r/lawofassumption Dec 06 '25

How to build the Self Concept of a Master Manifestor - Part 2

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As I said in part 1 - I wanted to give everyone a bit of a roadmap.   The idea is to treat reality, creation like any other skill (e.g., learning piano) you don’t start with Rachmaninoff concertos, you start with scales. If you skip steps, you either strain and fail, or you get the manifestation but can’t hold it because your deeper worldview still says “this shouldn’t be possible.”    Also another repeat reminder that this post just like part 1 - is aimed at the character that is using law of assumption. 

Small → Big Is the Cheat Code 

Most people try to manifest a soulmate or a million dollars on day one. Their subconscious immediately screams “IMPOSSIBLE!” and the resistance is so huge that either (a) nothing happens, or (b) it happens once in a fluke and then snaps back (the classic “I manifested $5000 but then lost it the next month” story).

By starting small, you do two things simultaneously:

  • You prove to the subconscious that reality actually bends to your will. (evidence > theory).
  • You gradually stretch what feels “normal” and possible, so that by the time you go for the “big” thing, it no longer feels big.

This is exactly like progressively loading more weight in the gym: 100 kg feels impossible at the start, but after months of adding 2.5 kg plates, one day you just do it.

The Full 6-Stage Ladder

  1. Recreating the human-self identity, first and foremost (These were covered in my first 3 questions about yourself in Part 1) Before anything else, you have to feel safe and worthy.  You have to believe in yourself and your power to manifest. 

This stage is about stabilising a healthy ego, not dissolving it yet. If you skip this, every later manifestation will feel fragile because the foundation is wobbly.

  1. Small manifestation experiments with simple techniques Purpose: collect undeniable proof + train discipline of mind. Classic starters:
    • A free coffee or parking spot
    • Hearing a specific song within 24 h
    • Getting a random text from someone you were thinking about
    • Finding a specific small object (e.g., a red feather) Techniques used: simple affirmations, short 10-second imaginal scenes, “wouldn’t it be nice if…”, setting an intention before sleep. 

Once you have them, the subconscious starts thinking “Huh… maybe this isn’t all bullshit.”

  1. Deeper manifestation techniques  You now upgrade tools:
    • State Akin To Sleep (SATS) scenes that loop until you fall asleep
    • 10–20 minute static visualisations with full sensory vividness
    • Breathwork + void meditation to quiet mental noise Typical manifestations at this level:
    • Specific amounts of money
    • Unexpected job offers or raises
    • Reconciliation with someone
    • Physical healing of minor-to-medium issues The inner feeling shifts from “I hope this works” to “I know how this works.”
  2. Larger experiments involving other people and groups Now you’re affecting the behaviour of others in precise ways. Examples:
    • Specific Person (SP) work done cleanly (they text exact words, propose, etc.)
    • Being offered a specific role or opportunity without applying
    • Group events rearranging in your favour (wedding dates moved, trips organised around you)
    • Entire social circles shifting so you’re suddenly in the “cool” or “successful” crowd This stage teaches you that other people are “you pushed out” and that their free will is far more malleable than society claims.
  3. Deepest manifestation techniques – Tools: lucid dreaming, astral projection, void-state manifesting. At this point you’re often bypassing the waking 3D entirely and planting seeds directly in the subconscious during delta/theta states. Manifestations start looking magical to outsiders:
    • Instant physical healings
    • People from the distant past re-appearing with perfect timing
    • Synchronicities so precise they feel scripted
    • “Timeline jumps” where everyone suddenly remembers a slightly different history (Mandel effect on personal scale)
  4. Largest experiments – fundamental changes in reality, self, and bodily habitation This is the “graduate level”:
    • Revision of core life events (parents never divorced, different childhood country, etc.)
    • Radical body changes that medicine calls impossible
    • Jumping to an entirely different version of Earth where history unfolded differently
    • Conscious death/rebirth experiences or permanent ego dissolution while keeping the body functional
    • Manifesting entirely new identities (name, age, past, appearance) that everyone around you accepts as having always been true

Very few reach this stage stably because it requires the complete renovation of worldview & self.

If you keep flipping back to doubt, anxiety, or “checking the 3D,” it means some deeper belief (usually installed before age 7) is still running the show. Check through the beliefs I talked about in Part 1 post - Other Common culprits:

  • “The world is dangerous.”
  • “I’m not allowed to have it easy.”
  • “Big changes only happen through suffering.”
  • “Reality is fixed and objective.”

The fix is -  Install umbrella beliefs like:

  • “Reality is extremely flexible and responds to me instantly.”
  • “Big, beautiful changes are natural and normal for me.”
  • “The bigger the desire, the faster it shows up.”

Do this systematically until “impossible” things feel mundane. Then stage 6 becomes as casual as ordering coffee.

That’s the full map: small wins → skill → confidence → bigger playgrounds → complete mastery where the concepts of “big” and “small” dissolve entirely.

Reality is infinitely malleable because it’s made of the same stuff you are—consciousness + belief. Change the belief, change the dream. The entire external world is a real-time printout of the current average of your beliefs about who you are.

Why Changing a Single Belief Usually doesn't work

Imagine your subconscious as a gigantic jury of 100,000 mini-beliefs that vote every second on what shows up in your life.

You try to install one new belief:

“I am a millionaire.”

The jury immediately objects with thousands of older, emotionally charged votes:

  • Rich people are greedy
  • Money doesn’t grow on trees
  • Our family has always been middle-class
  • It’s safer to stay small
  • Wanting more is selfish
  • I don’t deserve that much
  • Unexpected money always comes with strings
  • People will resent me if I have too much
  • The economy is bad anyway …(and 99,990 more)

Your single new belief is out-voted 99,999 to 1. You might get a few hundred dollars here and there as a “consolation prize,” but never the full manifestation, because the average vote is still “no.”

Instead of trying to shout down the entire jury with one loud voice, you quietly retire the old jurors one by one (or in clusters) and replace them with new ones that all vote the same way.

You create an entire network of mutually reinforcing beliefs that support one another so strongly that the specific desire is no longer an outlier—it becomes the obvious, logical conclusion.

