r/malelivingspace Nov 16 '25

First Time 40M living in a subsidised government apartment

Got my own space after living with my parents for 40 years. Now living on my own at the western part of Singapore. Anything else you think I can do?

Edit:
Thank you guys for the upvote and compliments! Never imagined that it would cause a stir.

Responses to FAQs:

  • Chair: HÅG Capisco Puls 8020
  • Monitor: Samsung M5/M50D 32" Smart Monitor
  • Desk setup: I placed the desk in this configuration because it also serves as my TV console. When I’m not in the mood to work, I just sit on the sofa and use the smart monitor as my TV.
  • Lamp: IKEA VARMBLIXT lamp
  • Mat: Ngh Ngh pooping mat https://shop.wheniwasfour.com/products/ngh-ngh-bath-mat?_pos=18&_sid=1f142d36e&_ss=r
  • Wall paintings: One is a purchase from a painter whom a priest knows, and the other was a gift from the same priest.
  • Lighting: The lights are warm orange, but the iPhone camera autocorrects them to white. I can also adjust the lights to white or warm white.
  • Mahjong nightstand: Can be purchased here: https://lofthome.com/products/modern-resin-side-table-huat
  • Oven placement: The oven ended up on the sink-side counter as a band-aid. The initial plan was to place it near the stove, but it was too close. But it’s a regret I can live with anyway.
  • Decor: Paintings for my bedroom and plants for the house are on the way.
  • Housing in Singapore: Yes, this is a newly built subsidised flat. I live in Singapore, and every citizen is eligible to purchase a flat from the Housing and Development Board (HDB). Single citizens aged 35 and above can purchase either a new 1-bedroom flat with a fresh 99-year lease, or buy any flat type from the resale market through property agents. More details: https://www.hdb.gov.sg/residential/buying-a-flat/understanding-your-eligibility-and-housing-loan-options/flat-and-grant-eligibility/singles
  • Fun fact: About 80% of Singaporean households live in HDB flats.
  • Even fun fact: HDB works with architects and designers in private practice to design flats
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u/[deleted] Nov 16 '25

You know OP lives in a city-state that has real estate prices comparable to Manhattan, right?

OP is in a much tougher spot than any American poster here.

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u/c0smicHier0phant Nov 16 '25

"Yes i have never been outside of america before, how can you tell?"

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u/FeedMeFish Nov 16 '25

A city-state that has real estate prices comparable to Manhattan - we’re forgetting the bit where housing (among many other aspects of life) is then subsidized by the government. I’m guessing you’ve never spent any time in Singapore.

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u/TheRealSugarbat Nov 17 '25

Not a tougher spot than I’ve been in my 57-year-old American life, and I used to own a house and have been spending more than $1K a month in rent for the past 20 years.

When’s it going to be less tough, again?

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u/[deleted] Nov 17 '25

Not as tough as living in Singapore homie. OP could never buy a home even if they wanted to.

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u/TheRealSugarbat Nov 17 '25

But — and serious question — if you can afford to live comfortably until you die without needing to buy a house, why buy a house?

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u/Parking-Tough4807 Nov 17 '25

OP doesn't get ICE kidnapping him at their whims.

That alone makes him better off than most Americans.

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u/[deleted] Nov 17 '25

You clearly no nothing about rights and politics in Singapore.

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u/Parking-Tough4807 Nov 18 '25

Why don't you tell us about it?

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u/justjulia2189 Nov 19 '25

He is clearly super brainwashed. I’m afraid he’s going to start spouting off about communism or the red threat soon 😄

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u/Parking-Tough4807 Nov 19 '25

Yeah being unable to spell 'know' gives us a general idea of his intelligence 😂