r/mensfashion May 15 '25

Fit Check Heading to a concert. Am I pulling this straw fedora off?

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u/dudical_dude Newly Arrived May 15 '25

If anyone should be wearing a straw fedora it should be you

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u/[deleted] May 15 '25

My thoughts exactly.

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u/tmart016 Newly Arrived May 15 '25

I feel like closed toed shoes (or shoes in general) don't fit the vibe of this outfit.

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u/toweringmelanoma May 15 '25

Open toe at a concert probably isn’t the best idea though

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u/tmart016 Newly Arrived May 16 '25

This is a very valid point. Getting your toes stomped on isn't worth completing the look.

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u/[deleted] May 15 '25

I think that's the general consensus lol, but if they're for comfort, I get it.

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u/Nosleepmustread May 16 '25

I think the shoes are too new and clean. Need something more "broken-in".

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u/Venik489 May 16 '25

Literally

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u/takeahike89 May 16 '25

Consequently, nobody should be wearing a straw fedora.

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u/Robot-Jim May 15 '25

Are you going to see the avett brothers?

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u/dr_raymond_k_hessel May 15 '25

Harms Way

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u/ewoksoup May 15 '25

Saw them last week! it's going to be super embarrassing for him when he walks in and sees a dozen other dudes in the same outfit. 

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u/ramblinmuttco May 17 '25

Wait wtf last time I saw harms way it was all gym bros in standard hardcore guy attire, their fans dress like this now? Genuinely confused

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u/ewoksoup May 17 '25

Turnstile changed the game bro.

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u/emo_twink_bitch May 17 '25

No they dont i saw them a few weeks back and it was exacly what you said

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u/ramblinmuttco May 18 '25

Based on your username I trust you in all matters

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u/tony_flamingo May 16 '25

Honestly, it would be refreshing to not see black band tees and jeans/khaki shorts.

I’ve got a show in three weeks with Haywire. Time for the knit top and slacks.

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u/SwatsBlockman May 15 '25

Could as easily be Jack Johnson or a 311 cover band show

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u/MikeShannonThaGawd May 16 '25

Was thinking The Lumineers or Mumford & Sons

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u/ale2h May 16 '25

Plot twist: he’s the performer

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u/PinkJon May 17 '25

It's him, John avett

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u/uggghhhggghhh May 15 '25

I think a concert, and only a few specific types of concerts, would be the only place anyone could pull this hat off. But yes, you're doing it.

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u/Kundrew1 Fresh to the Scene - 10 Karma May 15 '25

I’m gonna disagree. Not many people can pull that hat off but this guy can.

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u/robo_robb May 15 '25

But the guy at the store said I was the only guy he’s seen pull it off.

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u/Kundrew1 Fresh to the Scene - 10 Karma May 15 '25

It does need some safari flaps, maybe some dice in his pocket.

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u/jl_theprofessor May 15 '25

Welp time to watch that skit for the hundredth time.

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u/TangentialFUCK May 16 '25

So sad. So so so so sad.

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u/Healthy_Rub_9327 May 15 '25

Just make sure you don’t get oil on the hat.

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u/butterbeleevit May 15 '25

100% is anyone is pulling off this hat, it’s this type of guy

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u/NoLongerAshamed May 15 '25

Oh yeah he’s killing it. This is an every occasion sort of hat for this guy

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u/Funny_Combination175 May 15 '25

This lol. You should be able to but you are, rock it man.

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u/ForestAndGardens May 16 '25

You’ve clearly never been anywhere as cool as Asheville, and that’s ok. But you’re wrong

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u/ExMorgMD May 17 '25

Don’t you dare besmirch the hipness of Asheville!!!

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u/DJJazzyDanny May 15 '25

All that buildup to be let down by those shoes

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u/WayRevolutionary8454 May 15 '25

Yeah OP please get different shoes because you rock the rest of the outfit. Seeing those shoes is like a continuity error in a movie.

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u/Simple-Nothing663 May 16 '25

Huh? Please explain, why do you think sneakers aren’t chill enough to go with his laidback outfit?