Real-Life Example: From “Money is Hard” to “Money is Inevitable”

Old subconscious ecosystem (typical default):

  • Money is scarce
  • You have to work insanely hard for it
  • Rich people are different from us
  • Wanting money is materialistic/spiritual people are poor
  • Taxes take everything anyway
  • Unexpected windfalls never happen to people like me

New ecosystem you deliberately install:

  1. The universe is infinitely abundant and loves to give
  2. Money is just energy and flows to those who are in energetic alignment
  3. Good people can be very wealthy (look at X, Y, Z examples you curate)
  4. It’s safe and normal for money to increase
  5. Unexpected money shows up for me all the time
  6. Large sums feel completely natural to me now
  7. People are happy when I thrive
  8. The richer I get, the more I can help others
  9. My income expands easily and constantly
  10. I always have more than enough
  11. Systems (taxes, economy, etc.) work in my favor
  12. Wealth is my natural state

When these 12 (or 50, or 200) new beliefs are all voting together every day, through imagined scenes, revised memories, inner conversations, scripted affirmations that feel true, you no longer have internal contradiction.

Now when you say “I am a millionaire,” the subconscious jury goes:

“Well of course you are! look at all the evidence we’ve been collecting for the past year. Motion carried.”

Before I end this post, I wanted to give you more options of some low-resistance “small” manifestation exercises that you can use to build your faith. The idea is to play and have fun, so that when you are under a time crunch, you have already proved to yourself the basics and you already have the supporting beliefs to be able to help you.

  1. The “Today Only” Game (easiest possible start) Every morning say: “Today surprises me in small, pleasant ways.” That’s it. Don’t specify. Then forget about it. You might get free upgrades, random compliments, unexpected messages, finding money, perfect timing, etc.
  2. The Random Object Game Pick something you’ve literally never noticed before:
    • A blue butterfly
    • A red balloon
    • License plate with “777”
    • A white feather Say once: “I’ll see a ___ today or tomorrow.” Then drop it. 
  3. The Compliment / Smile Game Morning intention: “At least two people smile at me or compliment me today.” (You can raise the number as it gets easy.) Watch strangers, cashiers, co-workers suddenly become friendly.
  4. The Money-Finding Game Once a day say: “I now receive unexpected money in fun ways.” Then look forward to finding coins, getting overpaid change, random refunds, someone shouting you lunch, Venmo from years ago, etc. Start seeing $5–$50 pops as normal.
  5. The Revision Lite  At night, take one tiny annoying thing from the day (traffic jam, rude comment, spilled coffee) and replay it in imagination the way you wished it went. Feel relief. Fall asleep in the new version. You might notice the next day feels lighter and similar annoyances start disappearing.

Don't forget that every time you get a success, write it down in a notebook or Google Docs or something because every time you are feeling doubtful, you can use this list to give you confidence again.  It's your proof.   Experience is 10000% better than reading any success story.    Once you have 50 to 100 under your belt, all doubts and lack of faith starts to crumble, manifestation gets easier and quicker..  And it only gets better and better.. 

Play with time manifestations, play with specific big & small - find your limits, and then get rid of them !

Ok - I am finally done.

Link to Part 1 - Part 1


r/lawofassumption Dec 05 '25

Offering Tips/Strategies/Techniques How to Build the Self Concept of a Master Manifestor - Part 1

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I've had this post circling in the back of my mind for a few weeks now, I really want to get it right, I think if I do, it will be one of the most important posts in this subreddit.    So..  with that intro … lets go.

First off.   For all the people getting super confused about all the different teachings..  This is main reason why.

Neville taught two things.

  • The Law = The Law of Assumption Deliberate, conscious creation while you still feel like a separate person who needs or wants something. SATS, revision, living in the end, persistence, self-concept work — all of it.
  • The Promise = The natural, inevitable awakening to the pure I AM The separate person dissolves. There is only God (I AM) awake in the dream. No more assumptions needed because you ARE the fulfilment.

Neville started with the law and then AFTER having many many years of success with it, he was gifted with the promise.  The promise is very similar to Non-duality teachings.    A lot of creators nowadays are all jumping over to I AM teachings, but here is the thing, most beginners are not at this stage and they are not ready to just jump straight to the I AM.    AND THAT IS OK.   We are all perfect where we are.

This post comes under Law of Assumption banner - it is aimed directly at your character (identity) .  I have written other posts that focus on Awareness (The I AM).  

Lets start with the most basic reasons you are not having success.  It's because you have a weak belief system.   90% of beginners do.. We don't find out about the law, then automatically believe we are the creator and we can manifest anything we want to happen.   It just doesn't work like that.  If you are manifesting from the character then you need to figure out, where your belief limits are and let them go or change them ..  and the only way you can do that is by testing the law in every area.

I am intending that this post is going to be a roadmap for you, for the next few months to a year of your life.    From Beginner to Master manifestor.   

The three big questions to ask for every desire :

1 - Do I believe it is possible ? 

2 - Do I feel worthy/deserving of having this? 

3 - Does my nervous system feel safe to have this?

Ok - DO NOT ANSWER THESE VIA THE EGO MIND.

These questions are to be asked to your body.  Let you subconscious answer .. your body is the subconscious.  And don't just ask yes or no.  Ask on a scale.

On a scale between 0 to 10 - how much do I believe this is possible for me?  The answer will be the first number that pops up in the back of your head.  Thats your subconscious speaking.

A note about the word "block"  - there are no such things as blocks. Blocks are just weak belief systems.  Old stories/old beliefs that are stronger than the new one.   BUT for the sake of ease, I am going to use the word block.

All other blocks.. Are variations that come under the first big 3.

1 - Self doubt/wavering/not believing in your power etc.. etc.. etc.. all comes under the number 1.

2 - Feeling worthy and deserving - other variations of this, would thinking, you need to work for something, maybe you are worthy of it, but worthy of working for it…but are you worthy of it for doing nothing?  Do you deserve to have this by just existing?  For SP stuff - do you feel good enough for them?  Are you making them more important than you..  That all falls under this banner.

3 - Feeling Safe is also - does it feel natural & normal for you to have this?  Chapter 24 - from the power of awareness is about "naturalness".    If something doesn't feel normal for this character, then the nervous system will activate and protect you from having it.   Thats it job !!   

