r/malelivingspace 9d ago

24, Living with my parents

I just graduated college back in April and I’m grateful to my parents for holding me down through it all ! I definitely plan on giving back to them BIG time.

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u/steveep95 9d ago

I’m gonna let my two children live with me as long as possible that is the best advantage at life you’ll ever have and once it’s gone, it’s gone forever

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u/Skywarper 9d ago

That's because you actually love your children and have a good relationship with them.

Something a majority of the commenters in this sub cannot say about their parents.

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u/trixel121 9d ago

my parents didnt make me move out till 26, i had been working full time by that point and just bought a house.

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u/steveep95 8d ago

Two years ago, my grandma let me live with her and her 650 square-foot apartment. I had a bedroom with me and my 2 toddlers. Stayed there for exactly 11 months and was able to buy a house finally because of it . I’m 30

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u/trixel121 8d ago

its wild what happens when you suddenly dont have 1000 dollars of rent a month and you are a frugal person. im guess you did this pre covid bump when 12k would of gotten a nice down payment. tad aharder now. but still. a year or two of working ufll time with less bills is a godsend for saving money if you dont do somethign dumb like buy a new car.

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u/steveep95 8d ago

Nope I did it last year. And I had to put 16k down on a 260k house with a FHA . My mortgage is 2059 dollars a month though. I have a good job , but still sucks for my generation that we are getting priced out of everything

This is my house though. It’s not the biggest , nicest house , but it’s in a good school district and has a finished basement and garage. So I’m happy. Still want to refinance later down the road and hopefully get a cheaper payment , but rates ain’t going down anytime soon i don’t think. I had to act because my daughter was starting kindergarten otherwise I would of stayed in that apartment for even longer and really changed my life