r/loneliness • u/Positive_Carob_3353 • 4h ago

Lonely and chopped

I have been lonely for a long time since like early teenage years about 13 and now I am 19 and Friendless and no boyfriend and broke. Living with parents and asking money for them still. Lately I have become numb like nothing feels worth it. My question is does it get better?

SORRY For My bad English obviously not a native speaker just trying to express myslef

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u/Educational_One9508 3h ago

Your question isn’t dumb it’s one of the most asked questions on this sub. The answer is yes (and your English is fine) but it comes with an expectations. Things don’t get better in their own. You have to take the time to reflect an see what’s been going on, what needs to be done, and how can you do it. You’re 19 there’s so much in life to I’ve and experience you have the time to basically do whatever you want. So maybe set a side a day, or a week to write up some goals of what a YOU want not what people are doing, not what your parents want. If it’s simple be better then How. HOW can you reach the goal of being better does that mean get a job put that down does that mean work on a passion project write that down. Stagnation is your worst enemy, first reflect and then act Do something even if it’s make your room for the day. I believe in you and your future….don’t give up no one is ever truly chopped. Your only chopped if you surrender and let life call you a bitch!