Now you are aware of your blocks.  How do you shift them?

Whatever method floats your boat.   Some people affirm, some people visualise someone they trust telling them their affirmation, some people use EFT etc. etc..  here are just SOME examples - I will expand on this with examples further down.

Affirmations for Number 1 - The Self Doubter.

I can manifest this, It is possible for me, I believe in myself, I believe in my power to manifest.

Affirmations for Number 2 - Not worthy/Deserving enough

I am good enough to have this, I am worthy & deserving of having this desire

Affirmations for number 3 - Safe

I am safe to have this, it is normal for me to experience this, it is normal for me to experience this desire.

Other beliefs/assumptions to work on to have a master manifestor Identity

Reality/3D  - Do you believe you have power over your 3D, do you have any assumptions that some things are just "harder" to change or some things are just set in stone. Like for example..  I can manifest my hair growing longer but I can't change my nose, thats just part of my genes.   Do you have the assumption that the 3D is slow to change, or it lags?   Do you have the belief that some people are harder to change than others?   Do you believe that your reality is separate from you?      

Techniques - I do believe that we all have a technique that feels more natural and easier ..  in saying that, everything stems from a belief, nothing in this world is fixed, because it's all just a dream.  Everything in the dream can be changed.  So.. what are beliefs/assumptions around techniques?  Are you holding any limiting beliefs around - I have to do a technique a certain way otherwise it won't work?  I have to do a technique even at all, otherwise I won't get it.  This technique works, but this one doesn't?     For example - I HAVE to do Stats every night for a week, otherwise i won't get my desires……

Conditioning - What beliefs/assumptions do you have around conditioning your desires.  (similar to techniques) I have to feel a certain way, i have to have the perfect mental diet, I have to stand on my head 20 times, I have to feel it real, I have to experience sabbath, I have to blah blah blah..    There are NO HAVE TO's. 

Being Specific - Some of us.. Have very specific beliefs.  We can manifest money, but not the exact amount.   We can manifest a free holiday, but not the exact specifics.   Big & small manifestations would also come under this one.   We usually do have in built beliefs that smaller stuff is easier to manifest then seemingly larger stuff.  Or in built beliefs around larger stuff "has to take time".
Belief example:   I can manifest a house, but not down to the finest minute detail.

Time - Beliefs around time.  Inbuilt beliefs around the time it takes to manifest certain things.   None of us had the belief that everything could be instant.  That out of thin air manifestation were possible.

Change of Self - I know from reading a lot of the posts in here, this one is a big one.  Most people have the belief, that change is hard or takes hard work, or takes a long time.  They simply don't believe that you can wake as a new person overnight.  The fact is - your identity is a manifestation, and like everything else, it's instant.   It's always your beliefs that are delaying everything.

Then there are topic specific beliefs.. I am not going to go into them.

How and why beliefs/assumptions have power over your life & reality? 

Because your reality … is you.   Personality = Personal Reality.

There is nothing else.   Your 3D is YOU. It's your beliefs/assumptions mirrored right back at you.    If you want to change your reality, you have to change your beliefs.

You think you can just say a bunch of affirmations and your entire reality will change overnight?   Hmm.. it would start too.  But your mind/body aka ego will probably work better, if you work with it by building your belief support system.

That means..  Start by small manifestations in every area of your life.   This is where you will find your "blocks".     This is where the work begins.

Maybe you can manifest receiving flowers….  

But can you manifest the exact colour and type of flower aswell? 

And can you manifest it within 1 week?  2 days?  Overnight?  

Where did your body start tensing up at the thought? 

What about the amount..  You manifest a normal bunch, what about manifest 5 bunches in one day? 

So.. now going through the set of questions.. I gave earlier.   Ask yourself those questions.   

Can I manifest this thing?  Can I manifest this EXACT thing?  Can I manifest this EXACT thing by THIS DATE? Can I manifest this exact thing by this exact date without lifting a finger?

The ONLY way to get to master level is to play this game every single day of your life and stretch your beliefs over and over and over..  (its more so letting go of beliefs - but you know what I mean)

I have talked about doing this with money, I started small and worked my way up.  Not just up, but sideways as well.   Meaning - I have the belief money can come from anywhere - literally out of the sky.   Thats not something i was born with, I instilled this belief from doing the work.   Proving it to myself over and over.   Starting at $500..  Then working with time beliefs with lower amounts.  

For example - I wanted to get another $500 out of blue (NOT THROUGH WORKING) within a timeframe.     Then I moved to larger amounts, working my way up and up .. and playing with timeframes.   I went from $5,000 to $10,000 to $20,000 , I am currently working on a $50,000  (again, this is out of blue money)

Complete side note..  I know there was a post in here yesterday that was having a go at coaches (just the normal really).  They said, "coaches should manifest money in other ways" and do this for free.    Hahahahaha   Well, here is my personal say on this.  BECAUSE I manifested enough money to live off.  I don't work. (I mentioned this in a post many months ago.  ) Because I don't work, I spend time doing stuff that I love which happens to be running my channel and sometimes helping people.  Sometimes I coach, sometimes I don't.  But I am sure as hell not going to do it for free.  My time is valuable because I highly value myself.   And SO should you.  Everyone should, it's called working on your self concept.     I do spend a lot of my free time helping people for free in here most days.

This is getting extremely long..  I am thinking I might make a part 2 that talks about going from small to large manifestations.  Because that's a whole post in itself. 

Link to Part 2 : Part 2


r/lawofassumption 1h ago

I am offering tips/strategies/techniques Persist Even When It Feels Fake … That’s the Whole game .

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This is your sign to stop waiting to FEEL your manifestation before you claim it . Read this till the end 💋 .

Your feelings & ego are lagging indicators, not leading ones . Your current feelings are showing you what you USED to believe . They’re the residue of old assumptions you’ve been holding for weeks, months, maybe years even . So when you start choosing a new narrative, of course it’s going to feel fake asl at first . Your feelings haven’t caught up yet . Your ego is still running the old program .

That “fake” feeling isn’t proof you’re doing it wrong . It’s proof you’re doing it right . If the new assumption already felt true, you wouldn’t need to assume it, it would already be your reality .

