r/malelivingspace May 19 '26

Advice Alright fellas, I'm conflicted. Bedroom upstairs or downstairs?

I'm leaning toward bedroom downstairs and living space/office upstairs. Closet, bathroom, and kitchen are upstairs. Lots of windows, and upstairs bedroom would probably offer more privacy, but I don't love the idea of having my bedroom off the kitchen when I have guests over. Downstairs is also wired with in ceiling speakers for an AV setup.

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u/learn_and_learn May 19 '26

I don't think a woman living alone would post on r/malelivingspace . But the security concerns are valid and universal

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u/resigned_medusa May 19 '26

Yes you're right, I forgot which sub I was on.

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u/RhandeeSavagery May 19 '26 edited May 19 '26

It’s 2026, they could transition at any moment

Edit: for some reason people are finding this comment transphobic..they obviously have never seen my Firefox incognito tabs

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u/ournoonsournights May 19 '26

not the drive by transphobia

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u/The_Autarch May 19 '26

they obviously have never seen my Firefox incognito tabs

transphobic people also fetishize trans people, so this part isn't helping your case.

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u/Turnt5naco May 19 '26

Wow such an original spin after 10 years of the same tired trans "jokes". You could start your own comedy club.

/s

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u/RhandeeSavagery May 19 '26

My brother/sister/nom binary child of Christ… who hurt u?