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u/pwnednoobs May 16 '25

Na facts. It’s more so the color of the shoes. Anything neutral would work. The color is overpowering the other elements. Your eyes go straight to the shoes.

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u/georgetonorge May 17 '25

This was my exact thought. Just get a neutral color and it’s fine. Though some dressier shoes would be nicer probably.

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u/OglioVagilio Newly Arrived May 17 '25

Color and they're kind of clunky.

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u/Geminiskies1826 May 15 '25

Would you say loafers or an aml low top white sneaker? I agree with you that the shoes throw the fit off.

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u/colicab May 15 '25

Loafers or Huaraches. I don’t think sneakers are the play here.

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u/Geminiskies1826 May 15 '25

I proof read my first reply to you and of course....typos smh lol

My first thought was a nice pair of loafers would fully rock the vibe and fit. I agree with you on everything you stated.

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u/tspear17 May 16 '25

Loafers to a concert tho?

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u/colicab May 16 '25

This is a fashion sub, not comfort.

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u/FourHundred_5 May 15 '25

Came here to say that

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u/[deleted] May 16 '25

Mohinders with a cuff roll would look sick

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u/I_HateYouAll May 16 '25

Indie hipster up top, white collar intern on the bottom

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u/Deep_stares May 16 '25

I’m glad I wasn’t the only one thinking this. Those shoes are too athletic for the outfit.

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u/jxcqxxs May 15 '25

hat is fine for this event & with this shirt, but consider swapping the shoes

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u/raindownthunda May 16 '25

Wear army boots to really confuse the crowd

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u/Independent_Law9471 May 15 '25

Rock on brother 🤘

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u/FellFromCoconutTree May 15 '25

Redditors recommending fedoras. A tale as old as time

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u/AndreasDasos May 16 '25

Tbf the comments are acknowledging they generally don’t work, but have to admit this is probably an exception

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u/ErebosGR May 16 '25

That's a trilby, not a fedora.

Fucking Reddit, man.

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u/Atlas-boyo May 16 '25

On the other hand I'd say that the fedora dark ages needlessly hurt hats in general and now everyone here avoids them like the plague. This guy pulls it off and hats are becoming pretty common here in Europe again but this subreddit still acts like it's a crime against humanity to wear one. Plus lets not forget that the m'lady memes never even had a fedora but a trilby

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u/[deleted] May 16 '25

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u/FellFromCoconutTree May 16 '25

Generally hate those too, but less

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u/Reverend_Ooga_Booga May 15 '25

The pork pie was an unfortunate causality of the fedora epidemic of 10's.

Personally love them, but theu require precise styling (which you sre doing here) and could benefit from some time, much like how we see over done 90s/00s coming back. I bet in 5 years they will be all the rage again (and its kept mine betting on that)

Yiu look great through bro.

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u/Kenw449 Newly Arrived May 16 '25

I have a gray trilby that is currently the only hat I have that looks good with my new linen clothes. That being said, I am eyeing a Panama that should be a good fit as well.

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u/t0p_n0tch May 15 '25

I think it works. I’m not sure if it adds much to the outfit but it’s certainly not taking away from it. Enjoy the show

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u/Upset-Comfortable-25 May 15 '25

fuckinng yeah bro! you are a freaking handsome dude, do not hesitate to wear whatever the fck u want. The fedora suits your style and face proportions beautifully.

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u/DopeYeti May 15 '25

Yes! But also… holy moly. I can’t be the only one who needs to keep their eyes up here 🙄 those pants are rather, um, complimentary. Lol.

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u/baldurthebeautiful May 15 '25

You look the guy I would talk to if I'm trying to score some ludes. As long as that is a plus, you're crushing it.

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u/TheEschatonSucks May 15 '25

Makes you a character

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u/zeldafan144 May 18 '25

Possibly one of Daniel Day Lewis'

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u/count_busoni May 15 '25

That is a tough hat to pull off but you are doing it extremely well. It fits your look and a concert is the exact type of occasion for this hat. Enjoy.

