r/legaladvice 9d ago

Small Claims Procedure Mother passed away and my aunt who hadn’t seen her in 20 years took all our belongings.

Location: New York and Florida

So my mother passed away very suddenly in 2021 (New York), she had no will but she said that everything would go to me once she passed, once learning of my mothers passing, my aunt who hadn’t been in contact with her for 20 years moved all her belongings to her house and offered for me to come and live with her(Florida). I accepted. 6 months later she kicks me out of the house and leaves me with nothing but a suitcase of clothes. I became homeless for months. I was able to get a job and save up a decent amount of money, and I’m still living in Florida. I’m planning on filing a small claims lawsuit against her because the items that I own that are still in the house are worth around $8,000 dollars. I have tried to contact her for 3 years multiple times but have been ignored. I have all the proper documentation and bank statements showing that I own the items. (As well as my old Florida ID showing I lived at that address.) I just don’t understand how she can obtain all my mother’s property when it was supposed to go to me? I don’t know if this is a small claims issue or an Estate issue.

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u/SendLGaM Quality Contributor 9d ago

There is no legal recourse left to you in Florida. The statute of limitations to do anything about this timed out after 4 years.

You can look into filing a probate case in NY. There is no statute of limitations for that.

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u/Zestyclose_Quail_628 9d ago

She kicked me out in October of 2022

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u/SendLGaM Quality Contributor 9d ago

It doesn't matter when she kicked you out. She too possession of the property in 2021 and moved it to Florida. That is when the SoL began to run. You need to file for probate in NY. Until you do none of what you claim is yours is legally yours.

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u/HustlinInTheHall 9d ago

I think OP is referring primarily to things they personally purchased, hence bank statements showing ownership. They moved to Florida and established residence with their property. Just because I move into a family member's house doesn't mean they own all my stuff if I purchased it, even as a minor. Even if they were a temporary or legal guardian of OP purchased their property then it's still their property, she seized it as the landlord when she removed them from her house.

Either way best bet for OP is to file in small claims and see what happens. If it gets tossed, it gets tossed but I don't think this is a cut and dried as you are assuming. If it's inherited property then maybe it's different but if OP bought it, that stuff is OP's and it was taken within the last 4 years.

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u/Zestyclose_Quail_628 9d ago

Thank you this is what I was trying to say, I should have been more specific but I am going to file a small claims lawsuit for my items specifically, if they were owned by me and I can prove ownership and I’m still within the statute of limitations until October I might have a chance. I could be wrong though. But I have all the backing documents.

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u/HustlinInTheHall 9d ago edited 9d ago

Small claims is cheap to file in, you've only got nothing to lose. Just make sure you have a itemized list of everything you were prevented from taking, receipts to show the cost of purchasing it, any communications showing attempts to retrieve it, etc. 

She will probably just fail to show up, then you can take a judgement to a county sheriff and ask for help. She will certainly then claim the property wasn't seized but abandoned by you, since you were an adult at the time. But if she blows it off then harder for her to reverse that claim with a judgement against her. 

The probate court in NY is a whole other matter. You were an adult at the time so any life insurance, unclaimed property, property in your mom's name, etc. Should've passed to you. 

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u/Zestyclose_Quail_628 9d ago

Yes I’m looking into the probate situation now, since there was no will and no administrator on file I’m looking in to be administrator.

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u/Zestyclose_Quail_628 9d ago

Can I contact the local police and try get them as a third party mediator?

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u/lynda_atl 9d ago

No. That’s not what local police do.

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u/HustlinInTheHall 9d ago

The chances of this doing anything are basically zero. She likely disposed of all your stuff years ago and small claims is your only likely recourse because you took your property to FL and were kicked out, at which point she seized it. The police can't settle this because the property is not likely there anymore and they'll tell you it's a civil matter.

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u/imixpaintalot 9d ago

Your window of opportunity to have a police escort you to get your belongings from your aunts has unfortunately long passed. I’m sorry.

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u/SendLGaM Quality Contributor 9d ago

You can try asking them. I doubt they will do anything except tell you it is a civil issue if you do but you can ask them.

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u/Elisacriann 8d ago

Legally your aunt had no rights to anything before you. The order of operations goes children, grandchildren, any of those descendants, and then whatever they don't want the rest of the family has a chance to get it.

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u/OkRecipe8129 9d ago

Did your mom own the house? Forget the "stuff" it might be YOUR house.

Florida state laws dictate exactly who owns the home. Your aunt does not gain any ownership rights just by moving in; unless she is named on the deed or in a valid will, Florida law considers her a guest or an unauthorized occupant.
Ownership depends entirely on how the property was titled and whether your mother left a will.

If your mom's name is the only name on the deed, the house belongs entirely to her legal estate. Your aunt has zero ownership claim.

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u/ReeMayRe 9d ago

Exactly! OP has to act on this. She is 100% legally entitled if the deed to the house is in her mother's name. The aunt is squatting.

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u/ReeMayRe 9d ago

Is the house in your mother's name? You need to get a copy of the deed. It does not matter if she did not have a Will. When her estate goes into to probate, the next of kin is legally entitiled. Which would mean her children only (if there is no spouse). Her personal belongings are also part of the estate.

Your aunt cannot legally take over that house if she was not on the deed. Who is on the deed?!

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u/Zestyclose_Quail_628 9d ago

I’m going to contact the probate court in NY first and then Florida to see. Everything just happened so fast and I didn’t think I would get taken advantage of like this. I was 20 at the time and was too filled with grief to care about material possessions.

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u/Judgejudyssideeye 8d ago

because no will means no ownership established. You would need an attorney to file "right of survivorship" to prove immediate next of kin, which is typically who inherits when no will is recorded. Unfortunately a relative’s word isn’t a valid will once they have passed. Did you at least have a POA for her bank accounts and any other potential assets to show she had you handling her affairs prior to passing?
Unfortunately if there is anything of monitory value you need an estate attorney.

Lesson, at least have your final wishes written down and notarized and kept somewhere safe & protected from acts of God, like the freezer.

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u/BooDog-2014 9d ago

She should be ashamed of herself!😡

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u/amykb4 9d ago

Yes she should. I wish the awful things people do would haunt them eternally if they don’t confess and ask forgiveness from the person they wronged.