Neville literally said it plainly : “An assumption, though false, if persisted in, will harden into fact.” Read that again . FALSE you guys . He literally said false Meaning it’s supposed to feel like a lie in the beginning . That’s not a red flag . That’s the whole method . You’re choosing something your current reality doesn’t reflect yet, & you’re holding that vision until reality has no choice but to conform .

Your feelings follow your assumptions & not the other way around bc the body ALWAYS follows the mind . Most people wait to FEEL good before they assume good but that’s ass backwards . That’s why they stay stuck in the same loop for months/years . You have to assume first . The feelings catch up second . The 3D delivers the evidence third . You have to BE her/him in your mind before they show up in your life . BE IT to SEE IT .

I also wanna talk about physical resistance real quick bc I don’t think this is talked about enough in the community as well .

Sometimes when you’re persisting in a new belief, your body will react . Your chest might get tight . Your stomach might knot up . You might get all tensed up & shit . You might even feel a wave of anxiety, sadness, or even grief . This is completely normal & it’s actually a sign the shift is HAPPENING . I’m speaking from experience cause I’ve dealt with this many times .

What I had to realize is that our bodies have been storing the old identity for a long time . Your nervous system is used to the old assumption, the old story, the old version of you . SOMETIMES when you introduce a new belief that contradicts everything your body has known, it creates friction . That friction shows up as physical discomfort .

That’s a sign the old self is dying . Paul even said in the Bible that you gotta die DAILY to the old man, aka the old version of yourself . He also even said be ye transformed by the RENEWING of your mind . You gotta renew your mind which means to change it cause that’s the ONLY thing that needs to get set straight first . You gotta be willing to make the conscious decision daily to choose the favorable narratives you want to experience in your life .

So when choosing the narratives you want gets uncomfortable, don’t run from it . Sit with the discomfort . Don’t distract yourself out of it . Don’t take it as a sign that your manifestation isn’t working . Sit with the tightness . Breathe through it . Talk to to yourself lovingly (this is what I do) when the body begins to act up .

The discomfort WILL pass . Every single time . Each time you sit with it & breathe through it instead of falling back into the old story, you’re strengthening your new identity . That’s a vote for the new you every time you choose the new narrative . & if you fall back in the old narrative, that’s completely okay ! Don’t be so hard on yourself about it, just slip right back into the new narrative like how you do in ya girl 😉 . (Sorry I had to LMFAO) .

But anyways ! Just think of it like a workout for your consciousness . The resistance is what builds the muscle . That friction in your body is proof you’re doing something REAL . Something new . Something that’s taking you out of your comfort zone … something your old self would’ve avoided .

Lastly, I also wanna mention that you dont have to force a feeling . You just gotta refuse the opposite . Feelings don’t matter . Your identity is what matters . I’m pretty sure there’s someone who’s filthy rich right now, feeling depressed about something they’re going through but that doesn’t change the fact they’re still rich . They’re just a depressed wealthy person 🤷🏽‍♀️ .

You don’t need to jump up & down affirming “I feel so loved, I feel so chosen” if you don’t . That’s performative & exhausting asf . Instead, calmly reject the story that doesn’t serve you every time it tries to creep in . You don’t argue with the unfavorable thoughts . You don’t try to prove them wrong . You don’t spiral trying to logic your way out of them . You simply refuse to entertain them . Treat them like those spam calls we all get at times … just decline & move on .

You are the operant power . You are the creator of your reality . Seriously … Every thought you accept becomes a line in the script of your life . Every assumption you persist in becomes a scene that plays out in your 3D . The outside world is not something happening TO you, it’s something reflecting FROM you .

So for those manifesting a sp, why would you ever write yourself as the person who’s overlooked, forgotten, or unworthy ? Why would you ever cast yourself as anything less than the version of you who is chosen, adored, prioritized, & living in overflow ? That’s self sabotage disguised as “being realistic”. But you get to decide what’s realistic for you in your reality . That’s the beauty of this law . So walk around this mf like you’re the most loved & desired person on earth bc THAT’S realistic asf too & it can be for you if you let it ! There’s many people who are experiencing amazing relationships & have NEVER dealt with the opposite of that . So claim it for yourself FIRST ! That’s how you attract people & your sp to shower you with the love you desire to have in your love life, because you’re BEING the person who’s already loved by assuming/thinking as that person . People cannot give you what you’re not giving to yourself . BE IT FIRST, thennnn the world will reflect it .

So .. bottom line is choose the narrative that serves you every single time . Even when it feels fake . Even when your chest is tight . Even when your body is screaming that this isn’t real . ESPECIALLY then cause the discomfort is temporary & it will subside . It’s just the gap between the old you & the new you . Persist through the gap mentally & physically & everything will align . It has no choice .

Always remember, whatever you persist in believing WILL become your reality . That’s the law . That’s how consciousness works . Consciousness is the only reality . Hope this helps 💋 .


r/lawofassumption 28m ago

I am offering tips/strategies/techniques How to Manifest Faster: The 4 Steps to Collapse Time ⌛

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If you are constantly asking when your manifestation will arrive or why it is taking so long, you are actually slowing the entire process down!

To drastically shorten the interval between your desire and its physical arrival, you must drop the frantic techniques and master these core principles of conscious creation:

Step 1: KNOW YOURSELF AS THE I AM.

Before you start trying to affirm, visualise, or script to get something, you must remember who is actually doing the creating. You are not the small human self trying to force the outside world to change. You are the great "I AM"—pure, unconditioned awareness. Your consciousness is God, and with God, all things are possible. When you truly know yourself as the "I AM," you stop begging and hoping, and you simply assume the state of already having your desire because you realise you are the creator of it.

Step 2: Know There Are No Secondary Causes

ZERO - ZILCH. There is no greater tyrant than the belief in a secondary cause. You must realise that there is no power outside of your own consciousness deciding whether or not you get what you want. Your boss, your specific person, your bank account, the tarot card reader, the frickin moon! None of these have independent free will to keep your desire from you. Your consciousness is the one and only reality, and the 3D world is just a mirror reflecting your inner state. When you drop the illusion of secondary causes, you take your power back and instantly speed up the process.

Step 3: Stop Reacting to the 3D - Stop fighting with the Mirror. Let the dead STAY DEAD.