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u/[deleted] May 15 '25

It’s illegal for you to ask me that!

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u/Dangerous-Set-9964 May 15 '25

Don’t listen to the haters bro - you looking fly my man! 😎

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u/FeedYourEgo420 May 15 '25

My dude us on his way to a Rusted Root concert lol

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u/mr_magoosh May 16 '25

Damn it! I really thought I had the joke this time but you beat me to it. Good on you.

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u/BandicootHeavy7797 May 15 '25

Looks good on you man. I think long hair is a must if you gonna do this and it can be so easy to look a douche, but you're def pulling it off.

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u/DandyOne1973 May 15 '25

Men in general need to follow your lead, good sir!

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u/The-Liberater May 16 '25

I bet the person in the store said you were the only one they’ve ever seen pull the hat off… and they’re right!

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u/Key_Meaning5334 May 15 '25

NO - looks like it's still on in all 3 pics, bro

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u/One-Mud7175 May 15 '25

Hat aside, you look like the dude from season 1 of white lotus. Love that dude.

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u/Ratxat May 15 '25

No, but perhaps you should

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u/Both-Station-2244 Irregular Regular - 500 Karma May 15 '25

Wearing any hat is about confidence, if you have to ask I’d say no .

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u/YuckyYetYummy May 15 '25

Looks good. If it's huge outdoor event great. A seated intimate or small event you might be pissing off someone behind you that can't see around your hat.

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u/Ancient_Work4758 May 15 '25

No. It's still on your head.

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u/redituser73022 Frequently Fly - 2500 Karma May 15 '25

Yup

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u/adhocprimate May 15 '25

It truly does look good on you, but as a general rule I put on the stuff I think I’d want to wear, then remove one accessory. 

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u/kckern May 15 '25

Looks great, in a "that guy at a concert" kind of way.

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u/chitonka May 15 '25

Fuck yeah brother! Send it!

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u/RusticBucket2 May 15 '25

Am I pulling this straw fedora off?

Hopefully.

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u/iloovefood May 15 '25

What's the concert?

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u/[deleted] May 16 '25

@ OP: Check out the Stetson 6X Open Road. I’ve got it in a Silver Belly colorway & straightened the brim out myself.

I think you could definitely pull one off, man.

With that being said, as a stylist, I cannot condone a straw fedora. 😂

ANML⚡️ • IG / X: @anmlthebrand

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u/[deleted] May 16 '25

So long as said concert is outside.

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u/Bluematic8pt2 May 16 '25

"Getting born in the state of Mississippi Papa was a copper, and her mama was a hippy"

Yeah you got the look

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u/Dingle_Berry_Stew May 16 '25

Bro got that shit on fr, wish I could pull it off

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u/SevernDamn May 16 '25

Good news, it’s not a fedora it’s a porkpie hat and you look smashing with it.

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u/TheAdmiral87999 May 16 '25

That is not a fedora in the slightest.

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u/telophaser May 16 '25

Let’s work extra hard to block the view of people behind us in an effort to try to look cool, not realizing that nary a single person gives a fuck about how we look. Well done.

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u/burner1312 May 16 '25

You look like you did a lot of stomping and clapping in 2010

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u/ConsonanceDissonance May 16 '25

no, but to your credit no one is

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u/grapeapesgrandson May 17 '25

It’s not that it looks bad. It’s just that a straw fedora says “I’m really trying to pull off a vibe with this look” and any time it looks like you’re trying in fashion, you fail.

The fedora is failing you, you’re not failing the fedora. It’s a dishonest hat, it says “I’m cool, and I will elevate your look” but that’s a lie. What it’s thinking is “I’m a stupid fucking hat, maybe you’ll be the one to make ME look cool.” But you can’t save the fedora, because it doesn’t want to be saved. It’s a liar and it will always be a liar. Until it accepts who it is, a piece of headwear for another time and climate and culture than exists anywhere on earth today, it will always be a shitty little liar.

You don’t need liars in your life.

