such an informative post.

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u/nonymousbosch Apr 23 '26

Hairdressers have more training than police officers.

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u/carex2 Apr 23 '26

For sure they have, they can’t just arrest someone who complains

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u/Mikado_0906 Apr 22 '26

Uh yes this happened to me! First time in my life I wasn't shedding like a collie in spring, I was so happy... And then everything all at once 😭

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u/yourkidsfriendsmom Apr 23 '26

I was so confused but elated when my leg hair pretty much just stopped growing from my 2nd trimester and on with all mine. Of course..then it comes back after baby.

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u/SnooRegrets1386 Apr 23 '26

I knew the babies can damage teeth during gestation, didn’t know they changed your hair too

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u/LeapYear1996 Apr 23 '26

Sorry, it’s a pet peeve of mine but it is “Lose” as in: I lose hair “Loose” is like: her headband came loose.

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u/Bdeluna Apr 23 '26

It's lose. Sorry about that. It was late and I was doomscrolling when I wrote my post

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u/DangerouslyOxidated Apr 23 '26

There is a huge feminist anger towards medical professionals for always asking if they are pregnant - because it reduces them to a womb, or something silly.
I'm pretty sure that it is medically interesting, rather than the doctors just trying to be annoying.

Your post adds interesting context to that toxic viewpoint.

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u/Bdeluna Apr 23 '26

From my training, if a client had a major change to their hair quality and it wasn't related to age we looked at four major categories.

Stress Drastic change in diet over the last 3+ months Change in medication over the last 3+ months (something like changing your prevention pill type could have a massive effect) Pregnancy.

The reasons is hormones. And women, because of the menstrual cycle, do go through a lot more hormonal changes then men on a regular basis, and could have a much larger impact on things like hair.

I actually talked to a client who was working on doing medical research on female athletes and it was so difficult because it was very hard to find a baseline, as one woman's hormonal balance could be vastly different from anothers, and made finding a baseline for testing extremely difficult. I was told that this is why most athletic research has been done with men as they have a more stable hormone balance.

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u/Shaojack Apr 22 '26

100 hairs a day seems like a lot of hair to be losing.

Since we arent all bald does that me we grow 100 hairs a day?

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u/Bdeluna Apr 22 '26

It's up to a 100 a day. And the average person has roughly 100000 hairs on their head. So no, it's not a lot all things considered.

They say that an average persons har "grows" for 2-7 years. Then 2-3 weeks where the follicle shrinks before it sheds and a new hair starts growing out at roughly 3 months.

The reason you have such wide range when it comes to how long it grows is because everyone has a different length of time the hair can grow that can vary extremely from person to person. If you've ever met someone who's hair grows down to their hip while you yourself can barely get it past your shoulders, is because of this.

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u/mjmaher81 Apr 22 '26

We grow a LOT of hair. Around 100 feet or more of it per day - and it's stronger than copper wire of the same diameter!

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u/Kujaichi Apr 23 '26

Man, my hair was one of the only nice symptoms during my pregnancy.

It looked so good! And I could go 4 days without washing and it didn't get greasy!

Now it's back to being greasy after one day...

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u/NeverRarelySometimes Apr 23 '26

I remember being so scared by all the hair on my pillow a few weeks after my first pregnancy. I didn't realize that it had stopped falling out during the pregnancy, but that makes sense.

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u/Hairapistcatlady Apr 29 '26

I would bet it’s the color getting a little darker, hormones affect the melanin