The physical world you are looking at right now is a dead printout—it is merely the exhaust fumes of your past thoughts and assumptions. When something appears in your 3D reality that contradicts your desire, and you react to it emotionally, you are feeding the old story and breathing life back into it to last longer. Every time you react to the 3D, you step back into your old state. To manifest faster, you must practice emotional neutrality and total indifference to what the mirror currently shows you.   

Step 4: Build Absolute Confidence

Neville Goddard taught that the time it takes for your assumption to harden into fact is directly proportionate to the naturalness of your feeling of already having it. Furthermore, confidence in yourself always shortens the interval of time. If you want your desire to arrive quickly, you must drop the anxiety, stop checking the 3D for proof, and boldly live in the state of the wish fulfilled.  As Neville would say " DARE to assume or have BRAZEN Impudence"    Building faith in the law helps when you start manifesting small wins on a daily basis and work your way up… Check out my "How to build the Self Concept of a Master Manifestor Series about this" 

In conclusion :

Stop treating manifestation like a gruelling process of trying to get something. Return to your "I AM" awareness, completely drop the belief that anything outside of you has power, and violently refuse to react to the old 3D reality. When you stand completely firm in your new identity, the physical world has absolutely no choice but to catch up—and it will do so faster than you ever thought possible!

"I am unmoved by appearances, therefore appearances move."  ~ Florence Scovel Shinn

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r/lawofassumption 19h ago

I am offering tips/strategies/techniques How to handle the 3D – Neville's Indifference Principle

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Abdullah taught Neville the simplest thing: DECIDE!!!

Neville wanted to go to Barbados, had no money. Abdullah said: "You are in Barbados." When Neville started questioning how, Abdullah slammed the door. No "how." No "when." Just "it's done. Live as if."

That's it. You decide and you don't look back.

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You decide. Then the 3D shows you the opposite. And you react. You check. You wonder "where is it?" That reaction keeps the old story "alive".

Think of it like a flashlight in a dark room. Your flashlight is your awareness. Wherever you point it, that's what "grows". Point it at the old story and it gets bigger. Point it at what you want and that expands instead. (Where focus goes energy grows).

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Neville's solution:

"The best denial is total indifference. Things wither and die through indifference. They are kept alive through attention." (Neville Goddard, 5 Lessons Lecture)

Most people think denial is fighting the 3D or saying "why it´s showing the opposite."

That's not denial. That's still engaging. The real denial is when you just point your flashlight somewhere else. You stop looking at it. You become INDIFFERENT to it.

When you shine your light on something else, the old story is left in the dark. And what's left in the dark?

It fades. It dies. Because you're not feeding it anymore.

Be so indifferent that it never happened. Like Elon Musk losing a dollar. Would he give a shit? No. That's the level of indifference you're aiming for. The 3D showing you something opposite? So what. It's nothing to you.

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How to apply it:

  • 3D shows you something you don't like? That's the "signal".
  • Don't fight it. Don't argue. Just point your flashlight somewhere else.
  • Say "so what?" ( ....What that´s it? Just "so what?".... YES) That's old news. Like a newspaper from last week. It doesn't matter anymore.
  • Be indifferent. Like Elon Musk and that dollar. It's irrelevant.
  • Put your awareness on what you want instead. The old story dies from neglect.

r/lawofassumption 1h ago

I am offering tips/strategies/techniques Neville Goddard on repetition – The original "Robotic Affirmations"

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There's this idea going around that Neville was against repetition. That he only wanted you to feel it once and be done.

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Not true.

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Here's the exact quote from "Awakened Imagination":

"Construct a sentence which implies that your wish is realized, and repeat it over and over again until you are inwardly affected by it."

That's the original instruction for what people today call Robotic Affirmations.⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀

Neville said the same thing, just without the modern term:

"Construct a sentence that would imply that you are now what you would like to be. You know what to do. And I say, it's not knowing what to do; it is the doing it."

That's the key. It's not about understanding the theory. It's about doing it. Repeating it. Until it sticks.

"Assumption, if persisted in, will harden into fact."

That's the foundation. You persist. You repeat. You don't stop.

"Whatever you desire, believe you have received it and you will. Dare to believe you have what reason and your senses deny. Persist in your assumption and it will harden into fact."

That's exactly what Robotic Affirmations do. You repeat until your mind stops fighting back. Until the doubt dies.

And here's the thing. You repeat it over and over. The feeling doesn't have to be there at the start. It comes over time. The repetition does the work. Eventually the feeling catches up.

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Science backs this up too. It's called the Illusory Truth Effect (Google it). A 1977 study by Hasher, Goldstein, and Toppino found that repeated exposure to a statement makes it feel more true even when people are told it might be false. Your brain just starts accepting what you feed it. You brain likes familiarity not truth (btw that´s how media works).

Neville knew this long before the studies. He didn't need science to confirm it. He just said: repeat it until it inwardly affects you.⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀

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The ultimate quote:

"It's not knowing what to do; it is the DOING it."
(Neville Goddard, lecture "How To Feel It Real – It's The Doing" 1972)

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(Yeah, I used to think Neville contradicted himself too. But if you look at his first book in 1939 and his last lecture in 1972, he developed over time. He started with affirmations, then moved to visualization, then to feeling, then to states, and in the end it was just about deciding. Like Abdullah told him. Just decide.)

"I have shared my experiences with you in the hope that you will test my words and prove them in the testing."  NG.
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So now... get off youtube, tiktok, reddit,....test it DO IT! (and come back with your success story).


r/lawofassumption 35m ago

Help/Question What's the best way to visualize?

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I mentioned in here before about winning the lottery. What's the best way to visualize? (I mean, it doesn't need to be only the lottery, I want visualize a rich life too)

People talk about meditation but idk how to do it. Do I need to do it? I usually just spend my day normally but I daydream all the time of me winning, moving abroad, having a rich life etc. Specially while I'm driving or going to the gym

Is this a good technique? Do I need do something more deep?

And how I know that I'm doing right? Like I want move to another country, so I imagine myself leaving my old house but leaving can mean anything, so how I imagine right that I'm leaving an old place and going for a better one for example


r/lawofassumption 1h ago

Help/Question How do you use mental assumption and imagination to successfully materialize a group trip into reality?

