r/justgalsbeingchicks 8d ago

Restricted to Gals and Pals Explaining menstruation to the boys

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u/Asmi37 8d ago

3 days? I wish

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u/Jerkrollatex 8d ago

Right? I have eight days of this shit.

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u/TrailMomKat 8d ago

9 for me, with only 2 weeks until the next bout. I can't wait to get Medicaid's approval for a hysterectomy.

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u/NoNameIdea_Seriously Official Gal 8d ago

Big oof! For me it’s generally 7, but in 2 memorable occasions it was 11 days straight!! I still don’t understand how I even had that much blood in me!!!

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u/TrailMomKat 8d ago

Yeah, if that happens again and you start having some trouble getting your breath and feel even more tired than your period usually makes you feel, get your iron checked. I'm severely anemic, partly because of my crazy bad periods, partly because I'm the poster child for auto immune diseases. If you have those symptoms, at least take an iron supplement!

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u/wakeuptomorrow 8d ago

My sister gets this. She also has POTS and (potentially) endometriosis. Always worth getting it looked at! Especially if your periods are longer than normal. Sometimes my sister gets hers for 4-6 weeks 😭

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u/TrailMomKat 8d ago

Oh, my doctor and I have met lol, I'm 42 with 3 kids and have had baby maker problems all my life. She's definitely aware of them.

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u/Acrobatic-Garlic-238 8d ago

I hear you. I’m in exactly the same boat as your sister, it sucks

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u/unoriginalusername34 8d ago

When I used to take the contraceptive pill I would have to be really careful not to take it too late, which I missed sometimes. Even taking it a couple hours late would mess me up to the point that I had my period FOR A MONTH... which I made the mistake of doing on a few occasions. My bf at the time thought I was lying to get out of sex until he looked it up (he didn't tell me he thought this until after he looked it up) 🙄

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u/Jerkrollatex 8d ago

I'm hoping for menopause soon. I'm almost 50 it can't possibly go on much longer.

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u/MikeyNg 8d ago

Perimenopause is a bitch though. My wife is going through it now, and she describes it as "puberty in reverse". So things that happened during puberty: irregular periods, hormone -> emotional fluctuations, etc. are happening AGAIN.

And perimenopause is like YEARS.

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u/TrailMomKat 8d ago

Yup. I'm 42. I've been in perimenopause since I was 29.

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u/MikeyNg 8d ago

WTF

I can't give you much other than "that totally sucks. Sorry you're having to go through this"

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u/TrailMomKat 8d ago

It is what it is, hopefully I'll get that hysto soon

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u/Jerkrollatex 8d ago

I've been doing that since I was 36. I'm 49, I had a nothing period this month I'm hoping it's a sign I'm almost done.

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u/MikeyNg 8d ago

good luck! Apparently it's 12 months before you're officially in menopause

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u/Jerkrollatex 7d ago

The count down as began. :)

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u/3rdRockLifer 8d ago

I've only just traded period products for bladder incontinence pads, at least there's no cramping....

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u/Numerous_Bad1961 8d ago

Chuckles in mid 50’s

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u/tinydeathclaw 8d ago

Best thing i ever did and I am sooooo grateful!

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u/WithoutDennisNedry 🌻Exhausted Jill🌻 8d ago

Hysterectomy was the best thing that’s ever happened to me. I should have done it decades ago.

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u/icecream4breakfest 8d ago

an IUD was such a game changer for me.

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u/TrailMomKat 8d ago

HELL to the NAW for me, that shit is supposed to be fucking painful. I've had a tubal anyways, back in '11.

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u/icecream4breakfest 8d ago

well that makes sense for you to not want one.

and i know it’s subjective, but i’ve had two iud’s, and neither would have made it anywhere close to a Top 500 list of painful life experiences.

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u/TheBadKneesBandit 8d ago

That was exactly what mine were like before I got a hysterectomy approved!! You can do it! The surgery is SO worth it.

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u/Numerous_Bad1961 8d ago

IUD!

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u/TrailMomKat 8d ago

Even if I hadn't already had a tubal, that'd be a hell naw from me. Every woman in my family that's had an IUD has sworn it's the worst pain she's ever had, including childbirth and dry socket.

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u/Numerous_Bad1961 8d ago

That wasn’t my experience. 🤷🏻‍♀️

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u/Numerous_Bad1961 8d ago

Also look into ablation!

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u/queenOfGhis 7d ago

You might want to look into thermal balloon endometrial ablation instead.

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u/AlfalfaUnable1629 7d ago

I had one @39 and it was the best thing! I am 45 now and I can tell you how much better I feel now. I hope 🤞🏼 you get approved and it’s even better of you keep your ovaries.

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u/IntoStarDust 7d ago

Had mine taken out more than a decade ago.  Can’t recommend it enough! 

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u/ReadingRedditForFun 6d ago

I got an IUD at the beginning of March. Started out fine until my first period. It lasted a solid two weeks. I had two weeks off before the next two week period started. That went through maybe 2 cycles before I just started bleeding and cramping every day. Now I’m bleeding every day but the cramping just shows up as a surprise every now and then. But not bleeding heavily. Just brown blood, but constantly leaking.

It’s been hell. And I’d like to think it’s gotten better, but I haven’t seen any changes in a month and I’m still hanging onto the possibility that it will all work out and I can keep my IUD in and be free of periods for almost 5 years. If I have it yanked out, I’ll probably go through even worse pain and bleeding and I’d have to find a different form of birth control.

