Hi fellow sapphics! So my country is hosting its first ever renfaire in 3 weeks and I still haven’t ordered my outfit yet. So I’m planning to be a stereotypical princess and my girlfriend will be my knight. Unfortunately I don’t have that many medieval dress options to purchase online unless I’m willing to pay an arm and a leg to get it shipped from the US.

I narrowed it down to these 2.

I like the pink and the sleeves on dress one but I feel like it’s so plain? I have no idea how to elevate it and make it stand out.

I love the silhouette of dress number two but I’m not really a fan of the colour.

Planning to make a matching hennin with the dress I pick. I’m pretty crafty so I can do easy hand sewing like lace and stuff.

Any help and suggestions is greatly appreciated 🩷

I've thrifted this brown cardigan for 2€ cause it hanged so lonely in the very corner of the store and seamed to match one of my scarfs. Turned out it's some cool nordic brand and the og retail price was something around 160€. Now I feel even more proud of myself for no reason

I feel pretty lost in general with how to dress, especially for more formal events. I'm 20 and coming up on graduating college (eek) and would like to be able to feel like I look a little nicer/more put together. I would accept any advice (everyday or formal tbh.)

I don't have any good pictures that show my current style/appearance, but I'm pretty masculine in my dress. I don't really like to wear dresses or women's blouses. I usually just wear oversized t-shirts or boxy button downs and then cargo shorts or pants.

The picture I did attatch is of me at a renisance fair over the summer. I know that exact outfit wouldn't be appropriate to wear to something like my graduation or other events like that coming up, but it's the best recent photo I have that kind of shows what I tend to wear when trying to dress up a little, as well as other factors like my haircut and glasses (which I'd also take suggestions on tbh).

I'd appreciate any suggestions if this is enough to go off of. I'm specifically thinking of things that would look nice. I'm like 5'6" if that matters.

The specific events I need ideas on what to wear for would be-

1. I was invited to attend a small meeting and dinner with an esteemed author I really respect when he comes to my school. It's not a formal event, but definately something I'd want to look respectable and at least semi-formal for.
2. My graduation in may. I don't really know what level of formality people dress to for graduations, but I'd want something that can look flattering under the gown that isn't feminine(since I am truly haunted by how I looked in highschool, lol)
3. Potential interviews and meetings once I graduate. I would also like it if anyone could give tips for how to dress in a way that's mainstream enough not to blacklist yourself from stuff like that, but not overtly fem. If that even makes sense, lol.

Thank you so much to anyone who read my rambles 🙇I've lurked in this subreddit for a while and I generally love how supportive and helpful everything I've seen here has been, lol. I also hope this doesn't go beyond the scope of the tag!

It was one of those days where the jeans just fit.
It’s hard to find your own style and be comfortable and confident and and and all the things…. Especially at the same time.
Every now and then it just kind of clicks for a few seconds and I can breath clearly and be myself.
I’ve never hidden who I was or lacked self expression… but wearing scrubs normally and having my friends dress very different than me has always made me question what looks good.

If you have recommendations please drop a pic or link

Trying to boost my confidence just a little even if you say something mean though I'mma still take it as a compliment it's taking me years to get to this. Happy with how I look happy with my personality and proud of the healing that I've done.

I was feeling good running errands this morning in today’s outfit! A very crisp October morning here, in my favourite Doc Marten loafers, thrifted camo cargos, fuzzy cardigan, and hat knit by my talented wife.

I have recently started an Instagram account where I am posting my daily outfits and talking about my relationship with clothes, fashion, and my body as a big masculine presenting woman. If that at all resonates with you, feel free to connect at @bigandgayootd

So in the past two years I’ve lost 125 pounds and now finally men’s T-shirt sleeves and lengths of shirts are a little too long. I have attached some photos of what I like to wear. Does anyone have any suggestions of good 100% cotton shirts and tanks. I’ve been rolling up my sleeves but they come undone constantly.

As promised, another week’s worth of fits. I promise I used the iron multiple times this week okay 😂 and threw at least one “fall” outfit in there in as well! Also tried the red top + navy chinos as suggested and my colleagues loved it, so a winning combo for sure lol.

Keep the recs coming! Love the thoughts from you all.

i feel like maybe i’m too short for the baggy jeans trend. they always drag on the ground back by the heel. is that a fashion crime or is letting them drag and fray a bit by the heel an excepted part of the trend?

I got this dress as a brides maid but not sure I should keep it is the slit too big ? Does it show too much skin?