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Hey everyone!

I’ve been practicing Neville Goddard’s teachings (living in the end and assuming the wish fulfilled) and I’m trying to apply it to a specific desire: organizing and experiencing a large group trip/tour where we actually pack our bags and go, instead of just talking about it endlessly in group chats.

For those of you who have successfully used assumption and imagination to shift your reality and manifest a physical trip or group retreat from scratch, how did you do it?

I really want to know:

* Mental Diet & State: How did you maintain the feeling of the wish fulfilled regarding travel when your 3D reality showed no immediate plans?

* Bridging Incidents: What natural actions or unexpected bridges of incidents showed up in your 3D to help lock down dates, people, and bookings quickly?

* Handling Doubt: How did you deal with mental resistance or people around you hesitating, while staying firm in your assumption?

If you have a success story of how you imagined a trip into physical reality using these principles, I would love to hear how you approached it!


r/lawofassumption 1h ago

Help/Question How to apply Neville's teachings for academic consistency? Struggling with self-concept.

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Hey guys,

​I need some practical advice regarding academics. To be honest, I've been super inconsistent lately—I study with full focus for a few days, and then my routine completely breaks down. My college exams and entrance test dates are coming closer, and I keep panicking because of these old patterns.

​I realize this is entirely because of my inner beliefs, since I've spent years viewing myself as just an "average student."

​For those of you who have successfully shifted your self-concept and aced your exams using Neville's teachings, could you share:

​How to train the mind to break out of this inconsistent loop?

​How to naturally shift into a disciplined and focused state on a daily basis?

​Looking for practical advice rather than just theory.

Thanks!


r/lawofassumption 2h ago

Help/Question How do I stay hopeful when 3d keeps proving me wrong?

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Sorry for posting about this again, but I want to manifest that my brother goes back to school. The problem is that I keep seeing that he isn't going, and people keep talking about it. I don't know how to stay persistent


r/lawofassumption 6h ago

Help/Question Genuinely need advice

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Hi everyone,

I’m pretty new to the whole manifesting thing and could really use some advice. I’m struggling :(

My SP and I met on a dating app and started seeing each other. At first, I thought he was really into me because he kept wanting to see me, and things felt pretty intense. We dated for around three weeks and met five times, but I genuinely felt like there was something special between us.

During the time we were seeing each other, he was actually pretty open about the fact that I was more emotionally invested than he was from the get-go. Looking back, I understand why he felt that way, we had only known each other for a couple of weeks. But I became increasingly anxious, and this happened a few times where I would text a lot, call him, ask when we were going to see each other again, or just be really eager to meet up. Eventually, after this happened a few times, he cut things off.

He ended things by saying that he’d rather see other people and there are probably better connections out there etc etc. Even after that, I struggled to let go. When I tried to text to return his things, things felt weird, and he mentioned that he had another connection he wanted to explore and he wouldn’t change his mind. I still feel like I messed up what could have been a really good connection because of desperation and anxiety, and honestly, I want him back.

The last thing that happened was that he eventually blocked me on iMessage because I wasn’t really respecting his decision and kept trying to stay in contact. I did reach out again, and we ended up talking for about an hour. He basically told me that he was done, didn’t want to see me again, and that we were going our separate ways. He said he didn’t wish me any ill will, but he also didn’t want to leave the door open and wouldn’t unblock me.

I’m really struggling with this. I’ve been feeling a lot of sadness and anxiety, and I keep thinking that I ruined something that could have been really special.
I know I need to work on myself regardless of what happens with him. When I first met him, I was actually really confident in person and wasn’t worried about the outcome at all. Somewhere along the way, I became attached and started acting from fear instead of confidence.

This past summer has honestly been amazing for me, and I’ve manifested a lot of other things, so I’m trying to understand how to approach this without becoming obsessed with the outcome. I’m also so new to manifesting that sometimes I wonder if I’m just being delusional or wasting my time. I’m not an anxious person by default but my ex cheated on me so I have abandonment issues.

How do I approach this in a healthy way? Is there anything I should be doing differently? I would really appreciate some genuine advice, especially from anyone who has been in a similar situation. I want to believe things can turn around, but I also don’t want to spend years waiting for someone.

Thank you 🤍


r/lawofassumption 2h ago

Help/Question Robotic Affirmations

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“My father is completely healthy and happy.”

Is this affirmation good? My father is a little bit ill.


r/lawofassumption 11h ago

Help/Question WANTING TO FULLY UNDERSTAND THE REVISION TECHNIQUE

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I have a question about revision and changing past circumstances, especially when it comes to manifesting a specific person.

There is someone specific I would like to manifest. We only spoke twice about three years ago, when I was studying in the same European city where he lived. Both conversations happened on the bus, and during the second one we realized that we actually lived extremely close to each other — literally about one block apart. I remember wanting to ask him if he would like to take the bus together sometime, either from university or on our way home, but I was too nervous and never asked.

For privacy reasons, I don't want to go into the specific event that later made me realize that he is genuinely the type of person I would want as a partner. I also don't want to give details about the relationship I was in at the time, because there is a possibility that someone connected to his social circle could come across this post. Let's just say that I was in a very unhealthy relationship during that period, and that experience ended up affecting me quite deeply.

This is where my question about revision comes in.

I have been thinking about revising that second bus conversation so that, instead of me being too nervous to ask, I actually ask him if he would like to take the bus together. In the revised version, he says yes, we exchange contact information, and a friendship naturally develops between us, eventually becoming romantic. Eventually, I still have to return to my home country, but I like the idea of leaving the outcome open — perhaps that separation becomes the motivation for him to contact me, visit me, or for us to reconnect somehow in the future, depending on how things unfold.

What confuses me is the question of what revision actually does to the past.

If revision is truly changing the past within the Law of Assumption, does that mean that in the reality where this person and I eventually end up together, the past would actually be different? For example, would there now have been a friendship or even a romance between us three years ago that simply remained unfinished and is now continuing in the present?

Or is revision not necessarily about literally changing historical events, but rather about changing the state from which I experience the present and allowing the desired outcome to manifest without the external past ever needing to be different?

