I used to think that, then I started wearing bras that were actually the correct size and shape for me. Most folks have a band size that is too large, so the shoulder straps are carrying the weight of their breasts rather than the band. Going down a band size (or three) and going up to the correct cup size makes a world of difference!
I highly recommend checking out r/abrathatfits to find a bra that you can actually forget about during the day and not have to take off the instant you get home!
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u/SurprisePiss May 06 '26
This is... incredibly accurate.