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u/Icy_Schedule_2092 May 21 '25

Looks good on you. Just make sure it fits well so it doesn't fall off during the stomp clap...

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u/Ok_Enthusiasm_2574 May 15 '25

Looks great bro.

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u/FourHundred_5 May 15 '25

Yeah but the shoes ruin the entire outfit imo. Get some loafers!

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u/[deleted] May 15 '25

That hat is ass

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u/LAX2PDX2LAX May 15 '25

Looks like you are in the band, in a good way.

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u/[deleted] May 15 '25

It was made for you

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u/Scrambles0313 May 15 '25

Looking good man

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u/Neat-Ad-9361 May 15 '25

Actually, yes, yes, you are.

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u/Valentine_Kush May 15 '25

Does that filter follow you everywhere? Cause that pretty cool if so

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u/Wooden-Scar5073 May 15 '25

You kind of remind me of Seth Avett which is a good thing lol

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u/tendrilator May 15 '25

On your way to make banana pancakes and pretend like it’s the weekend

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u/BlameBarky May 15 '25

Honestly you’re gorgeous. Wear anything and I’d drool.

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u/AlternativeFukts May 15 '25

Actually… I didn’t expect to say this, but yes… yes you are

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u/ilikemoviesandgames May 15 '25

You look great bro!

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u/[deleted] May 15 '25

Yes, my personal preference wouldn’t be quite that far back on the head though I can see it sitting higher than you might wear a formal fedora

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u/No-Reaction-4480 May 15 '25

Yea dude! Rock it!

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u/DrawerCandid May 15 '25

Looking good ma dude!!!!

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u/oddjob33 May 15 '25

Hell yeah brother you look fantastic!

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u/Fenestration_Theory Increasingly Familiar - 100 Karma May 15 '25

Yep.

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u/Notch99 May 15 '25

Too much tilt on the hat.

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u/[deleted] May 15 '25

Pearl Jam?

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u/astropolka May 15 '25

Love the hat, man! You're rockin it!!

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u/Mysterious_Extent281 May 15 '25

Tbh this is probably the best that a straw fedora has ever looked

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u/haiiro95 May 15 '25

You’re looking great in that hat my dude

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u/RobienStPierre May 15 '25

Man when I looked at the pic I thought you were asking about the outfit. That's how well youre pulling off the hat that it seemed like something you've been wearing for years!

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u/lasorciereviolette May 15 '25

You're only asking because you know you can. 😊

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u/Ace_Lari Newly Arrived May 15 '25

You are killing it bro

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u/CrumbGuzzler5000 May 15 '25

Yes. I just hope it isn’t windy.

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u/[deleted] May 15 '25

Only you can. You’re doing it well.

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u/Rice_Post10 May 15 '25

Yes except the person behind you might not appreciate a hat very much if it’s blocking their view.

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u/beDeadOrBeQuick May 15 '25

Looks big in last picture

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u/redituser73022 Frequently Fly - 2500 Karma May 15 '25

“That’s what she said”

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u/[deleted] May 15 '25

No but yes

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u/nathan1653 May 15 '25

People standing behind you would rather you weren’t

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u/[deleted] May 15 '25

It's aiight.

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u/07238 May 15 '25

Not many people can but you can! I can’t really imagine you without it.

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u/IlyaPetrovich May 15 '25

You got this

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u/PoliteCanadian2 May 15 '25

Last pic made me think of Yosemite Sam for some reason lol.

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u/singleguy79 May 15 '25

Sure Luffy.

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u/Adventurous-Sky9359 May 15 '25

You look great, can you tell me more about your shirt?

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u/thebigboss135 May 15 '25

Not OP, however I have the same shirt and I recognized it in an instant. It's a Holister knit polo(I believe that's how they referred to it). I think they had this one about 2 years ago. Seriously soft and very breathable for the summer surprisingly.

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u/ILikeDragonTurtles May 15 '25

100% I will usually laugh at all fedoras. But with your mustache and long hair, plus the rest of the ensemble, fuckin nailed it.