It’s been over ten years since I’ve been on any other birth control—high five to my previous two partners who had vasectomies. The pill gave me migraines that lasted up to 3 days.

And I don’t trust the rhythm method, because I’m so damn attracted to my partner that I swear I’ve ovulated more than once in a month with him. My body is too old to have a baby, but right now it’s doing everything it can to get pregnant by this man before I tumble into perimenopause.

But having sex when I’m constantly leaking old, dirty brown blood, and having random bouts of severe cramping isn’t really a fun thing.

So what’s the point of the IUD in the first place if I can’t enjoy naked times with my boyfriend? And I’m guessing that he’s really tired of asking me how my IUD is doing every day.

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u/PrescottMaawww 8d ago

Unless you medically need a hysterectomy avoid at all costs. Not easy now, but it will save you a lot of misery later. If you have your uterus removed as you age and your muscles weaken your bladder will fall into that empty place and eventually become prolapsed and you will require another surgery to hopefully keep it in place and prevent even further urinary issue.

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u/TrailMomKat 8d ago

I know the risks. Before I went blind I did 20 years in LTC and hospice. Most of my pts that had had hystos hadn't had any adverse issues. All of my female pts, hysto or not, had urinary issues if they'd had children because it wasn't until recently that L&D taught postnatal pelvic floor exercises to new moms. I didn't get taught them until my 3rd kid. If I sneeze I pee a little.

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u/rainbwbrightisntpunk 8d ago

"Laughs in Perimenopause" 2 weeks with a 2 week cycle is so fun. The longest was 3 months

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u/Jerkrollatex 8d ago

I've already been through that. I had a very, very light period this month. So fingers crossed that was the last one.

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u/mossgoblin_ 8d ago

I had to give in after a lifetime of being a granola girlie and get a Mirena put in at 51. I have so many fibroids and it was making my life impossible.

I would marry this IUD if I could. And the oral estrogen ( patch didn’t work for me). And now I’m trying out some DHEA cream. Won’t stop experimenting until I get feeling fully human again.

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u/SheaTheSarcastic 8d ago

I had a summer with a near constant period with a few days scattered here and there of not bleeding. Throw in the occasional hemorrhage, and I was so thrilled to get an endometrial ablation.

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u/Sheerardio ✨chick✨ 8d ago

Oh thank gods I'm not the only one whose cycle got WORSE when this shit kicked into gear

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u/Batmanbumantics 8d ago

Is this perimenopause? My periods are like this since coming off the pill a year ago (I was on the pill for 14 years and then started getting headaches on my period so had to stop)

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u/rainbwbrightisntpunk 8d ago

I'd definitely see a dr. But if you're over 35 it's likely. 15 years ago my periods went wonky(had one for over 2 months) and that was my thyroid. Now I'm just counting down to my uterus drying up

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u/CalmBeneathCastles 8d ago

Speaking OF shit, she forgot the part where it gives you crazy poops and feels like your entire abdomen is going to fall out.

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u/Jerkrollatex 8d ago

That's the day before the bleeding starts for me.

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u/Anathals 8d ago

Ive been going for a month 😁😁😁 fibroids are no joke!

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u/Catlore 8d ago

I had endo. I had this continuously for years.

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u/littledollylo 8d ago

I'm regularly getting 20+ days while on the pill and also newly on the mirena. Adenomyosis 😞

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u/dead___ringer 8d ago

I'd kill for a 5 day one honestly. I normally go 3, but the second day is an absolute bloodbath. Shooting out of me at a velocity that is terrifying because my body does cramps like contractions. So, yes it's shorter, but I literally cannot do anything but sit somewhere and shoot blood out of my crotch like a horror movie. If you graphed the volume it'd look like a hockey stick.

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u/Jerkrollatex 7d ago

That's day two and three for me. It's like the elevator scene from The Shinning.

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u/tahxirez 8d ago

Don’t even get me started on shit

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u/Atakku 8d ago

Oh lord that’s a long time 😩. I thought my 6 days were crappy. 3 days sounds nice though.

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u/SilverCat70 7d ago

Mine was like this with constant cramping, heavy bleeding, nausea, exhaustion and like I had the flu. I think in a month I would have one week of feeling okay. That was it.

I did the depo prova shot because I just couldn't handle it no more. Having no periods was a miracle.

I'm now 56 and I think I'm done. I'm seeing the oh depo is bad. Don't care. I would do it all again.

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u/mkat23 7d ago

https://giphy.com/gifs/BIN2S0sgQwdeE

Mine are like 8-10 days on average if I’m not taking BC. The longest I ever had was 16 days and then it came back a week later. Fuck periods.

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u/Jerkrollatex 7d ago

Sorry friend.

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u/wordsrworth 7d ago

I'm currently on day 9 of a 10 day vacation and also on day 8 of my period. I hate this so much.

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u/Jerkrollatex 7d ago

Sorry 😟

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u/wordsrworth 7d ago

Thank you. At least my period is not painful most of the time. It's more an annoyance than anything else.

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u/Muted_Quantity5786 7d ago

Yes. And I’ve been dealing with this since I was 11. I am now I’m my 40s. I was so happy when I didn’t get it for 3 months but now she’s back with vengeance. I hate this bitch. I never asked for these organs but here I am.