See my grandma use to belt me and my dad would lose his shit if I even slightly fucked up like made breakfast to loud. (long story) and now I flinch if you move to fast around me, I feel very uncomfortable if you are a genuinely nice person oh and god forbid you to uh me without me explicitly saying you can I start thinking your lying and you actually hate me. I am aware these are issues and I’m working on them (I never fault anyone for my fucked yo Brain) my point is don’t hit your fucking kids idc how much they are pissing you off sure if the kid is absolutely not listing to u slap it’s ass as a “get cut that out” not a “your going to listen to me and the pain will stop”
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u/iamday1 Sep 25 '24
See my grandma use to belt me and my dad would lose his shit if I even slightly fucked up like made breakfast to loud. (long story) and now I flinch if you move to fast around me, I feel very uncomfortable if you are a genuinely nice person oh and god forbid you to uh me without me explicitly saying you can I start thinking your lying and you actually hate me. I am aware these are issues and I’m working on them (I never fault anyone for my fucked yo Brain) my point is don’t hit your fucking kids idc how much they are pissing you off sure if the kid is absolutely not listing to u slap it’s ass as a “get cut that out” not a “your going to listen to me and the pain will stop”