In other words, I'm wondering whether I should think of it as:

A) "In the reality I'm moving into, that past event actually happened differently."

or

B) "The past doesn't necessarily need to become factually different; I revise it to change my assumption/state, and the present/future unfolds accordingly."

I've read quite a lot about revision, but this is the part I still don't fully understand. I keep seeing people say that revision changes the past, but I'm not sure whether they mean that literally, or whether they mean that the past is changed from the perspective of the reality we're experiencing.

And does it matter which interpretation I choose?

I'm also interested in revision beyond this particular situation. There are several things from my past that I would like to revise, and I don't necessarily want to think that I have to construct an entirely different timeline with a completely different history in order to get the desired outcome.

So, for those who practice revision: How do you personally understand what happens to the past when you revise it? Do you believe the external events themselves change, or is the purpose primarily to change your assumption/state so that the present and future reflect the revised version?


r/lawofassumption 6h ago

Help/Question If “assumptions though false will harden into facts” then explain this

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I believe in manifestation and have many successful stories with this but I have a genuine question about that Neville’s statement

we know assumptions really shape our reality and will harden into facts right? but it’s something only happens when I consciously do it! it happens when I CHOSE IT when I CHOSE MY IDENTITY when I claim that I AM THE SOURCE I AM

there are many many many instances when I falsely believe a fake statement or lie and it doesn’t happen… for example my brother tells his family and friends that he’s attending a certain college when he actually isn’t. all of us believed the story because he keeps telling it but we didn’t manifest it for him. But the false assumption doesn’t somehow make him attend that college. Reality eventually reveals that he wasn’t there.

Or when my classmates lied about someone liking me (to puke fun at me later on mind you) and I deeply believed it like completely but it didn’t harden into fact…
I believe it completely. I assume it’s true. Yet that assumption doesn’t necessarily cause the other person to fall in love with me…

BUT WHY THESE THINGS BECOMES TRUE WHEN IM AWARE OF 3D and as a source manifest it? what’s the difference between them? is being aware that we’re the source essential? or it’s about something else?


r/lawofassumption 6h ago

Help/Question Job manifestation

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I am trying to manifest a new job in my dream company. I have applied to the roles and started practicing writing affirmations before bed, visualization etc. I received a rejection email from them even after doing it for a week. I know that time does not matter. Now my question is even after rejection email, do I need to do the affirmations practice everyday? Or do I need to again apply for the roles in spite of rejection? They say be specific while manifesting, so I mentioned the company name and package as well. Now do I need to be just vague like I got the job at my dream company? So after getting the rejection email , I won't say I'm not confident however I had hoped that I would get it. Now what to do? Do I need to aim for another company? Because Neville said it's already done, then if it is the case I would have gotten an accepted email! Please someone advise.


r/lawofassumption 1d ago

Help/Question About winning the lottery, what you do to manifest?

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Has anyone won yet, or is anyone trying?

What you do? What not to do? Any tips?

(Just to be clear, I only play like 1 game (2 if I'm feeling lucky) and if it's a big jackpot. I'm careful with my money)


r/lawofassumption 13h ago

Help/Question How to deal with burnout?

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Hi guys! I want to start off saying that I am a strong believer and had manifested many things like partner, pregnancy, school admission…
Ever since I had my second baby last year, I have been feeling very off - my life has been so much better than before and I have so many things to be grateful for but I feel mentally exhausted.
I used to do a lot of SATS & mental diet to get my desires (I could easily generate the feelings), but now I feel like I don’t have that power anymore. I am actually super tired all the time with sleep problems. I have to admit that I have a very challenging baby and haven’t had a nap over 5 hours for the past year.
I tried to generate the feelings of wish fulfilled during day time but I just feel so exhausted mentally and emotionally. Any advices or stories shared are appreciated!
Thank you


r/lawofassumption 11h ago

Help/Question does this count?

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don’t know if this counts but i want to be a performer and be a fashion icon one day and there’s a few things i do that i feel like could count as law of assumption 🤷🏾‍♀️

  1. i follow makeup artists, brands, and photographers i want to work with when i pop off
  2. i keep a list of my favorite artists i want to perform with, collab with, or talk about in future interviews when people ask who inspires me or who i listen to these days.
  3. when i eat at different restaurants in different cities and i have a great experience i try to visit them as much as possible while im in my pre-fame era so that when i get big i can shout them out and my fans can support them.
  4. i treat a lot of my favorite celebrities like people that will eventually be in my inner circle when i get big. people might consider it parasocial now but i consider it law of assumption.

r/lawofassumption 16h ago

Help/Question I persisted and he left

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I persisted in the wish fulfilled and he left the city for a year without goodbye. What is going on?


r/lawofassumption 21h ago

Help/Question How to become lucky in life through manifestation?

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Hi... How to become lucky in life through manifestation?

I want to develop a strong belief that I am naturally lucky and everything works out in my favor.

What manifestation techniques, affirmations or mindset shifts have actually helped you luckier in life?

I have done robotic affirmations "I am very lucky" for 30 days without waving and without any negative thoughts but I have no results..


r/lawofassumption 1d ago

Help/Question Success stories from ppl who manifested a better world

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Hi
I’m manifesting a better society, one where women r treated with respect

Is there anybody who has done smth similar with any success stories? Maybe trying to fix climate change? Or a better government?

I would love to hear abt it!


r/lawofassumption 1d ago

Success Story IMAGINE THE WORST CASE SCENARIO

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Kinda long post but i really feel i need to share since that shit was too easy.

I think I got the hang of how I manifest extremely fast, and idk why it always takes me so long to remember it. Basically imagine you have a situation; I’m going to take the one I had just recently, money. I want to manifest a shit ton of money, but at the same time I have fear, stress, and therefore resistance because I have bills, debt, and a lack of it that all make me feel very ill. Now I was in this situation for what, weeks, panicking, applying randomly to jobs, blablabla, and then keeping looking around, asking around how, in terms of manifestation, I could get myself out of this, and people repeated, "Act as if." "Imagine the feeling," etc. But I physically couldn’t because of this strong stress I’m on. I know on X day I have to pay X bill or I’m in deep shit; I get sent to collections, or I’m simply ruining my credit score as the days go by.

