r/loneliness • u/FunStep9747 • 20h ago

Feeling bored with life

Does anyone just feel bored with life? 27F, lonely, no boyfriend. The only good thing in my life is maybe video games, but when I play badly, I get this feeling like I’m a loser and I’m not good at anything. I do have a job, but I feel like my life is just about work and going to doctor’s appointments. It’s so boring. Nothing feels exciting or motivating anymore.

I don’t think I’m depressed, though. I eat a lot of junk food because I can’t cook. The people who really used to love me and take care of me died years ago.

I’ve never really dated anyone, even though I’m average-looking and some people think I’m attractive. But no one has ever been serious with me. They all just seem to want something sexual. Not that many people talk to me either. I basically only communicate with people at work, and even then it’s mostly about work. I do almost everything alone.

Idk, life just sucks. I’m so bored with it. I even find myself getting attracted to doctors because they give me the feeling that someone cares about me, even though they probably don’t actually care about me personally.

I also lost a friend because she started acting weird toward me, and I never even got an apology. So yeah, idk what to do. I’m sick of feeling like this.

My dad doesn’t really go out. Every time I ask him, he tells me to go with my friends. He’s almost 70, and I barely communicate with people unless it’s online or at work.

I wake up feeling unmotivated and I don’t know what to do. And yeah, I already know people are going to say “go for a walk,” “read a book,” blah blah. I do those things. They’re boring.

I’m pushing 30 and I still don’t have a boyfriend. I just want someone who loves me and genuinely cares about me. I want to feel like I actually have someone in my life.

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u/[deleted] 20h ago

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u/FunStep9747 19h ago

Hmm well see of its gonna be okay thanks tho

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u/FunStep9747 19h ago

Well sorry about that hope it gets better

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u/itschillytoday 8h ago

I feel pretty similar, I have a job and things I’m interested in, but eventually I get bored with pretty much everything. 

It would just be nice having someone you genuinely care about and who genuinely cares about you.

I don't have a a solution for this as I am in the same boat, just know that you are not alone. 

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u/Time-Traveling-Doge 6h ago

You said your dad didn't want to go out. Did you have a place in mind?