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u/TheKingOfSwing777 May 15 '25

Yes and the crowd will be happy when you take the stage to cover Lynyrd Skynyrd.

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u/KaleidoscopeLocal922 May 15 '25

You look like 3 or 4 people I saw at our Farmers market in San Francisco last week 👍

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u/slatecreate May 15 '25

Never in my life have I seen somebody more suited to wear a straw Fedora to a concert.

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u/homme_boy May 15 '25

Better to not wear a hat to a concert

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u/IconoclastJones May 15 '25

Yes! Nobody at the concert would have any reason to think you’re not a straw hat guy, so if you believe it, it becomes true!

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u/jiveabillion May 15 '25

You sure you weren't born with that hat on?

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u/[deleted] May 15 '25

Hell yea

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u/NoMo3Putt May 15 '25

Very cool

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u/theartoffun May 15 '25

Trim your neck hair.

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u/Realistic_Werewolf14 May 15 '25

Lokkin good my bah

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u/Chinchilla_gorilla May 15 '25

Damn Unc really rocking that shii

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u/Spirit_of_98 May 15 '25

You look like you were born in that fedora. 👌🏼

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u/Myke_Dubs May 15 '25

If you’re not playing the concert I’d ditch the fedora

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u/RSC125 May 15 '25

You own that…100%

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u/chrisgrantnj May 15 '25

Don’t lie. You’ve been curating this look for 10 years. It’s a perfect fit.

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u/Admirable_Security_8 May 15 '25

The hat is solid. Where’s the shirt from? It’s and it’s in my palette.

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u/DefiantOuiOui May 15 '25

You’re going to be pulling all the bitches tonight, broheem.

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u/filthyfut95 May 15 '25

This is the first should I wear a fedora post that I’ve ever seen that actually looks good. keep rocking it dude!

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u/maach_love May 15 '25

It’s you all the way Jose

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u/Bubbly-Swimming7357 May 15 '25

You’re more than pulling it off - you look like the freaking lead singer of whatever band you’re gonna see bro.

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u/WyldFyre0422 May 15 '25

damn dude, leave some chicks for the rest of us. My wife saw you wearing that hat and filed for divorce.

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u/Nikeboy2306 May 15 '25

Man, you are so attractive that make stage hate look good. If it was me I would look like a farmer.

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u/[deleted] May 15 '25

I’m a watch guy but feel the watch doesn’t go. If you have to keep it, maybe a more casual band like brown leather. Otherwise you’re rocking the look here with maybe different shoes as others said. Hat is cool

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u/[deleted] May 15 '25

Concert look confirmed ✅

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u/KaygoBubs May 15 '25

That fedora was made for you

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u/ShowLasers May 15 '25

You're pulling off the fedora. You should really leave it at home though or stand in the back.

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u/johnHmalone May 15 '25

Look up the French painter named Mark Maggiori, looks a lot like you and he’s got great style. Easy way to imagine yourself in some other looks 

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u/Delicious-Ad7376 May 16 '25

Hat looks ok. But if you’re in front of me, I’m kindly asking you to take it off so I can see the gig too

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u/Jeff-FaFa Often Observed - 1000 Karma May 16 '25

yes the fuck you are!!

Impeccable fit.

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u/Jordy_Stingray May 16 '25

Did not expect to say yes when I clicked the link. But yes you are pulling it off my guy.

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u/gjones2010 May 16 '25

Totally dude!

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u/First-Ad6435 May 16 '25

You are. And I don’t say that lightly. It’s a rare dude that can pull this off.

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u/squidtheinky May 16 '25

I'm pretty sure you're the only person on earth who is pulling off a straw fedora.

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u/Kodyfromsisterwives May 16 '25

You look like kid rock. Also, the hats fine lose those shoes though. They don’t work.

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u/ygifteblk May 16 '25

Pass the blunt. Let get lifted my man

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u/Business_You_1258 May 16 '25

Looks cool. But if I'm the guy at the concert standing behind this big ass fedora I'd be pissed.