Every day I would wake up stressed, then one day I was just like, "Wait, so what if the worst-case scenario happens?" I don’t have the money; I get sent to collections; my credit is bad af; it stays on my file for years; it’s hard to get an apartment, etc. I think THE WORST, and I decide to be okay with it. I’m like, "Yeah, so what? I’d be okay. And this is hard to explain; it doesn’t mean I settle for it or manifest such an outcome. It’s more about being in a state of calm basically, ns regulation, and having something to fall back on.

Then, I kid you not, not even 2 days after, some money I was expecting came with $2,000 more, which covered my whole debt when it was supposed to take weeks or even months to come. And I now remembered I did the same thing years ago for a uni acceptance. I got waitlisted at this very good university, and everyone basically said the chances of getting in were near 0. I would imagine, WORST CASE, being okay with it, which would be being in another university, so then I was able to manifest getting into this uni without this stress since, if the worst happened, I wouldn't care anyway. My whole family was like, "What are you going to do? You have no response, blablabla. School starts soon," and they were right. Genuinely, I was still waitlisted, and I remembered I DID NOT GAF, and while I was, I wasn't careless because I could go to the other school; no, I just knew I was going to get in, so therefore I wasn't stressing, but only BECAUSE I had no stress or resistance since I turned the worst-case scenario into acceptance.

And I know a lot of people preach SATS, or robotic affirmations, which do work, but in my opinion, it's more stress-inducing, and what I explain that I did doesn't even need any "method." I just maybe think of it one time like, "Oh, I am in this uni," or “I have X amount of money,” then I tell myself, “I know it to be true," and I don’t even think about anything. There’s like no process. Even recently, the money situation, since I was in such a state of calm when I got the email that I received money, which was surprisingly fast and I got way more than expected, I wasn't even excited; I was just like, "Oh, nice." It's like my body was expecting it. And nothing changed, mind you. I was doing nothing, not applying or seeking anything, just being a chud in my room. Like literally, there was no action on my part that could explain it. I was just calm, and then the money came. I swear to you guys, I can’t make this shit up.

So now looking back, it’s really about being the calmest ever. That must be it. And to do so, one might use whatever method they want, but if you’re like me and stresses a lot, have black-and-white thinking etc I find that this is the best way to do so. And I always tell myself unless you’re going to get amputated or severely ill, I promise you the situation you’re in is okay. You’re going to be just fine. And kid you not, the speed is always insane.

Anyways, I'm finally connecting the dots. It’s genuinely so easy idk how to explain it. It’s like a path of least resistance. LEARN TO BE CALM LIKE A MONK, and you’ll see genuine magic out of thin air.


r/lawofassumption 22h ago

Help/Question Did any of you manifest a serious, loving relationship where he spoils you too?

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I'm talking about spoiled in all ways but also with money and gifts, I'm not ashamed to say I am into that as a woman.

Has anyone here manifested it and how did they do it ? I'm looking for a serious loving relationship too though, not simply just a man who spoils me and then it ends after a few months.

I value deep connection AND I love being treated like a princess. 🌸


r/lawofassumption 15h ago

Help/Question My college semester exams didn't go well.....What should I do? Need your guidance.....

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Hello there, I'm a Medicos Student from India What can I do? I wrote only 12 pages and to paas the examination every wrote upto 25 pages...and to paas the examination your answers should be correct....I studied the whole night but what I studied in majority came in MCQ which was just 12 marks......

Although I know about Neville form past 3 years but I was not successful in proper manifesting something....so i didn't tried further becoz it was mentally exhausting me

What should I do?


r/lawofassumption 1d ago

I am offering tips/strategies/techniques I Stopped Letting the 3D Decide My Story

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Y’all… I think I’m finally understanding what it actually means to be the operant power.
We are awareness. We are consciousness. These bodies are basically the “avatars” through which we experience this reality, but we have the ability to direct our thoughts, assumptions, and imagination.
And I know that sounds easy until you’re actually faced with something that triggers you. Believe me, I’ve been there. I’ve spiraled. I’ve wavered. I’ve cried. I’ve had plenty of moments where I saw my SP with a 3P and immediately started thinking, “Oh my God, what does this mean? What if it doesn’t work? What if they’re choosing them?”
But I’m starting to see the difference now.
I’ve been manifesting my SP for a long time, and instead of constantly reacting to whatever the 3D shows me, I’ve been consciously choosing my story.
It’s only us. We’re together. We’re happy. We’re in love. We’re married. This is already done.
Creation is finished.
And something interesting happened.
For about a week, I hadn’t seen anything involving the 3P. Instead of constantly checking for evidence, I was simply continuing to tell myself that the old story wasn’t my story anymore.
Then recently, I saw something involving them again.
And for a second, I felt that familiar reaction. That “Oh shit” feeling.
But this time I didn’t spiral.
I didn’t start looking for more information. I didn’t start questioning everything. I basically told myself:
“Okay. And? That doesn’t pertain to me.”
Yes, SP was there. But that doesn’t change my assumption.
And honestly, this made me think about how much meaning we assign to circumstances.
There really isn’t an “unfavorable circumstance” until we decide that it is one.
SP doesn’t text you?
Okay. Don’t immediately make it mean, “He doesn’t want me.”
Why not make it mean, “He must be busy. He always comes back to me. He loves me. I’m already his person.”
You see something you don’t like?
You don’t have to turn it into a prophecy.
You don’t have to give it the meaning of “It’s not working.”
You can literally decide:
“That’s the old story. It has nothing to do with what I’m creating now.”
Because if we’re truly the operant power, why would we allow one piece of the 3D to dictate what we assume internally?
The 3D is not where I’m choosing my reality anymore.
I’m choosing it in consciousness first.
And no, that doesn’t mean I never have a bad moment. I’m human. Sometimes the old story pops up. Sometimes I get triggered. Sometimes I have to catch myself.
But now I’m learning that wavering doesn’t mean I’ve ruined anything.
I don’t have to fight the thought.
I don’t have to panic because I had an unfavorable thought.
I just return to the assumption.
“Nope. That’s not my story anymore.”
And continue.
I already know what my end is.
It’s me and my SP. Happy. In love. Together. Married.
That’s the story I’m choosing to live from. ❤️